chat with joy 2011

17:23:01    
joy: how long will you stay here
17:23:16    
thomas: i stay in filipines till 15 of november
17:23:30    
joy: i mean here in the house?
17:23:46    
thomas: in your place?
17:23:50    
joy: yes
17:23:53    
thomas: or in manila
17:24:04    
joy: so that i will tell my parents
17:24:13    
joy: here in my place
17:24:56    
thomas: i could stay from 11 am till 7 pm or like that if you have so much time
17:25:29    
joy: ok i will ask my parents about that
17:25:40    
thomas: ok
17:26:17    
thomas: we can go to a park then also if one is near
17:26:27    
joy: yes sure
17:27:27    
thomas: what day would maybe fit for you at weekend?
17:27:47    
joy: i will ask my parents about that ok..
17:27:53    
thomas: ok
17:28:30    
joy: so why u choose phil for your vacation?
17:30:02    
thomas: as i want look for a woman here too and that is a good country to look for a woman from abroad as filipinas like foreign man and also have a culture to can sometimes accept a some older man
17:30:17    
thomas: and for a man it is very nice to have a younger wife
17:30:42    
joy: i see
17:30:43    
thomas: and also i like the warm weather, tropical nature and prices here are much cheap
17:32:17    
joy: i see
17:32:26    
joy: so are you find someone?
17:33:50    
thomas: on 3 it looks to be interesting to get know each other more and then must see
17:34:28    
joy: i see.. from manila?
17:35:02    
thomas: I want then keep contact and then in april meet again of whom who remain in contact and interesting till that time and then choose a girlfriend out of 1 of them
17:35:13    
thomas: 2 are from near of cebu
17:35:18    
thomas: and one from masbate
17:35:42    
joy: u meet them already?
17:35:48    
thomas: yes
IM 17:47:20. 27. Okt 2011
17:35:57    
joy: u go to there places?
17:36:18    
thomas: the one from masbate i met near of cebu
17:36:44    
joy: then wat happened?
17:36:47    
thomas: one at her place
17:37:09    
joy: so how is it? is ok?
17:37:13    
thomas: and one she stayed near of cebu as she study in cebu but she is from a bohol island
17:37:33    
joy: i see then wat happened?
17:38:34    
thomas: one is 19 but she can speak nearly no english and she looks to take only medium effort to meet me
17:38:45    
thomas: it looks like
17:39:52    
thomas: one is a little more than 30 but has 2 kids but i rather want a woman who have no kids
17:41:17    
thomas: and the one from masbate is 28 and has 1 child, on her its also that she has a child what i not so like but she is nice person
17:41:58    
joy: oh i see..
17:42:31    
joy: anyway FYI im 21 years old
17:42:37    
joy: no kids
17:43:02    
joy: and fresh graduate
17:43:26    
joy: my course is BS information technology
17:43:30    
joy: how about you?
17:43:35    
thomas: yes that is very nice on you
17:43:47    
joy: thanks
17:43:56    
thomas: I am 41, have no kids and work as low secretary in gouvernment office
17:44:26    
joy: where? in germany?
17:44:55    
thomas: but secretary is in filipines something high it looks like, i am secretary the 2. lowest position as office worker
17:45:05    
thomas: yes in germany
17:45:24    
thomas: so just a average job
17:45:48    
joy: i see..
17:45:51    
joy: its ok for me
17:46:36    
joy: so u mean u never met a girl there in manila?
17:47:06    
thomas: I met 4 from manila or near of manila
17:47:18    
joy: then wat happened?
17:47:20    
thomas: 1 i liked very much but she not wanted to meet a secound time
IM 17:59:09. 27. Okt 2011
17:47:29    
joy: why?
17:47:35    
thomas: i guess she found me not enough interesting
17:48:08    
thomas: 2 i found some interesting, but one of them she can only little speak english
17:49:02    
thomas: so i met her only 4 times but then not focused much on her
17:49:32    
joy: she done studying? or just in high school graduate?
17:49:34    
thomas: and 1 of the 2 can speak good english but we where not able to talk much
17:50:00    
thomas: maybe we fit not so good in talking or she is not much interested
17:50:30    
thomas: the one who can not good speak english work in restaurant as waitress or like that
17:50:38    
joy: i see
17:50:56    
joy: anyway be careful of the girls who stay in manila
17:51:39    
joy: some of them is good in lying
17:52:31    
thomas: in hotel i listened a woman looking like a model talking with a korean 70 years old
17:53:24    
thomas: and after he gone she was joking towards her friends that most lied what she talked to him about her
17:53:49    
joy: i told you
17:54:08    
thomas: but the 4 i met they are honest i think
17:54:15    
joy: is this your first time to the philippines?
17:54:17    
thomas: the where no signs that they lied
17:54:30    
joy: yes exactly
17:54:39    
thomas: the 5. time
17:55:04    
joy: i see. will thats good
17:55:36    
joy: you are not married or divorced?
17:55:41    
thomas: i had 2006 till 2008 a girlfriend who tell sometomes lie and call that white lies
17:55:46    
thomas: from filipines
17:56:20    
thomas: her basic attitude was ok but that she sometimes lie made it hard to know what is true and what not
17:56:32    
joy: i see
17:57:08    
joy: yes thats why im telling you about girls in manila
17:57:17    
thomas: I am not married and was never married
17:57:19    
joy: im just concern to you
17:58:50    
joy: really?
17:59:09    
joy: in your age you never been married?
IM 18:13:45. 27. Okt 2011
17:59:11    
joy: why?
18:00:08    
thomas: hm i had not much opportunities to get know women in germany
18:00:25    
joy: why?
18:00:36    
thomas: i have no women friends and know very little women even just a little close
18:00:59    
thomas: and then most women have additional a boyfriend or are married
18:02:09    
thomas: i had 4 chanes on women when i was younger but it gone all too fast to use the chance to get them know more
18:02:31    
joy: i see
18:02:44    
thomas: and i want a woman who is pretty
18:02:59    
joy: well thats love
18:03:14    
thomas: and that is in germany more difficult to get as pretty women there have many choices
18:03:30    
joy: like what?
18:04:00    
thomas: they have many admirers
18:04:16    
thomas: and i am not talkactive and not charming
18:04:33    
joy: i see
18:04:46    
joy: anyway im not talkactive to.
18:04:59    
joy: but im not boring when it comes to conversation
18:05:26    
thomas: ok
18:06:18    
joy: yeah
18:08:13    
thomas: what is your work more exactly?
18:08:50    
joy: im a fresh grad so i dont have work now but i will find a job soon after the all saints day
18:10:27    
thomas: nice
18:11:10    
joy: yeah
18:11:47    
thomas: when will you chat tomorrow?
18:11:55    
joy: same time
18:12:05    
joy: u can txt me tomorow
18:12:11    
thomas: ok
18:12:31    
joy: but i will reply you around evening because i dont have load
18:13:07    
thomas: ok, ask what day i could visit you
18:13:35    
joy: sure i will txt you tomorow if what day my parents is not busy
18:13:45    
thomas: ok
IM 18:15:16. 27. Okt 2011
18:13:55    
thomas: I go now sleep
18:14:24    
thomas: i must go sleep latest this time as i have sleep disorder and would wake up still at 7 or 8 pm no matter what time i go sleep
18:14:45    
thomas: am
18:14:51    
joy: ok.. sure
18:14:57    
joy: take a good sleep bye
18:15:01    
joy: good nyt
18:15:06    
thomas: take care, have nice sleep
18:15:09    
thomas: good night
18:15:14    
thomas: bye
18:15:16    
joy: ok.. i will
IM 7:04:57. 28. Okt 2011
6:45:05    
thomas: hallo joy, are you there?
6:46:29    
joy: yes im here
6:46:57    
thomas: ok
6:47:38    
thomas: which bus i must take to your place do you know something about that?
6:48:56    
joy: yes
6:49:23    
joy: do you now the place buendia bus terminal?
6:49:38    
joy: i mean know
6:52:00    
thomas: is that near taft train station?
6:54:13    
thomas: i not was yet been there but i have a map
6:54:26    
joy: yes
6:54:54    
joy: your in paranaque right?
6:54:59    
thomas: yes
6:55:41    
joy: ride a taxi then tell the driver go to buendia bus terminal going to sta. cruz laguna
6:56:14    
thomas: ah i must take a bus going to sta. cruz laguna
6:56:21    
joy: yes.
6:57:18    
thomas: and where i must go out of the bus, is …. a own city?
6:58:26    
joy: no tell the conductor that you bring to …...
6:58:36    
joy: they know wat place is that
6:58:56    
thomas: ok then lets meet at ….. at sunday
6:59:08    
joy: yes..
6:59:16    
joy: u write it down ok..
6:59:32    
thomas: yes i will write in in my cell phone
6:59:43    
joy: thats good
7:02:16    
thomas: what will you do today?
7:02:34    
joy: nothing much clean the house
7:02:49    
joy: so that when u go here its clean
7:03:54    
thomas: dont make too much effort as of me
7:04:13    
thomas: i am very simple in that
7:04:28    
joy: we just being hospitable
7:04:57    
joy: and to tell you honestly? u are the first foreign man who can visit me..
IM 7:20:49. 28. Okt 2011
7:05:13    
thomas: wow
7:05:58    
joy: and take note
7:06:06    
joy: we just meet last night
7:06:21    
thomas: my parents clean the house only every 2 weeks and i also clean my room not often in germany
7:06:43    
joy: compare to the other foreign men who chated me for almost a year but i will never allow them to visit me
7:06:49    
thomas: but in germany things get very less fast dirty like in filipines as here is tropical nature
7:08:03    
joy: yeah
7:08:08    
thomas: I am honoured, i was already pleased that you suggest to meet at your house
7:08:49    
thomas: i am curious how you live, also then we can get know each other more if we meet at your house, as then appear more topics to talk
7:09:01    
thomas: as i have more ideas how you live
7:09:52    
joy: i just live a very simple life here
7:10:24    
thomas: yes, thats normal as long as you are not married
7:10:35    
joy: everytime i wake up i eat bfast then clean the house watch tv in our shop
7:10:57    
thomas: do you meet some times with friends?
7:11:53    
joy: yes sometimes
7:12:12    
joy: but since we graduated we dont meet aften like before
7:12:36    
joy: because i dont have job so i dont have money
7:13:22    
joy: here in philippines when your parents is already finish their reponsibility
7:14:11    
joy: u dont have a right to ask them to give u money for shopping, for party except if you will need it for neccessary things
7:14:54    
thomas: yes, they already must live economical on themself
7:15:26    
thomas: but you could meet at home just or go to park
7:15:34    
joy: yes. thats why since i dont have work i dont have money to go to the mall
7:16:03    
thomas: yes
7:16:35    
joy: so i have no choice but stay at home
7:17:08    
thomas: yes or spent time only in ways which cost not much money
7:17:37    
joy: yes exactly
7:19:30    
thomas: did you eat already lunch?
7:19:43    
joy: yes im done
7:20:02    
joy: anyway my mom ask u if wat do you want to eat when you go here?
7:20:49    
thomas: just anything what you usaully eat
IM 7:40:20. 28. Okt 2011
7:20:59    
thomas: i like eat rice and vegetables
7:21:30    
joy: do you eat pork sinigang?
7:21:44    
joy: what vegestable you eat often?
7:22:34    
thomas: hm i eat some green which where very tasty but not know the name
7:23:06    
thomas: just ordinary i can eat, i like all kinds of vegetables
7:23:28    
joy: oh i see well thats good
7:24:12    
joy: i will go to the market tomorow to buy some vegestable
7:26:29    
thomas: I like karrots, green leaves, potatoes, buy just cheap ones
7:27:03    
joy: ok sure..
7:27:51    
thomas: and as meat i can eat the one which is your family favour any one
7:28:09    
thomas: on myself i like fish or chicken
7:28:28    
joy: ok i will buy chicken
7:28:39    
thomas: i eat only about 100 gram per eating
7:28:52    
joy: do you eat chicken adobo?
7:31:52    
thomas: i think yes
7:32:05    
joy: ok i will cook for you
7:32:24    
thomas: it looks like to made with vegetables in a chinese style as far i saw it on internet now
7:32:53    
thomas: when i eat in kfc i eat always chicken and rice
7:33:08    
thomas: as that is cheap and tasty for me
7:34:19    
joy: yes..
7:35:23    
joy:
7:35:47    
joy: its very tasty
7:36:12    
thomas: ok i am curious to eat it
7:36:30    
joy: dont worry its delicious
7:37:28    
thomas: yes
7:37:53    
joy: ok anyway do you have any picture from cebu? specially the beaches there?
7:39:35    
thomas: oh i was only at the beach in minglanilla, that is only a medium nice beach but i enjoyed the ambience there still
7:39:55    
joy: can i see?
7:40:02    
joy: i really love beaches
7:40:20    
thomas: we made no pictures there
IM 8:14:16. 28. Okt 2011
7:40:43    
thomas: only when we was in a swimming pool resort in minglanilla we made pictures
7:40:56    
joy: its ok can i see?
7:41:29    
joy: i dont know why but i really love beaches
7:43:54    
thomas: the beach i can show you a you tube video next time we chat or maybe i find it soon now and about the resort i will look on the computer are some pictures
7:44:19    
joy: ok sure
7:47:12    
thomas: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05RJBjtbifI&feature=related
7:47:40    
thomas: this is the best one i think to get a impression of the look of the beach
7:48:00    
joy: ok thanks
7:52:11    
joy: wow
7:52:19    
joy: its was great
7:53:18    
thomas: oh nice that you find this beach great, then you are not too chosy to can enjoy a medium nice beach like me
7:53:35    
thomas: it cost only 5 pesos entrance there
7:53:43    
joy: wow
7:53:45    
joy: really?
7:53:51    
thomas: yes
7:58:14    
joy: i will share u some of my phto
8:00:06    
thomas: oh will be nice
8:06:54    
thomas: that girls look a little more than it was, 2 are married, on the one in yellow shirt i was interested but she was always very shy in meet alone or in general to spent time with me
8:08:08    
thomas: as she want to meet me only with others always i said i will pay only for her and a other friend expenes when we go to beach again but she not agreed with that and so we probably not meet again
8:09:39    
joy: oh i see
8:11:41    
joy: then u never meet?
8:12:10    
thomas: yes probably she lost interest in me now
8:12:19    
joy: i see
8:12:22    
joy: its ok
8:12:30    
thomas: we met 2 times something like a little alone
8:12:32    
joy: maybe she not the right one for you
8:13:10    
thomas: she cam into house where i stay and the women i stayed in the house was translator and a little additional company
8:13:44    
joy: she dont know how to speak english?
8:13:51    
joy: u mean she sleep with you?
8:14:16    
thomas: no we stayed only in living room and talked in coutch
IM 8:19:20. 28. Okt 2011
8:14:26    
joy: i see.
8:14:59    
thomas: she can very little speak english
8:15:08    
joy: oh ok.
8:15:57    
joy: anyway aside from the pix to the beach do u have you recent photoof yours?
8:17:05    
thomas: the photo with cap on my filipina cupid is from 2009 or 2008
8:17:20    
thomas: and the other photo is made in bagio 2 months ago
8:17:53    
thomas: I will look if i find a picture of me
8:18:05    
thomas: i am not much eager to make pictures on myself
8:18:16    
thomas: I need go to restroom and eat
8:18:22    
joy: i see
8:18:25    
joy: ok
8:18:27    
thomas: we can chat in 40 min again
8:18:32    
joy: ill txt to you later
8:18:38    
thomas: ok
8:18:45    
joy: i will be online at 8:30 pm
8:18:48    
joy: this evening
8:18:50    
thomas: ok
8:18:56    
joy: my lil sis needs to use this pc
8:19:03    
thomas: ok
8:19:05    
joy: take care eat well
8:19:20    
thomas: take care, thanks
IM 15:14:13. 28. Okt 2011
14:51:38    
joy: hi
14:51:41    
joy: how are u?
14:52:02    
thomas: hi, i am ok
14:52:12    
thomas: how are you?
14:52:27    
joy: im fine did you eat dinner?
14:52:41    
thomas: yes i did eat just now
14:52:46    
thomas: before
14:53:24    
thomas: and you?
14:53:41    
joy: im done
14:54:33    
thomas: what will you do in evening, will you watch tv?
14:57:05    
joy: yes sometimes
14:58:48    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
15:01:21    
joy: going to the market to buy chicken and vegestables
15:01:29    
joy: and also clean the house
15:03:38    
thomas: i on first view not consider that that there is more work in home too
15:03:51    
thomas: as my parents always buy my food for me at home
15:04:03    
thomas: and my mother wash my cloths
15:04:49    
thomas: and the food i eat at my place is very simple i eat most time only bread and vegetables
15:05:06    
thomas: this takes only 10 minutes to prepair
15:05:14    
joy: oh i see
15:05:25    
thomas: i usually eat just not cooked vegetables
15:06:29    
thomas: I did read a book that the most healthy way to eat is to eat whole grain bread or rice and not cooked vegetables as the basic food
15:07:08    
joy: as filipinos we dont eat not cooked vegestable we always eat cooked vegetable
15:07:11    
thomas: and then once or 2 times a week additional meat or fish as add, also somtimes beans
15:08:13    
thomas: yes in minglanilla i asked to eat this leaves not cooked as i knew them from germany and eat them in germany not cooked
15:11:40    
joy: i see. but you eat cooked vegestable?
15:12:18    
thomas: yes they are more tasty but not cooked are better for health
15:12:51    
thomas: when i visit you i eat just like you eat, you not need prepear a extra way of food for me
15:14:03    
joy: ok..
15:14:13    
joy: well thanks for that..
IM 15:40:20. 28. Okt 2011
15:19:35    
joy: are you busy now?
15:19:56    
thomas: no i only not get idea what to ask
15:20:54    
joy: i see
15:21:09    
joy: are you staying now at hotel?
15:21:25    
thomas: yes in townhouse hotel in paranaque
15:21:49    
thomas: i changed today to a one bed room for 350 p
15:22:36    
thomas: it is in 4. floor and exposed to sun but it has a window where relatively much air comes in so i guess it is not too hot at night for sleep
15:23:02    
thomas: and it is on the opposite site of street so it will be also not much noisy
15:23:48    
joy: i see how much per night?
15:23:54    
thomas: 350 p
15:24:40    
thomas: thats the cheapest possible in manila i guess
15:24:51    
thomas: but still ok
15:25:06    
joy: yeah. because sometimes its 800 up
15:25:32    
thomas: yes even 800 is relatively cheap
15:26:13    
joy: yeah
15:27:21    
thomas: i want save money that i can invest and earn some money also with that
15:27:42    
thomas: i would like to have a buissness later with my wife in filipines
15:28:13    
joy: yes thats good..
15:28:15    
thomas: but the buissness should be for my income not to support the relatives
15:28:52    
thomas: we then can give relatives 6000 p a month or like that
15:29:24    
joy: well not bad
15:30:03    
joy: and i wish all the best in your love life
15:30:32    
joy: your getting old i think u need someone that you can take care
15:31:17    
thomas: yes and some who i have company
15:31:33    
joy: yes exactly
15:38:18    
joy: tomorow are you gonna out? or meet someone?
15:38:38    
thomas: hm have not a date yet
15:39:20    
thomas: one i texted if she would like to meet tomorrow but she not replied, only sent a misscall
15:39:37    
thomas: i will then call her tomorrow morning
15:40:20    
joy: i see
IM 16:01:51. 28. Okt 2011
15:40:59    
thomas: i wanted buy touch card and go to public phone but found then always someone to chat
15:41:12    
thomas: but that sounds more successful than it was
15:41:44    
thomas: i chatted with my ex girlfriend and she said she worry if i can find a woman who will be happy with me
15:42:31    
joy: she is a filipina?
15:43:40    
thomas: yes she married a american
15:44:19    
joy: i see
15:44:32    
joy: well let her go
15:45:31    
thomas: yes but we still little friends she introduced me to some of her friends in filipines to help me look for a woman
15:46:09    
joy: well thats good
15:49:00    
thomas: one woman from cebu i chatted a little but she was discouraged that i answered slow and she said she heared german men are not good and i tould her i would give to my girlfriend 3000 p as long as she is in filipines, that was her maybe little but also maybe not
15:50:57    
joy: i see
15:51:15    
joy: honestly i heard about german
15:51:35    
thomas: hi hi, what about
15:52:15    
joy: when they dont want their wife anymore they sell them to another man
15:52:56    
thomas: hm it would be nice if that would be possible
15:53:44    
thomas: the law situation in germany is rather unfavourable for men who marry a woman from abroad
15:54:16    
thomas: as long the woman is left in filipines then there is low risk
15:54:34    
thomas: but if married and live in germany
15:55:07    
joy: i just heard that to someone but i dont believe its true
15:56:10    
thomas: if she devorce or i devorce her before 2 years of marriage i am fine and she must go to filipines and i must pay her maybe 6000 p a month for 2 years and thats all
15:56:24    
thomas: or she find before a boyfriend
15:56:52    
thomas: but she can find a boyfriend but pretent that she has no one then i would probably must pay the 2 years still
15:57:21    
joy: only for 2 years?
15:57:45    
thomas: and if we devorce after 2 years she has right to stay in germany and i must pay her 40000 p a month as long she has no job or boyfriend or husband
15:58:37    
thomas: usually 2 years then it can expect that the woman till that time find a job or other man
15:59:07    
thomas: but 2 years is good there is a risk that it can be 3 or 4
15:59:39    
thomas: I usually not would devorce my wife or leave her as thats too expensive for me
16:00:02    
joy: so that all german guy devorce their wife before 2 years so that they cant fne higher money
16:00:26    
thomas: but the wife has not much expenses and gets 2 years support additional from the left husband if she leaves, that is unfair
16:01:51    
thomas: if it looks the relationship risky and danger the wife will devorce later then good if the man then make the devorce from his side before the 2 years passed to avoid to pay much
IM 16:23:38. 28. Okt 2011
16:02:54    
joy: but is it true that the german guy seel his wife?
16:03:00    
joy: sell
16:04:13    
thomas: thats only a very exception case and guess not a special matter of germans that will be in usa similar often but very rar
16:05:32    
thomas: i would also do that if it is risky that the wife could make devorce then make her fast to find a other man who marry her to avoid the 2 till 4 years support payment
16:06:17    
thomas: but that can only said in some amount sell
16:06:54    
joy: wat do u mean?
16:07:34    
thomas: i not know if it is that you mean with sell
16:07:48    
thomas: or do you think about a other way sell
16:08:43    
thomas: but can hardly get a idea how it could be possible to sell a wife, the wife must agree with that that it could be possible
16:09:19    
joy: i get it
16:09:30    
joy: some filipinos are so malicious
16:09:46    
joy: i heard that story before from my moms friend
16:11:35    
joy: that if the german guy dont like his wife anymore they put a flag at the top of their house
16:12:20    
joy: then the other guy who interested they deal to the guy if how much their wife
16:13:18    
thomas: i never heared that such happened
16:13:40    
thomas: its rather impossible that it could happen
16:13:42    
joy: maybe they just mis interpret it
16:13:56    
thomas: as the law is in a way
16:14:12    
thomas: that the wife can devorce any time she wants the husband
16:14:26    
thomas: and she not must have a special reason for that
16:15:30    
thomas: and then all properties the unity of husband and wife have at the day of devorce more than at the day of marriage of them half amount the wife get
16:16:10    
joy: not including the support for every months
16:16:18    
thomas: and the wife then can marry then after devorce any man she wants
16:16:58    
thomas: and not any man who then marry the wife then will agree to pay something to the ex husband
16:17:13    
thomas: as the wife has right to marry any man she wants anyway
16:18:07    
joy: oh i see
16:18:17    
thomas: it would be rather the other way the ex husband pays maybe a money to the man who marry fast his ex wife so that he avoid to pay 2 till 4 years support for his wife
16:19:23    
joy: i see
16:19:27    
joy: i get it now
16:23:38    
joy: some of filipinas believe about that
IM 16:46:40. 28. Okt 2011
16:24:21    
thomas: hm good for the man as long as then they not find out the truth
16:24:41    
thomas: but i guess inbetween 2 years stay in germany they will anyway find it out
16:26:10    
thomas: only the man is on the safe side who can wait till he is retired to marry a foreign wife, then he could just live with her in filipines
16:26:41    
thomas: but then i would be already 55 and the nicest time of life would had passed already
16:27:46    
joy: yes your right
16:32:33    
joy: life is too short so enjoy every moment
16:34:20    
thomas: yes and also the matter is life in younger age is much more nice than in old age
16:34:29    
thomas: it is not only about that it is short
16:34:40    
joy: yes.. i believe in that
16:38:56    
joy: are u busy?
16:39:18    
thomas: no i only not know what to talk
16:40:19    
thomas: it made me now a little sad and worry to get aware that matter that it is risky to marry a woman
16:40:53    
joy: u know what just believe in true love
16:41:02    
joy: and keeps on praying
16:41:41    
joy: dont worry about the future just enjoy it while you have it
16:42:45    
joy: u know what i just want to share somethning but if u come here dont open it in front of my parents ok
16:43:12    
thomas: yes ok
16:43:33    
joy: ok
16:44:49    
thomas: in baggio i get know a woman who spoke good english and i was already after 5 days relatively shure that she has good character
16:45:20    
joy: u know what? 3 years a go i was madly inlove with the chinese guy he was so kind but i never tell to my parents because they dont like to have me a chinese bf even though we never meet each other we both madly inlove for each other
16:45:40    
joy: he is from singapore
16:46:00    
thomas: singapore is also a rich country
16:46:21    
joy: he always send me load so that i can txt himevery day
16:46:40    
joy: and on my b-day he send me 8k as a gift
IM 16:59:35. 28. Okt 2011
16:47:50    
joy: then when i was in 2nd year college we encounter a financial problem he send me again 12k for my summer class my parents didnt know
16:47:52    
joy: that
16:48:34    
thomas: that sounds you was not too much demanding in money
16:48:52    
thomas: like to sent you 3000 p or like that a month
16:48:53    
joy: and i have a part time job that time he ask me to stop working and he will send me money every month but i refuse his help
16:49:35    
joy: because i love him i dont want him to use him i know he really love me thats why he wanted to help me
16:49:39    
thomas: wow nice
16:49:46    
joy: but i never accept that
16:50:05    
thomas: wow nice that you not accepted
16:50:30    
joy: yes even if we are poor before my mom teach us not to use anybody
16:51:29    
joy: i allow him to send me money twice but that is enough i never allow him to send me money again. i ask him to save the money so that we can meet
16:51:53    
joy: and then after summer i come to my province at bicol
16:52:04    
joy: the life there is very hard
16:53:00    
joy: i receive text from him he said that he was very thin and loosing weight he was sick i was worried that time but i dont have load to txt him 1 txt cost 15 pesos
16:53:56    
joy: after a few day he try to call me and we never understand each other because of the signal is ver poor since i leave in the mountain that tme
16:54:10    
joy: that was the last voice i heard from him
16:54:19    
joy: he never contact me
16:55:06    
joy: till 6 months later i find a way to contact him til his friend told me that he was already died
16:55:19    
thomas: oh
16:55:22    
joy: but i never believe that time i know he was alive
16:55:46    
joy: i cried so many nights i feel so guilty
16:56:21    
joy: more than a year before i moveon
16:57:09    
thomas: hm guilty?
16:57:15    
joy: then 2 years later i was so shock because his number is ringing again and his ym is being online sometimes and also his other profile
16:57:18    
thomas: you was so fair to him
16:58:05    
joy: one night his imesh is online(imesh is one of social networking site) i chat him but he was never answer me
16:58:39    
joy: i just leave a very emotional mgs but no response
16:58:59    
joy: then that time i set him free.
16:59:25    
thomas: maybe then he had other girlfriend already
16:59:35    
thomas: how often did you met?
IM 17:16:05. 28. Okt 2011
16:59:58    
joy: we never met
17:00:10    
thomas: oh
17:00:20    
joy: he was my first foregn bf
17:00:44    
thomas: and even you not met with him you was felt lot of love to him, wow
17:01:02    
joy: thats why now im very scared falling inlove with foregn men even if they make an effort like sending me chocolate and flower every valentines and my bday
17:01:58    
joy: yes i love him so much because he was so very kind. thats the best example when i fall inlove
17:03:11    
thomas: very kind in how you did chat with each other?
17:03:12    
joy: even if we never see each other i learn to love him because i believe when it comes to true love we dont need the eyes only the heart
17:04:08    
joy: i have imesh.we meet in imesh it look like filipina heart but in imesh u can download song at the same time
17:06:36    
thomas: it looks more like a music site than a site to look for a boyfriend
17:06:52    
thomas: but i not logged in as it needs register
17:06:58    
joy: yes something like that
17:07:15    
joy: how did you know u search it?
17:07:32    
thomas: yes with google
17:07:41    
joy: lol
17:09:04    
thomas: my ex girlfriend never felt really in love to me
17:09:35    
thomas: we only once did go to beach alone and also not often to park alone
17:10:10    
thomas: she is a very talkactive person and have many friends
17:10:23    
thomas: but she is loyal to relatives
17:10:36    
joy: honestly i only have few friends here
17:10:44    
joy: i dont have many friends
17:10:49    
thomas: and her husband would be then a relative and would be as of that loyal to him even she is not really in love to him
17:11:06    
joy: oh thats bad
17:12:34    
thomas: she is a so charming person and one of the most talkactive persons i know and was i was proud of her that she so easy can get friends with someone as everone like her
17:13:16    
joy: i see
17:13:38    
joy: well im not talkactive person i am a simple person
17:14:14    
thomas: in 2006 she looked like a model and it was in the first time like a miracel to meet her in masbate
17:15:09    
joy: then wat happened?
17:15:12    
thomas: she was playing piano in the church and played also piano at home as she liked that
17:16:05    
thomas: i lent her 500000 in total for make buissness but also she spent from that money her living i guess as i think she never earned much money from her buissness
IM 17:28:35. 28. Okt 2011
17:16:24    
thomas: she had no job she had only 2 small stores
17:17:10    
joy: how many years you been together?
17:17:12    
thomas: she wanted make a soap factory in which her brother works and that she made then i saw her brother soap making
17:17:21    
thomas: 2 and a half
17:17:49    
joy: then wat happened?why it does not last?
17:18:11    
thomas: and 100000 was from that for make a lending money buissness but she then bought a car with that money
17:18:45    
thomas: she said that car was relatively cheap and could use it for soap buissness or to rent to people who need a car
17:18:58    
joy: thats very bad
17:20:11    
joy: here's my peace of advice ok.. im not saying they are all but some of the girls from cebu or in visaya's part they good in lying so be careful of them
17:20:13    
thomas: and after i lent her the 500000 she wanted that i buy a property in filipines before marriage but i wanted only buy after marriage as 500000 to lent was already a lot
17:20:42    
joy: i hope you dont offend
17:20:53    
thomas: as we not found a agreement about that we not did marry then
17:20:53    
joy: but im jsut telling the truth
17:21:33    
thomas: she said she gave up a rich pilot as of me
17:22:04    
thomas: as of that she found it herself ok to ask for so much
17:23:03    
joy: u know wat honestly the 2nd reason why i joined to FH because i want to know the foreign man that not all filipina girls are using them
17:24:02    
joy: if they share a story about filipina who cheated at them or use then i say sorry for them
17:24:19    
thomas: it is a matter of view also in some amount
17:24:50    
joy: thats why some foreign men chnage the impression of the filipina girl
17:24:56    
thomas: a rich man would not care to give 500000 p to a woman who is a beauty
17:25:24    
thomas: he still would be happy that he was allowed to enjoy such a beauty
17:25:35    
joy: she is lucky
17:25:47    
joy: because you fall inlove with her beauty
17:26:10    
thomas: she married a rich man who earns double amount like me
17:26:17    
joy: i hope and i pray for that next time when you fall inlove you fall inlove with a right girl
17:26:59    
joy: MONEY CANT BUY THE HAPPINESS
17:27:17    
thomas: he must spent a lot of money for her always but she is very charming and talkactive, i guess he is despite she is much expensive happy to had married her
17:27:56    
thomas: hm in some amount money can buy happiness
17:28:34    
joy: i dont believe in that
17:28:35    
thomas: i would be so happy if i would have enough money and could go live in filipines and would not need to work anymore
IM 17:46:25. 28. Okt 2011
17:28:53    
joy: dont regret by loosing her
17:29:08    
joy: maybe their is better than her
17:29:31    
joy: beauty is not so important when it comes to love
17:29:46    
thomas: when we chat this year and i got aware her husband must spent a lot of money for her always, i not so much regret it now anymore not had married her
17:29:50    
joy: what is importnat is the heart and the personalities
17:30:37    
joy: yes say thanks her because she give you the oppurtunities to find a girl better than her
17:32:00    
thomas: one matter i miss on her or maybe would make us not a such bad couple
17:32:45    
thomas: it is that she want go live in filipines later and want have buissnesses in filipines
17:33:33    
joy: all i can say is move on stop thinking her
17:34:25    
thomas: and as she is very talkactive and can very good deal with people and have a good practical sense i expect she could succeed in making buissness here
17:34:50    
thomas: yes anyway it is not a topic anymore as she married a other one
17:34:54    
joy: but your wrong
17:35:04    
joy: just move on
17:35:17    
joy: she's not deserve your love
17:36:46    
joy: forget about her
17:37:33    
thomas: we only will be still friends chatting
17:38:05    
joy: ok its up to you
17:38:25    
thomas: after that i got aware her husband must spent a lot for her i more regret that i not did choose the other woman i was close in 2006 till 2008
17:38:52    
joy: but i will assure you as long as you have connection to her it might be hard for you to move on
17:39:24    
thomas: i get know in 2006 first a teacher from antipolo
17:40:18    
thomas: and this teacher and my ex girlfriend i met same often in 2006 and then i decided me for my girlfriend hm as she was more pretty and charming
17:40:52    
thomas: but the teacher was also very beautiful
17:41:57    
thomas: and later, 2007 when it came up that topic that my ex girlfriend wanted lent a lot of money i agreed with my ex girlfirend that we meet also others
17:42:15    
thomas: and so i meet also the teacher again
17:42:45    
joy: so where is the teacher now?
17:43:16    
thomas: and it with every year it looked like we like each other more
17:45:17    
thomas: in april 2008 when me and my ex girlfriend expected already that we not will be together i met the teacher a last time
17:45:47    
joy: then?
17:46:05    
thomas: and we went to park in antipolo and it was so nice how she talkes she asked how i enjoy this and oh is that nice
17:46:25    
thomas: and there i fell really in love to her
IM 18:00:24. 28. Okt 2011
17:46:37    
joy: where is she now?
17:46:58    
thomas: she married a dutch man in 2009
17:47:12    
joy: how sad
17:48:23    
thomas: i only not asked her in 2008 to be my girlfriend as i had that time the idea i want save in 7 years enough money to live in filipines and that i could only do if i have no wife
17:49:31    
thomas: that time i had saved already 3 million peso and it looked i could earn in stock market 10 till 20 percent a year
17:49:33    
joy: why if you have gf
17:49:43    
joy: you will not save money?
17:50:17    
joy: just gf not wife
17:51:37    
thomas: and i thought i would then also not visit in filipines 7 years as vaccation in filipines cost also each time 150000 p
17:52:05    
thomas: also i would need give a girlfriend 10000 a month if she can not expect i bring her soon to germany
17:52:42    
thomas: but i lost then all money in stock market in 2009
17:53:16    
thomas: and also it looks now not anymore that in stock market can be earned much money
17:53:43    
thomas: i lost all money as i did finance half of all investments with credit from bank and gave the stocks as colateral
17:54:20    
thomas: but when the stock prices then where cheap i needed to sell all as bank forced back the credit as of low colateral price the stocks are
17:54:38    
joy: i see
17:54:46    
thomas: in average stock market earn 6 percent
17:54:56    
thomas: but my way to invest was too risky
17:55:07    
joy: yes
17:55:47    
joy: before you invest think wisely
17:55:58    
joy: just like my ex chinese bf
17:56:02    
joy: same as you
17:56:13    
thomas: oh
17:56:24    
joy: yes...
17:56:52    
joy: even in our 6 months being together i feel that he sacrifice a lot for me
17:57:07    
thomas: but you said he had even not enough money to vist you
17:57:32    
joy: he have a lot of money he own a car factory at sing.
17:57:54    
joy: but he dont have time to visit me here because he is busy
17:58:57    
joy: he planned to visit me dec 2008 but he lost our conract before my b-day
18:00:21    
thomas: that was a other ex chinese bf as you wrote before?
18:00:24    
thomas: joy-be_20 dela cruz: i allow him to send me money twice but that is enough i never allow him to send me money again. i ask him to save the money so that we can meet
IM 18:07:24. 28. Okt 2011
18:01:45    
joy: no it the same i ask him not to send me money and save it so that wen he come here he have more money
18:02:01    
joy: because he plan to stay here for 6 months
18:02:13    
thomas: oh a long time
18:02:39    
joy: yes. so that when he stay here he have enough money
18:02:58    
joy: without widraw to his personal account
18:03:13    
joy: i still miss his kindness
18:03:55    
joy: on valentines day he send me my favorate teddy bear and flowers
18:06:21    
thomas: i go now sleep as it is 12
18:06:35    
joy: ok
18:06:38    
joy: take a good sleep
18:06:49    
thomas: thanks you too, have nice sleep
18:07:01    
joy: i will txt you tomorow morning
18:07:05    
thomas: ok
18:07:16    
thomas: bye for now
18:07:22    
joy: yes
18:07:24    
joy: bye
IM 11:46:25. 29. Okt 2011
11:45:54    
thomas: in dela cruz
11:46:25    
thomas: ah sorry wrong sent
IM 14:07:28. 29. Okt 2011
13:57:59    
joy: hi im online
13:58:11    
joy: wat do u mean by that?
13:58:12    
thomas: hallo
13:58:45    
thomas: ah a chatmate asked if i met today someone and i said tomorrow i meet one from near sta cruz
13:58:56    
thomas: but sent it accidentially first to your id
13:59:40    
joy: dela cruz is my last name
13:59:42    
joy: i see
13:59:50    
joy: did you get all my ngs?
13:59:54    
joy: mgs?
14:01:14    
thomas: 3 messeges i not yet responsed from you
14:01:28    
joy: yes
14:02:07    
thomas: i eat breakfast and dinner, not lunch i was a little buissy in chatting
14:02:24    
thomas: and in morning i looked 1 and half hour to buy a touchcard
14:02:32    
joy: chatting with who?
14:02:37    
thomas: i found then a store near who had
14:02:45    
thomas: a woman from manila i wanted meet today
14:03:03    
thomas: but she looks to be shy and looks to that she changed her mind not to meet me
14:03:41    
joy: i see
14:04:06    
thomas: i will start travel tomorrow 8 or 9 am
14:04:24    
joy: thats good time
14:04:26    
thomas: and then will text you when i am some near to arrive
14:04:45    
joy: yes txt me when u see the SM …..
14:05:08    
thomas: ok
14:05:18    
joy: because it means that you are about only 30 mins travel
14:05:27    
thomas: ok
14:06:21    
joy: from the bus terminal u just pay not more than 120 i think i dont know if they increase
14:06:45    
thomas: ok
14:06:56    
joy: u get the instruction?
14:07:07    
thomas: yes
14:07:28    
joy: thats good
IM 14:32:31. 29. Okt 2011
14:07:36    
joy: see you tomorow
14:07:51    
thomas: ok
14:07:53    
joy: me and my mom meet you at bae church ok.
14:07:59    
thomas: ok
14:08:10    
thomas: what means the word bae
14:08:15    
thomas: is this a village?
14:08:24    
joy: no bae means bay
14:08:40    
thomas: in which city is that church?
14:08:58    
joy: at bae
14:10:09    
joy: just tell to the driver that you going to ba-e church
14:10:20    
thomas: ok
14:10:50    
joy: they know that place because in fron of bae church is a bus stop
14:11:11    
thomas: ok
14:11:24    
joy: thats good
14:15:30    
joy: are you busy chatting with others?
14:16:09    
thomas: yes but that was rather before now short time
14:20:42    
thomas: i need also watch the text when you wrote how to travel
14:21:20    
joy: ok i will send it to you later
14:26:45    
thomas: i found it now and saved it on phone
14:27:22    
thomas: are you still there?
14:27:35    
joy: yes
14:28:10    
thomas: how was your day?
14:28:27    
joy: im just cleaning the house
14:28:38    
joy: go to the market
14:30:19    
joy: how about u?
14:30:51    
thomas: hm i was chatting today a lot
14:31:24    
thomas: in evening i asked a woman who i know already from last vaccations to go with me to lonetta park
14:31:35    
thomas: but she visit relatives
14:32:06    
thomas: i not wanted to meet her for date, only for company as i find her not enough pretty
14:32:31    
thomas: its a pity that i find her not enough pretty as we would fit good as person to each other
IM 14:56:45. 29. Okt 2011
14:32:52    
joy: so u mean u meet me because u just need company?
14:32:56    
thomas: she is interested in a healhy life style
14:32:59    
thomas: like me
14:33:53    
joy: so u mean u meet me because u just need company?
14:35:10    
thomas: yes and wanted to experience how it is to spent time with a woman i find not much pretty
14:35:25    
thomas: to compare how much it is important that a woman is pretty
14:36:22    
thomas: and at saturday and sunday it is much nice there, in evening is water fountain with lights, that is similar nice like a small fire work
14:37:03    
joy: i see
14:43:56    
joy: talk to you later..
14:43:59    
joy: wiat a minute
14:45:36    
thomas: ok
14:49:25    
joy: im back
14:49:36    
thomas: ok
14:50:08    
joy: u mean im ugly?
14:50:34    
thomas: no why you got this idea
14:50:39    
thomas: i find you much pretty
14:50:56    
thomas: otherwise i would not be much interested to meet you
14:51:28    
thomas: ah as i wanted date today with a woman i not find pretty
14:51:48    
thomas: but on you that is not the reason
14:52:26    
joy: because when i ask u a while ago u said yes
14:53:01    
joy: i ask u if the reason of meeting me because you juts need company
14:53:43    
thomas: ah i did read this message not exactly
14:54:16    
thomas: i thought you wrote if i wanted to met that girl as i need company
14:54:50    
joy: no
14:55:16    
thomas: yes you wrote me
14:55:38    
thomas: i not expected you write me as we talked about that girl
14:55:52    
joy: ok sorry
14:56:32    
thomas: no sorry from me
14:56:41    
thomas: you not made a mistake, only me
14:56:45    
joy: no you dont have to say that
IM 15:24:55. 29. Okt 2011
15:02:08    
thomas: what did you eat for dinner?
15:02:37    
joy: rice and beef
15:02:54    
joy: we always eat rice morning to evening
15:04:28    
thomas: yes like in germany people eat bread for breakfast and dinner always usually
15:04:42    
joy: i see
15:07:38    
thomas: are you still there?
15:07:52    
joy: yes
15:07:54    
joy: why>?
15:08:27    
thomas: i got only now a message on cell phone from you and thought you maybe left already
15:08:53    
joy: why is it very late?
15:09:29    
thomas: ah here it is not good connection
15:09:48    
thomas: somtimes i can not sent a message from this place here and must go near the dor
15:09:48    
joy: thats why u didnt reply on my mgs
15:10:12    
joy: because u are using smart simcard
15:10:34    
thomas: but 3 i received before but not replied
15:10:35    
joy: use globe it has a strong signal anytime anywhere
15:10:47    
thomas: as i wanted then reply in night
15:11:06    
joy: i see
15:11:20    
thomas: next vaccation
15:11:37    
thomas: globe has also a little cheaper unli call offer i think
15:12:58    
joy: yes..
15:14:41    
joy: how many chatmate do you have?
15:16:00    
thomas: hm 15 about
15:16:17    
joy: too many
15:16:21    
joy: me?
15:16:27    
joy: i only have 5
15:16:51    
thomas: in total at the momen as active ones
15:17:26    
thomas: but 2 whom i met remained to be interesting only yet
15:18:31    
joy: i see
15:24:55    
joy: i need to sleep early now
IM 15:31:25. 29. Okt 2011
15:25:17    
joy: because i need to wake up tomorow at 6 am
15:25:25    
joy: to prepare you foods
15:25:31    
joy: your foods
15:27:09    
thomas: ok i text you then tommorrow
15:27:37    
joy: yes..
15:27:52    
joy: but i will send the full instruction now ok
15:28:54    
thomas: take bus from buendia bus termina going to sta cruz laguna, go out at bae church
15:28:58    
thomas: that i have already
15:29:07    
thomas: if additional, then sent me
15:31:04    
joy: oh i see
15:31:15    
joy: ok bye for now enjoy your chatmates
15:31:20    
joy: see tomorow
15:31:25    
joy: take care
IM 14:59:46. 1. Nov 2011
14:41:59    
thomas: hi, are you there?
14:42:25    
joy: yes
14:42:34    
joy: how are u? did you eat dinner?
14:42:52    
thomas: yes did eat dinner and already brush teeths
14:43:22    
joy: thats good
14:43:27    
joy: we go home late
14:43:48    
joy: because its raining at the cemetery
14:44:13    
thomas: I am ok, only worry a little about my wound, on one leg it got the little damaged skin area a little bigger
14:44:39    
thomas: as of that i want to go to a faith healer again before i leave filipines
14:44:52    
joy: i see
14:45:03    
joy: i told you before
14:45:27    
joy: that if you let me clean your wound maybe its not damnaged now
14:45:32    
thomas: oh, it is raining at 5 pm the sky looked half without clouds and half with little clouds
14:45:56    
joy: yes
14:46:41    
thomas: thats not easy with that 2 wounds, they are caused as of varicosis
14:47:56    
thomas: everything i put till now on the wounds made them more worse than beter except partly clabo leaves and tuba tuba leaves
14:48:29    
thomas: but sometimes both where also not good
14:48:45    
thomas: it reacts so easy allergic
14:49:52    
joy: oh im worried
14:50:08    
joy: u must go to the pain healer
14:50:10    
joy: or in a doctor
14:50:58    
thomas: i will then go to doctor when i am in germany
14:52:50    
thomas: but there is only therapy in normal medicine to wear stocking socks to press the venes and to operate the wounds
14:53:36    
thomas: operate is only adviced if its really needed as it can come again
14:54:33    
thomas: wearing stocking socks makes the wounds not get bigger
14:55:04    
thomas: but as i wear them already 6 years my skin got behind too sensitive aginst the stocking socks
14:56:49    
thomas: as of that i came confused about that to filipines
14:57:11    
thomas: and one big aim for my vaccation was beside look for a wife to try faith healers
14:59:20    
thomas: the faith healer decreased the right wound 75 percent and the left wound for 20 percent but the new area there for half too as that wound i have already 6 years
14:59:46    
thomas: as of that till 4 days ago i was in expectation it will heal
IM 15:25:39. 1. Nov 2011
15:00:10    
thomas: but now i worry, see only 40 percent chance that i will heal
15:00:37    
thomas: as it looks like it started to get bigger slowly again
15:01:20    
thomas: the faith healer said it will heal 10 days ago and i need come only in 2 years again if then are still problems
15:02:29    
joy: u must see the doctor
15:02:55    
joy: for that problem before it became more complicated
15:05:49    
thomas: will then do when i am in germany
15:06:18    
joy: yes...
15:06:44    
joy: because its look like more delicate
15:08:08    
thomas: yes but as far as i did read there is no satisfying therapy for that available
15:11:24    
joy: dont loose hope im here
15:13:47    
thomas: now i was thinking if i did that already once before to tell that a woman who i like to get that i am hopeless ill in normal expectation even i see a 50 percent chance to find a healing
15:14:09    
thomas: but even me make the 50 percent not to succeed big worry
15:15:08    
thomas: but it is now today the biggest topic in me that wounds
15:15:49    
joy: dont loose hope ok.. it will be better..
15:16:09    
joy: just take some atibiotic medicine
15:16:49    
thomas: that a doctor gave me but it not helped in any way
15:16:50    
joy: dont eat too much stench food
15:17:13    
joy: u must take that medicine regularly and on time
15:17:25    
thomas: and i did read in internet it is better to put not a antibiotic on such a wound only if it is infected but that is not on my wound infected
15:18:22    
joy: dont worry i will help you to find good medicine to your wound dont worry too much ok
15:20:48    
thomas: I did searched already on internet about faith healers who make psychical surgery in manila and found 5 who make that at the moment still
15:21:30    
thomas: i am thinking to visit one of them or go to the faith healer in bagio who is also one who makes this
15:24:17    
thomas: common opinion is that that is a fake but it made my wounds really better, it looked before much more worse
15:25:09    
joy: u must go back there
15:25:39    
thomas: the problem is on this wounds that i had thrombosis 15 years ago and half of all people who had a throbosis get after 15 years such wounds like me
IM 15:54:10. 1. Nov 2011
15:28:57    
thomas: is that the venes are too weak that at weak point at lowest area of the legs the venes are not always teight and leave particles of blood out of them towards skin area and the bodey can not remove all contents of that died blood and that damage the skin as it disturbe skin food supply
15:30:18    
thomas: yes want go back to that healer, i will ask him if he can treat me again or if i should go to a similar healer in manila
15:31:11    
joy: yes u mux
15:31:16    
joy: u must ask him
15:31:55    
thomas: ok, i have the cell phone number of his son, he helped at the treatment, i will text him after we did chat
15:32:11    
joy: yes..
15:32:29    
joy: dont loose hope your wound will be better ok
15:32:31    
joy: trust me
15:33:13    
thomas: also a faith healer from antipolo said he could heal that, he visited me once before i went to baggio but went then before he treated me to baggio as it would take time to buy the medicine he use
15:34:58    
thomas: he will use monitor lizard and other things
15:35:26    
joy: i see. but the best thing is u must go to a doctor to make sure
15:36:21    
thomas: i will then go in germany to doctor
15:36:32    
joy: well thats good
15:36:32    
thomas: thats already in 2 weeks
15:36:38    
joy: yes
15:41:17    
thomas: the woman we agreed at saturday to meet today not responsed
15:41:54    
joy: maybe she is busy at the cemetery
15:42:09    
thomas: one i will meet tomorrow in antipolo, that is not far
15:42:54    
thomas: yes thats still possible that she could reply later but i rather not expect
15:43:16    
joy: yes..
15:43:22    
joy: maybe
15:44:03    
thomas: the one from antipolo we did chat very little only about to meet we did chat a little more
15:44:29    
joy: oh thats good
15:47:57    
thomas: and one i chat today she in 2/3 of all questions not asked the same back, like if i ask which kind of man are you looking for she not ask this to mee too while she asked in general not often something
15:52:42    
thomas: that i is with the most women somehow not to get much close in chatting, so if i have now more chatmates, they will get less more and more with the time
15:53:13    
joy: maybe she is not too much interested in you
15:53:21    
thomas: yes
15:53:36    
joy: its ok..
15:54:03    
joy: there's a lot of girl out there
15:54:10    
joy: anyway i got your txt
IM 16:17:16. 1. Nov 2011
15:54:23    
joy: but i dont really understand what you mean
15:55:52    
thomas: I did wrote to more woman on the side at filipina cupid as i paid a one month paid membership
15:56:42    
joy: oh thats nice
15:57:59    
thomas: I showed to 500 women interest
15:58:23    
thomas: thats really 500 on the side who speak good english i found enough pretty for a relationship
15:58:32    
joy: too many
16:00:09    
thomas: in 2004 when i looked for a woman in ukraine i did read the advice you must write to 1000 woman show a intrest that you have a good chance to find a right one
16:00:22    
thomas: but women from ukraine are more choosy
16:01:57    
thomas: in filipines every 5. pretty woman find me interesting, in ukraine it was every 20
16:02:13    
joy: i see
16:04:22    
joy: but is it ok to you? u like many girls?
16:04:58    
thomas: of the 500 showed 80 a interest
16:05:35    
thomas: yes i think it was really the right amount
16:06:05    
thomas: as to count it continue of the 80 then half not want to meet so remain 40
16:07:08    
thomas: and with 2/3 we will not get close in chatting or talking so get out of the 40 13
16:07:20    
joy: i see.
16:07:40    
thomas: and then half of the 13 when we meet she not want meet a 2. time so 7 remain then maybe we meet more often
16:08:14    
thomas: that was no aproximately how it is on me
16:10:56    
joy: i see
16:12:21    
joy: but did you cross in your mind that maybe theres a girl who likes you but then when she know that u have a lot of girls she make turn off?
16:13:37    
thomas: my friend who will marry the 20 year old very pretty and chaming filipina adviced me not to tell to the women that i chat also with others
16:14:25    
thomas: if i not tell they are not discouraged and i still could try on different women
16:15:23    
thomas: hm but i think it is just normal to meet some women as i can visit only once a year here and if then the woman who i like to choose in final not want me i could still try on a other one
16:15:26    
joy: dicouraged?
16:15:51    
thomas: yes is it not that what you tould
16:15:56    
joy: i see
16:16:13    
joy: well its up to you
16:16:42    
thomas: ok i felt scared to tell you that i showed interest to 500 women
16:16:55    
joy: why?
16:17:16    
thomas: as it could make you discourage towards me i worried
IM 16:35:06. 1. Nov 2011
16:17:46    
joy: no its ok.. if thats really make you happy i will support you
16:18:47    
thomas: before i came in this vaccation for 3 months and 1 week i wrote only to 100 women to show interest
16:19:21    
thomas: and then not any of them remained as a motal interesting
16:20:07    
thomas: the half i found them not enough pretty or nearly enough pretty but very little english
16:20:21    
thomas: and in both cases i find it not worth to continue contact
16:20:59    
thomas: and the other half i found enough pretty but they not wanted to meet, 3 met one time but lost then interest
16:21:25    
joy: well im still here
16:21:37    
thomas: as of that i wrote now to more women
16:21:53    
thomas: ah and i worote to only women who wrote they can speak good english
16:22:15    
joy: well thats good..
16:23:02    
thomas: thats really more important than i ever expected
16:23:42    
joy: and maybe you dont need me anymore because you wrote to 500 woman maybe one of them will become your wife
16:24:28    
thomas: as then in 5 days i can get know a woman who can speak good english the same well what it would take 2 years on a woman who can speak only little english
16:25:33    
thomas: but there are expections on luck a woman who can not speak good engish i can also find out she probably likes me a lot in some months
16:26:00    
joy: well good for you
16:29:26    
thomas: from the 80 who wrote back i find 2?
16:30:08    
thomas: from the 80 i find 2/3 less pretty like you
16:31:10    
thomas: and you had no real boyfriend before, only in chat, what makes me expect you have a high ability to fall in love
16:31:51    
thomas: as first love is the deepest and then always in a next try the ability to love is a litte less
16:32:22    
joy: so what does it mean?
16:33:02    
thomas: i worry the woman i choose could not so much fall in love to me as i am already 41 and as of that less pretty as i was till i was 35
16:33:41    
thomas: and i am for a woman something like the first love that could make that equal
16:34:18    
joy: age doesnt matter for me
16:34:26    
joy: and also the looks
16:34:30    
thomas: but then at least beauty
16:34:37    
thomas: oh also not
16:34:42    
thomas: hm
16:34:48    
thomas: but what matters then
16:34:50    
joy: like what ive told you before
16:35:06    
joy: personality is the most importnat to me
IM 16:53:57. 1. Nov 2011
16:35:20    
joy: as long as he is willing to love so much
16:35:27    
thomas: the caracter and the friendship which develops you mean between each other i guess
16:35:33    
joy: and he must be NO OTHER WOMAN
16:36:00    
joy: yes it is.
16:37:17    
thomas: now i have a funny constellattion
16:37:27    
thomas: if we are husband
16:37:37    
thomas: and there is a half lesbian woman
16:38:00    
thomas: who is more focused in woman but also a little in man
16:38:52    
thomas: and she would like to be our both lover but 70 percent your lover and 30 perncent my lover
16:39:15    
thomas: hm but i guess you anyway not find a woman interesting as lover
16:39:30    
thomas: and that woman would be married and only wants to have lovers
16:39:42    
joy: yesmaybe
16:41:07    
joy: i dont want lesbian love
16:41:09    
joy: lover
16:41:44    
thomas: hm yes i could also not imagine i could have a man as lover, thats ugly
16:42:47    
thomas: but i thought maybe on women it is not so much
16:42:54    
thomas: but probably it is
16:45:15    
thomas: the woman from masbate was before i got know her lover of a lesbian but she did it to have a room and food
16:45:35    
thomas: not as she is lesbian
16:46:08    
joy: thats not a good characteristic
16:46:14    
joy: of a woman
16:46:23    
joy: she is a users.
16:47:15    
thomas: but she is very poor and did still study and is from a poor family
16:47:39    
joy: even if she is poor
16:48:00    
joy: its not the right choice to use someone
16:48:41    
thomas: but both benefit, the lesbian have joy and company and the poor woman have support
16:49:16    
joy: even if.. it is not right
16:52:21    
joy: do u think it is right?
16:53:06    
thomas: hm it is not really real
16:53:57    
thomas: the lesbian wants someone who loves her but she have then only someone who makes feel in some amount to be loved but in real it is not
IM 17:09:38. 1. Nov 2011
16:54:15    
joy: well maybe
16:55:20    
thomas: and the poor woman maybe feel unwell while she this practicing
16:55:36    
joy: i see
16:56:06    
joy: well its her choice
16:56:23    
thomas: yes she stopped this some years ago
16:56:36    
thomas: she has now a job but earns only 3000 p a month
16:57:23    
joy: well life is always finding wat to survive
16:58:30    
thomas: I am surprised that if 30 percent or more people have no job how they survive and there is no gouvernment support
16:58:58    
thomas: and i am pleased that there is despite of that not more crime than it is in filipines
17:00:12    
joy: because philippines govermant is corrupt thats the main reason why phil. is not in progress
17:02:28    
joy: wat time did you go to antipolo tomorow?
17:02:55    
thomas: i not expected that that is the main reason for that but i not yet researched about that topic yet
17:03:15    
thomas: we agreed to meet at 11
17:03:17    
thomas: am
17:03:21    
joy: ok..
17:03:29    
thomas: so i leave at 9 am about
17:03:48    
thomas: would you like to meet again?
17:03:54    
joy: ok u must be take care where did you plan to meet?
17:04:06    
joy: yes i like
17:04:17    
thomas: i said i will search for a church and will then text to come there
17:04:42    
joy: u must take care ok
17:04:57    
thomas: or hm any place which is easy to find or know what it is
17:05:08    
thomas: yes
17:05:15    
thomas: its relatively easy
17:05:52    
thomas: i must go to megamall with bus or train and then there is a jeapney station where jeapneys travel to antipolo
17:06:09    
thomas: that i know already from that antipolo woman i met before
17:06:38    
joy: ok thats good
17:08:30    
thomas: would you like to meet thursday again and maybe more days if i have time
17:09:07    
thomas: time is limited maybe as i visit faith healer
17:09:38    
joy: thursday and wedsday i have a job interview
IM 17:11:48. 1. Nov 2011
17:09:54    
joy: maybe we can meet next week before you going back to germany
17:10:40    
thomas: the hotel finish now wifi
17:10:48    
thomas: when will we chat again
17:10:57    
joy: just txt me
17:11:02    
thomas: ok
17:11:05    
joy: if when u are able to be online again
17:11:09    
joy: good night
17:11:12    
thomas: ok
17:11:16    
joy: juts txt me if you have time
17:11:21    
joy: bye hugs and kisses
17:11:21    
thomas: ok
17:11:30    
thomas: bye, hugs and kisses
17:11:34    
thomas: have nice sleep
17:11:38    
joy: you too.
17:11:42    
joy: take care tomorow
17:11:48    
thomas: ok
IM 8:55:43. 2. Nov 2011
8:39:16    
joy: thomas are you online?
8:39:31    
thomas: yes
8:39:42    
thomas: the woman i wanted to meet in antipolo did not come
8:40:11    
joy: so u mean you come there but she didnt come?
8:40:21    
joy: u dont txt me
8:40:25    
thomas: now accidentially a woman from antipolo started to chat with me who i not find enough pretty probably and thought about to meet her
8:40:29    
joy: that you are online
8:41:16    
thomas: I wanted to text you hm at about 6 as i thought i will be buissy till 9 pm
8:41:32    
thomas: ah that i am online, that idea just not came into my mind
8:42:08    
thomas: I will meet at 5 or 6 a woman i know from 2008
8:42:23    
thomas: her i like similar much like the woman from masbate
8:43:31    
thomas: they are in many things similar i find them in nearly exactly same amount pretty and both have 1 child and both i like same much
8:44:14    
thomas: really above most i met but only half like my ex girlfriend or the woman from antipolo in the past
8:44:55    
thomas: How about to meet then at friday or weekend?
8:45:35    
joy: u like me to meet again? but u have a lot of girls maybe u dont need me though
8:46:20    
thomas: I like you maybe very much
8:46:50    
thomas: i was thinking all day allways sometimes again about you
8:47:17    
thomas: even my to be buissy was today to meet 2 other women
8:47:37    
joy: u thinking about me always?
8:47:38    
joy: why?
8:48:17    
thomas: hm i find you very much pretty and you have so sexy legs
8:48:27    
thomas: thats the first what comes in my mind if i am honest
8:49:12    
thomas: And i feel somehow more happy since i met you
8:50:11    
joy: but u have a lot of girls u like same as your feeling to me
8:52:09    
thomas: there are 2 from mindanao and 1 from leyte and 1 who is at the moment in leyte who i probably find similar pretty like you
8:52:50    
thomas: who showed interest but i had not yet time to try start chat with them
8:53:44    
thomas: 1 from cebu who showed interest and was also very pretty is already obvious that she is not much interested in me
8:54:20    
joy: see? u have a lot of girls and maybe u dont need me anymore
8:54:21    
thomas: and i expect that will happen with the other 4 too, ah there is one very pretty also from olongapo
8:55:43    
thomas: at least i find you similar pretty like them, so even it would happen that these women in final find me really interesting i would get know you too
IM 9:14:07. 2. Nov 2011
8:56:04    
thomas: i would like get know you too
8:56:42    
joy: ok
8:57:10    
joy: is it ok to you to me me 3 days before you go back to germany?
8:57:30    
joy: is it ok to you to meet me 3 days before you go back to germany
8:58:01    
thomas: yes if ever that is not the time i get the dates for treatment in bagio
8:58:29    
thomas: i sent today lunch time now the message to the faith healer about continue treatment
8:58:45    
joy: ok well good
8:59:17    
thomas: and before you will be buissy or you just not like to meet me too often
9:00:54    
joy: ofcourse i like
9:01:04    
joy: you to meet often
9:01:16    
joy: my family missed you and me too.
9:01:38    
joy: is just like im worried because u have a lot of girls
9:02:30    
thomas: ah I see
9:02:43    
thomas: hm
9:03:39    
thomas: I will be already happy if we chat every day
9:04:22    
thomas: hm but hope i will then not loose the chance on you till april
9:04:41    
joy: im worried because im afraid to fall inlove again
9:05:01    
joy: because u have a lot of girls
9:05:10    
joy: i might be end up hurting
9:05:45    
joy: if you finally decide who really wants to be your girlfriend what if u didnt choose me
9:05:48    
thomas: as till april i would be able to find it out exactly if i like you most of all on whom i have a chance
9:08:15    
thomas: or i try to chat with them all inbetween 1 week and maybe it gets obvious that all are not much interested in me and then i could choose you as girlfriend as you are then the most prettiest of all of whom are interested in me
9:09:29    
thomas: also a weak point is i worry you could find me boring if we know each other more
9:09:38    
thomas: as i am not talkactive
9:10:13    
thomas: or if we spent a lot of time we not find things to talk as we both are not much talkactive
9:10:57    
thomas: but on the other hand i see also the chance maybe we find more to talk only after we know each other much more and only after we are in deep relationship
9:11:47    
thomas: i feel a little that the last i wrote could be the right what would happen
9:12:31    
thomas: as one time you talked surprisingly more than i expected in the evening
9:13:34    
joy: yes maybe its possible
9:14:07    
joy: im just worried
IM 9:31:11. 2. Nov 2011
9:14:14    
joy: im so easy to fall inlove
9:14:24    
joy: specially if the person is very kind
9:14:43    
joy: im just afraid because u have a lot of girls
9:14:47    
thomas: and i specially fall easy in love if the woman is very pretty
9:15:12    
joy: but im not much pretty
9:15:21    
joy: as like as your ex girlfriend
9:15:27    
joy: and one more thing
9:15:37    
joy: u still love your ex girl friend
9:15:55    
joy: and its so hard for me to be your ex girlfriend
9:16:13    
joy: because as you tell me she is like a model
9:16:27    
thomas: she was like a model
9:17:01    
thomas: now she is cubby but still very pretty but i find you now more pretty as she is cubby
9:17:16    
thomas: not fully cubby but half cubby
9:17:25    
joy: but u still love her
9:17:39    
joy: love is very different from love
9:17:51    
thomas: my working mate said why i am found of her she is cubby
9:17:57    
joy: i mean love is very different from like
9:18:06    
joy: u like me and u love her
9:18:20    
thomas: but also still my ex girlfriend said she has many admirers in usa
9:20:06    
thomas: love her in some amount but it is not active
9:20:53    
joy: even though but she still have a space in your heart how can u love someone if she still have a space in your heart
9:21:40    
thomas: the space will get less if i have a new one to love
9:22:08    
joy: yes maybe
9:25:33    
thomas: today when i came to antipolo i thought if everything will get worser with getting older, it was so nice and exciting with that woman from antipolo in the past
9:26:54    
thomas: could it get similar again but some day that will be not similar anymore, my parents have not a such exciting live and at least when i am as old as my parents that will be not anymore possible
9:28:03    
joy: like what ive tol you dont loose hope
9:28:13    
joy: u are kind and nice man
9:28:22    
joy: u desrves to be loved
9:30:55    
thomas: What did you do today?
9:31:11    
joy: thinking of you
IM 9:56:39. 2. Nov 2011
9:31:44    
thomas: me too about you
9:31:50    
joy: why?
9:32:46    
thomas: as you are the one i like at the most who are at the moment interested in me
9:38:18    
thomas: When i was in minglanilla the cousin of the 19 years old woman i liked at the most as of her beauty but she was not interested in me and then she did sing in the morning dream about you and then we met in the evening and i said to her i can only dream about you and she responsed not much, that woman was so beautiful but still there are more beautiful women, in the hotel where 2 american so beautiful unbelievable that a woman can be so beautiful
9:41:29    
thomas: but thats normal that i can have a woman who is not the beautifulest but if she is very pretty in a level like you that i wished to have a woman since then who is pretty in mark 2,6 or better and i find you 2,5
9:44:00    
thomas: I feel now worry if you get discouraged if i write in a way too much how i think
9:45:21    
joy: dont worry
9:45:27    
joy: its ok thats the fact
9:45:35    
thomas: but on the other hand the perfect woman would be if she is very pretty, likes me much and if we could talk in a way how i directly think as if i could talk that what i directly think i can talk more
9:45:50    
thomas: and would be not so little talkactive as i usually be
9:46:24    
joy: if thats your way to discourage me i will accept.
9:46:46    
thomas: i always think a lot but i talk little as my thoughts are not interesting enough for others in the most amount that i can tell
9:49:52    
thomas: and then i think if i find a woman who would be in a similar way crazy like i am, then we could talk a lot and we could enjoy each others crazyness as we both are similar crazy
9:50:50    
joy: i see
9:51:01    
joy: well its nice
9:51:13    
joy: to have a guy like you
9:51:28    
joy: you have a lot of good personality b
9:51:41    
joy: and thats the one i like about your
9:51:49    
joy: i mean you
9:52:17    
thomas: thanks
9:52:25    
thomas: and do you find me pretty?
9:52:35    
joy: ofcourse yes
9:52:51    
thomas: I am pleased
9:53:38    
joy: yes you are
9:53:44    
joy: pretty guy
9:55:26    
joy: thomas
9:55:43    
joy: you will be online later or not?
9:56:05    
thomas: yes i will go online
9:56:22    
thomas: it will be 9 or 10 pm
9:56:39    
thomas: is your phone globe?
IM 9:59:34. 2. Nov 2011
9:56:46    
joy: yes its globe
9:56:49    
joy: why?
9:57:18    
thomas: ah just to calculate how much it cost to sent a message
9:57:29    
thomas: mine is smart
9:57:40    
joy: i see.
9:57:51    
joy: i have to go now
9:58:11    
joy: i need to cook rice
9:58:34    
joy: i will be online around 9
9:58:51    
thomas: ok, lets chat then at 9 pm and if i only can come online 10 pm i will text you
9:59:10    
joy: ok take care
9:59:14    
joy: hugs and kisses
9:59:27    
thomas: take care, miss you, hugs and kisses
9:59:34    
joy: miss you too
IM 13:47:31. 3. Nov 2011
13:32:25    
thomas: Hallo, how are you?
13:33:10    
joy: im fine you?
13:33:25    
thomas: I am ok
13:33:49    
joy: thats good where have you been?
13:33:54    
thomas: I was pleased to meet that pretty and nice woman
13:34:14    
thomas: I was in festival mall
13:34:26    
joy: from alabang?
13:34:34    
thomas: yes in alabang
13:34:39    
joy: i see
13:34:40    
thomas: but the woman was from calamba
13:34:56    
thomas: she said we meet half distance of each both
13:35:11    
joy: oh a little bit near from my place then what happened?
13:35:35    
thomas: she was some later
13:36:20    
thomas: first we agreed in chat to meet at 3 pm today and when i texted her that i am on the way she was surprised and wrote we agreed not today
13:36:51    
thomas: but then she came needed only some time to prepair herself and wait the rain stop and came then at 5
13:37:14    
thomas: for me it was ok as i went to internet caffee till she came
13:38:24    
thomas: when we met and i first not know who she will be i saw a woman waiting but thought this very pretty one it will be, such pretty normally are not the ones who meet me
13:38:48    
thomas: and then she was it and i was surprised i found her more pretty than on the pictures
13:39:28    
thomas: but still i find you a little more pretty
13:40:26    
joy: u like her?
13:40:31    
thomas: but beauty is only the half way, we should be compatible in talking and find each other much interesting in talking
13:41:00    
thomas: yes i liked her a lot
13:41:11    
joy: more than u like me?
13:41:26    
thomas: i like you more i think
13:41:46    
joy: why u like me more?
13:42:10    
thomas: anyway i would need to meet you again to see more exact how much i like you
13:43:17    
thomas: your face i find a little more pretty and your legs more sexy and you bodey a little bit more pretty
13:45:28    
thomas: but if i can not get you as woman, she could be a satisfying option
13:45:56    
joy: what do you mean?
13:47:31    
thomas: i guess i will consider her as a woman i can choose
IM 14:09:44. 3. Nov 2011
13:48:13    
thomas: at the moment i consider her as 2. most interesting and you as the most interesting one
13:49:14    
thomas: but we met today only first time it is much unshure what i think at this stage of her
13:50:07    
thomas: A worry i have is that we could run out of topics
13:51:06    
thomas: I would need to meet her at her home city or in a park or with her friends that there appear new aspects about her
13:51:44    
thomas: but i have not much time left in this vaccation
13:52:34    
thomas: if we chat then when i am in germany i think i and her can not chat very much, only average much
13:52:57    
joy: do u want me to leave u?
13:53:16    
joy: so that u cannot confused anymore between us?
13:53:48    
thomas: no, i want you at the most of all to get know more
13:54:34    
thomas: only if you find out, i am not the right one for you you must leave me and i will be very sad
13:55:02    
joy: i was just thinking thomas the reason why u cannot choose between us? because all the girl u meet u always like..
13:55:22    
thomas: I am just honest
13:56:12    
joy: and i think some other girl discourage about you not because u are older or not find interesting BUT because u meet a lot of girls
13:56:28    
thomas: i think that is on all man that they like different women and then just pretent to their girlfriend or woman that they only like her
13:58:58    
thomas: if it comes to this that we choose each other as boy and girlfriend i will not anymore meet other women to see if they could fit as girlfriend too but still i will find other women pretty, nice and will have feeling i like them too
13:59:58    
joy: itz up to you
14:00:18    
joy: i dont want to say something about you its your choice
14:00:24    
joy: so goodluck
14:03:14    
thomas: i met only others still for the case i can choose a other one if we not choose each other
14:04:03    
thomas: 4 in farer away cities whom i not yet met i find similar pretty like you or more pretty
14:04:44    
thomas: but with you i was so close in chatting like with no woman since 2008
14:05:44    
thomas: but still i think we need to meet at least once to see if that continues what i expect that we could be very close in talking
14:07:05    
joy: ok if thats what you really like then no problem if you are willing to come again here in my place
14:07:28    
joy: before you go back to germany
14:07:42    
joy: u can come
14:07:47    
joy: and visit me again
14:07:52    
thomas: thats very unprobable that i will can get with one of this 4 very close in chatting, that they like me a lot and that it fits and that they find me much interesting
14:08:45    
thomas: yes i would like as soon as possible, only saturday i agreed already a date
14:09:31    
joy: u can go her 3 days before your flight
14:09:44    
joy: u can go here 3 days before your flight
IM 14:28:54. 3. Nov 2011
14:11:37    
thomas: at 12 of november then till 15 of november?
14:12:19    
joy: u sleep again here?
14:12:39    
thomas: yes would be nice
14:12:59    
joy: ok
14:13:04    
thomas: i bring then all my things that i not need pay hotel
14:13:15    
joy: ok sure
14:14:56    
joy: wat time is your flight on 15?
14:15:11    
thomas: i guess it is 15 november at 12 lunch time
14:16:17    
joy: i see
14:16:28    
joy: thats good
14:16:40    
joy: meet all the girls u want before u go here
14:16:53    
joy: so that u can decide who u want to choice
14:17:37    
thomas: ok i will try
14:18:17    
thomas: i maybe will fly to davao as there are the most pretty other chatmates
14:18:54    
joy: ok
14:20:45    
thomas: but if there is a day i can anyway not meet a very interesting one besides you i could meet you one day
14:21:32    
thomas: hm thats a pity that you can not meet me just alone in the park or in a other city for a afternoon or evening
14:21:48    
thomas: that would be a new aspect to experience on you too
14:22:07    
thomas: but to meet you at home is anyway the deepest way to get know someone
14:22:33    
thomas: but if we would meet in park and mall it would be a additional aspect
14:24:11    
joy: my parents wont allow me to go alone
14:24:43    
thomas: yes
14:25:33    
thomas: can one of your closer friends speak good english?
14:25:57    
joy: yes why?
14:26:12    
thomas: then she could visit you in the time i am at your place and i could experience how you talk with your friend
14:26:38    
thomas: and listen what you talk and how you talk
14:27:00    
thomas: but you should then speak english at least in 1/4 of all time
14:27:25    
joy: ok i will try to contact them
14:28:44    
thomas: how many closer friends do you have in the nearer area?
14:28:54    
joy: 2..
IM 14:50:49. 3. Nov 2011
14:29:45    
joy: some other close friend not near in my place
14:30:55    
thomas: i prefere anyway maximum 2 friends of you to join
14:31:15    
thomas: as if more it is to little english spoken usually
14:31:23    
joy: ok sure
14:31:34    
joy: anyway i want to share something
14:31:58    
thomas: ok
14:32:16    
joy: as i online last night i open my account in FH and french man send me a mgs he is now at mindoro now
14:32:51    
joy: he wanted to meet me but he is kind of old he is 55 and divorced he seems so kind and good person
14:33:30    
joy: in our 5 hours of conversation we have a lot of things we discuss
14:34:17    
joy: and he like me in many ways and he is willing to prove that he really like me.
14:36:49    
joy: i dont know if my parent will allow him to go here
14:38:52    
joy: because my parent told me that they will allow me to visit me here if that guy will be like your character
14:39:23    
thomas: did you tould your parents that he is 55
14:39:37    
thomas: and is that ok for you
14:40:01    
thomas: I feel already lucky that you can accept my age
14:40:17    
joy: no.. i never told my parents about him. well as i told you age doesnt matter to me
14:40:59    
thomas: the woman from antipolo married a man who was 51 and she was 26 that time
14:41:25    
thomas: and she tould me a few weeks ago that she is happy married with him
14:42:36    
thomas: she also sometimes still chat with me and said we could meet as friends with her husband and if i have with my wife someday
14:43:51    
joy: welll thats good for both of you
14:45:27    
joy: the french man started to txt me the worse thing is he is smart and im globe
14:46:14    
joy: we dont txt often because i dont have enough load to txt him
14:46:40    
thomas: is he in france now or already in filipines?
14:47:11    
joy: but he always txt me if i eat already he always check if ok
14:47:22    
joy: he is in the philippines now at mindoro
14:47:34    
thomas: ah yes you wrote before i remember now
14:48:07    
joy: yes.. he is likes you in many ways
14:48:32    
joy: nice man kind and thoughful. ans also sweet
14:50:19    
thomas: I noticed that you and your sister not so much talk with each other
14:50:49    
thomas: your parents are a little more talkactive than you and your sister but they are also less than average talkactive
IM 15:10:10. 3. Nov 2011
14:51:09    
thomas: thats surprising for me
14:51:46    
thomas: as most people are average talkactive
14:52:25    
thomas: and that 4 people in one family are less than average talkactive, that is not often
14:53:17    
thomas: in my family my mother, father and sister are average talkactive, my brother is above average talkactive and only i am less than average talkactive
14:54:13    
joy: i see..
14:54:21    
joy: yes we are not talkactive
14:54:27    
joy: but sometimes we are
14:55:08    
joy: my parents and me is not so very close because in my 8 years in school we dont have time talking each other because i am so busy studying
14:57:30    
thomas: I am very curious if your friends are talkactive
14:57:51    
thomas: if some of them are not talkactive i worry less about that matter
14:58:08    
thomas: that we as couple would be both less than average talkactive
14:58:44    
joy: why?
15:00:17    
thomas: i worry we could get bored with each other because we can not talk much with each other (in case that this would come true)
15:00:28    
thomas: if both are less than average talkactive
15:01:22    
thomas: but i expect a 50 percent chance that we will be despite of that average talkactive with each other if we are husbands
15:01:41    
joy: maybe if we are in a relationship we can have a lot of topics
15:01:54    
thomas: expecially about that topic i want research when we meet again
15:02:19    
thomas: yes that i see as really possible
15:02:55    
thomas: we have a similar way of talking and that can maybe make that we can average much talk with each other even we are both not much talkactive persons in general
15:04:09    
joy: maybe the reason why we are not talkactive because we just meet once lets see if we meet again
15:04:51    
thomas: yes thats also
15:05:33    
thomas: hm but on the other hand at the first meeting it is the easier to be talkactive as everything is unknown and possible to ask
15:06:10    
thomas: then on 2. and 3. it is the most difficult ones
15:06:20    
thomas: on 2. and 3. day
15:07:01    
joy: no its not like that.. sometimes being comportable is the best way to have a good conversation
15:08:13    
thomas: my closest friend is average talkactive
15:08:28    
thomas: we are only medium close friends
15:08:44    
thomas: and that is then also only the one medium close friend i have
15:09:49    
thomas: addtional i have about 6 not close and not medium close friends so less close friends
15:10:10    
thomas: and all are average or above average talkactive
IM 15:31:16. 3. Nov 2011
15:10:49    
thomas: but the topic is close friends and i have not any one
15:11:25    
thomas: as if we intent to be girl and boy friend it means we want to be close friends and additional girl and boyfriend
15:12:09    
thomas: I had a close friend only in age 5 till 16
15:12:10    
joy: can i ask something?
15:12:14    
thomas: yes
15:13:28    
joy: if the time will come that u fianlly decide to choose among us girl and u dont choose me. can u find a guy for me? but kind as u and nice as you
15:15:18    
thomas: one not so close friend of me is 47 and much long for to find a wife
15:16:21    
thomas: he is much talkactive but the way he talks is often a little boring, he focuses often not on what is interesting for others
15:17:15    
thomas: i guess he would be interested in you if i tell my experiences about you
15:18:03    
thomas: also his brother will marry next month a filipina and that will him i guess make him more open too for a foreign woman
15:18:22    
joy: is just my favor if u decide not to choice me.
15:19:28    
thomas: yes ok, i would help you as what i can tell about you will in your case decrease their worries about a foreign woman
15:20:28    
thomas: as you come from a relatively rich family and you had not a boyfriend yet whom you met, so will be first real love
15:20:43    
joy: ok thanks..
15:21:13    
thomas: but all of them can speak only between some english
15:21:39    
joy: im willing to learn german language for them
15:22:48    
thomas: yes or the one who will focus on you must then learn every day english
15:23:57    
thomas: ones name is Thomas too, he is similar pretty like me, 2 years younger and between average and above average talkactive
15:24:38    
thomas: I wounder why he not found a wife, he is not much straightforeward in looking for a wife that i think is the reason he not found one
15:25:12    
joy: yes maybe or he dont have any plan yet to married
15:25:22    
thomas: all of this not so close friends of me are believing born again christians
15:25:53    
thomas: he have, he every sometimes says he feel pity that he found not a wife yet
15:26:12    
joy: i see.
15:27:00    
joy: thats only my favor someday not now
15:28:19    
thomas: but i more wish you not to losse as choice than to help them to find a great wife
15:28:52    
joy: hmm why?
15:29:23    
thomas: as i find you for myself as most interesting as possible wife
15:30:02    
joy: but you have a lot of girls
15:30:41    
thomas: of all i met and who find me interesting i think i like you at the most
15:31:16    
joy: but then u are not so sure about your feelings for me
IM 15:56:23. 3. Nov 2011
15:31:57    
thomas: I need meet you more
15:32:16    
thomas: or i must decide with incomplete wisdom
15:32:41    
thomas: the decission will always with more or less incomplete wisdom
15:33:17    
thomas: but hope i get some more additional wisdom about you
15:34:13    
joy: in order to find you a woman you must stick to one woman
15:35:06    
thomas: sooner or later i must change to focus on one woman
15:35:27    
joy: i hope its not too late for you
15:37:26    
thomas: when i choose my ex girlfriend i not met other women for date anymore
15:38:53    
thomas: only in march 2008 i agreed then with her again to meet also others as i had worries if her attitude towards money in relationship is fair
15:39:10    
joy: i ask my mom "How can I find the right guy?" Mom answers " Don't worry about finding the right guy; just concentrate on becoming the right woman."
15:40:35    
thomas: yes in trying you will learn how to do
15:41:55    
thomas: and you are so attractive for man anyway, you are very pretty, have nice character, can speak english, have a very nice education, only you are less than average talkactive
15:42:16    
thomas: but less than average talkactive that is for most man not much negative
15:44:01    
thomas: when i was 20 till 27 i felt pity how fast such women like you where taken from other man
15:44:14    
thomas: and i always not got such a nice one
15:46:01    
joy: i was speechless now because all you mention above is the exactly what the austrialian guy say to me exept the less talkactive
15:48:07    
joy: i dont know but every time i remember him my tears wants to flow.
15:48:35    
joy: honestly i am much talkactive than before because of that austrilian man i speak not much
15:49:12    
joy: he is very less talkactive like you but i really try my best to make him happy every time we chat
15:50:17    
joy: even if in my busy sched in my school i find way to chat him. i always encourage him cheer him in every moment of his life. but then he left me
15:50:48    
thomas: that make me hope, you where much fallen in love to a man who is less talkactive than me
15:51:18    
thomas: then the same can happen on me too
15:51:46    
thomas: who is less than average talkactive but a little more than the australian man
15:53:04    
thomas: I believe a lot that a big reason that i not found a pritty woman when i was in age 18 till 30 was that i am less than average talkactive
15:53:42    
joy: i dont know about my self despite of what happened i still there in filipina heart
15:54:31    
thomas: women want a man who is interesting and so rather one who is not less than average talkactive
15:54:49    
joy: im about to cancel my account there because everytime im in filipina heart i always remember the day when the austrilian man chat me
15:55:11    
thomas: but when i was 21 one pretty woman liked me a lot, it was only my mistake to miss the chance to apporach towards her
15:56:23    
thomas: but you decrease then the chance to find a nice foreigner
IM 16:17:15. 3. Nov 2011
15:56:57    
joy: im stick to one
15:57:26    
joy: u are here so i dont have any reason to find another man
15:57:45    
joy: maybe if you left me like the austrilian guy i will find another
15:58:23    
joy: im a type of person that i dont want to chat too many
15:58:51    
joy: im so easy to please thats why i dont want to chat many guys
16:00:34    
thomas: everyone who get you is very lucky that you have such a attitude
16:00:44    
thomas: I will try to do fast my homework to check if the other very pretty women find me much interesting and 2. if we fit in talking
16:00:57    
joy: i dont want to happened that someday i nedd to chooce among thme because i know if that day will come there is someone who will hurt
16:02:12    
thomas: i feel now a little pity too, when i choose you i must reject that woman i met today and she was a nice one too as far as i saw that
16:02:31    
joy: i dont want to hurt someone's feeling because i know what it feels like
16:04:12    
joy: if you really likes that girl im willing to set you free. if thats really make you happy.like what i did in the austrilian guy. even if i really love him i sacrifice my own happiness to see him happy
16:05:03    
thomas: i guess that is not what i want, i like you more
16:06:09    
joy: i hope u gets my point.
16:06:16    
thomas: yes
16:07:43    
joy: thats why i always telling you that if you really like someone you must stop finding another girl because someday u will find harder to decide who really want to choose among them and at the same time you will hurt their feelings
16:09:40    
thomas: if i get much close with a other one too and then not choose her as i choose you yes that is then
16:10:24    
joy: ok its up to you i just wanna help.
16:11:29    
thomas: thats not my intention to hurt someone
16:13:05    
thomas: but i want try to choose one of the best fitting one
16:14:01    
thomas: but on the other hand i risk to loose you if i carry that too far to research about the other women i could like too a lot
16:15:10    
joy: if thats make you happy then its fine with me
16:17:01    
thomas: can you play card games like poker?
16:17:15    
joy: yes
IM 16:26:15. 3. Nov 2011
16:17:35    
thomas: wow nice
16:17:51    
joy: why?
16:18:05    
joy: i play poker at the internet
16:18:12    
joy: sometimes in facebook
16:18:22    
thomas: WOW
16:18:39    
thomas: i like a lot to play card games
16:18:47    
thomas: then we can play when we meet
16:18:57    
joy: ok just bring cards
16:19:10    
thomas: you not have?
16:19:30    
joy: i dont have because i just play in the internet
16:19:40    
thomas: ah i see
16:19:58    
thomas: ok, i can look
16:20:50    
joy: ok.. what game cards u know? aside from poker?
16:21:11    
thomas: skat
16:21:17    
thomas: that i like a lot
16:21:49    
thomas: most i like a german game called schafkopf, that is similar as skat but in some things different
16:22:11    
thomas: and a other german pinokel
16:22:23    
thomas: but i guess this 2 german ones are not known abroad
16:23:23    
joy: i see
16:23:32    
joy: i dont know that game
16:23:41    
thomas: yes
16:23:51    
thomas: maybe you teach me one you know
16:24:03    
thomas: when we meet
16:24:06    
joy: ok i will teach you
16:24:41    
thomas: my time to go sleep did come and i must anyway go urgent to restroom
16:24:53    
thomas: what time can we chat tomorrow?
16:25:07    
joy: ok
16:25:18    
joy: Gute Nacht
16:25:52    
joy: i cant go online tomorow because i will attend bridal shower
16:26:15    
joy: i will sleep at my bestfriend house.
IM 16:32:23. 3. Nov 2011
16:26:23    
joy: can we txt tomorow?
16:26:29    
thomas: ok
16:26:49    
joy: but u must register the alltxt promo of smart
16:27:09    
joy: so that we can txt long
16:27:40    
joy: ask you chatmates about alltxt
16:27:46    
thomas: i am registered for that till 5 of november
16:27:56    
thomas: then i will probably register again
16:28:04    
joy: im not so familiar with the smart promo
16:28:11    
thomas: yes thats often half cheaper to use that
16:28:25    
joy: oh thats why u txt a lot to me.
16:28:26    
thomas: i am familiar with that
16:28:46    
joy: when i texted you i always use regular lod
16:28:51    
thomas: there is unli for 14 days for 299
16:28:57    
thomas: or 7 days for 150
16:29:15    
joy: becuase if registered the all txt promo u are the only one txtm8 of mine
16:29:17    
thomas: or 2 days for 50
16:29:21    
joy: i see
16:29:54    
thomas: but it gives also 100 or 50 free text to other networks
16:30:25    
joy: i see
16:30:28    
joy: much good
16:30:36    
thomas: as of that it is usually always good to use that unli in days you text more
16:30:52    
thomas: or average much
16:31:07    
joy: yes i use that but only sometimes if i have a sutors i like
16:31:25    
joy: but as of now i dont have sutors
16:31:52    
thomas: and me, i am not?
16:32:07    
thomas: i not know exactly what that word means sutors
16:32:12    
joy: i mean filipino.
16:32:13    
thomas: admirers or like that?
16:32:18    
joy: ofcourse u are
16:32:23    
joy: yes
IM 16:39:31. 3. Nov 2011
16:32:59    
joy: sutors means courting the girl to be his gf
16:33:32    
thomas: yes i court you for that as i guess i will probably ask you for that
16:33:54    
joy: yes...
16:34:03    
joy: i guess
16:34:40    
joy: i will txt u tomorow when i am already in the party
16:35:04    
joy: but i sure u cannot reply me often
16:35:06    
thomas: oh party, nice
16:35:25    
joy: because u are busy chatting with your girls
16:35:45    
joy: yes a bridal party for soon to be married girl
16:35:53    
thomas: hm one reason was also i felt a little shy as it cost you a load
16:36:03    
joy: we are all girls there
16:36:18    
joy: i will registeres alltxt promo tomorow
16:36:20    
thomas: but as you have unli, thats then not a matter to text
16:36:26    
thomas: just simple things
16:36:30    
joy: yes...
16:36:35    
joy: u must sleep now
16:36:49    
thomas: do you have smart phone?
16:37:09    
joy: i dont have why?
16:37:46    
thomas: ah you register to all text at globe
16:37:53    
joy: yes..
16:38:03    
joy: 250 txt to all network
16:38:22    
thomas: how much does it cost and how manhy days it is valid?
16:38:23    
joy: for only 20 pesos
16:38:30    
thomas: ah 1 day then
16:38:32    
joy: only 1 day
16:38:55    
thomas: ok thats very nice, if find that offer better than the smart ones
16:39:08    
thomas: but i have smart phone already
16:39:15    
joy: yes... thats why ive been using globe for 4 years
16:39:27    
thomas: have nice sleep
16:39:31    
joy: ok u too
IM 16:40:54. 3. Nov 2011
16:39:32    
thomas: miss you
16:39:36    
joy: angenehme Träume
16:39:38    
thomas: hugs and kisses
16:39:55    
thomas: yes nice dreams
16:39:58    
joy: Ich vermisse dich auch
16:40:05    
joy: hugs and kisses too
16:40:16    
joy: i will txt to you tomorow
16:40:21    
thomas: ok
16:40:31    
joy: ok
16:40:35    
joy: bye for now..
16:40:42    
thomas: bye for now
16:40:42    
joy: sleep well
16:40:54    
thomas: thanks
IM 7:39:22. 5. Nov 2011
7:22:11    
thomas: hallo
7:22:27    
joy: hi
7:22:31    
joy: how are you today?
7:22:42    
thomas: I am ok
7:23:13    
thomas: i believe now rather again the wounds will heal than they not will heal
7:23:51    
thomas: as the most part of the wounds tend to look tiny better over the days or weeks
7:24:19    
thomas: the one spot looked ittle worser looks better too the last days
7:25:08    
joy: well thats a good sign
7:25:18    
thomas: but 2 spots i am unshure if they got a little worser the last 2 weeks or if that was already 2 weeks ago already same when the last treatment was
7:25:40    
joy: dont worry too much my parents said if you come again here they will help you
7:26:13    
thomas: how could they help me?
7:27:12    
joy: they have a faith healer that will help your problem a good faith healer
7:28:24    
thomas: how is his name and what kind of treamtent is his speciality, is he focused in herbal remedies, or in treating just with hands energy?
7:29:20    
joy: in herbal remedies.
7:30:52    
thomas: did they tould the faith healer i had thrombosis and now varicosis as of that?
7:32:22    
joy: no but some of your case they are now ok..
7:32:37    
joy: i will ask my mom about that faith healer
7:32:45    
thomas: ok
7:33:04    
joy: i told my mom before that u will go to baguio for the treatment of your wound
7:33:28    
joy: she say if u will come here she know a faith healer here that would help you
7:34:30    
thomas: the herbalist in bagio helped only in some amount, not enough
7:35:11    
joy: yes...
7:35:25    
joy: i will ask again my mom later about the faith healer
7:35:35    
thomas: ok
7:36:21    
thomas: here it is raining and we wanted go to park
7:37:30    
joy: u want to go to park now?
7:38:33    
thomas: hm if i would have a pretty woman i could meet there yes, after rain stopped
7:38:56    
thomas: but the one i wanted met today is buissy
7:39:05    
joy: i see..
7:39:22    
joy: go when the rain is stop
IM 7:55:35. 5. Nov 2011
7:39:31    
joy: because might get wet
7:39:41    
joy: that cause for your sickness
7:39:44    
joy: take care
7:39:52    
thomas: i not will go today
7:40:12    
thomas: as i have no one to meet
7:40:28    
thomas: and to go alone to park is only half nice
7:41:26    
joy: ah.. i see
7:42:03    
thomas: I would like to meet you at least one day again this week already
7:42:31    
joy: i thought before your flight?
7:42:47    
thomas: yes thats too
7:43:00    
thomas: but why not to meet now sometimes too
7:43:32    
thomas: maybe we could go to mall with one friend of you and i would pay your both expenses
7:45:25    
joy: but my parents wont allow me.. but i will inform you if i can find way
7:45:39    
thomas: ok
7:46:42    
joy: yes. but i dont have much pretty friends
7:47:20    
thomas: enough is if one of my company (you) much pretty
7:48:22    
thomas: my main reason for that is not to get know additional pretty women, my main reason is to experience you in a other situation
7:49:39    
joy: i see.. dont worry i really try my best to find way
7:49:41    
joy: ok!
7:50:26    
thomas: ok
7:51:17    
joy: my head is very much aching
7:51:18    
joy: now
7:51:24    
joy: because of lack of sleep
7:51:33    
thomas: yes
7:52:42    
joy: im worried if u come back in germany
7:53:00    
joy: if cant chat as often as like this
7:53:24    
thomas: as of time difference or as you maybe will have work?
7:54:31    
joy: its both
7:55:14    
thomas: at saturday and sunday you will then not work?
7:55:35    
joy: its depend on the company
IM 8:16:29. 5. Nov 2011
7:56:16    
joy: the worse is what if my sched does not fit for you free time
7:56:54    
joy: when i am working i will need to go in the internet shop so that i can chat you
7:57:54    
thomas: saturday and sunday i can chat 3 pm or any time after 3 pm filipino time
7:59:16    
thomas: and work days half hour after midnight or i must get up earlier, then i could chat 1 pm your time
7:59:37    
joy: thats good
8:00:53    
joy: dont worry even if i have work and will be busy on working i will find ways to chat you i will send you a offline mgs
8:01:34    
thomas: yes just sent then 1 day ago the offline message about the exact time to chat
8:01:50    
thomas: now you use laptop for chat?
8:02:52    
joy: yes..
8:03:50    
thomas: so you could bring it to manila when you work there and use it in a mall with wifi, or is this laptop of your parents or sister?
8:03:54    
joy: but if i will be working my mom wont allow me to bring the laptop because the laptop is not mine its my mom property
8:04:07    
thomas: ah i see
8:04:41    
joy: like what ive told you before if i will chat u i need to go at the internet shop just to chat you
8:05:08    
thomas: that then cost always some money
8:05:24    
joy: and also the reason why the laptop wont allow me to bring because they use it for their business.
8:05:54    
thomas: yes if they needed own they need keep it
8:06:24    
joy: its ok.. i will save money so that i can go to internet shop
8:07:27    
thomas: ok, you can find one for 20 p maybe a hour
8:08:51    
joy: yes.. not cost too much expensive
8:09:05    
thomas: yes
8:10:32    
joy: u dont go to cebu this week?
8:11:05    
thomas: the i card of visa they send to manila
8:11:22    
thomas: so i not need to go as of that to cebu
8:11:41    
joy: u dont go there for your girl?
8:12:07    
thomas: but one of the very chatmates is from cebu
8:13:18    
thomas: i will text her if we could chat or call today that i find out if she is not much interested in me
8:14:03    
joy: how about the 2 girls there in cebu?
8:15:07    
thomas: ah, the young very pretty she not texted then anymore after we discussed about that i should pay for 3 of her friends if we meet
8:15:39    
thomas: that according how we texted means she not will change her opinion about that
8:16:29    
thomas: and that was for me a test if she tends to treat me fair in relationship but also it is my intention to save money
IM 8:32:33. 5. Nov 2011
8:17:23    
thomas: one chatmate lost interest in me after i tould that i stay in hotel which cost 350 p yesterday
8:18:25    
joy: i see. in that point i hope you dont contact them anymore
8:18:40    
joy: its obvious that they just need something for you
8:19:14    
thomas: yes they expect a richer man like my ex girlfriend did do
8:19:24    
joy: they didnt treat you right.
8:19:52    
joy: money cannnot buy the happiness of a person
8:20:02    
joy: i believe in that saying
8:21:46    
joy: im always saying these to all my chatmate i dont need a rich future husband if we are not happy. i will prefer to have a average money
8:21:54    
joy: but we are happy
8:22:09    
joy: than to have a millions of money but we are not happy
8:22:24    
thomas: very nice a such one i am looking for
8:22:40    
joy: happiness and contentment in every relationship is very important
8:22:58    
thomas: yes
8:23:30    
joy: i know the worth of money because when i was a kid i experience how to be poor
8:23:53    
thomas: but rich people can also be happy and contented in relationship that women are only in a additional point (rich) more choosy in their search
8:24:21    
thomas: wow really you experienced to be poor?
8:25:06    
joy: yes when my true dad left us when i was 5 years old
8:25:23    
joy: my mom is the only provider in our family
8:26:38    
joy: that time im living in the province of bicol( our province) my grandparents is the only one who taking care of me and my younger sis is only a baby. my grandparent dont have work
8:27:29    
joy: thats why i told you before if not because of my step dad we are not here in laguna and maybe we never meet.
8:27:53    
joy: maybe i am maid now.
8:28:21    
joy: because my mom cant send sent me to school even in a public school.
8:29:25    
joy: because she is the only provider in our family before she is working as sewer nad her salary is only 6000 a month
8:29:48    
thomas: my mothers family was much poor till she married
8:30:12    
joy: same as my mom
8:31:12    
thomas: as of that she still have the habbit she eat all food on the table, also the food which her husband left after eating
8:31:36    
thomas: but on the other hand she buy so much cloths that she not can use all
8:32:11    
joy: i see. maybe its her way to feel happy
8:32:27    
thomas: yes
8:32:33    
joy: to eat foods and to buy clothes.
IM 8:55:23. 5. Nov 2011
8:34:19    
joy: thats why you the reason why i am not looking for a rich man? because i know how to value money even if my dad give me money? i save it. so that if i really need money i have.
8:34:24    
thomas: yes also eating she likes too much
8:34:44    
joy: sometimes its bad for the health
8:35:12    
thomas: yes to eat too much is always in some amount bad for the health
8:35:56    
joy: yes..
8:36:59    
joy: i remember when i was a kid we eat limited food so that in the next day we can eat again.. your mom is lucky
8:38:18    
thomas: my mom had enough to eat in the poor time till she was 20 but they did eat cheap food nearly always only
8:38:59    
joy: i see.. yes same as our when i was in a province
8:42:00    
thomas: they did not often eat meat
8:42:22    
joy: yes same us when we are in province
8:42:23    
thomas: and did eat most times just bread and the vegetables which did grow in their garden
8:43:09    
joy: yes very the same as us. we eat rice but only a cheap rice
8:48:32    
thomas: how many sisters and brothers do you have? I forgot, one sister you have at least, the one which was with us
8:49:14    
joy: i only have one sister
8:49:37    
joy: and my grandparents are with us that time
8:49:46    
joy: they dont have work
8:50:06    
joy: thats why my mom is the only one who provide money to us
8:52:18    
thomas: 6000 p a month 16 years ago in province, that was not so bad salery
8:52:40    
thomas: but 2 kids to support is then hard still
8:53:07    
joy: yes but most of the time my mom dont have enough sleep
8:53:23    
joy: 2 kids and my 2 grandparents
8:53:50    
thomas: yes and one was very young
8:54:22    
joy: yes she still need to drink milk
8:55:23    
thomas: yes i did read just today again that it is good for the child health that the child drink long time milk from mother
IM 9:11:30. 5. Nov 2011
8:57:07    
joy: yes but my mom need to work as soon as she recovered from her child birth because the life in our province is very hard specially if u dont have money
8:57:24    
thomas: yes
8:58:12    
joy: wait thomas
8:58:29    
joy: what did you online tonight?
8:59:23    
joy: what time did you go online tonight?
9:00:05    
thomas: I selected the women who showed interest as favorites and did chat with maybe 2 women
9:00:39    
thomas: I gone online 8.30 pm about
9:01:10    
thomas: I was depressed that the travel back from the immigration office took so long time
9:01:56    
thomas: it took 3 hours but half hour from this i was in mall of asia to buy bread and water
9:02:03    
thomas: and papaya i did buy
9:02:40    
joy: i see.
9:03:11    
joy: dont worry about your visa.. they will send it to u as fast as they can
9:03:21    
thomas: ah and i did chat with the one from calamba
9:03:40    
thomas: yes they said next week i can call if it is there
9:04:17    
thomas: and with the one from calamba we nearly not fout topics to talk and so we chat only a little
9:04:47    
thomas: and that is the one i found 2. interesting after you at the moment
9:04:50    
joy: not like us that we can chat long hours?
9:05:02    
thomas: yes
9:05:27    
thomas: that not often happens that a woman can chat long times with me
9:06:12    
thomas: before with you it happened only on the woman from antipolo and half amount with my ex girlfriend
9:07:09    
thomas: half with my ex girlfirend as we mostly only where able to chat much about money and the role of money in relationship but not so much about other things
9:07:25    
thomas: only sometimes more about also other things
9:07:48    
joy: i see
9:08:15    
joy: she look like her life involved in money
9:08:50    
joy: maybe lets say she cant live without much money
9:09:24    
thomas: she not want
9:10:01    
joy: she not want?
9:10:42    
thomas: i think she can live medium much money, if she must
9:11:10    
thomas: everyone i think can this if there is then just not more money available
9:11:30    
joy: yes sometimes
IM 9:21:30. 5. Nov 2011
9:11:55    
joy: but not all people
9:14:38    
joy: thomas i need to cook rice for our dinner
9:14:45    
thomas: ok
9:15:08    
thomas: what time can we chat next time?
9:16:01    
joy: this evening i will go online at 8:30 pm
9:16:08    
thomas: ok
9:16:20    
thomas: I will then go online that time too
9:16:31    
joy: ok
9:16:39    
joy: see you later here
9:16:43    
thomas: ok
9:16:51    
thomas: have nice afternoon
9:16:57    
thomas: and enjou lunch
9:17:12    
joy: if you prefer to go out of your hotel be careful
9:17:27    
joy: its rainning there bring umbrella
9:17:40    
joy: bye for now miss you
9:17:41    
thomas: yes maybe still raining
9:17:53    
thomas: hope it stop rain
9:18:13    
thomas: but maybe i anyway not intented to go out as i have everything here
9:18:25    
joy: well thats good..
9:18:33    
thomas: bye, miss you
9:18:41    
joy: bye
9:18:42    
thomas: i enjoued to chat with you
9:18:56    
joy: i enjoy to chat you too.
9:19:11    
joy: and everytime we chat i feel happy
9:19:33    
thomas: i felt happy when i did meet with you
9:19:51    
thomas: now i feel half happy too
9:20:05    
thomas: as we really did chat nice
9:20:28    
joy: i just want to promise one thing
9:21:10    
joy: no matter what happened im always here for you even if you might not choose me in the future
9:21:30    
joy: im happy because i met a person like you.
IM 9:39:30. 5. Nov 2011
9:21:54    
thomas: I am very happy too to met you
9:23:57    
thomas: but when you coosen other man i can not choose you girlfriend anymore
9:24:33    
joy: dont worry there's no special man in my life as of now.
9:24:37    
thomas: that is what i see on the woman from antipolo, she still wants to be my friend but that not helps me much
9:24:37    
joy: your the only one
9:28:15    
thomas: hope i can choose you soon, it makes me only 2 things waiting, as there are 4 other very pretty chatmates i not tried out if we could be good chatmates too but that is not probable that there will be one and the other is i worry still some amount that if we know each other more it could change that we can talk much or that it could change that we like each other a lot if we know each other more
9:28:50    
thomas: as we met only 3 days yet
9:29:07    
thomas: but i rather believe all will be good between us
9:29:47    
thomas: ok i hold you from leaving
9:29:58    
thomas: you can go now to cook
9:30:11    
joy: dont worry..
9:30:20    
thomas: as family member could otherwise get hungry till you finish cooking
9:30:22    
joy: if you choose other girl its ok for me..
9:30:46    
joy: yes can chat later
9:31:07    
thomas: i not worry if it is ok for you, i worry if i then can find similar like you again
9:32:26    
joy: who knows there is much better than i am
9:33:13    
thomas: really hard to find one who is very pretty, interesting and likes a lot to talk and chat with me
9:34:06    
joy: you mean im a one of a kind?
9:35:54    
thomas: yes thats anyway
9:36:11    
thomas: but specially you are a one who likes much to talk and chat with me
9:36:38    
joy: because i know you
9:36:56    
joy: and im happy everytime we chat
9:37:15    
joy: i like our sharing of experience in our lives
9:37:45    
joy: i am a type of person who's love listing the story of other
9:38:01    
thomas: thats great if to chat with me my wife will make me happy
9:38:04    
joy: i mean listening
9:38:31    
thomas: hm
9:39:09    
thomas: but if you would have someone who is more talkactive and charming you could more enjoy to listen his storys
9:39:18    
thomas: as he could more talk
9:39:30    
thomas: that i experienced in germany
IM 9:47:03. 5. Nov 2011
9:39:48    
joy: but i more enjoy in your company not to someone
9:39:53    
thomas: women found it nearly always more enjoying to talk with more talkactive man then me
9:40:48    
joy: if i enjoyed talking with the austrilain guy who's not talkactive like you what more for you
9:41:13    
thomas: only with that one woman when i was 21 who i get know she more than with others enjoyed to talk with me it looked like
9:41:33    
thomas: and since that i got the idea i must find again such a woman
9:41:47    
thomas: but such a woman is only 1 of 1000
9:42:17    
thomas: and in germany i not found that again
9:42:44    
thomas: i think we where very similar in the way how we think and as of that we enjoyed to talk with each other special
9:43:21    
joy: yes.. that what we called destiny
9:43:51    
thomas: yes something like that
9:44:08    
thomas: i call it good fitting
9:44:26    
thomas: as i think 1 of 1000 or 1 of 10000
9:44:29    
joy: imagine in 5 days we are now very close compare to other chatmate
9:44:57    
thomas: so in this world would be 5000 such woman
9:44:57    
joy: that we been chatting almost a year
9:45:17    
thomas: but hard to find one out of this 5000 amoung 3000 million
9:45:49    
thomas: ah 5000 amoung 100 million
9:46:01    
joy: yes..
9:46:07    
joy: its really hard
9:46:33    
joy: wait thomas my mom is calling me
9:46:39    
joy: chat to you later ok
9:46:45    
thomas: ok
9:46:50    
joy: take care hugs and kisses
9:47:03    
thomas: take care, hugs and kisses
IM 14:00:10. 5. Nov 2011
13:42:11    
joy: hello
13:42:19    
joy: thomas did you eat dinner?
13:42:19    
thomas: Hallo
13:42:25    
thomas: yes did eat
13:42:32    
thomas: again bananas and bread
13:42:39    
thomas: what did you eat?
13:43:11    
joy: i eat rice and fish
13:45:26    
thomas: you came a little later
13:45:45    
thomas: did you stayed some time with family?
13:47:18    
joy: yes im sorry..
13:47:34    
joy: we talk a little time at the cottage
13:47:43    
thomas: no not mind
13:47:57    
thomas: i chatted with my friend who will marry a filipina
13:48:15    
thomas: and with a chatmate
13:48:55    
joy: so hows your friend? is he excited to his wedding?
13:49:31    
thomas: it delays he said it will be in 6 months till they get visa for germany
13:50:19    
joy: i see. is it hard to get visa for germany?
13:51:01    
thomas: yes
13:51:30    
thomas: only if you find someone who wants to employ you and wants make working visa for you or if you marry a german you can work there
13:51:43    
thomas: and get visa for working
13:52:29    
joy: i see.
13:52:58    
joy: well here in the philippines u can get visa easly compare to other country
13:53:24    
thomas: yes
13:54:06    
joy: i have a story to you very touching story
13:54:57    
thomas: oh sounds interesting
13:56:13    
joy: There was a husband who daily sent his wife a rose when ever he was out of town.1 day he died..Still his wife recieved a rose everyday.She was shocked. She asked the florist.He told her.that her husband had paid advance for her
whole life..
13:58:22    
thomas: wow sounds romantic and sad
13:59:23    
joy: yes. very sad. and at the same time the husband is so sweet i think his wife love him so much
14:00:00    
thomas: yes
14:00:10    
thomas: maybe he did know in foreward that he will die
IM 14:19:52. 5. Nov 2011
14:00:27    
joy: yes maybe he have a desease
14:00:57    
thomas: yes
14:00:57    
joy: sometimes true love last forever even if the one you love is already passed away
14:03:30    
thomas: hm yes sometimes
14:04:42    
thomas: there was a report on tv and the couple was old and then the wife alive still missed a lot her died old husband and she said she liked his smell even when he was old and when she remember his smell she always miss him
14:07:15    
joy: wow! very touching story! hope if someday we will be together i hope we are like that
14:08:28    
thomas: yes
14:09:10    
thomas: i think needed is to start relationship when both are still pretty and then it must appear that both like each other a lot
14:10:03    
joy: yes ofcourse
14:10:21    
thomas: my parents still like each other a lot
14:10:29    
thomas: about that i am surprised
14:10:40    
thomas: as my mother is very cubby
14:10:53    
thomas: my father is much pretty still for his age
14:11:32    
thomas: but he is often a little unkind in the way he talks
14:11:43    
thomas: my mother is aways kind in how she talks
14:12:05    
joy: that very nice!
14:12:28    
joy: your mom is kind like you
14:14:13    
thomas: yes
14:14:35    
thomas: but my father is not
14:14:49    
joy: ur father is not kind?
14:14:55    
thomas: he often lets out his anger about simple things but in a light way
14:15:15    
thomas: his basic attitude is ok
14:16:06    
thomas: but as of this he is not a much understanding person
14:16:20    
thomas: but he is family oriented still
14:16:26    
joy: i see opposite to you attitude i think?
14:18:02    
thomas: yes in this we are some different
14:18:48    
joy: different in what way?
14:19:16    
thomas: yes that he is not so understanding person and i am more a understanding person
14:19:42    
joy: yes..
14:19:52    
joy: u seems so very understanding person
IM 14:39:36. 5. Nov 2011
14:19:58    
joy: and much lind
14:20:03    
joy: kind
14:20:12    
thomas: yes
14:20:33    
thomas: but i can be also a boring person for others as i am not much talkactive and as i am not much charming
14:20:56    
thomas: compare for example towards my brother he is very talkactive and very charming
14:21:10    
thomas: women liked him a lot and still like him
14:21:17    
joy: for me you are fair talkactive and much charming
14:21:21    
thomas: and really he is so charming person
14:21:39    
joy: u are charming too.
14:21:49    
joy: because if you are charming i wont like you
14:23:15    
thomas: wow nice you find me some charming
14:24:06    
joy: yes! you are no jokes
14:25:49    
thomas: thanks
14:27:19    
joy: i hope that someday u will find your true happiness
14:29:33    
thomas: I am selfisch, hope you find not fully very fast that i keep you as one to date and as one who maybe is the right one
14:30:10    
thomas: i regret that i did buy for the antipolo woman a laptop
14:30:17    
thomas: she said she need it for work
14:30:34    
thomas: but i think she more neded it for looking for a man
14:31:38    
joy: the one who marry a dutch man or another one?
14:31:53    
thomas: the one who marry a dutch man yes
14:32:10    
thomas: ah not buy
14:32:10    
joy: thats very sad..
14:32:17    
thomas: i lent her a money for buying a laptop
14:32:31    
thomas: yes but more it was my mistake
14:32:37    
joy: maybe she just using you to find another man
14:33:10    
thomas: in 2008 i thin she was willing to agree to be my girlfriend but i not asked her as i had other ideas that time
14:33:34    
joy: wat idea?
14:37:09    
thomas: i wanted not to have a woman for 7 years and focus only in saving money that i can live in filipines from my savings and later from my pension starting with age 45
14:38:33    
thomas: but that time it looked possible to earn a money in stock market
14:39:36    
thomas: but then came economic crisis in 2009 and stocks did go very low and i needed to sell all as i had also credit and gave the stocks as colateral and the colateral was then too low that time
IM 14:57:48. 5. Nov 2011
14:39:45    
thomas: so that i lost all my money in 2009
14:40:44    
joy: yes i you told me before
14:40:58    
joy: investing money in stock market is very risky
14:41:39    
thomas: yes the value varies 40 percent some times
14:41:57    
thomas: and the yearly interest is about 6 percent a year
14:43:09    
thomas: and as i did half of the stocks bought with credit it was special risky as then it is double everything the win but also the loss
14:44:14    
joy: yes.. i wish that before you invest your money u must think wise
14:44:29    
joy: but its ok..money is just a material things
14:44:53    
thomas: hm a big pity still
14:45:19    
thomas: i need work 4 years to earn what i lost
14:46:00    
joy: yes..
14:46:22    
joy: but its part of our life sometimes we win sometimes we loose
14:46:40    
thomas: yes
14:46:48    
joy: making mistake is just a normal as human
14:47:03    
joy: u just need to be strong atleast you try right?
14:47:45    
thomas: yes my intention was to improve my life
14:47:57    
joy: yes i know.
14:49:37    
thomas: 10 years ago i lost already 18 million pesos in stock market
14:49:59    
thomas: as there happened the same that a small economic crises did came
14:50:37    
thomas: but that time i bought also the wrong stocks, tecnological stocks
14:51:09    
thomas: as they prices did go up so high in the past years
14:51:23    
thomas: but it was only a bubble
14:51:46    
thomas: people only bought that stocks only as they did go up so high in the past years
14:52:29    
thomas: but then it turned out the companies make never such profits as the prices would say for which they are counted
14:54:20    
thomas: in years 1980 till 2000 stocks was a great buissness and prices did go 6 time higher as at the start
14:54:44    
thomas: and so expected that will continue in some amount and i invested relatively risky
14:55:45    
thomas: but in the for me important time 2000 till 2010 stock prices remained just the same and had a high varity
14:56:34    
joy: i see.. u u mean u lost 21 million in stock market?
14:57:37    
thomas: 18 million in 2001 and 3 million in 2009
14:57:48    
thomas: yes
IM 15:19:09. 5. Nov 2011
14:58:20    
joy: very big.. how sad..
14:58:30    
thomas: yes
14:59:16    
thomas: if i just sould all stocks in 2000 it would had been enough money to retire and live in filipines in the age of 30
14:59:37    
thomas: that time i not did know that prices are in filipines or such countries are so cheap
15:00:05    
thomas: if i would had known i think i would had stopped to invest in risky way
15:00:32    
thomas: as my aim was that time to save and earn enough money that i can retire and live in germany
15:01:13    
thomas: but for that is 40 million pesos needed and i thought i still need more money as of that
15:01:50    
thomas: so i failed in my life mostly as of too little knoledge
15:02:43    
thomas: if i back to the start of my life with my knowledge now i could make all things so nice
15:03:02    
thomas: i could had gone to live in filipines in age of 30
15:04:19    
joy: i see so next time be careful
15:04:58    
thomas: better to think the things as far as possible to till the end in foreward
15:05:36    
joy: u must need to study about what u want to invest
15:06:55    
thomas: i studied only about that matter what happens if prices go temporarily 40 percent down that i not counted much trough
15:08:24    
joy: yes thats your mistake
15:08:41    
thomas: now anyway it got in me obivous stock market is not a good buissness
15:08:56    
thomas: it looks that the times changed
15:09:12    
thomas: in 1980 till 2000 it was great buissness
15:10:11    
thomas: but i counted now the lowest prices from 2001 when there was economic crises and then 2009 when was again economic crises, so a similar situation
15:10:37    
thomas: and if compare that means prices grow only 6 percent a year
15:11:22    
thomas: and infaltion rate is 3 percent so real income is only 3 percent a year
15:11:42    
joy: i see
15:11:56    
joy: very low
15:12:57    
thomas: so i think if ever i want have a bigger income from investing money i need to have a buissness in filipines
15:13:51    
thomas: if i could find someone who is trustworthy to run it and carry out over my wife
15:14:17    
thomas: that she could help find me soneone for that
15:15:46    
thomas: but it is only a smaller topic as my money is not so much after the loss
15:17:25    
thomas: and if i marry a woman from filipines and bring her to germany she will have 3 years no job as she first must learn language that she have a chance to find job
15:18:03    
thomas: and i need then pay her living from my money fully
15:19:09    
joy: yes its true
IM 15:41:58. 5. Nov 2011
15:22:13    
joy: dont worry u will find someday a girl that deserve your love
15:22:57    
thomas: not all man find a nice woman
15:23:16    
joy: yes
15:23:54    
joy: but i know u will find someone soon because u are kind
15:25:30    
thomas: it needs much luck to find a fitting woman for me who is not talkactive
15:26:01    
thomas: for my brother it was easy to find a good fitting one
15:26:24    
thomas: as there were so many women who liked him
15:27:28    
thomas: this is here nice in filipines that filipino women like foreigner to have more choices
15:28:16    
thomas: but amoung them to find a one who likes me much after she knows me more is then still hard and a big luck
15:29:36    
joy: why u still hard to find a woman here?
15:30:58    
thomas: one much pretty one who much likes me it are not so much
15:32:35    
thomas: but i think 3 or 4 i met since 2009 who really liked me
15:32:55    
thomas: or say 3
15:33:18    
joy: well thats good for you
15:34:19    
thomas: 2 i like half like the woman from antipolo but its not so bad even that
15:34:35    
thomas: and both has 1 child
15:35:22    
thomas: that is the disturbing matter for me i much like a woman who has not a child
15:35:56    
thomas: as i think they have then the first love for a child to a foreign child
15:36:10    
thomas: and first love is always the deepest i think
15:36:43    
thomas: and the child from me will be the 2. love ( child love)
15:37:25    
thomas: hm but even more than that it disturbes me that i must care for a foreign child then
15:37:55    
thomas: if i must care for a child it should be a own one, that is my feeling and thinking
15:39:03    
thomas: if your father would think like me hm your family would be now not
15:39:18    
thomas: my father likes a lot children
15:39:36    
thomas: he also cares and is happy about the adopted child of my sister
15:40:22    
thomas: as they addopt a totally foreign child from gouvernment as my sister not can get children anymore as she must take medicine for fibromalgie
15:40:30    
thomas: that is a kind of rheumatism
15:40:53    
joy: i see..
15:41:28    
joy: we are the same if i marry a foreign man i would love if he is no child from other woman
15:41:58    
joy: because first love is the deepest one..
IM 16:02:16. 5. Nov 2011
15:43:12    
joy: and my mom would be like you as same because i dont have child so there's no reason to dont like u anymore
15:43:18    
thomas: oh nice then you understand me or even more
15:43:54    
thomas: i felt a litle scared to tell you that if you could feel discouraged about my selfiness
15:44:26    
joy: yes.. i understand you its hard to marry someone if they have already child and if u dont have child
15:45:18    
joy: in my situation of my parent they easy accept the situation because they are have already childs for their previuos relationship
15:45:56    
joy: compare to you and to me if i will marry a man have already child it may be hard for me.
15:46:13    
joy: or vise versa to you
15:46:36    
joy: because are both have no child to someone
15:47:18    
thomas: your father has also children but his ones are already older and live in own place?
15:48:10    
joy: yes..
15:48:26    
joy: and they have their own family
15:48:56    
thomas: how many children has he?
15:49:11    
joy: 10..
15:49:29    
thomas: wow
15:49:40    
joy: yes...
15:49:55    
joy: too many
15:50:10    
thomas: yes a lot
15:51:21    
joy: but even if they are many they treat my father them fair
15:51:47    
joy: my dad give them an equal lot
15:51:51    
joy: each of them
15:52:12    
thomas: like my parents too
15:52:37    
thomas: they give my sister and brother lots each one same value which is the house
15:52:44    
thomas: and i will later get the house
15:53:12    
joy: i see
15:53:26    
joy: well thats good
15:58:00    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
15:59:08    
joy: i will go at my friends son's bday with my sister
16:01:29    
thomas: how old is her son?
16:02:03    
joy: 3 years old
16:02:16    
joy: she is being pregnant at 17 years old
IM 16:25:56. 5. Nov 2011
16:02:45    
joy: she was my classmate before but then she stop studying because she is already pregnant
16:05:11    
thomas: I see
16:05:25    
thomas: 3 years old child is not so bad
16:05:35    
thomas: i worry the years 1 till 2
16:05:45    
thomas: it will make much work and disturb
16:06:00    
joy: yes..
16:06:12    
joy: and very sensitive at that time
16:07:44    
thomas: yes
16:10:17    
joy: here in the philippines
16:10:39    
joy: msome of the woman get pregnant below 18 years
16:10:48    
joy: and that very alarming
16:11:26    
joy: and that one of the reason why thats why is very strick
16:12:14    
joy: they just afraid and if that would happened its a big ashamed to the family
16:13:16    
thomas: ah your parents are afraid according to you as that happened to your class mates
16:14:44    
joy: yes.. because she was my bestfriend before
16:15:39    
joy: then when she get pregnant we just seeing each other every 6 moths or sometimes 1 year
16:16:04    
thomas: as she gone live at a little farer away place?
16:16:12    
joy: yes..
16:19:57    
joy: anyway i always upload our picture in ….
16:20:09    
joy: did you already saw?
16:20:37    
thomas: yes i watched already a little
16:20:51    
joy: i see. thats good.
16:21:29    
thomas: i look always a little un easygoing
16:21:46    
joy: i have a lot of picture there
16:23:56    
thomas: this 2 pictures just of the sea are very nice
16:24:35    
joy: yes i take it because remember i love beaches
16:24:44    
thomas: and you also look always very nice
16:25:21    
joy: not me its you
16:25:29    
joy: u look nice in many ways
16:25:56    
thomas: i need to train to make a nice postion for pictures when picture of me is taken
IM 16:41:36. 5. Nov 2011
16:26:30    
joy: but u look nice in your position for pictures
16:27:03    
thomas: i tryed always to stay straight
16:27:32    
thomas: as i have habbit not to stay straight and that looks less nice
16:28:01    
thomas: but it should look straight and a little easygoing then it would be the best
16:28:17    
joy: yes but u are very tall
16:30:23    
joy: and u also have a nice looks
16:30:48    
thomas: nice that you like it
16:31:44    
joy: yes i like you in many ways
16:32:05    
thomas: me same on you
16:32:36    
thomas: i found you in real addtional a little more pretty than on the pictures and that is always a good sign
16:33:37    
joy: yes same on you
16:34:01    
joy: i found you in person you are more look nice
16:34:06    
joy: than on the picture
16:34:25    
thomas: wow
16:34:51    
thomas: i think maybe that is a sign of good chemestry
16:35:10    
thomas: as when we meet we see then not only the look
16:35:20    
thomas: we smell also the bodey smell
16:36:06    
thomas: and the unconscious add the bodey smell to the thinking how much the person is considered as attractive
16:36:58    
thomas: and when then the person looks more attractive in real as on the pictures it can be partly also as the bodey smell is in the unconsious considered as very nice
16:37:17    
thomas: as soon as i can i want smell also your bodey
16:37:56    
thomas: i liked a lot the smell of the bodey of my ex girlfriend
16:38:22    
thomas: much morethan all other women i was yet able to smell her bodey
16:38:36    
joy: yes its a sign of a good chemistry between us
16:39:05    
joy: u like the smell of my body? in what way?
16:39:57    
thomas: i think the chance is above 50 percent that i will like your bodey smell as i found you in real more pretty than on the pictures
16:40:25    
thomas: but i was not yet able to smell your bodey as i not came with my nose near enough to your bodey to smell
16:40:56    
thomas: already if i would just smell at your arm i could smell enough to see how it is
16:41:14    
joy: hahaha
16:41:30    
joy: u want to smell my arm? ok let see
16:41:36    
thomas: yes
IM 17:00:09. 5. Nov 2011
16:41:53    
thomas: and also i want hug you like a friend when we meet next time
16:42:47    
thomas: as already on that i hm to be honest ii can feel for a part how much i would enjoy to make sex with her
16:43:09    
thomas: hm but also how much i would enjoy to hug her long times like a wife
16:43:10    
joy: haha.. as long as my parent wont know that u will hug me maybe its ok for me as long as hug as friend there's no problem with me
16:43:59    
thomas: nice
16:44:50    
joy: so u mean your ex treat you already as your wife when yo are together?
16:45:23    
thomas: no she not wanted to make sex
16:45:41    
thomas: but we did hug often half hour
16:45:45    
thomas: but only as i wanted
16:46:16    
thomas: she not asked on herself about that, not any time
16:46:52    
joy: so u mean u never had a chance to had sex with her?
16:47:13    
joy: in that 2 years and a half? only hug and kiss?
16:47:53    
thomas: yes
16:49:01    
thomas: and she did rub my penis while she allowed me to hug her while she wear only panty and bra
16:50:09    
joy: its impossble! that you never had sex with her
16:50:37    
joy: while she wearing only panty and bra
16:51:04    
thomas: its true
16:51:16    
thomas: she said she want make sex only after marriage
16:52:14    
thomas: and she said she anyway not much like to make sex as it hurts
16:52:37    
thomas: and i believe it is true that she not much like to make sex in general
16:53:01    
thomas: if she make sex with her husband once aweek i think he can be already happy
16:53:18    
joy: wow! i am so proud of you because you respect want your ex girlfriend want
16:54:27    
joy: and one of the characteristic i am looking for my future husband is your characteristic
16:56:57    
joy: i want sex after married
16:57:20    
joy: because i believe sex without married is a sin
16:57:53    
thomas: ok, i can accept
16:58:58    
thomas: if in case we are boy and girlfriend i can hug you whearing only panty or bra and you rub my penis
16:59:20    
thomas: or even better you are fully without cloths doing this and i can touch your bodey
16:59:39    
thomas: or even you not like to do that rub my penis i can also accept
17:00:09    
thomas: but when we are married i would like then make sex every 2. day
IM 17:16:00. 5. Nov 2011
17:00:25    
joy: yes maybe i can do
17:01:20    
joy: if we are already married yes we can make love every 2 days
17:01:35    
joy: its one of responsibilty as your wife
17:01:46    
thomas: yes
17:02:33    
thomas: women in germany make only 2,3 times a week sex in average but i want more often than average, it would be then 3,5 times
17:03:21    
joy: theres no problem about that as long as we are married
17:04:24    
thomas: no worry that i would devore you as that is for a man a lot expensive
17:05:01    
joy: yes..
17:05:24    
joy: and i also dont want to be devorce i want a whole family
17:06:10    
joy: i dont want to have a broken family someday
17:06:20    
joy: because its really hard
17:07:03    
joy: most of the kids that have a broken family the kids is being bad and their attitude is not nice
17:07:49    
joy: that's my mom is very thankful because even if i grew up from a broken family i am very much kind
17:08:22    
thomas: yes thats really on you you are much kind
17:09:16    
thomas: yes and thats true on broken family the chance is higher that the kids attitude is not nice
17:09:32    
joy: here in the philippines like that
17:09:39    
joy: they are so bad
17:10:38    
joy: that's why my mom is proud of me because even if i dont have dad who will dicipline to me i grew up as nice person
17:11:26    
thomas: yes
17:12:36    
joy: its already 12:14 am
17:12:43    
joy: u dont feel sleepy?
17:12:56    
thomas: yes will soon go sleep
17:13:04    
thomas: i not feel sleepy only a little
17:13:18    
thomas: but if i go sleep late i wake up at 7 still maybe and feel tired tomorrow
17:13:48    
joy: ok i will wait for you til you feel sleepy
17:14:21    
thomas: in 15 min i will go sleep
17:14:38    
joy: ok i will wait for you
17:15:24    
thomas: did your sister go already sleep?
17:15:34    
joy: yes she sleep early
17:16:00    
joy: she already miss you
IM 17:30:16. 5. Nov 2011
17:16:09    
joy: and my parents too
17:16:43    
joy: when u go back to manila my parents feel a little sadness
17:16:58    
thomas: wow
17:17:08    
joy: yes its true
17:17:35    
joy: they always ask me about you
17:18:02    
thomas: wow
17:18:27    
joy: yes.. u will see when you go back here
17:18:51    
joy: u like family family to us
17:19:52    
thomas: yes i liked your parents too, i found them that they where kind towards me
17:20:06    
thomas: and your sister was also kind
17:20:29    
joy: yes specially when we eat banana we always remember you
17:21:11    
thomas: hi hi
17:21:12    
joy: and my sister her plate is so clean like when u are eating
17:22:56    
thomas: hi hi, that i learned from my mother
17:23:25    
joy: wat does it mean?
17:23:31    
joy: means hello?
17:24:37    
thomas: ah to eat all things from the plate that it is clean
17:24:42    
thomas: as that is her speciality
17:25:06    
joy: he learn from you
17:25:57    
joy: to eat evrything from the palte
17:26:58    
thomas: your sister
17:27:02    
joy: yes
17:27:26    
joy: she not like that before
17:27:43    
joy: until she saw your plate so clean
17:28:17    
thomas: when i did sit at the street once in manila and did eat bread and bananas 5 filipino man where very curious that i eat that
17:28:42    
thomas: and one asked me for 2 bananas
17:29:25    
joy: so u give two bananas?
17:29:55    
thomas: yes the 2
17:30:13    
joy: then what sis they say?
17:30:16    
thomas: that time i bought very cheap bananas, 20 pesos per kilo
IM 17:33:59. 5. Nov 2011
17:30:40    
thomas: oh just asked simple things like how are you
17:30:58    
thomas: which cities i visited in filipines, how long i stay and when go back
17:31:31    
joy: i see.
17:32:00    
joy: just be careful giving information if they ask you specially if it is man
17:32:28    
joy: they are just observing for their next target person
17:32:58    
thomas: yes can be
17:33:16    
thomas: but that man i think was just workers at that place
17:33:50    
joy: i see
17:33:59    
joy: good if they are just a worker
IM 12:28:00. 6. Nov 2011
12:15:48    
thomas: Hallo, how are you?
12:16:50    
joy: im, good you?
12:17:04    
thomas: I am ok
12:17:21    
thomas: i feel worry that my vaccation is only little time left
12:17:25    
thomas: and pity also
12:17:44    
joy: why?
12:18:02    
joy: u want to stay more weeks?
12:18:27    
thomas: yes i would had liked
12:18:39    
thomas: but soon is april again, thats not so bad
12:18:55    
joy: why u want to stay here for long?
12:20:09    
thomas: oh i enjoy and also to get know you better and hm that i had been able to met a one of the remaining chatmates in case we are good in chatting
12:21:10    
joy: ah i see..
12:21:19    
joy: but u will be back again here in april
12:21:33    
thomas: yes
12:21:54    
thomas: that is nice, only 5 months till then
12:23:15    
joy: yes.. not bad
12:24:16    
thomas: how was it the birthday party?
12:24:30    
joy: its good i enjoy
12:24:51    
joy: i dont eat too much because i need to maintain my body
12:25:13    
thomas: very nice
12:25:48    
thomas: i think if you eat only rice and vegetables you can eat as much as you like
12:25:53    
thomas: to stay slim
12:26:16    
thomas: yesterday i chat with a model and she said she is vegetarian as she must be slim as model
12:26:37    
joy: model of what?
12:27:06    
thomas: she not tould
12:27:20    
thomas: she said she works part time as model and main job she works in office
12:27:29    
joy: are you sure she is a model?
12:27:40    
joy: u meet her already?
12:27:54    
thomas: i think its true as she looked really a pretty like a model
12:28:00    
thomas: no
IM 12:56:01. 6. Nov 2011
12:28:11    
thomas: she seems not to be much interested in me
12:28:23    
thomas: she said we can chat today again about that
12:28:40    
thomas: but i am not shure if i shall try to meet her as she really not looked to be much interested in me
12:31:42    
joy: i see.. i just remember the story of one foreingner i chat a year a go that the filipina is a users she use a model picture to use as profile picture but then she not her.
12:32:39    
thomas: ah as of that its good to meet before getting closer
12:33:25    
joy: yes.. thats why i ask you if you meet her already
12:33:51    
joy: because some of the filipina use another photo to be look pretty
12:34:38    
thomas: yes
12:35:28    
joy: they are a poser
12:35:57    
thomas: but i think i not yet met one who used wrong pictures
12:37:40    
joy: yes as of now
12:40:30    
thomas: what did you do at the birthday party?
12:41:08    
joy: i help my friends to prepare foods and entertain the guest
12:41:25    
joy: it was so tiring day buy i enjoy the kids and also the foods
12:44:26    
thomas: the kids did play games and eat?
12:45:08    
joy: yes..they enjoy the games and the foods and also they enjoy the colorful baloons
12:54:23    
thomas: now here is a very friendly and talkactive german here
12:55:35    
thomas: and i thought if we are married and you meet more talkactive men if you then not could regret to married a not talkactive one
12:55:58    
thomas: he is so kind and everone like him here
12:56:01    
thomas: i also
IM 13:16:13. 6. Nov 2011
12:57:35    
thomas: only is way to talk is fast and much, that it would be exhausting and i can hardly remember fully what he tells as it exceeds my brain capacity
12:58:00    
joy: who's man?
12:58:46    
thomas: a german teacher, maybe 58 years old
12:59:20    
thomas: he gave me a good advice, he said there is a hotel for 300 p in macatan in cebu and the hotel is nice an calm
13:00:00    
thomas: if i stay in cebu again i can maybe rent there
13:05:44    
joy: i see
13:05:48    
joy: where is he now?
13:06:39    
joy: in mactan cebu? i know that place but i never been there i just want to go there in mactan cebu someday
13:07:10    
thomas: there are beautiful beaches there i saw on internet
13:07:35    
joy: yes... thats why i love to go there
13:08:14    
thomas: I like to enjoy the ambience of beaches and parks
13:08:31    
joy: yes me too.
13:08:47    
joy: i enjoy beaches so much
13:09:00    
thomas: and that i enjoy additional more when the weather is warm and if a pretty woman is with me as a friend and expecially if as wife
13:09:26    
thomas: a pretty woman as friend is also a nice ambience
13:10:50    
joy: yes...
13:10:56    
joy: so true
13:11:57    
joy: someday i wanna go to the beaches walking tohether with my husband and holding hands while walking thats very sweet
13:12:10    
thomas: yes
13:12:20    
thomas: that i dreamed about my ex girlfriend
13:12:47    
joy: u walk together at the beach?
13:14:06    
thomas: only once
13:14:11    
thomas: in masbate
13:14:26    
thomas: hm but it was not so nice than i expected
13:14:40    
thomas: we had nearly nothing to talk
13:14:48    
joy: if i will marry someday i want to go to beach as often as we can
13:14:56    
thomas: me too
13:15:18    
joy: we are always the same in our likes
13:15:52    
thomas: hm but in germany in my place ocean is far away but there is a medium big sea 40 km away
13:16:13    
thomas: yes in may things we like the same
IM 13:36:00. 6. Nov 2011
13:16:26    
thomas: and we are the same some less than average talkactive
13:18:31    
joy: yes.. in some way maybe we can much talkactive if we know each other mor
13:18:34    
joy: more
13:19:08    
thomas: yes i wish so much
13:19:34    
joy: yes ofcourse we can there's a lot of chances to us
13:21:04    
thomas: if we can talk much i worry less you would leave me some day as then you not would find it boring to stay with me
13:22:21    
thomas: i think that was one reason for that that my ex girlfriend left me but mainly it was as of the matter of money that she asked for something what i then not agreed
13:23:06    
joy: i promise i will never leave you no matter what happened
13:23:38    
joy: i will take every moments with you no matter how boring it is
13:23:39    
thomas: thats what i need
13:24:18    
joy: no matter how hard it is. we will face together all the problems
13:24:40    
joy: im not your ex girlfriend
13:24:55    
joy: money is not so important to me
13:25:14    
joy: as long as we are both happy
13:25:46    
thomas: hope you will be always happy with me
13:26:06    
joy: yes i will
13:26:45    
joy: i i will always find way to make you happy with me
13:27:18    
joy: i will never leave you except if you ask me to leave you
13:27:45    
thomas: i did chat recently with my ex girlfriend and tould her about you and she said she worry me if i take such a young woman like you that if you have work she get younger and more interesting man know at work and then she will like that man more
13:28:01    
thomas: and that is really a problem in germany
13:28:45    
thomas: as there are so many man who are not a bad choice looking for a pretty woman
13:30:16    
thomas: but i would be your first love, i would have the bonus of first love and if you leave me and take other man it would be the secound love and maybe that make it more than equal to be your first love even that man other man is more charming and younger
13:32:58    
joy: can you tell to your ex girl friend that she know me better? for her to judge me fast? she really know about my personality and can you tell to her that if i want filipino guy i will not look for foreign man she dont know what my capability in terms of love
13:33:58    
joy: so she better not to give opinion about me.
13:34:59    
joy: if i will be your girlfriend i will assure u that i will give my 100% of my faithfulness,
13:35:15    
joy: 95% of my love
13:35:44    
joy: and 85% of my trust
13:36:00    
joy: and 100% of my loyalty
IM 13:59:58. 6. Nov 2011
13:36:54    
thomas: thats all nice
13:37:20    
thomas: the basic will be that i will be your best friend
13:37:32    
thomas: hope that will happen to be your best friend
13:38:22    
joy: ofcourse you will be my bestfriend
13:38:56    
thomas: thats not ofcourse thats then a mercy
13:39:17    
thomas: as not all husbands are best friends
13:40:16    
joy: i will do everything to be your bestfriend
13:40:41    
thomas: me too hm but everything
13:40:44    
joy: because thats what im dreaming to be the bestfriend of my future husband
13:40:48    
thomas: everything is too hard
13:40:57    
thomas: but i will do more than average
13:41:16    
thomas: i will be always friendly and kind to you
13:42:35    
thomas: but not want spoil you with all my money as i want the bigger part of the money i earn for myself as i must work for it
13:43:10    
thomas: but as long as you have no job i will give you then 40000 p a month or like that
13:43:23    
thomas: in germany
13:45:04    
joy: yes i dont want to be spoil too. because my parents dont spoil me
13:46:36    
thomas: thats nice for me that you find that fair
13:47:27    
thomas: what is in filipino language what you finished to study in full words or if you know in english even better
13:49:46    
joy: u mean other lanugages?
13:51:09    
thomas: no, you said you finished study it and how is it in the largest words the name what you study
13:51:21    
thomas: as it can be differnt things
13:51:38    
joy: ah i see
13:52:33    
joy: BSIT mean information technology
13:53:02    
joy: IT mean information technology
13:55:18    
thomas: but it can be one are more focus in repairing hardware, some are in installing software and some more in prgramming and so i think there are different kinds of titles of graduated in it?
13:55:33    
thomas: but thats only what i expect i not yet researched about that
13:57:33    
joy: i ok now i understand you ask if what major of it ive been studying im major in networking and hardware repair
13:58:13    
joy: my minors is software developing and programming
13:59:10    
thomas: ah that gives me already some more idea about what exactly it was
13:59:58    
joy: yes.. its one of the hardest course here in the philippines aside from law and medicine
IM 14:17:34. 6. Nov 2011
14:00:11    
thomas: wow
14:00:56    
thomas: in your class did where you one with the better marks or average in your class or less than average
14:01:37    
joy: u cannot imagine how i survive when we are 1st year college we have a lot of IT student more than 50 student then before graduation we are only 16 boys and 4 girl who graduated
14:03:03    
thomas: oh, so you where amoung the 1/3 best already as you graduated too
14:03:17    
joy: in programming im less than average but in networking and hardware repair i think i have a better marks
14:03:27    
joy: yes..
14:03:46    
thomas: in compare to the other 19 who graduated?
14:03:53    
joy: yes
14:04:24    
thomas: so in all you where average amoung the 20 who graduated?
14:04:38    
joy: yes i am
14:05:22    
joy: but in networking i am always the top of the class among 4 girls
14:05:38    
thomas: when i made my education as clerk in gouvernemnt office i was amoung the 1/3 worsest in the class
14:06:17    
thomas: as the cadidates for make that education where already much picked out
14:07:44    
thomas: as many who finished school like to make such a education and than the companies can choose much good ones
14:08:13    
thomas: but i finished with mark 3,1
14:08:38    
thomas: and 4,4 was minimum needed to succeed in getting the title
14:08:59    
thomas: but most succeeded with 2,3 or like that
14:09:12    
joy: oh i see..
14:09:54    
joy: its not bad atleast you really try your best to in gatting the title
14:10:23    
thomas: hm i not did do the best for that
14:11:00    
thomas: i learned maybe only 3 hours a day
Abgehender Voiceanruf an joy (14:10:49)
14:12:16    
joy: but now you have a nice job
14:12:43    
thomas: a average job
14:12:56    
thomas: but a average job is more than average
14:13:09    
thomas: as already a average job is hard to get in germanhy
14:13:38    
thomas: i have no mic on the laptop, can not call
14:13:42    
joy: yes.. but atleast u have a job and you are lucky
14:17:26    
joy: here in the philippines ur salary is the salary of manager
14:17:34    
thomas: yes
IM 14:32:51. 6. Nov 2011
14:17:36    
joy: or executive officer
14:17:46    
joy: more on a high position
14:17:54    
thomas: but in germany things are 4 times more expensive
14:18:12    
joy: yes i know that
14:18:35    
thomas: i always admire in filipines that many things are so cheap
14:19:07    
thomas: i admire the bussdrivers and jeapney drivers that they can offer their service so cheap
14:20:07    
joy: yes we are really the same i admire the buss and jeepney driver too.
14:20:27    
joy: sometimes if i have more money i pay more
14:21:36    
joy: and every xmas i always give to the poorest driver a little gift
14:22:26    
thomas: you think they have not so much money, less than average income?
14:22:47    
joy: yes..
14:22:52    
thomas: it depends it was my thinking if the jeapney driver is also the owner of the jeapney
14:23:08    
thomas: is that usually that the jeapney driver is the owner?
14:23:29    
joy: before i give gift to them i talk to them while im riding to their jeepney
14:24:36    
joy: no most of the driver of the jeepney not own the jeepney
14:25:26    
thomas: ah yes then they are not so rich
14:25:37    
joy: yes..
14:27:00    
joy: sometimes after a long day driving they give always 500 pesos a day to the owner so if sometimes dont have much passeger the jeepney driver gets only 150 a day
14:27:53    
thomas: oh 150 p is not much a day
14:28:02    
thomas: would be equal with 5000 p a month
14:29:14    
joy: yes.. very low
14:29:22    
thomas: yes
14:31:21    
joy: thats why i always give xmas gift for them for their hard work
14:31:50    
thomas: wow you are kind
14:32:19    
thomas: I go eat now, can we chat in half hour again?
14:32:41    
joy: yes... sure take your time i will eat too.
14:32:51    
thomas: ok
IM 15:33:23. 6. Nov 2011
15:13:54    
joy: are you done eating?
15:14:04    
thomas: yes
15:14:13    
thomas: you also did eat leater today?
15:14:38    
joy: yes..
15:15:00    
joy: i was feel a little hungry when u said u will eat
15:15:10    
joy: so i eat too
15:16:00    
thomas: when did yhou came home from birthday party?
15:16:47    
joy: around 7 pm i go home early because i promise you that i will be online at 7 pm
15:17:56    
thomas: oh just of me, i am honoured
15:18:33    
thomas: I am very curious to meet you again
15:18:49    
joy: yes i just always try to make my promises done
15:19:09    
thomas: me too
15:19:25    
joy: yes.. we are same again
15:20:19    
thomas: but i considered it not as promise only a forecast in this case as you where at birthday party
15:21:19    
joy: but i told you i will be online at 7 pm so i think thsts a promise
15:22:56    
thomas: nice, i just thought so as it is only chatting and in compare at party you can meet in real and that has a higher quality if there are nice friends to talk
15:24:04    
joy: yes...
15:24:50    
joy: but then i just want to spend my time chatting to you than to go party and meeting people you is enough i dont need to meet other people
15:25:36    
thomas: sounds cozy for me
15:26:00    
thomas: i will feel happy if i am very important for my wife
15:27:39    
joy: ofcourse u will be the most important person in your wife's life
15:28:31    
thomas: more important than the child
15:28:47    
thomas: i think for 1/3 of all women is the child more important
15:28:52    
joy: yes i think maybe
15:29:56    
joy: for me no because if without my husband i cannot have child right so for me the husband is the most important person in my life 2nd is my child ofcourse
15:30:35    
thomas: me too my wife will be more important for me
15:30:52    
thomas: and i hope then also the child will be 2. most important
15:31:35    
thomas: i not yet had a child so i can not say exactly shure but i think it is then normal
15:32:32    
joy: yes.. me even if i dont have child yet i know my husband will be the most importnat person in my life
15:33:23    
thomas: that i want that i am more important for my wife than our child
IM 15:50:10. 6. Nov 2011
15:34:10    
thomas: child is only 20 years very close then it goes often live at own place and we can meet only once a week or like that
15:34:55    
joy: yes its true
15:36:06    
joy: but somehow child is the best gift from god
15:37:31    
thomas: the nature made it that parents have a special friendship to the child as it is the child
15:38:00    
joy: yes..like my mom
15:38:16    
joy: she likes my bestfriend to me
15:39:16    
thomas: thats then very nice
15:39:47    
joy: yes
15:39:55    
joy: is your mom close to you?
15:41:39    
thomas: i feel me only some close to her medium close or how to say
15:41:48    
thomas: not like a best friend
15:42:46    
thomas: as we are different as person
15:43:02    
thomas: but i like her
15:43:03    
joy: i see well its ok..
15:43:17    
thomas: and with my father it is same
15:43:37    
joy: i hope some day i can meet you parents
15:43:42    
thomas: but my parents like me a lot i think
15:44:17    
thomas: yes
15:44:43    
joy: well thats good
15:44:55    
thomas: does your parents read newspaper?
15:45:13    
joy: yes but not too often
15:46:34    
thomas: and you?
15:46:42    
joy: yes
15:47:13    
joy: specially if i have free time when i was schooling i always read news paper
15:47:26    
joy: in the library
15:47:35    
joy: i am always socially aware
15:48:02    
joy: i always want to know if whats happening inside and outside the philippines
15:48:37    
thomas: i also read often, i read it in the train while traveling to work and back
15:49:18    
thomas: my father reads newspaper every day and has dayly abbonement and as it is already for free here i read it
15:50:10    
thomas: when we meet again we should make a picture with a newspaper with the site from today that we have a record that we met
IM 16:08:24. 6. Nov 2011
15:50:35    
thomas: as that is useful in case we will make visa for germanhy
15:51:46    
joy: yes... well be nice
15:52:39    
joy: what kins of newspaper?
15:52:47    
joy: what kind of newspaper?
15:53:00    
thomas: one of the most popular you have
15:53:32    
thomas: and if it is from last weeks ago or 2 weeks ago it not matters as that time we could had met too
15:53:44    
joy: i always read newspaper from manila bulletin
15:54:12    
thomas: yes that sounds good
15:54:53    
joy: yes.. ok if u come here again i get newspaper..
15:55:07    
thomas: ok
15:55:45    
joy: i forgot to tell you
15:56:29    
thomas: what did you forgot to tell?
15:56:35    
joy: one of my close and former sutors chatmate from singapore we did chat last night
15:57:03    
joy: when u are already sign out i did tell about you
15:57:27    
joy: and he gets a little jealous to you
15:58:22    
joy: because he said you are very lucky because in 5 days of chatting u meet me compare to him that we chat almost a year a go but he can never had a chance to meet me
15:59:55    
joy: and then i said if someday u will be my boyfriend i will stop chatting to them he feels sad
16:00:24    
joy: and dissapointed
16:00:47    
thomas: yes that is understandable
16:01:37    
thomas: i say to my chatmates only about you if one askes how is my search
16:03:03    
thomas: then i said one chatmate we are closer in chatting and we met 3 days already and i like her and want get know her more
16:03:21    
thomas: and then 2 of my chatmates was discouraged and not much continued to chat
16:03:57    
thomas: but it was already before that we less than average get close in chatting
16:04:57    
thomas: but i think in myself some day i must decide me for you to have you shurer
16:05:14    
thomas: but i think at least one we need to meet again
16:06:16    
joy: yes. we will meet again to make sure what is our feeling to each other
16:06:48    
thomas: yes
16:07:29    
joy: so that we can easily decide for us
16:08:08    
thomas: i have still some doubts about if do really like me a lot
16:08:24    
thomas: and you probalby have still some doubts if i like you a lot
IM 16:31:46. 6. Nov 2011
16:08:57    
joy: yes i still have
16:09:11    
thomas: and that doubts only proofen away in meetings
16:09:48    
thomas: the other way would be to chat long times but that is much slower to make decrease the doubts
16:10:39    
joy: we cannot rush time
16:10:54    
joy: we just need to take slowly
16:13:09    
thomas: yes it is a process to get shure of each other
16:13:35    
joy: yes your right
16:13:39    
thomas: but then i will be 5 months not in filipines
16:14:14    
joy: we can chat right? are you worried?
16:14:54    
thomas: yes to loose you if i not decide me till december for you as girlfriend
Abgehender Voiceanruf an joy (16:09:39)
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16:15:26    
joy: u dont have to worry
16:16:02    
joy: im always here you dont need to be rush to choice me as your gf
16:16:26    
joy: even if it takes months im still here
16:16:45    
joy: and i promise i didnt look for other man
16:16:50    
joy: just trust me
16:17:13    
thomas: but on the other hand if i decide me for you as girlfriend i must give up my other chatmates and if we not succeed then in relationship i would had lost contacts to a maybe much great choice too
16:17:36    
thomas: but if you dont look for other man and i still look also for other women it is unfair
16:18:20    
joy: well then thats life
16:18:31    
joy: like is sometimes unfair
16:18:49    
joy: i mean life is sometimes unfair
16:19:38    
joy: but its happening now even if we are friends now i dont look for other man
16:20:07    
joy: i will look for another man maybe if you dont choose me as your gf
16:20:32    
joy: i dont have new chatmates only you
16:21:15    
joy: my older chatmates maybe we chat a long year a go your my newest chatmates
16:26:37    
thomas: at 10 of november we must start to meet if 3 days
16:27:44    
thomas: as at 14 i will go with the girlfriend of my friend to central bank to get new looking filipino money as i can sell that in germany for higher price as there are people who like to collect that
16:29:34    
joy: i see. ok its ok for me
16:31:25    
joy: if we have free time we can catch fish
16:31:46    
thomas: where?
IM 16:45:11. 6. Nov 2011
16:32:18    
joy: near at our house
16:32:34    
joy: but the fish there is just a small one
16:33:17    
thomas: will we go alone or with your parents?
16:33:52    
joy: we will go alone
16:34:09    
thomas: oh nice, then i like
16:34:10    
joy: its very near in our house beside our shop
16:34:48    
thomas: but on the other hand we can not talk while waiting get the fish biting
16:34:59    
thomas: i think we would need to be silent
16:35:30    
joy: yes..
16:35:47    
joy: but it is only possible if we have free time
16:36:24    
joy: my parents is not here at 14
16:36:55    
joy: they will go at the hospital for my dad check up
16:37:15    
thomas: why if we have free time?
16:37:27    
thomas: do you not have nearly all time free time as you not work?
16:37:55    
joy: because maybe we will be busy talking each other
16:38:19    
thomas: oh nice if it will be so
16:38:41    
joy: yes
16:39:34    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
16:40:07    
joy: i will go at the post office to get my postal id
16:40:44    
joy: that is one of the important id here while you will applying for a job
16:41:04    
thomas: I see
16:42:27    
joy: yes. i need to fix all my things before you go here so that i have much time spending with you
16:42:47    
thomas: thats good idea
16:43:12    
joy: yes ofcourse
16:43:20    
joy: because you are special to me
16:43:35    
joy: and that was the last time we can talk and see each other
16:43:42    
thomas: you too
16:43:46    
thomas: yes
16:44:43    
joy: well sounds sad
16:45:11    
thomas: yes
IM 17:01:22. 6. Nov 2011
16:45:28    
thomas: then we will be far distance away for 5 months
16:46:00    
joy: yes the hardest part of us
16:47:56    
thomas: what time can we chat tomorrow?
16:48:18    
joy: just txt me if what time u will be online
16:48:30    
joy: then i will try to be online that time ok
16:48:42    
thomas: ok
16:49:38    
joy: ok u will sleep now?
16:49:58    
thomas: in 15 min about
16:50:41    
joy: ok i will wait for you
16:50:44    
thomas: i have still a task, the german who is kind and talkactive asked me to write and sent for him a e mail
16:51:18    
joy: for what?
16:52:33    
thomas: ah wants write a e mail to a co worker, it looks like they have voluntary school project in burma and bankok
16:52:57    
joy: oh i see
16:53:47    
joy: u only have one week left here in the philippines
16:54:25    
thomas: yes
16:54:48    
joy: i will surely i will miss chatting with you like this way
16:55:34    
thomas: chatting still we can atleast at every saturday and sunday
16:55:51    
joy: yes i will
16:59:53    
joy: i will sleep now
17:00:20    
joy: goodnyt
17:00:33    
thomas: ok good night
17:00:44    
thomas: i must hurry too as they make off wifi soon
17:00:53    
joy: yes...
17:01:00    
joy: have a nice sleep
17:01:13    
joy: hugs and kisses
17:01:22    
thomas: hugs and kisses, have nice sleep
IM 13:48:18. 7. Nov 2011
13:36:17    
thomas: hallo, how are you?
13:36:32    
joy: im fine u?
13:36:39    
joy: u eat dinner?
13:37:02    
thomas: yes did eat now before
13:37:04    
thomas: and you?
13:37:30    
joy: yes im done
13:39:14    
thomas: today it was relatively hot
13:39:30    
thomas: not always is the same temperature but it is often similar
13:39:52    
joy: yes same here
13:40:07    
joy: but suddenly this afternoon rain
13:40:52    
thomas: oh i not noticed but it was some water places at the street
13:41:21    
joy: yes..
13:41:58    
joy: so you been there at sm makati?
13:42:08    
thomas: yes
13:42:23    
joy: ive been there once a couple of months a go
13:42:24    
thomas: bus from costal mall to there takes only 30 minutes
13:43:06    
thomas: what did you do there?
13:43:43    
joy: me and my older cousin buy something there before
13:44:13    
thomas: what did you buy?
13:44:33    
joy: a wedding gift for our relative
13:45:40    
thomas: they had no wifi in the mall as far as i did see
13:46:19    
joy: yes..
13:46:43    
joy: they dont have wifi there only on selected resturant
13:47:04    
thomas: ah then i was right
13:47:19    
joy: yes..
13:47:25    
thomas: in sm bagio they had wifi and in megamall
13:47:37    
joy: i see
13:47:43    
joy: well good
13:48:05    
joy: here in SM ….. had wifi too
13:48:18    
thomas: nice
IM 14:14:56. 7. Nov 2011
13:49:09    
joy: yes
13:50:06    
joy: im online around 7 pm then i was being invisible because my old chatmates try to chat with me
13:50:13    
thomas: i was proud that i found the bus back after not searching too long
13:50:37    
joy: well thats nice
13:52:06    
thomas: moskito bites are itching me always
13:52:24    
thomas: but i can suffer that only a little unconvenient
13:52:29    
joy: yes me too.
13:52:55    
joy: i hate mosquito thats why i dont stay too long outside the house
13:54:25    
thomas: thats a pity on the other hand as to stay outside is nice to enjoy the outside ambience
13:55:04    
thomas: me they bite me most times when i am in hotel lobby and use laptop it looks like
13:55:28    
joy: its only here in our house
13:55:47    
joy: but in some place i wanbt to stay long
13:58:34    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
13:59:13    
joy: i probably go to postal office to get my postal id
14:01:51    
joy: tomorow u will meet some chatmate
14:04:03    
thomas: I think about to try to meet the very pretty one who was there a short time at hair dresser shop in antipolo
14:04:29    
thomas: she spoke nearly no english but was very pretty
14:05:14    
thomas: but it will not help much to meet her as we then can speak nearly nothing
14:06:21    
joy: when u meet her? how do you tlak?
14:06:25    
joy: talk?
14:08:19    
thomas: i can ask her then only to give me her yahoo id
14:08:35    
joy: thats all?
14:08:49    
thomas: nearly all
14:09:21    
thomas: 1 or 2 friends of her can speak a little english so they could translate a little
14:11:08    
joy: i see
14:11:12    
joy: well thats good
14:11:36    
joy: if you where choose her just buy her a dictionary to learn english
14:14:15    
thomas: yes if ever that would happen and she would like to be choosen from me
14:14:40    
thomas: but it would take 2 years to find out if we fit as of her low english
14:14:56    
joy: too long
IM 14:44:36. 7. Nov 2011
14:16:01    
thomas: it would take a long time to find out if she really likes me if she can not much speak english
14:16:29    
joy: i see
14:19:44    
joy: anyway what is your birthday?
14:21:04    
thomas: 1 of february
14:21:26    
joy: what year?
14:21:33    
thomas: 1970
14:22:49    
joy: i see..
14:23:05    
joy: my mom is on january 6
14:23:21    
joy: and my sister is feb 24
14:23:36    
thomas: ah a similar time
14:23:59    
joy: yes
14:24:32    
joy: what is middle name?
14:24:44    
thomas: Hans
14:25:10    
thomas: thats name of one brother of my father
14:25:28    
thomas: who is my godfather
14:25:35    
joy: i see..
14:33:38    
thomas: also i am thinking about to meet you tomorrow but you anyway probably rather like to meet in the last days only
14:34:41    
joy: yes.. because i need to fix all my requirements in finding work before u come here
14:36:40    
thomas: ah i see
14:38:00    
joy: why u will go in cebu?
14:39:02    
thomas: i will give back the laptop there which i did lent
14:39:42    
thomas: and want meet one chatmate there and one women i met before i want meet also again
14:40:24    
thomas: i will then stay there 2 days from 10 am the first day till 9 pm secound day
14:40:55    
joy: u must take care then
14:41:18    
joy: on nov.16 hopefully i can go in manila to stay there
14:41:43    
thomas: oh so pity 1 day after i left
14:42:32    
joy: yes but not so sure if i can go on that date its depend if all my requirement is done
14:44:07    
thomas: i see
14:44:36    
joy: yes i need to stay at my aunt'shouse at baclaran
IM 15:13:45. 7. Nov 2011
14:51:49    
joy: i have a little fever now
14:52:05    
joy: not so feeling well because of the weather
14:52:25    
thomas: little fever is not a problem
14:52:34    
joy: yes
14:52:43    
joy: but i still worry
14:52:46    
thomas: only your mind then feels not strong and straight
14:53:10    
thomas: but after some days it goes away usually even if you take no medicine
14:53:22    
thomas: and i always try to take no medicine
14:53:33    
thomas: as that is better for health
14:53:34    
joy: yes i dont take medicine too.
14:55:11    
thomas: nice
14:55:53    
thomas: only if a illness get so strong that it can damage the health then i take medicine
14:56:20    
thomas: but i never get fever or i notice that if i have light fever
14:56:37    
thomas: the last time i noticed fever was 2004
14:57:00    
thomas: but it gone away after 1 day
14:57:46    
joy: thats good u are not phrone to illness
14:58:04    
joy: me i have a weak immune system
14:59:43    
thomas: but some alternative health specialists have the opinion that a bodey is stronger as long as he can make fever some times
15:00:42    
joy: yes its true
15:00:45    
thomas: and if no fever anymore it is a sign that the bodey is weaker and is not able to make fever if the bodey is stressed in a way of which fever would reduce the stress
15:02:02    
joy: yes.. some specialist says that fever can reduced stress
15:07:35    
thomas: yes
15:08:58    
joy: can i ask something?
15:13:45    
joy: what are the qualities of your ideal relationship as of now?
IM 15:41:54. 7. Nov 2011
15:24:50    
thomas: ideal is a lot so i would find her very pretty, and i would find her interesting and she would be talkactive and charming and despite of that that she can have many friends as she is pretty, talkactive and charming, even more interesting than me, she would like me more than anyone else in this world
15:26:25    
joy: do you think im fit for your criteria?
15:29:02    
thomas: not for a ideal relationship but you would fit for a very good one i think, as the ideal only 1 of 10000 people could find or one of 100000 people
15:29:30    
thomas: i only intent to find a very good relationship, not the ideal one
15:31:14    
thomas: as to find the ideal relationship is so unprobable as to play lotto and win 6 million peso
15:32:21    
thomas: it is so unprobable that you must expect that that not can happen and you must act in a way that that never can happen
15:32:45    
thomas: and even if it happens ideal would remain only 5 years
15:33:12    
thomas: as when the woman is then older than 29 years the ideal is not anymore active
15:33:34    
thomas: as to have a wife not younger than 30 is not anymore a ideal woman
15:34:55    
joy: yes too im not dreaming to a perfect relationship because i know its not gonna happened a good one is enough for me
15:38:38    
thomas: what is for you a ideal relationship, tell me like you your ideal
15:38:48    
thomas: just to see the top
15:41:54    
joy: my ideal relationship it would be he is very nice much kind and average talkactive i like if he is very honest nad he have respect for a girl looks for me is not important as long as he is understanding
IM 16:08:32. 7. Nov 2011
15:55:12    
joy: are you busy?
15:56:07    
thomas: no
15:56:22    
thomas: i had only no idea what to talk
15:56:33    
joy: i see
15:57:04    
joy: i thought you were busy chatting with other
15:57:20    
thomas: My friends girlfriend texted me and we will go friday or monday to central bank to get the bank notes
15:59:01    
thomas: i am chatting with one woman beside you only little and looked always first what you wrote in case you both wrote something and my thinking what to talk is mainly on you
15:59:35    
joy: i see
16:00:43    
joy: if you can go on friday at central back it will good for you
16:01:07    
joy: so that when you go here you dont need to pay for your hotel
16:01:29    
thomas: but if i go friday to central bank i must carry 60000 pesos of new money with me till tuesday
16:02:11    
joy: ah i see.. ok its better to go there at monday
16:02:30    
thomas: the decission will more depend on my friends girlfriend what of that both days she can file vaccation
16:03:01    
thomas: if friday i worry to carry that money
16:03:32    
thomas: also i must carry the visa documents of my friend he wants me to bring to germany
16:03:33    
joy: yes because u will ride bus all the way here and u have a lot of bags
16:05:02    
thomas: yes will have some bags too
16:05:23    
thomas: the big luggage i still will leave till tuesday in paranaque hotel
16:05:35    
thomas: and get it then at tuesday morning in hotel
16:05:45    
thomas: as that hotel is near of airport
16:06:10    
joy: yes,, its a good decision
16:07:21    
joy: one of long lost friend chat me a while a go
16:08:05    
thomas: long lost?
16:08:09    
joy: he's from canada
16:08:32    
joy: yes we lost communication a long time a go i think more than 2 years
IM 7:15:16. 8. Nov 2011
7:02:19    
thomas: hallo joy, how are you
7:02:41    
joy: hi how are u?
7:02:55    
thomas: i not replied you as i wanted finish chat already 3 hours ago but always a other one appeared to chat
7:02:55    
joy: im good miss you
7:03:02    
thomas: miss you too
7:03:15    
thomas: now i chatted about a matter which confuses me a lot
7:03:30    
thomas: i lent someone from filipines 360000 p
7:04:05    
thomas: and that without contract
7:04:39    
thomas: and we agreed also we would invest money in a church which has a school
7:05:04    
joy: what?? why uo that? i told you before dont trust someone specially u dont know that person
7:05:42    
joy: then what happened now? who is that person?
7:05:46    
thomas: I did met the church leader already and he has a big school
7:06:08    
joy: then what happened?
7:07:29    
thomas: that was some years ago
7:07:36    
thomas: that i met the church leader
7:08:20    
thomas: and that person i lent 340000 with her i agreed to lent over her name 1 million to the church and get 1.5 percent interest a month
7:08:59    
thomas: but now i feel scared to lent the 1 million and tould i not want lent
7:09:56    
joy: my god thomas dont allow that person lent u 1 million
7:09:59    
thomas: but she says the church expect the buissness to make and then the person would loose his record and could not anymore make buissness with the church
7:10:37    
joy: 1 million is a big money they might stole you that money believe me i know a lot of pilipino person about that
7:11:30    
joy: even if she t0old you that maybe shes lying
7:12:40    
joy: maybe they are one group who wants to stole your money
7:13:04    
thomas: she said now we could make contract with the church in my name till she has enough money in 2 years to replace me
7:13:43    
joy: fake contract is everywhere thomas
7:13:53    
thomas: I saw that pastor in church and workers in the school said this pastor is the owner of the school
7:13:53    
joy: dont believe them
7:14:21    
thomas: I worry anything is there on which it can fail which i can not know in foreward
7:14:37    
joy: maybe they are lying what if that person is really not the owner of school
7:14:54    
joy: yes youre right you are not here to monitor your money
7:15:16    
joy: and you know what? small school is closes often here in the philippines
IM 7:34:54. 8. Nov 2011
7:15:56    
joy: so if i were you dont believe to them dont believe to their sweet words
7:17:19    
thomas: do you think a big church school pays 2 percent a month to their investors if they are member in the church
7:17:45    
thomas: the church school is maybe the biggest of this city
7:18:00    
thomas: about that i would need to search in internet but i think it is that
7:20:11    
joy: i can sure say no because they are not a bank to give 2% interest for their investor most of the parents now plan to transfer their kids to a public school because of the low economics
7:20:43    
joy: so how come they can give 2% interest to you
7:25:47    
thomas: I was thinking they can lent from bank for 1 percent or less as they can give the school building as colateral
7:25:59    
thomas: why they then pay so much interest
7:26:42    
joy: the school is about to close thats why they need investor
7:27:05    
joy: cant you see? what if the school is getting low?
7:30:25    
thomas: thats too
7:31:21    
joy: if i were you dont believe them if you dont want to happened again like what happened on your invest in stock market
7:31:41    
thomas: yes
7:31:58    
joy: ok..
7:32:13    
joy: im just concern about you
7:32:26    
joy: anyway i think your ex gf add me
7:32:43    
thomas: yes
7:33:15    
joy: how did she find my fb account
7:33:33    
thomas: i tould her
7:33:47    
joy: for what reason?
7:34:09    
thomas: as i discussed with her about you, that i like you a lot
7:34:46    
joy: i see
7:34:54    
joy: i accept her
IM 8:04:36. 8. Nov 2011
7:38:44    
joy: thomas you chat with your exgf right?
7:39:01    
thomas: yes
7:39:36    
joy: did her husband know that you and your ex gf still chatting?
7:40:01    
thomas: yes
7:41:02    
joy: he did not get jealous?
7:41:23    
thomas: no he is very trusting his wife
7:41:40    
joy: oh thats good
7:46:26    
joy: how old is she now?
7:46:47    
thomas: 32
7:46:58    
thomas: her husband is about 35
7:47:04    
joy: she look chubby now
7:47:17    
thomas: yes but still very pretty
7:47:22    
thomas: for me
7:48:40    
joy: ah ok
7:48:49    
joy: yes she still pretty
7:53:15    
joy: goodluck tomorow
7:53:24    
joy: for youre cebu trip
7:53:40    
thomas: thanks
7:54:00    
joy: ok..
7:54:11    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
7:54:14    
joy: so we cannot chat there?
7:54:24    
joy: nothing ill stay jere
7:54:25    
joy: here
7:55:04    
joy: or maybe i will go with my mom
7:55:16    
thomas: what will she do?\
7:56:18    
joy: she will cut her hair
8:01:36    
thomas: and you maybe also?
8:02:41    
joy: no i dont want
8:03:07    
thomas: yes your hair are still nice enough
8:04:36    
joy: yes..
IM 8:10:17. 8. Nov 2011
8:05:19    
joy: so what time didi
8:05:35    
joy: did you go online tonight?
8:06:12    
thomas: yes you mean the future i guess
8:06:30    
joy: yes
8:07:16    
thomas: 8 pm
8:07:26    
thomas: I am unshure if i want travel to antipolo
8:07:57    
thomas: as it is so difficult to talk with her and not shure if she will be there to meet
8:08:23    
joy: oh ok.. just txt me if what time u can online tonight
8:08:37    
joy: i will go to my cousins house now
8:08:41    
thomas: ok
8:08:45    
joy: take care
8:08:50    
thomas: take care
8:09:34    
joy: ok you too
8:09:48    
joy: bye for now see you later here again
8:10:08    
thomas: bye, enjoy the afternoon
8:10:17    
joy: yes you too
IM 15:25:06. 8. Nov 2011
15:06:18    
thomas: hallo joy, i am back now
15:06:39    
joy: thats great
15:06:50    
thomas: i gave up to travel to antipolo as there was so much traffic
15:06:57    
joy: u enjoy meeting thme?
15:08:03    
thomas: no i not met
15:08:21    
thomas: after 1/4 distance to antipolo i got out of jeap and traveled back
15:08:28    
joy: sowat did you do there?
15:08:31    
thomas: as then it was already 8 pm
15:08:57    
joy: i see
15:09:29    
joy: so what did the girl told you?
15:10:20    
thomas: she sent message, she still would like meet a other time
15:10:30    
thomas: even i not did come now
15:11:19    
joy: i see so when did you want to meet her again?
15:11:58    
thomas: i think now next april if ever that is then still interesting for us each
15:12:39    
thomas: if i have then in april not already a girlfriend i will then just text her again in next vaccation and see if she response
15:13:48    
joy: oh well thats good..
15:14:28    
joy: hold for a minute i will get something
15:15:07    
thomas: ok
15:25:06    
joy: im back
IM 15:42:51. 8. Nov 2011
15:27:49    
thomas: ok
15:28:31    
thomas: what did you get?
15:28:49    
joy: water and foods
15:29:21    
joy: im hungry because i only eat bread and milk for my dinner
15:30:33    
thomas: milk is bad for varicosis as of that i not drink milk
15:30:46    
joy: anyway did you eat dinner?
15:31:00    
thomas: yes i did eat bananas and bread in jeapneyh
15:31:23    
thomas: milk is bad for varicosis, i just think
15:31:40    
thomas: its only my idea
15:31:58    
thomas: as i got the first varicosis wound in a time i did drink much milk
15:32:26    
joy: really?
15:33:00    
thomas: and i have the impression when i drink that then my varicosis wound has a additional risk to get worser
15:33:55    
joy: i see anyway hows your wound?
15:35:04    
thomas: in all parts stay same and in parts get better
15:35:55    
joy: oh that a good sign
15:36:00    
thomas: only one small spot make me worry if that can be the beginning of a new wound asside
15:36:33    
joy: can i see that when you go back here?
15:36:42    
thomas: but that can also be that that spot is already longer that way
15:36:49    
thomas: yes
15:37:28    
joy: i see just be careful when u are in cebu
15:37:43    
joy: so that your wound will be better
15:38:32    
thomas: yes
15:38:48    
joy: ok good
15:39:42    
joy: if you are alrea dy in cebu txt me if you have free time so that i know what's happening to you there
15:39:55    
thomas: ok
15:40:34    
joy: ok nice
15:41:10    
joy: anyway my friend had a small get together on friday
15:41:24    
joy: maybe i cannot join to them
15:42:05    
thomas: where will they meet and how many will meet?
15:42:51    
joy: at calamba a small resort there less than 10 i think
IM 16:00:25. 8. Nov 2011
15:45:56    
thomas: with my ex girlfriend i not liked to join if she met with many friends as they spoke then nearly always tagalog
15:46:49    
thomas: but you it would had been interesting to see how you talk with your friends even i thin most times not understand anything as you most times speak tagalog
15:47:35    
thomas: and that would be ok as most people who are pressent have tagalog as mother language, ony I as one person preferes english
15:48:18    
thomas: but it would be too early i guess that i join such a meeting with you
15:48:32    
thomas: as we till now only just friends
15:49:18    
joy: i would like to join you but im worry if my parents will allow us to join them because it was over night
15:49:51    
joy: that's our chance to know my close friend and less close friend
15:50:09    
joy: they can speak english too but only a little not like me
15:52:59    
thomas: yes it would be interesting to join expecially if you then sometimes speak a little english
15:53:21    
thomas: how if we just join till 11 pm, maybe then your parents rather allow
15:53:34    
joy: yes i can speak english most of the time
15:53:50    
joy: its a swimming party
15:54:15    
thomas: oh then i could additional admire your beauty to see you in swimming dress
15:54:29    
joy: hahahaha.
15:55:04    
joy: u want to swim? i can ask my parents to have swimming for you
15:55:19    
thomas: i can not swim as of my varicosis wounds
15:55:27    
thomas: if they get wet they would get much worser
15:55:46    
joy: i see
15:56:00    
joy: even in a hot water?
15:56:24    
joy: how can we go to my friends reunion?
15:56:28    
thomas: not in any
15:56:40    
thomas: oh i just watch you
15:56:44    
thomas: and enjou the ambience
15:56:55    
thomas: you will not all time be in water i think
15:57:23    
joy: but u cant enjoy the ambience there because is just a small private resort
15:57:59    
thomas: yes ambience is just little like in this ressort in minglanilla i show you there with the swimming pool
15:58:29    
joy: i see but im worry my parents wont allow me
15:59:17    
thomas: yes thats understandable if they not allow as we met only 3 days yet
16:00:10    
joy: but my bestfriend is there maybe they can allow me
16:00:25    
joy: but im not so sure
IM 16:23:43. 8. Nov 2011
16:00:25    
thomas: that would be very nice
16:00:29    
joy: if they can allow us
16:00:30    
thomas: even i can not swim i would much like to join
16:00:44    
joy: yes me too
16:01:22    
joy: im worry because i have weak immune system my dad wont allow me to swim in evening
16:02:21    
thomas: and if you just join and not swim like me?
16:02:41    
joy: im not sure too.
16:02:50    
joy: if they can allow us
16:04:58    
thomas: ok just try if they allow
16:05:34    
thomas: otherwise hope 1 or 2 friends visit you at your house or we visit them at day time
16:06:04    
joy: but how come u can join with us if u can go here in sat?
16:07:02    
thomas: i want stay at your place either friday till sunday or either saturday till monday
16:08:01    
joy: oh ok it depends if my parents will allow us to go to my friends party?
16:09:12    
thomas: it depends if girlfriend of my friend can take vaccation at friday or at monday to go to central bank
16:09:49    
joy: oh isee
16:09:51    
joy: ok
16:09:57    
joy: just let me know
16:10:05    
thomas: ok
16:10:10    
joy: so that i can ask my parents for permission
16:10:23    
thomas: ok
16:11:46    
joy: i really want to there at my friends party i hope my parents will allow me
16:19:30    
joy: my friend chat me now
16:19:46    
joy: he would like to join my on friday
16:23:03    
thomas: i will go sleep now, must go up early for fly tomorrow
16:23:15    
joy: ok take care
16:23:16    
thomas: and the german asked me to search something for him in the internet now
16:23:28    
thomas: i text you when we can chat again
16:23:33    
joy: ok sure
16:23:36    
thomas: tomorrow
16:23:43    
joy: take care tomorow
IM 16:24:36. 8. Nov 2011
16:23:47    
thomas: i will have some time in which i am not buissy
16:23:54    
joy: hugs nad kisses
16:23:57    
thomas: the chatmate maybe now will meet me as she not replied yet
16:24:02    
thomas: hugs and kisses
16:24:05    
thomas: have nice sleep
16:24:11    
joy: ok i will wait for your txt
16:24:18    
joy: have a nice sleep too
16:24:19    
thomas: ok
16:24:28    
thomas: bye, miss you
16:24:36    
joy: mizyou too
IM 13:36:47. 15. Nov 2011
13:34:59    
joy: hi thomas i will be online tomorow i will leave my ym as im mobile so that when you send me offline mgs i can receive it through my phone
13:36:47    
joy: miss you already take care
IM 22:05:27. 15. Nov 2011
22:03:00    
thomas: hallo joy, i got home 3 hours ago, some tired i am now. i worry if i am able to work and if it will be much hard now after so long time vaccat
22:05:27    
thomas: ok, so i will go online 11.30 pm tomorrow. still I feel happy about you
IM 16:56:12. 16. Nov 2011
16:42:52    
joy: hi thomas how are u?
16:43:06    
joy: im online here since 9 pm
16:43:18    
thomas: ok
16:43:29    
thomas: you are invisible as of that i did not see
16:43:37    
thomas: I am ok
16:43:58    
thomas: the wound look a small little worse after the flight but that will recover again i guess
16:44:07    
joy: yes because i dont want to chat with anyone
16:44:30    
thomas: yes like my ex girlfriend
16:44:41    
joy: i see
16:45:03    
thomas: I can chat at lunch time on facebook at work
16:45:04    
joy: so hows your trip?
16:45:24    
joy: what time is your lunch time ?
16:45:24    
thomas: it was nice, i watched 4 nice movies in airplaine
16:45:38    
joy: thas good to hear
16:46:05    
thomas: one with julia roberts and i think tom hanks
16:46:09    
thomas: from 2011
16:47:05    
thomas: it was about a man in usa who loose his job in supermarket and then he finds a job in restaurant
16:47:38    
thomas: and despite he had now a less nice job he while the movie found out to live more nice despite of that
16:49:02    
thomas: he sould his car and bought a motorbike, sould his house and rent a small one and studied at university rethorik and econmy
16:49:32    
thomas: and found new friends at university it was really nice made
16:51:11    
joy: sounds nice movie
16:51:35    
joy: did you remember the title
16:51:36    
thomas: and it got me impressions that even someone like me have not a so nice job if then someone who has not a so nice job can despite of this is life nice thats cool and can be proud of that
16:52:28    
thomas: i have a medium job but i expected more to have
16:52:56    
thomas: and so even i have a medium job i feel me like one who have a low job
16:53:56    
thomas: one reason of that is also as in our office medium jobs are the lowest, as in our office are only medium jobs and higher jobs
16:54:35    
thomas: and as of that it feels in the office in a medium job to be a low one as there are no lower than me
16:55:02    
thomas: only a few are low jobs, less than 5 percent of the workers
16:55:52    
joy: well its not about having a low job or high job its about having a contentment
16:56:12    
thomas: yes
IM 17:13:19. 16. Nov 2011
16:56:13    
joy: of what we have
16:57:16    
joy: and you are lucky having that kind of job
16:58:28    
thomas: but i feel jelous to the others and think if i would have a job like them, the work would be less boring, the work would educate my brain and i would feel me important and then to work would be more nice
16:59:24    
thomas: yes partly i feel lucky about that the work is very easy and despite of that i get average salery
16:59:48    
joy: yes
17:00:10    
joy: compare to the people who dont have job right?
17:00:42    
thomas: hi hi, for part i feel jelous to the people who do not have work and live from gouvernment help
17:00:54    
thomas: they not must work and can do all day what they want
17:02:31    
thomas: they get 21000 p gouvernment help a month, gouvernment pays also for rent them a appartment with 3 rooms, treatment at doctors is free
17:02:55    
thomas: only they must apply 3 times a month for a job
17:03:15    
thomas: only the last topic disturbs me
17:03:51    
thomas: as the gouvernment help is not thought for long time, it is only thought to bridge the time till finding a new job
17:04:22    
thomas: but some live 10 or 20 years from gouvernment help
17:04:32    
thomas: and some all their life
17:04:55    
thomas: i wounder in most of that cases how that come
17:05:21    
joy: yes but compare to you still lucky because u get a salary 3x bigger than what they get from goverment
17:05:27    
thomas: and if they succeed to live so long from gouvernment help then i think my chance would be also not bad
17:06:38    
thomas: but i must work most days 8 hours and they not
17:07:52    
thomas: if they not have a car and buy cheap food and not often renovate the house and live economical the money is enough
17:08:35    
thomas: they must then stay at home or go only in park and can make only leisure activities which not cost money
17:09:08    
thomas: but if they have a nice wife which is contented with that such a life would be great
17:09:51    
thomas: as when i come home from work it is already half after 5 pm and the day is already nerly finished
17:10:03    
thomas: but they can enjoy the full day
17:10:40    
joy: its ok d
17:10:55    
joy: dont jealous to those people
17:11:02    
joy: u still luck
17:11:08    
joy: u still lucky
17:11:45    
thomas: i only feel scared that the people who live from gouvernment office are in duty to take any job which is offered to them or they can find
17:12:53    
thomas: and then they would must work a job only 48000 p a month if that is them offered
17:13:19    
thomas: and i could work 4 hours a day and would get same salery as them
IM 17:32:51. 16. Nov 2011
17:14:34    
thomas: but there are ways to cheat, they can act as stupid that they get dismissed soon again but must make to work stupid in a way that it is not obvios that this is with intention
17:16:33    
joy: i see here in the philippines and there is very different
17:16:58    
joy: so that i dont understand much the policy of the goverment there
17:16:58    
thomas: in filipines is not such a gouvernment help
17:17:18    
joy: yes exactly
17:17:33    
thomas: but then the advantage is on the other hand in filipines that taxes and public inshurance costs are not such high like in germany
17:17:57    
joy: yes
17:18:16    
joy: taxes here is only 12%
17:18:56    
thomas: also towards job income, if you earn 10000 p on job you must pay 12 percent income tax?
17:19:25    
thomas: and health inshurance is very cheap in filipines some women tould
17:20:37    
joy: no not in salary in salry i think 5% taxes its depend on how much your salary is
17:21:26    
thomas: in germany is also people with high salery must pay more percent income tax
17:21:45    
thomas: thats fair as they then still earn much more than the people with lower income
17:22:01    
joy: yes same here
17:22:17    
thomas: but 5 percent for a average salery as tax is very nice
17:22:55    
thomas: there is anyway more the problem that the saleries in basic are much low
17:23:11    
joy: yes
17:23:18    
joy: and speaking of salary
17:23:37    
joy: my parents didnt allow me to go to manila
17:23:55    
thomas: oh hm a pity
17:24:46    
thomas: you could work half year in your province and then can look after half year on your own for a job in manila as then you have own money
17:25:26    
joy: yes my mom decide not to find work in manila because they said if i will stay in manila it will cost big money
17:26:38    
thomas: you could sleep in a boarding house if you can sleep in room where are more people
17:27:05    
thomas: or stay at your relatives in paranaque if the job is not too far away
17:28:24    
joy: yes but still my mom didnt allow me they say i will let them go to manila if they have enough money to support me in manila
17:30:25    
thomas: or you can rent a appartment with a friend and then you share half
17:30:36    
joy: i fix all my requirements because i really want to work in mnila
17:31:30    
joy: in my aunts house they allow me to just pay 1500 for the appartment
17:31:56    
joy: but still my parents didnt allow me
17:32:51    
joy: honestly i really want to be independent that's why i really want to work far from them because im already 21 years old
IM 17:53:09. 16. Nov 2011
17:33:14    
thomas: you should try to find a job near of your aunts house, then you not need support when you have the job
17:33:17    
joy: i can live my life alone
17:34:20    
joy: yes that's my plan but then they dont want me to give any amount of money
17:34:30    
thomas: yes and after you lived alone even only 1 year your position towards your parents will be stronger
17:34:48    
thomas: even you after that live again in your parents house
17:35:00    
joy: yes
17:35:37    
joy: and i also plan to live in manila so that when you go back in april we can go anywhere without them
17:37:04    
thomas: yes
17:38:33    
thomas: thats really a need then next time that we can go often alone to park and sleep and stay together (without sex) in hotel to experience a full living together
17:39:34    
joy: yes
17:39:52    
joy: thats my plan
17:40:35    
joy: my mom makes me cry this morning because she shouted me when i insist
17:41:49    
joy: she said if i will not respect their decision i can go to manila but they can never support me financially there
17:42:48    
thomas: you need only support till you found the job or till you got first salery
17:43:05    
joy: i feel upset because im already 21 years old they trit me like a baby
17:44:03    
joy: its really hard to be a perfect daughter to them
17:45:24    
thomas: but aside from their giving you low freedom they are nice parents i think
17:46:12    
joy: yes they are very nice parents and i adore them being such a good parents
17:46:47    
joy: but they mus think that im not a 15 years girl anymore i have my own decision in my life
17:46:58    
joy: im getting older
17:47:04    
thomas: yes
17:47:28    
joy: all i need is their encouragement and financial support
17:47:41    
joy: so that i can reach my goal in life
17:48:03    
joy: im wasting my time only staying here in house doing nothing
17:50:21    
thomas: your life is nice like that people who live from gouvernment help
17:50:44    
thomas: but it will get harder to find job if you wait longer
17:51:04    
joy: when i was in college i really want to graduate fast so that i ca have my freedom to live on my own but then im still have no freedom
17:51:21    
thomas: yes
17:52:38    
joy: its make me feel sad
17:53:09    
thomas: can you lent a money from your aunt?
IM 18:16:28. 16. Nov 2011
17:53:24    
joy: yes
17:53:38    
thomas: but thats hard as they will with that undergo the will of your parents
17:54:41    
joy: yes.. and my parents will mad to my aunts
17:54:52    
thomas: yes
17:55:50    
joy: when im working my requirements i never ask them for money i used my own money from my atm
17:56:25    
joy: so that they can allow me to go to manila but them im wrong
17:59:27    
thomas: hm hard what you can do now
17:59:59    
joy: yes its really hard for me
18:04:40    
thomas: yes
18:05:35    
joy: but still i really try my best to be in manila
18:05:52    
thomas: hope much you succeed
18:06:10    
joy: yes thanks
18:06:42    
joy: what do you do now?
18:07:38    
thomas: Chatting with you and i looked if i find that article i did read at lunch time in english language about why women make sex
18:09:23    
joy: where di you read?
18:09:32    
joy: ^did
18:09:50    
thomas: a magzine asked 1000 women why they make sex and the result was that most women make not sex for to enjoy, they make it as duty or to make the relationship close but not for to enjoy
18:10:04    
thomas: that was a big surprise for me
18:10:46    
thomas: as it showes the difference in that between man and women about making sex is much bigger than i thought
18:11:45    
thomas: and they wrote women like to make sex rather when they have nothing important to do
18:12:15    
thomas: and 66 percent of all women make 1 times or less than a week sex
18:12:35    
joy: oh not bad
18:14:04    
thomas: and me i am much different, i want make sex with a pretty woman as often my bodey is able for that, and which is in my age every 2. day, when i was 35, i was every day able
18:15:07    
thomas: and that as a priority task even i have many other important task that day i not want miss to make sex if i have a pretty woman to do that and my bodey is again able for that
18:16:06    
thomas: and i think my attitude is the average for man and so there is a big difference between women and man in that
18:16:28    
joy: yes
IM 18:33:07. 16. Nov 2011
18:17:57    
joy: so you mean even if you and your ex girlfriend together and she dont want sex you find another girl to make sex with your?
18:18:27    
thomas: no, i found only my hand
18:19:39    
thomas: 2006 till 2007 i made 30 times sex with a other woman
18:20:14    
thomas: my girlfriend agreed
18:20:26    
thomas: and suggested to make sex with that woman
18:20:52    
joy: with a filipina also?
18:20:58    
thomas: yes
18:21:08    
thomas: that was a filipina
18:21:17    
joy: 30 filipinas?
18:21:24    
thomas: no one
18:21:39    
joy: in one filipina only?
18:21:56    
joy: that 30x with one filipina only?
18:22:02    
thomas: yes
18:22:10    
thomas: i was also always thinking about her to choose
18:22:24    
thomas: but i liked my ex girlfriend and the woman from antipolo more
18:22:44    
joy: she is from where?
18:22:50    
thomas: masbate
18:23:17    
joy: u still have communication till now?
18:23:58    
thomas: yes we still chat about once a month and also sent offline messages 2 times a month
18:24:30    
thomas: and i met her also in this vaccation again but we not made sex
18:24:50    
joy: why?
18:25:54    
thomas: hm she wanted only make sex if i decide me for her
18:26:54    
joy: decide you to choose her?
18:26:58    
thomas: yes
18:27:14    
joy: then why dont you choose her?
18:28:38    
thomas: as she has a child and as i liked my ex girlfriend and the woman from antipolo double more than her and thought maybe i find one other i like 1 and half more than her
18:29:30    
thomas: but on the other hand on her i have proof that she really likes me
18:30:03    
joy: oh that girl is the one who have one kid
18:31:32    
thomas: as she made sex without asking money for that in foreward and also there where a few situations in which it got obvious that she likes me much and also a friend of her tould me that she likes me much
18:33:07    
joy: hmmmm im speechless
IM 18:55:18. 16. Nov 2011
18:33:38    
joy: well
18:34:55    
joy: its up to you i may not know about sex without love because i only know that sex is making love because they love each other not just to enjoy their company
18:37:19    
thomas: my thinking is a man can love different women in more or less amount, i think up to 3 in one perioud of time like in 5 years and countinously
18:38:06    
thomas: I loved my exgirlfriend double and that woman 1 x
18:38:50    
thomas: and the woman from antipolo double too even i only huged her bodey like a friend maximum
18:39:35    
thomas: i not made sex without to have feelings for her too
18:39:47    
joy: i see
18:41:08    
thomas: but i can adjust to have only my wife as someone to make sex and to hug if my wife wants
18:41:41    
thomas: i not will feel in that a big decrease of freedom
18:42:26    
thomas: as if my wife in return then also makes sex and hug only with me
18:43:18    
thomas: i am more happy about her as if she makes sex and hug also with other 2 men like i would like to do if i have maximum freedom
18:43:58    
thomas: also if we live in germany i any way can not find a other pretty woman except my wife who wants to make sex with me too
18:45:51    
joy: i really dont understand honestly
18:46:53    
joy: well if someday even if we are married then you want another girl maybe im not the right girl for you
18:47:27    
joy: i cant tolerate that kind of relationship
18:48:39    
thomas: yes that i expected that you not can tolerate me to have other woman as additional lover
18:48:47    
thomas: but i can agree
18:48:58    
thomas: it is not a big loss for me to have no addtional lover
18:49:05    
joy: sorry but this my own opinion if i were your ex gf that time i will not allow you to make sex with other girl because i really love you i cannot take that my bf had sex with other girl
18:50:23    
thomas: thats ok, most women have same opinion like you
18:51:07    
thomas: if you then also not make sex with other man as addtional i have a reward for my less freedom
18:51:52    
joy: you get my point? if your ex girlfriend really loves you? she never allow you to have sex with another woman its a big sign that she never loves you
18:52:58    
joy: ofcourse if i will be your gf i will stick to you no other man because relationship create only by two people not three or four
18:53:17    
thomas: but i made sex with a other woman and loved my ex girlfriend very much still
18:54:26    
joy: no comment about that if that's your belief
18:54:43    
joy: its only my own opinion
18:55:01    
joy: anyway can i tell you honestly?
18:55:18    
thomas: yes
IM 19:12:40. 16. Nov 2011
18:56:36    
joy: if someday you will choose me as your gf think many times if are you willing to give all your girls
18:57:32    
joy: because if you will be my bf i will give my 90% of my love to you
18:57:59    
joy: no other guy in my life only you
18:58:21    
joy: i will do everything to make you happy
18:58:50    
thomas: thats then a big reward for my give up the idea to have a 2. lover
19:00:25    
joy: but then if you will choose me as your gf then you will have sex with other woman maybe im not a right girl for you because honestly i cannot tolerate that kind of setup of relationship so its up to take it or leave it
19:00:48    
joy: im very honest to you
19:01:25    
thomas: yes i will honest accept that
19:02:08    
thomas: if you not allow me to have a lover, i will agree and also not will have one in hide
19:02:47    
thomas: anyway i would worry already on myself if we could hold that relationship i would cosider as ideal, i have my wife and 2 lovers and my wife have me as husband and 2 lovers
19:03:35    
thomas: i worry it can happen that some day my wife love one of her lovers more than me and she will leave me and i will loose a lot of money
19:04:24    
thomas: that kind relationship was the idea of the hippie time
19:04:38    
thomas: but most people who tried that failed in that
19:05:12    
thomas: so i am already on myself unshure if that is too risky to try such a triangle relationship
19:05:59    
joy: well if thats your ideal relationship someday im really sorry i cannot accept that kind of relationship im not a right girl for you
19:06:03    
thomas: and if my wife is already decided for 1 : 1 its really ok and i will never mind that
19:06:35    
thomas: its the ideal relationship like the ideal woman for me is britney spears
19:07:05    
joy: honestly i am very dissapointed now
19:07:33    
thomas: hm i worried that could happen
19:08:11    
thomas: i wanted to tell that you know everything about me that we can get closer
19:08:26    
thomas: that you understand the way how i think
19:08:47    
joy: if you will be my bf someday its so unfair on my part that i truely love you then you have another woman i cannot imagine your ex gf tolerate you such kind of relationship
19:09:26    
joy: yes i still understand you
19:09:40    
thomas: its really not that i consider that as disatvantage of you that you want only 1 : 1
19:09:54    
joy: im only dissapointed but my feelings towards you nothing has change
19:10:17    
thomas: the less freedom makes the higher safety of the relationship equal
19:11:42    
thomas: for a life in germany i prefere anyway alreaday on myself a 1 : 1 relationship as my wife will have in germany much more pretty admirers than i will have pretty admirers
19:12:09    
thomas: and my worry is in germany big that my wife could leave me
19:12:19    
joy: i hope you get my point im sorry if i really cannot accept your ideal relationship
19:12:40    
thomas: and that risk is higher in a 1 :3 -1:3 relationship addtional
IM 19:36:19. 16. Nov 2011
19:13:19    
joy: i want my future bf im the only girl on his life
19:13:46    
thomas: that would be ok for me
19:14:19    
thomas: also you are much younger than me what makes me additional happy
19:15:43    
joy: but im not your ideal gf and i feel sorry for that
19:16:22    
thomas: the ideal girlfriend i anyway not can find
19:16:40    
thomas: as ideal is too much to find in this world of competition
19:17:54    
joy: i mean the right girl for you
19:18:35    
thomas: ideal would be a woman looking like britney spears, also she should be rich, charming and very talkactive like my exgirlfriend and despite of that like me as the closest friend
19:19:33    
thomas: hm oh, i think you are a right girl for me
19:20:44    
joy: i will be right right girl for you if you will love me no other woman
19:21:41    
thomas: i will promise you if i choose you that i will have no other woman
19:23:01    
joy: i bet you will not choose me because i know you dont want my opinion in terms of relationship
19:23:15    
joy: :
19:25:52    
thomas: thats not a creteria not to choose a woman
19:26:27    
thomas: thats a so far side topic
19:27:10    
thomas: first important is for 50 percent that the woman is pretty and interesting
19:27:52    
thomas: first important is for the other 50 percent that the woman likes me a lot, more than any other man
19:29:29    
thomas: 3. important is that we can some day a way of life in which i not need to work too much, i want work only 4 or 5 hours a day after 5 years
19:31:14    
joy: well
19:31:30    
thomas: the 3. important is so important for me that already this 3. aim would need make let me give up the aim to have a 2. lover as the 2. lover want also money
19:31:36    
joy: thats very nice if that would happened
19:32:17    
thomas: and to have a 2. lover would make the relationship with my life maybe anyway too risky already in my opinion
19:33:22    
joy: do you want to know honestly my opinion?
19:33:31    
thomas: yes
19:34:47    
joy: if you really prefer to have a 2 lover when you finally decide to choose me stop communucating me because if i will be your gf i will not allow you to have another woman
19:36:19    
thomas: i not prefere
IM 19:58:15. 16. Nov 2011
19:37:16    
joy: im really sorry thomas i just really want to be honest
19:37:37    
joy: because i dont want to break my heart again
19:38:00    
thomas: I only wanted to be honest not to convince you, only to for to get know how i think
19:38:55    
thomas: both are equal options in a basic plan, to have wife and lover or to have only wife
19:39:11    
thomas: i consider the one not better than the other
19:39:31    
thomas: only in ideal relationship would be to have wife and love better
19:40:15    
thomas: but the ideal in this world only 1 can find, not the 30000000 other man not as we live in a world of competition
19:40:35    
thomas: so i never consider the ideal as option
19:41:25    
joy: ok well thats good
19:45:08    
thomas: if you want go sleep, just tell as in your place its very late now
19:45:55    
thomas: we can chat every day at 7.20 pm your time
19:45:58    
thomas: at facebook
19:46:20    
joy: yes its ok i sleep 6 pm a while a go
19:46:31    
joy: and woke up around 9 pm
19:47:01    
joy: ok i will wait for you every 7:30 pm on facebook
19:47:51    
thomas: we can fix agree 7.20, somtimes i ready already 7.15
19:48:10    
thomas: as at 7 my lunch break starts, only i need finish prepairing my food
19:48:15    
thomas: which takes about 15 min
19:48:47    
thomas: and i am limited in the time to chat as i need work after lunch break again
19:49:10    
joy: no its ok atleast we chat even in a short time
19:49:41    
thomas: ok
19:50:10    
thomas: I need go to rest room and will prepair a food to eat, i will be back in 5 min
19:50:14    
thomas: ah 10 min
19:50:33    
joy: ok take your time
19:50:37    
thomas: i just will bring bread and bananas
19:50:55    
joy: ok eat well
19:57:20    
thomas: thanks, i am back
19:57:28    
joy: so fast
19:58:06    
thomas: yes bread is easy to prepair and bananas too
19:58:15    
joy: i see
IM 20:22:22. 16. Nov 2011
19:58:41    
joy: im reading now the successful love story in cupids
19:59:05    
joy: they look very happy and inlove with each other
20:01:19    
thomas: i want read it soon too, hope i not forget
20:02:18    
joy: yes u must read it sometimes i get jealous to them because they seems very happt to their bf and husband
20:04:22    
thomas: the start of relationship is not the most important, the most important is the main time in the 3. till 15. year
20:05:14    
joy: yes i think so
20:07:34    
thomas: here is the article about why women make sex
20:07:37    
thomas: http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2009/sep/28/sex-women-relationships-tanya-gold
20:07:53    
thomas: i found it now in english
20:08:55    
joy: ok i will read it tomorow if we are not chatting
20:10:42    
joy: sounds interisting
20:10:58    
joy: aside from me you chat other girls?
20:13:22    
thomas: with 2 others i chat 3 till 5 sentences but its already finished
20:13:47    
thomas: and you?
20:14:30    
thomas: ah that article is not the one which was so interesting
20:14:34    
joy: only you since i am invisible
20:14:40    
thomas: i will search again
20:15:02    
joy: oh isee
20:20:13    
joy: thomas i read the first part
20:20:30    
joy: but it makes me fall asleep
20:21:13    
joy: i need to sleep now
20:21:37    
joy: because when i saw the time its already 3:23 am here
20:21:45    
joy: will chat to you again tomorow
20:21:46    
joy: ok
20:21:51    
joy: good night
20:21:52    
thomas: ok
20:21:58    
joy: hugs and kisses
20:21:59    
thomas: good night
20:22:10    
thomas: hugs and kisses
20:22:22    
joy: i still have cough
IM 20:42:08. 16. Nov 2011
20:22:34    
joy: so its make me hard to sleep
20:22:56    
thomas: it can take up to 2 weeks
20:23:07    
joy: yes maybe
20:23:10    
thomas: till it goes away
20:23:16    
joy: yes
20:24:16    
joy: i just want you to know that even i am dissapointed about what you say a while a go my feelings for you still the sa,
20:24:18    
joy: same
20:24:35    
thomas: nice
20:25:04    
joy: yes because i understand what your point
20:25:14    
thomas: i am happy if you still like me when you know me fully
20:26:04    
joy: yes i still like you and i hope you still like me too even if i discuss my own opinion to you
20:26:20    
joy: i really want to be honest to you
20:26:31    
thomas: yes i still like you very much
20:26:58    
joy: that would be nice
20:28:59    
thomas: and to be the only one for you is very special and would make that equal to have for this only one but a very special one
20:30:00    
joy: yes
20:30:19    
joy: and i hope you understand what i mean
20:30:30    
thomas: yes
20:30:51    
joy: i cant be your ex gf and im sorry for that
20:32:08    
thomas: to be my ex girlfiend not helps me much as its only ex
20:32:55    
joy: because i still feel that you still inlove with your ex gf
20:34:36    
thomas: i still like her a lot
20:36:44    
joy: yes i know that
20:37:09    
joy: well i need to sleep talk to you tomorow
20:37:15    
joy: take care
20:37:19    
thomas: ok
20:37:30    
thomas: have nice sleep
20:37:35    
joy: you too
20:37:39    
thomas: good night
20:42:08    
thomas: thats the article http://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudreau/2011/11/08/women-have-sex-out-of-obligation/
IM 11:11:26. 19. Nov 2011
11:10:55    
thomas: hallo joy, just tell then when you are available to chat
11:11:26    
thomas: i sleeped long today usually i never sleep so long
IM 12:57:06. 19. Nov 2011
12:42:46    
joy: hi thomas how are you?
12:43:13    
thomas: I am ok
12:43:30    
thomas: I am delighted that you chat with me
12:43:49    
thomas: i worried that you was online but you not responsed
12:44:19    
thomas: first you had sign away but later you changed and still not responsed
12:44:32    
thomas: and later you put sign away again
12:45:04    
joy: i wait for you since 4 pm then you are not online so i decided to be away and go outside
12:45:54    
thomas: ah ok, thats nice and not matters me
12:46:15    
thomas: yes i am sorry i not expected that i sleep so long
12:46:31    
joy: its ok..
12:46:34    
thomas: i not put a clock as i nearly always wake up at 8 am anyway
12:46:34    
joy: dont worry
12:47:17    
thomas: and i not mind if you go outside some times even when i am available for chat
12:47:25    
thomas: as we anyway can not chat all time
12:48:15    
thomas: its only we know each other shourt time and then even a little matter can make me worry you could have lost interest in me
12:48:44    
joy: why did you say that?
12:48:52    
joy: you dont have trust with me?
12:49:19    
thomas: hm
12:49:33    
thomas: i trust you in some amount
12:49:58    
thomas: i expect you will be loyal to your boyfriend and husband
12:50:50    
joy: yes
12:50:56    
joy: ofcourse i will
12:51:10    
thomas: and i expect a good chance that you till april will be still much interested to meet me in a big amount
12:51:47    
thomas: also i expect that it was honest what you tould, everything you tould
12:52:02    
joy: yes i mean it
12:53:31    
thomas: also i expect it was honest that you tould that you want be very close now only with me and only i not choose you you will try get closer with other man
12:56:00    
joy: yes
12:56:02    
thomas: but i think sometimes a little that this was honest now but maybe the situation change as you get new information and ideas about me or about a other man and you could change in this, how you think about that to be close with me and other man
12:56:50    
thomas: to worry is normal, hope you think not too bad about me as of that
12:57:06    
thomas: as we know each other only short time yet
IM 13:06:17. 19. Nov 2011
12:57:11    
joy: i never think bad about you
12:57:58    
thomas: nice
12:58:39    
thomas: my brother comes now with his son to visit my parents
12:59:03    
thomas: and my parents always delighted to see the son of my brother
13:00:30    
thomas: I need go in the next 30 min to join talking as i meet him the first time after my vaccation
13:00:49    
joy: yes you can go
13:00:51    
joy: its ok
13:01:00    
thomas: he yesterday called and invited to visit him but that time he not knew he will visit my parents
13:03:18    
joy: i see
13:03:27    
joy: so u must join them
13:03:51    
thomas: i could wait 10 min
13:04:04    
thomas: as i not join eating as i did eat just 1 hour ago as i got up late
13:04:39    
thomas: what did you do yesterday evening and today?
13:04:53    
thomas: you was outside, where did you go?
13:05:31    
joy: in the evening i sleep early because my cough is worser
13:05:59    
thomas: I go now, my father asked to come
13:06:11    
joy: ok sure
13:06:17    
joy: bye for now
IM 13:30:28. 19. Nov 2011
13:27:45    
thomas: Hallo joy, i will go online in a hour again
13:28:03    
joy: its ok
13:28:06    
joy: i will wait
13:28:09    
joy: if i can
13:29:13    
thomas: if you leave, sent a message, when you come online again, as then till 11.30 pm your time i can go online any time then
13:29:44    
joy: ok..
13:29:55    
joy: sure i will leave mgs before i go offline
13:30:00    
joy: take care
13:30:20    
thomas: ok, take care
13:30:28    
joy: ok
IM 14:59:29. 19. Nov 2011
14:34:54    
joy: thomas i will go now as my caough getting worser..i need to go to sleep i will online tomorw again at 4 pm again.. hope to you then bye for now hugs and kisses
14:41:45    
thomas: ok, look foreward to chat you tomorrow. I need then at 5 pm go too, there is a chess turnament today in evening. Hugs and kisses
14:42:55    
joy: ok take care
14:43:01    
joy: good luck then
14:43:07    
joy: miss you
14:43:46    
thomas: thanks, have a nice sleep
14:44:08    
thomas: miss you
14:45:24    
joy: ok then enjoy your chatting with the girls
14:45:28    
joy: hehe lols
14:46:49    
thomas: i not found any yet and i not expect i there will reveal one with her i can similar much talk like with you
14:47:03    
thomas: if you like we can still chat some time now
14:47:25    
thomas: but just decide how it is most convenient for you
14:47:32    
thomas: as tomorrow is also a lot time to chat
14:48:33    
thomas: when i was at my brother and sister now i noticed it is very special if i find someone with whom i can talk much
14:48:44    
joy: yes we can chat now but in 15 mins i have to go
14:48:59    
thomas: as i even with my sister and brother can not talk much usually
14:49:20    
thomas: as i am a not much talkactive person usually
14:49:26    
joy: maybe im the one
14:50:57    
thomas: yes maybe and not maybe only i am expecting you are a special person on which we special fit as friends and as of that can talk relatively much compare to the fact that i am a not talkactive person
14:51:12    
thomas: yes ok we can chat 15 min
14:51:41    
joy: yes ok..
14:51:58    
joy: its ok if you treat me as special friend
14:52:26    
thomas: thats the first step for hope more later
14:52:39    
joy: yes!
14:53:36    
thomas: do you have a own sleeping room?
14:56:33    
joy: take one step at time there's no need to rush its like falling inlove its gonna happen and its supposed to happen that we find the reasons why
14:56:50    
joy: i dont have i sleep with my sister and cousin
14:58:23    
thomas: i not yet did see your sleeping room i guess
14:59:04    
thomas: and your parents sleep in other sleeping room, so you have 2 sleeping rooms in house?
14:59:29    
joy: yes we have two
IM 15:14:58. 19. Nov 2011
14:59:41    
thomas: do you have aircondition in your sleeping room or fan?
14:59:59    
joy: aircon and fan
15:02:03    
thomas: i experienced its good for caough to make aircon only little cold and make the fan not drectly to the bodey and also only lowest bodey
15:02:24    
joy: yes
15:02:32    
joy: thanks for the concern
15:03:11    
thomas: and i put the fan in away that the air first hit the wall or funiture and then at 2. the slow moving air hits the bodey and makes then still a little cold which was enough for me
15:03:31    
thomas: yes i noticed biggest reason for me get cough in filipines was aircon or fan
15:03:48    
joy: yes same here
15:06:41    
thomas: tomorrow i will colect apples in the garden, hope there are much
15:07:05    
joy: wow in your garden?
15:07:06    
joy: nice
15:07:19    
thomas: as it gets now in night below zero degrees and make the apple faster destroy
15:08:00    
thomas: but it had already below zero degrees last night, maybe they are already in condition that they only able to store 2 weeks
15:08:22    
thomas: yes we have 5 apple trees in garden
15:08:24    
joy: wow i love apple
15:08:43    
thomas: also i plant 2 young apple trees but takes long time till they give apples too
15:09:09    
thomas: apples are the most efficient fruit in germany
15:09:18    
joy: can you send my apple? hehe
15:09:36    
joy:
15:09:38    
thomas: apple trees needs no care and they give much yield
15:10:11    
joy: i see
15:11:35    
thomas: the weather is sunny today and a little less cold, that did pleased me, hope its tomorrow same as then i want spent time outside to collect apples
15:12:43    
joy: ok.. give me apples.. huh?
15:13:07    
thomas: and want use the swing of my sisters daughter
15:13:14    
thomas: and i also sometimes like to swing
15:13:59    
thomas: yes if i could, sent you an apple
15:14:03    
joy: i love swing also
15:14:17    
thomas: hi hi funny, you are like me
15:14:26    
joy: ofcourse u can
15:14:58    
joy: sometimes its nice to be like a kids though hihihi
IM 15:29:26. 19. Nov 2011
15:15:06    
thomas: yes
15:15:17    
joy: i love it
15:15:33    
thomas: it was the nices time in my life when i was till 5 years
15:15:46    
thomas: as of that i find parts of being kid still cool
15:15:54    
joy: yes
15:15:58    
joy: me also
15:17:29    
thomas: then when i was 7 all former kinds of playing got boring or at least less interesting and i hardly found new similar enjoying activities like it was before
15:17:52    
thomas: also i did not like go to school but it was a must
15:17:52    
joy: oh really?
15:18:15    
joy: being a kids was absolutely funny and happy
15:18:52    
thomas: in kindergarden i had friends but in school they where not there anymore
15:19:30    
thomas: and i did not know how to make friends and so i decided not to try to make friends and so i was a lonely person in school till i was 18
15:20:41    
thomas: but also i was most times more or less boring the activities in school to learn this things which is task to learn in school
15:22:06    
joy: yes but i love school
15:22:21    
joy: i dont want to miss class
15:22:25    
thomas: oh, in this we are different then
15:22:41    
joy: so even if im sick i still want to go to school
15:22:53    
joy: yes
15:23:07    
joy: i love learning in school
15:23:25    
thomas: wow, so at least some people like school, like you
15:24:03    
joy: yes
15:24:08    
thomas: i thought always 90 percent of the things are teached in school is completely useless you only learn to get marks and then for to forget again
15:24:53    
joy: its up to the student if they will easily can forgot the lesson
15:25:41    
thomas: so they could reduce the things teached to 1/10 to only to the things which are usefull, then life would be nice as pupil, to have lessons only 2 hours a day
15:26:35    
thomas: and then also they could decrease the time going to school instead 12 years it could be 6 years
15:27:09    
joy: yes but then
15:27:26    
joy: its not good to those student who is slow learner
15:28:04    
thomas: hm up to the pupils, thats normal to forget 90 percent of what someone learns if he not can use it later
15:28:48    
joy: yes your right in some point
15:29:26    
thomas: for a part school is good to learn skills
IM 15:32:41. 19. Nov 2011
15:29:40    
thomas: but school is so inefficient for this matter
15:30:12    
joy: yes
15:30:18    
joy: i have to go thomas
15:30:25    
thomas: ok
15:30:34    
joy: its already 10:30 pm here
15:30:41    
joy: bye for now
15:30:47    
thomas: bye
15:30:47    
joy: take care
15:30:51    
thomas: take care
15:31:10    
thomas: hugs to you
15:31:17    
joy: hugs and kisses
15:31:36    
thomas: miss you
15:31:48    
joy: miss you more thomas
15:32:35    
thomas: good night
15:32:41    
joy: ok
IM 14:22:45. 20. Nov 2011
14:07:04    
joy: hi thomas
14:07:09    
joy: im sorry
14:07:14    
joy: i have fever
14:07:19    
thomas: Hallo joy
14:07:27    
thomas: thats ok that you come later
14:07:27    
joy: so i online very late
14:07:41    
thomas: we can not chat all time
14:08:06    
thomas: I was 40 min today later gone online too as i sleeped relatively long today again
14:08:19    
joy: its ok
14:09:52    
thomas: you sleeped longer today?
14:10:25    
joy: yes
14:10:33    
joy: as i have fever and cough
14:10:51    
joy: i really force my self to be online just to chat with you
14:12:45    
thomas: i all days gone to work in the last 10 years while i had cough
14:13:05    
thomas: but i never had fever as addtional
14:13:27    
thomas: as i thought it just takes 1 till 2 weeks till it pass anyway
14:13:43    
thomas: how many days you have already cough?
14:14:22    
thomas: I shall tell you greetings from my friend Klaus, the one who will soon marry a filipina
14:14:56    
joy: since you left i already have cough
14:15:09    
joy: what did he say?
14:15:37    
thomas: he asked about me and you
14:16:42    
thomas: and just said tell greeting to her from me
14:17:29    
joy: i see
14:18:52    
joy: tell him my advance wishes to them
14:19:37    
thomas: advance wishes is not clear for me
14:19:42    
thomas: for christmas?
14:20:00    
joy: yes
14:22:17    
thomas: did you already eat dinner?
14:22:29    
joy: not yet
14:22:45    
joy: because i chat you first
IM 14:40:13. 20. Nov 2011
14:23:34    
thomas: just eat when its convenient for you i must prepair lunch for me too
14:24:57    
joy: ok
14:26:41    
thomas: do you eat now already or in some minutes?
14:27:27    
joy: i will eat later
14:27:36    
joy: when you prepared your foods
14:28:20    
thomas: oh in half hour or earlier, just when it fits to you, it takes only 10 min
14:29:22    
joy: its ok
14:29:38    
joy: anyway i will miss you
14:29:42    
joy: because
14:29:59    
joy: maybe in a weeks time i will go to manila
14:30:17    
joy: i cant really chat you regularly
14:30:22    
thomas: wow
14:30:33    
thomas: we can adjust
14:31:11    
joy: how?
14:31:11    
thomas: i was thinking also if i should sent you a gift with xoom or like such a site as i forgot to give you when we met
14:32:06    
thomas: hm, probably we can then cat only saturday and sunday
14:32:09    
joy: what gift?
14:32:17    
joy: hmm.. yes
14:32:25    
thomas: as at 7.20 pm you will be in jeapney still probably
14:32:41    
thomas: for stay in your house it saved me some money
14:33:57    
thomas: maybe you could need it if i sent you 2000 p or 3000 p for looking for a job
14:34:26    
joy: you dont have to send
14:35:10    
thomas: also it would be a profen record that we know each other since 2011
14:37:14    
thomas: did your parents now more agree that you work in manila?
14:38:04    
joy: yes its another record that we meet since 2011
14:38:25    
joy: she didnt agree but i cry in front of them just to allow me there
14:39:18    
joy: i force them to allow me with condition that they will only give me 2000
14:39:45    
joy: no internet no anything
14:39:55    
thomas: and you think 2000 will be enough to succeed
14:40:13    
joy: ofcourse its not enough
IM 14:53:47. 20. Nov 2011
14:40:17    
thomas: you must find a job and then survive 1 month of working till you get salery
14:40:32    
joy: because i need to travel to find work
14:40:56    
joy: they really dis agree
14:41:32    
thomas: hm
14:42:06    
thomas: thats really strange that your parents not help you to work in manila
14:42:23    
thomas: its just 2 hours travel away and also you have relatives in paranaque
14:42:51    
thomas: i know some chatmates who are from masbate or leyte who went to manila for working
14:43:36    
thomas: more they are friends of a friend but also partly they are chatmates
14:43:59    
thomas: one woman rent a room now for 2000 p a month
14:44:08    
joy: ytes
14:44:10    
joy: yes
14:44:16    
thomas: and there is also a oportunity to cook
14:44:32    
thomas: i admired a lot 2000 p a month
14:44:34    
joy: you know that from the start right? that they dont like me to work in manila
14:44:50    
thomas: if i could rent a room for 2000 p a month in my vaccation my holiday would been much cheaper
14:45:16    
joy: yes same as on my aunties house
14:45:27    
joy: i just need 1500 for the room
14:45:31    
thomas: you tould they worry that it could be dangerous in manila
14:47:36    
thomas: but as long as you not find a job they must carry your monthly expenses
14:48:04    
thomas: as of that it would be normal that they much would like that you find a job
14:49:06    
joy: they want to carry my monthly expenses
14:49:22    
joy: just to stay with them
14:51:24    
thomas: thats on one side very nice
14:52:05    
thomas: but probably not a solutioun for always also it would be a pity as of your very nice education
14:52:56    
joy: yes
14:53:03    
thomas: or you really find a job near of …. in it if you search long enough, then you would not need rent a room and food would be cheaper in your parents house
14:53:10    
joy: and i really want to be successful in life
14:53:16    
thomas: but in manila you would probably find a better job
14:53:40    
joy: yes
14:53:47    
joy: compare here in laguna
IM 15:17:07. 20. Nov 2011
14:54:54    
thomas: I go now cooking a food, will come back in 10 minutes
14:55:51    
joy: ok
14:55:56    
joy: take your time
15:02:59    
thomas: i am back
15:03:24    
thomas: its now already 10 pm in your country and you not yet did eat lunch
15:03:51    
joy: i mean dinner
15:03:52    
thomas: its a little bad for health to eat late in night
15:03:59    
thomas: ah yes dinner
15:04:20    
thomas: but thats late for dinner
15:04:34    
thomas: my ex girlfriend also did often eat late dinner
15:05:06    
thomas: i try to eat dinner not later than 8 pm
15:05:50    
joy: i will eat
15:06:02    
joy: because i need to drink medicine
15:06:06    
joy: as i have fever
15:06:17    
thomas: which kind of medicine you take?
15:07:07    
joy: for fever and cough
15:08:04    
thomas: how is the name of the medicine?
15:10:01    
joy: ambroxol amblopine
15:10:12    
thomas: how much is the degree of your fever?
15:10:26    
joy: 29
15:10:52    
thomas: you mean 39?
15:14:30    
joy: yes
15:14:46    
joy: sorry i get some water
15:14:57    
thomas: ok
15:16:08    
joy: you eat now?
15:17:07    
thomas: in 15 min, it will be ready cook
IM 15:28:00. 20. Nov 2011
15:17:34    
joy: ok
15:18:14    
joy: thomas i need to go i really need to go because im not really feeling well
15:18:30    
joy: will chat to you at facebook tomorow
15:18:43    
joy: i will miss you
15:18:56    
thomas: ok
15:19:10    
joy: enjoy your lunch
15:19:12    
thomas: yes you seemed not much talkactive today
15:19:26    
joy: im sorry i cannot stay longer
15:19:28    
thomas: thanks
15:19:36    
thomas: thats ok
15:19:52    
thomas: i am happy already if we chat just often
15:20:03    
joy: yes im no much talk active now because im sick and i feel sorry for that
15:20:26    
thomas: have nice sleep
15:20:36    
thomas: miss you
15:20:48    
joy: miss you too
15:21:34    
joy: chat to you then tomorow n facebook
15:22:07    
thomas: ok, look foreward to chat you then in my lunch break
15:22:23    
joy: ok bye for now
15:22:28    
thomas: bye
15:23:06    
thomas: ambroxol is a light medicine as far as i see
15:23:49    
joy: u research?
15:24:07    
thomas: yes
15:24:14    
thomas: i searched a little in internet
15:24:52    
thomas: it makes the cover liquid in the moth and below and in the nose maybe too more liquid
15:25:23    
thomas: it is not a antibiotika
15:25:35    
thomas: it is rather a light medicine
15:25:46    
joy: yes its maybe
15:25:57    
joy: but i drink another one
15:27:29    
thomas: the 2. word is it amlodipine?
15:28:00    
joy: yes
IM 15:35:03. 20. Nov 2011
15:31:35    
thomas: hm that we chat tomorrow
15:31:42    
thomas: confunsing now to find about that
15:33:10    
joy: ok.. so i will go now
15:33:15    
joy: take care thomas
15:33:17    
joy: bye
15:35:03    
thomas: ok, bye
IM 13:50:14. 27. Nov 2011
13:37:49    
joy: hello thomas
13:37:53    
joy: how are u?
13:38:09    
thomas: Hallo joy, i am ok
13:38:29    
joy: thats good
13:38:55    
joy: have you eat your lunch?
13:38:57    
thomas: yesterday i was in forest with the husband of my sister and one of their children from gouvernment care they takeing care off
13:39:19    
thomas: not yet as i did eat later breakfast as i got up at 9 am today only
13:39:37    
joy: i see
13:39:41    
joy: good for you
13:40:00    
joy: how's your day today?
13:40:34    
thomas: it was ok, nice that its sunday and no need to work
13:41:08    
thomas: the sun is shining today even it is only 10 degrees, i want later go a little into garden to swin and walk a little arround
13:41:45    
thomas: i was just chatting today a litte with not any big success
13:42:36    
joy: i see
13:42:51    
joy: well its cool enjoy your swimming huh?
13:43:09    
joy: dont be too hurry
13:43:16    
joy: you will find soon
13:43:31    
thomas: swing only, swim i can not still as of my wound
13:44:06    
thomas: i was chatting with 2 women which i put in 2. group of interesting
13:44:17    
joy: haha.. sorry swing
13:44:36    
thomas: as if found them a little less pretty than the other ones but still would be enough pretty
13:45:05    
thomas: and one i did chat now first time and then we where not able to chat much
13:45:35    
thomas: and a other one we chat before 2 times there in average amount but today we did not know much topics to chat
13:45:51    
joy: oh i see
13:45:54    
joy: well
13:45:59    
joy: just chill
13:46:32    
joy: dont loose hope though
13:47:52    
thomas: yes thats just normal to get only with some close in chatting as the personality and interests must fit
13:49:06    
thomas: you are still the only one with her i am able to chat much
13:50:14    
joy: well its good to hear
IM 14:09:08. 27. Nov 2011
13:50:42    
joy: so sad we are not able to see each other often
13:50:57    
thomas: yes
13:51:58    
joy: but its ok
13:52:07    
joy: as long as we can chat here often
13:53:27    
thomas: yes and april is not so far, will be after some months
13:53:52    
joy: yes
13:54:12    
joy: but i hope you dont have gf that time or i dont have bf that time
13:56:23    
thomas: If i ask a woman to be my girlfriend before i visit filipines i expect only you it could be
13:57:37    
thomas: a other one i will not ask to be my girlfriend before i tried to get know you more and spent much time with you
13:58:46    
joy: yes
13:58:57    
joy: bu i hope its not too late for us
13:59:10    
joy: but dont worry like what i said i stick to you
14:00:45    
thomas: why you worry it could be too late for us?
14:01:12    
joy: well will never know
14:01:31    
joy: what if you find much better than me
14:02:29    
thomas: I worry too that i could loose that chance of you
14:02:46    
thomas: a little i worry
14:03:01    
thomas: thats normal to worry a little
14:03:13    
joy: yes ofcourse
14:03:24    
joy: but you dont have to worry
14:03:39    
joy: if i will find someone else i will tell you
14:04:16    
thomas: I would tell it you too if i find someone else
14:05:27    
thomas: Its considering that a pity that its some months till april and we can not meet before
14:06:17    
joy: yes
14:06:37    
joy: but thats ok hope we can see each other in april
14:07:51    
thomas: yes
14:08:42    
thomas: What did you do today?
14:08:53    
joy: well a lot
14:09:03    
joy: cleaning the house
14:09:08    
joy: washing dishes
IM 14:34:24. 27. Nov 2011
14:09:18    
joy: i cook food
14:09:31    
joy: for lunch and dinner
14:11:21    
thomas: oh yes it got some late already
14:11:51    
thomas: i will prepair my lunch and will come back in 10 min
14:12:15    
joy: ok
14:12:16    
joy: sure
14:19:25    
thomas: i am back
14:20:34    
thomas: i still eat every day the spicy from you
14:20:37    
joy: ok
14:20:49    
joy: wow really?
14:21:07    
thomas: and that too remembers me every day on you
14:21:11    
thomas: yes
14:21:24    
thomas: there still 20 left
14:21:45    
joy: haha.. great you never forget me
14:22:25    
thomas: and our storage room is cold now in winter so it can be stored long
14:23:17    
joy: yes
14:23:49    
thomas: did you applied already sometimes for a job?
14:24:17    
joy: no as my parents dont allow me to go anywhere
14:24:21    
joy: i want in manila
14:26:45    
thomas: if you apply, do you write the letters in tagalog or in english?
14:27:07    
joy: in english
14:27:25    
thomas: wow
14:27:35    
joy: yes
14:29:34    
thomas: is it sometimes possible to apply online?
14:31:17    
joy: yes
14:31:52    
joy: but then when they call you you must be their for an interview and exams
14:32:54    
thomas: i got idea you could sent apply to me and then i could ask at office for work how are your chances to find job in germany
14:34:24    
joy: you mean i will send you my resume?
IM 14:43:20. 27. Nov 2011
14:36:44    
thomas: yes but lets do it later better maybe its critical datas
14:37:26    
joy: yes
14:37:39    
joy: and i need to have a work experience here
14:38:23    
thomas: yes
14:39:32    
joy: yes
14:40:00    
joy: anyway thomas my sis is here she will do her assignment
14:40:16    
joy: i have to go now
14:40:28    
joy: and chat to you next time
14:40:47    
thomas: ok
14:40:48    
joy: you are not online yesterday i wait for you to be online
14:41:28    
thomas: i succeeded only in evening to make a internet connection
14:41:34    
joy: oh
14:41:36    
joy: ok
14:41:39    
joy: its ok
14:41:45    
joy: anyway bye for now
14:41:56    
joy: chat to you again next time
14:42:55    
thomas: ok, 7.20 pm till 8.30 pm you time we can chat at work days at face book
14:43:20    
thomas: bye
IM 11:06:02. 3. Dez 2011
10:41:47    
thomas: Hallo joy, how are you?
10:43:08    
joy: Im ok i just went to the wedding nw
10:43:21    
joy: Im using my ph0ne nw to chat
10:43:44    
thomas: oh, i remember the wedding of my brother
10:44:04    
thomas: there was nice weather and it was some nice to stay there on the party
10:45:27    
joy: Yes its true when i was in the recepti0n a while a go i dream to have that wedding s0meday simple but elegant
10:45:59    
thomas: do you enjoy and are nice friends there relatives friends?
10:48:54    
joy: Yes very nice place i will uplod my pix next time its my bestfriends br0ther wedding as im a part of their family im invited
10:49:13    
thomas: nice, i am curious to watch
10:49:39    
thomas: in which city and restaurant or ressort is the party hold?
10:50:54    
joy: Ok maybe tom0r0w or on m0nday i will uplod the pix
10:53:13    
thomas: nice
10:53:14    
joy: In calamba city the name of the resturant is ding hao chinese cuisine its one of the expensive resturant here in laguna
10:54:29    
joy: Yes
10:57:20    
thomas: what you are doing at the party, eating, dancing, talking, do you go to a park too?
10:57:34    
thomas: but its anyway already dark outside in your country
11:03:36    
joy: Im just eating and talking to my friends and ofcourse enjoy the party
11:03:41    
joy: Im just eating and talking to my friends and ofcourse enjoy the party
11:06:02    
joy: I will sleep over here in my friends house resting and enjoy the wifi
IM 11:34:09. 3. Dez 2011
11:07:07    
thomas: your friends house is in calamba too?
11:08:27    
joy: N0 in los bañ0s the recepti0n is only in calamba
11:08:37    
joy: W8 i will switch to laptop
11:10:54    
thomas: ok
11:22:07    
joy: im back'
11:22:51    
thomas: are you still there?
11:22:58    
joy: yes
11:24:12    
thomas: did you eat already dinner?
11:24:28    
joy: yes im too full
11:25:16    
thomas: special on party its very enjoying to eat
11:25:28    
thomas: as food is special tasty and nice company and ambience additional
11:25:30    
joy: yes
11:25:39    
joy: yes correct
11:25:49    
joy: im so much enjoyed
11:27:33    
thomas: hope you still stay so nice slim even you eat on party sometimes much
11:27:57    
joy: yes..
11:28:02    
joy: i love my body
11:28:10    
joy: so i eat not much
11:28:16    
joy: even in a party
11:29:56    
thomas: nice, even you pass a little enjoyment to eat not fully as much as possible
11:30:21    
thomas: it makes feel proud to have a sexy bodey and to feel proud is also enjoying
11:30:26    
joy: yes.. and sometimes i drink green tea
11:31:04    
joy: yes.. have a sexy body is nice
11:31:55    
thomas: yes
11:32:39    
thomas: also i feel proud still a little that i find me pretty and have sexy legs
11:33:05    
thomas: but that decreased in some amount as of age
11:33:32    
thomas: and that most german women find me not pretty but thats normal
11:33:46    
thomas: if some find me pretty is enough
11:33:47    
joy: i see
11:34:09    
joy: yes your pretty enough for me'
IM 11:46:21. 3. Dez 2011
11:35:27    
thomas: you are too pretty enough for me, and thats a lot as i am choosy
11:35:54    
joy: i see
11:36:05    
joy: thats good to hear 'though
11:38:06    
thomas: very nice to see you
11:38:13    
joy: hehehe
11:38:17    
joy: thanks
11:38:17    
thomas: are you already in bed?
11:38:45    
joy: im here at my bestfriends room
11:38:59    
joy: together with two friends
11:39:15    
thomas: somehow i not look so pretty in the webcam
11:39:30    
joy: its ok..
11:39:38    
joy: u look nice for me
11:40:03    
thomas: but the webcam is now not dark
11:40:12    
joy: i see
11:42:39    
joy: are u busy?
11:43:34    
thomas: I chatted already before with you with a woman from laguna
11:43:43    
thomas: but she leaves now
11:43:50    
joy: i see
11:43:57    
joy: u seems busy
11:44:01    
joy: huh?
11:44:28    
thomas: I focused half to you and half to her
11:45:07    
thomas: as i will anyway not so often chat with her i guess
11:45:08    
joy: i see
11:45:15    
joy: yes
11:45:35    
joy: im so tired now
11:45:44    
thomas: hm already now?
11:45:57    
thomas: its just 7 pm in your place
11:46:06    
joy: a while a go but i enjoy
11:46:10    
joy: yes
11:46:21    
joy: but its very tiring day
IM 11:56:13. 3. Dez 2011
11:46:37    
thomas: why?
11:47:12    
joy: as i attend the wedding
11:48:19    
thomas: i can understand that as it happens to mee too sometimes
11:48:39    
joy: yes'
11:48:40    
thomas: get tired from things hm which like to look like todo nothing
11:48:49    
joy: but its really enjoying
11:48:57    
joy: yes
11:49:05    
joy: and just eat
11:50:23    
thomas: If i attend vetting or relatives meeting i can enjoy usually only medium as i have no very close friend there only some who are some close
11:51:04    
thomas: and that i hope i will change if i have a wife who will go with me who is very close friend of me
11:51:16    
thomas: but partly i enjoyed still much
11:52:06    
thomas: like on my brothers wedding it was in a hotel which did been a castle before and has as of that very nice ambience and the weather was great that time
11:52:26    
joy: well
11:52:38    
joy: thats really a nice place i think
11:52:48    
thomas: and sometimes the talking was very interesting also
11:53:09    
joy: yes..
11:53:16    
joy: and also the singer
11:53:26    
joy: its really nice to hear her voice
11:53:38    
joy: she have very wonderful voice
11:53:39    
thomas: oh wow you had also asinger
11:54:01    
thomas: that was on my brothers wedding not and he is a rich man
11:54:41    
joy: here there's a singer
11:54:53    
joy: she really sing well
11:55:07    
joy: and its nice to hear her songs
11:55:38    
thomas: When i was in bar in bagio they had also nice singer
11:55:45    
thomas: yes that can be really nice
11:55:56    
joy: i see
11:55:58    
joy: yes
11:56:08    
joy: thats why if i will marry someday'
11:56:13    
joy: i want a singer '
IM 12:05:06. 3. Dez 2011
11:56:25    
thomas: and it was not much expensive we just bought 6 bottles beer for 350 p for 3 people
11:56:27    
joy: so that we can enjoy our moments together
11:56:37    
joy: i see
11:56:41    
joy: yes same here
11:56:55    
joy: here not so much expensive
11:57:18    
thomas: funny that you really look a little tired sometimes
11:58:32    
joy: haha..
11:58:34    
joy: yes
11:58:42    
joy: im very tired
11:59:24    
thomas: hope you can sleep nice later and its not too noisy
11:59:50    
joy: i can sleep even there's a noisy people
11:59:59    
joy: if im very tired
12:00:07    
thomas: thats very nice of you
12:00:11    
joy: yes
12:00:19    
joy: im not like you
12:00:50    
thomas: i would very much like to learn to sleep even its noisy
12:01:05    
thomas: but i can not adjust
12:01:20    
joy: yes
12:01:54    
joy: thanks god i know how to sleep even if there's a noisy
12:02:00    
thomas: when i was first time in bagio in a friends house they stayed most night till 1 or 2 am awake and did sing or talk and i not ajusted and always was very hard for me to sleep
12:02:53    
joy: i see
12:02:54    
thomas: only it helped me some amount if it was only light noisy that i made music on i pad always singing if i where a boy
12:03:00    
joy: even with my friends
12:03:14    
thomas: that helped me then much to sleep
12:03:37    
joy: we are talking in late night
12:03:51    
joy: like last night we sleep around 2 am
12:04:01    
joy: and wake up 7 am
12:04:29    
thomas: ah that was one big reason why you tired already now
12:04:44    
thomas: 5 hours sleep is little
12:05:06    
joy: yes its true
IM 12:14:20. 3. Dez 2011
12:05:34    
joy: i look very tired now right?
12:05:49    
thomas: some tired
12:06:05    
thomas: but i am a not judger of face impressions
12:06:30    
thomas: i think as i see only one one eye
12:06:31    
joy: im so lazy to fix my face now and even to put a little powder on my face
12:07:22    
thomas: as of that i have no hm dont know in english 3 D view
12:07:53    
thomas: also i am a much person in mind and less in intuition
12:08:02    
joy: i see
12:09:01    
joy: my one of my friend is beside me
12:09:23    
thomas: yes it looks like that
12:10:06    
joy: you want to see her?
12:10:12    
thomas: yes
12:10:43    
thomas: hi
12:10:49    
thomas: i not met her yet
12:11:14    
joy: yes
12:11:25    
joy: u never meet her yet
12:11:32    
thomas: yes
12:12:00    
joy: u will meet her someday?
12:12:04    
joy: u like her?
12:12:12    
joy: she's single
12:12:20    
joy: hahaha
12:13:06    
thomas: I think i find her not enough pretty for a wife
12:13:24    
joy: she's pretty
12:13:27    
joy: like me
12:13:34    
thomas: but as friend its interesting to see how you are with friends
12:13:39    
joy: if you will see her in person
12:13:47    
thomas: to judge it fully i would need see her more
12:14:03    
joy: u will meet her someday
12:14:12    
joy: when you go back here
12:14:20    
joy: if she still available
IM 12:21:57. 3. Dez 2011
12:15:21    
thomas: and even if not, hope i can go with you and one 1 or 2 friends of you to park or like that
12:16:01    
joy: i see
12:16:08    
joy: ok next time
12:16:28    
thomas: some times i want go with you to park alone and some times with you and 1 or 2 friends
12:19:37    
joy: yes we can if you are here
12:19:48    
thomas: nice
12:20:07    
joy: and if my friends is available
12:20:20    
thomas: yes
12:20:26    
thomas: hope then sometimes at weekend
12:20:35    
joy: yes..
12:20:57    
joy: i have to go
12:20:58    
joy: bye
12:21:04    
thomas: bye
12:21:14    
joy: we will sleep early now
12:21:19    
joy: have a nice day
12:21:32    
thomas: ok, have nice evening and sleep
12:21:40    
thomas: then we can chat tomorrow again
12:21:51    
joy: ok sure
12:21:52    
joy: bye
12:21:57    
thomas: bye
IM 8:47:42. 4. Dez 2011
8:47:42    
thomas: hallo joy, i can not chatt today, i go on chess turnament
IM 18:35:58. 10. Dez 2011
18:35:58    
thomas: Hallo joy, are you there?
IM 11:06:10. 11. Dez 2011
10:54:35    
joy: hi thomas
10:54:45    
thomas: hallo joy
10:54:48    
thomas: how are you?
10:55:13    
joy: just got home from mall
10:56:08    
thomas: did you been in the mall in santa cruz?
10:56:26    
joy: yes
10:56:52    
joy: we ate and watch movie with sis and cousin
10:57:17    
thomas: which movie did you watch?
10:59:01    
joy: its filipino movie
10:59:24    
joy: wont last the day without you
11:00:12    
thomas: ah that i then dont know
11:01:01    
joy: yes you dont know
11:03:33    
thomas: did you enjoy?
11:04:20    
joy: yes i am bcause the movie is soo nice
11:04:49    
thomas: I looking foreward when nice movies come again on television
11:05:12    
thomas: on christmas and end of year there comming more nice movies usually
11:05:23    
joy: yes
11:05:48    
joy: wait thomas i need to eat dinner as im very hungry
11:06:10    
thomas: ok
IM 12:06:05. 11. Dez 2011
11:39:24    
thomas: tell when you are back
11:59:07    
joy: im back
12:00:29    
thomas: sent again
12:00:47    
joy: im not pretty now
12:00:53    
joy: as im lying in bed
12:01:09    
thomas: me too i need first wash my hair again
12:01:20    
joy: oh its ok no need
12:02:23    
thomas: what did you eat?
12:02:58    
joy: pork and rice
12:04:52    
thomas: sent your webcam again?
12:05:05    
joy: im not pretty now
12:06:05    
thomas: that not matters, i know you are very pretty if you have nice hair style
IM 12:19:40. 11. Dez 2011
12:07:05    
thomas: and your bodey looks exciting and legs sexy even you are just in sleeping dress
12:08:46    
thomas: what did you do yesterday?
12:09:05    
joy: we eat in isdaan again
12:09:08    
thomas: wow cool to see you
12:09:40    
joy: as my cousin went back from italy
12:09:47    
thomas: it looks cool your face is to see and behind its dark
12:09:58    
joy: hehehe.. yes
12:10:26    
joy: im using laptop
12:10:44    
thomas: oh then she came back from far away
12:10:56    
joy: he's a guy
12:11:16    
joy: yes his wife and him work there
12:11:21    
thomas: ah
12:11:29    
joy: and they have one child
12:11:33    
thomas: and his wife still is in italy?
12:11:40    
joy: no
12:11:54    
joy: they take xmas vacation
12:13:23    
thomas: i was at friday in chess club and lost my game, first was much good
12:14:04    
thomas: but then was a 3 row of moves which i not considered as forward and lost a medium figure and then lost the game as of that
12:14:31    
joy: i see..
12:14:34    
joy: its ok..
12:15:36    
thomas: loosing is also the half of life, if half loosing and half winning then you stay still equal
12:16:06    
joy: yes i think so
12:17:31    
thomas: that looks really sweet that you face looks so near in the cam
12:17:54    
joy: hahaha  thanks here'sy kiss
12:18:13    
joy: u see?
12:18:56    
joy: u seems
12:19:00    
joy: so busy?
12:19:19    
joy: are u chatting with other girls?
12:19:30    
thomas: wait i must click away my old chats
12:19:40    
joy: ok
IM 12:30:43. 11. Dez 2011
12:20:12    
thomas: i tould to my chatmate that i now only want talk with you
12:20:27    
joy: hehehe.. u kidding me
12:20:41    
joy: here's my kiss
12:21:04    
joy: u see my kiss?
12:21:20    
thomas: wait i must get the cam on the monitor
12:21:27    
joy: ok
12:21:43    
thomas: ok do it now
12:21:57    
joy: u see?
12:22:29    
thomas: now do it again i was too slow
12:22:51    
thomas: thanks i did see now
12:23:04    
joy: u see it?
12:23:07    
thomas: yes
12:23:11    
joy: ok good
12:23:54    
thomas: are you bacelor degree finished`?
12:24:08    
joy: yes
12:24:13    
thomas: wow
12:24:30    
thomas: that sound so educated
12:24:31    
joy: why?
12:24:52    
thomas: i till yesterday not knew what this word means and asked yesterday a working mate
12:25:02    
thomas: who works a half year in our section
12:25:06    
joy: i see
12:25:32    
thomas: he study engeneer in energy technology
12:26:05    
thomas: its about solar collectors to build and such things it looks like
12:26:46    
thomas: and he works now 2 days a week in our office while study to earn some money to finance his study
12:28:26    
thomas: he got task to control the fields if the farmers hold the contracts and also to put the location of the contracted field area exactly into the computer
12:29:07    
thomas: that i shall also do now to put the location and the datas of the new contracts into the computer
12:29:13    
joy: woow great
12:29:55    
joy: my mom is here
12:30:18    
thomas: in your room, was she curious what you are doing?
12:30:43    
joy: she say hi to you
IM 12:42:31. 11. Dez 2011
12:30:46    
joy: u see?
12:30:53    
thomas: say hi to her
12:31:04    
thomas: ah now i see her
12:31:06    
joy: wave your hands
12:32:19    
joy: see u
12:35:10    
thomas: thats a more simple work to put the datas into the computer
12:35:34    
thomas: this year are 3 times more contracts than average expire to renew than usual
12:35:57    
joy: oh here its called data encoder
12:36:22    
thomas: and that task with the contracts is the one of my working mate to make the organisation and the usual work for that
12:36:50    
thomas: yes like that i will feel me
12:37:27    
thomas: its always the same to do for a long time
12:37:33    
joy: i see.
12:39:03    
thomas: I also use laptop now the one which my brother lent
12:39:04    
joy: your cam is always stuck
12:39:20    
joy: oh.. i see
12:39:52    
thomas: hm yes that strange my cam always disappear on you
12:40:03    
thomas: and your cam make not problems on my laptop
12:40:14    
joy: yes...
12:40:24    
joy: where is your mom?
12:40:32    
joy: can we see her?
12:40:39    
thomas: hm they did go outside
12:40:42    
thomas: i did forget where
12:41:00    
joy: i see even picture?
12:41:26    
thomas: i have only pictures in papers
12:41:38    
joy: its ok
12:41:52    
thomas: i will then try next time we chat at weekend to show you the paper pics over webcam
12:42:05    
joy: oh.. ok
12:42:08    
joy: then
12:42:11    
thomas: then i could show you also the house if it works
12:42:31    
joy: its ok.. huh?
IM 13:01:29. 11. Dez 2011
12:42:37    
joy: no problem
12:42:50    
thomas: ok
12:45:01    
thomas: you studied bacelor of computer networking and hm i did forgot or how is it?
12:46:20    
joy: bachelor in information technology
12:47:13    
thomas: and majour subjects was networking and ........... and minor subjects was hardware and ..............?
12:47:23    
joy: yes
12:48:05    
joy: my major is in networking and hardware repair my minor is programming
12:48:22    
thomas: very nice
12:49:15    
joy: why?
12:49:49    
thomas: i could inform me how the chances are to find a work in that here
12:50:12    
joy: oh.. i see
12:50:32    
thomas: you are already in bed at 8 pm
12:50:37    
joy: yes
12:51:00    
thomas: when i watch tv in my room in evening i also lay me in bed as its very convenient
12:51:29    
joy: yes.. its true
12:52:37    
thomas: I will go to restroom and get a food, i will only get bananas and bread to make it fast
12:52:51    
joy: ok..
12:53:29    
joy: u get banana
12:57:05    
joy:
12:58:15    
thomas: yes, i am back
12:58:48    
joy: have u eat?
12:59:03    
thomas: i will eat now
12:59:22    
joy: ok
12:59:30    
joy: enjoy ur eating
12:59:39    
thomas: thanks
12:59:58    
thomas: to eat is always a nice activity
13:00:17    
joy: hahahaha.. yes
13:00:50    
thomas: i did now eat all your spicy
13:01:06    
joy: oh.. hehe
13:01:29    
joy: that's why you look like crying now hahaha
IM 13:14:43. 11. Dez 2011
13:02:12    
thomas: ah the last ones i did eat in morning already
13:02:24    
joy: i see
13:02:26    
joy: hehehe
13:02:30    
joy: good
13:03:35    
thomas: do you eat also something?
13:03:45    
joy: yes
13:03:58    
joy: cookies you want?
13:04:29    
thomas: no thats nood good for teeths
13:04:41    
joy: hehe.. yes
13:04:59    
joy: but i will brush my teeth later
13:05:53    
thomas: yes good if you brush teeths soon after eat something with suggar
13:06:08    
thomas: or you chew xylitol
13:06:29    
thomas: that i can bring when i visit you again
13:06:56    
thomas: i bought me 5 kg again
13:07:19    
joy: ok.. as my mom want to taste xylitol
13:07:46    
thomas: ok, it smells much like suggar
13:08:00    
joy: oh ok..
13:08:58    
joy: enjoy your eating huh?
13:09:20    
thomas: yes its nice to eat
13:10:04    
thomas: for dinner i will then cook me pumpkin
13:10:22    
joy: oh yees
13:10:38    
joy: its yummy
13:10:44    
joy: i think
13:11:11    
thomas: the sister of my father did give us 2 big pumkin as gift from her own garden
13:11:38    
thomas: yes if cooked its very tasty
13:12:28    
thomas: it can be eated not cooked too but then i find it not tasty
13:12:40    
joy: i see
13:13:15    
joy: it taste like squash?
13:14:25    
thomas: even its better for heath ot eat many not cooked thing i make a exception as cooked its very tasty and not cooked its so little tasty
13:14:43    
joy: i see
IM 13:36:08. 11. Dez 2011
13:15:39    
thomas: it tast some similar like sqash both i find similar very tasty if its cooked
13:15:51    
joy: oh,,
13:16:00    
joy: then it taste good
13:16:11    
thomas: yes
13:17:24    
joy: have you done eating?
13:17:48    
thomas: 2/3 i still eat
13:18:00    
joy: oh i see
13:21:06    
thomas: did you travel with jeapney to the mall?
13:21:26    
joy: yes
13:23:36    
thomas: your mother looks a little tired too
13:23:46    
joy: yes
13:25:17    
thomas: now i finish eating and we can chat in tagalog, tell me something in tagalog
13:25:46    
joy: ok
13:25:52    
joy: kamusta ka?
13:28:40    
joy: ang tagal
13:29:23    
thomas: Ako ok, sa ngayon lamang mag-alala i pa rin ng ilan tungkol sa aking sugat na sitll hindi nagbabago dahil i am bumalik sa Alemanya
13:30:30    
joy: wow
13:30:36    
joy: amazing
13:31:00    
joy: but some grammar are wrong
13:31:34    
thomas: ay i pumunta sa isang manggagamot ng pananampalataya sa Alemanya na gumagawa din ng kaisipan pagtitistis tulad ng pananampalataya manggagamot sa bagio. Hindi kaya strong ngunit sa ilang mga halaga sa masyadong
13:33:01    
joy: oh my god
13:33:12    
joy: i have a headache now
13:33:23    
thomas: Ako nagulat na ang pagsasalin programm na ito ay kaya magandang. kung i translate sa tagalog translation bumalik sa ingles nito pangunahin pa rin ang parehong kahulugan nanatiling ito ay aking suriin kung ang pagsasalin ay ok
13:33:50    
joy: cant understand your some english
13:34:00    
joy: i mean tagalog
13:34:30    
thomas: ah so its not so good as i expected
13:34:58    
joy: yes its not so good
13:35:02    
thomas: the grammer if wrong would not matter if the words and meaning still can be understood
13:35:22    
joy: some meaning are wrong too
13:36:08    
thomas: i thought maybe we can talk more if we talk tagalog but you can speak already very good english
IM 13:46:17. 11. Dez 2011
13:36:45    
thomas: that you not would know maybe anyway not much more to talk if we talk in tagalog
13:37:07    
thomas: and even then if the translation is hard to read and understand
13:37:09    
joy: we can talk more even in english as i understand everything in english'
13:37:19    
thomas: ok
13:38:07    
joy: but sometimes my english is more anglo so i think some of my english is hard to understand you
13:38:54    
thomas: no i understand nearly all without need to make effort
13:39:10    
joy: well thats good to hear
13:39:11    
thomas: sometimes i not know a word and then use online dictionary
13:40:03    
joy: oh i see then ask me the meaning
13:40:17    
thomas: ok thats also a idea
13:40:39    
joy: u dont need to search in dictionary
13:41:00    
thomas: hm you always know all words which i write?
13:41:19    
joy: most educated people here can speak anglo english
13:41:25    
joy: yes
13:41:33    
thomas: wow
13:41:46    
thomas: i am surprised that you can speak it soo good english
13:42:06    
joy: yes and sorry if sometimes i speak anglo words and its hard to understand
13:42:25    
thomas: thats ok
13:42:47    
joy: u surprised?
13:42:57    
thomas: yes really
13:43:02    
joy: why?
13:43:21    
thomas: as nearly all people i met can speak less english than me
13:43:30    
thomas: and you can speak similar good like me
13:43:36    
thomas: thats special
13:44:09    
joy: i see thats the advantages when you graduated in expensive school here
13:44:22    
thomas: yes
13:44:47    
thomas: and special you are very lucky that you studied a education which is in demand
13:45:25    
joy: yes and thanks to my parents for that
13:46:00    
thomas: and thanks to you that you choose a task which is in demand
13:46:17    
thomas: you could had also gone study in expesive school a task which is not much in demand
IM 13:56:08. 11. Dez 2011
13:46:24    
thomas: like office worker
13:46:47    
thomas: or teacher
13:47:01    
joy: yes but i choose the in demand one
13:47:15    
joy: because technology is there forever
13:47:31    
joy: they just always upgrade it.
13:47:41    
thomas: yes
13:47:54    
joy: thats why i choose information technology.
13:47:57    
thomas: yes but office work is always forever
13:48:13    
thomas: but there are too many who want work as office worker and too less job for that
13:48:25    
joy: u just know now that i am a bachelor degree?
13:48:33    
thomas: yes
13:48:50    
joy: oh really? i thought you already know
13:49:18    
thomas: i know only since today 2 hours ago
13:50:04    
thomas: before i did only know you studied it but did not know if you are bacelor or master finished or finish without one of both titles
13:50:20    
joy: i see
13:50:29    
joy: i am a bachelor degree
13:50:35    
thomas: but since i talked with my working mate who explained me what is bacelor i expected you are bacelor already
13:51:02    
thomas: he said if someone finish study he is either bachelor or master
13:51:39    
thomas: but i thought maybe its still that some people study and not get one of both title
13:51:44    
joy: yes i plan to take masters degree 4 years from now
13:52:27    
joy: after the masters degree there's one more called doctorate
13:52:39    
thomas: I see
13:53:01    
joy: i just plan to take master's degree
13:53:21    
thomas: why this, can you then find better job?
13:53:29    
joy: its a good point for the company when you are applying for a job.
13:54:29    
joy: as they think you master everything about your course and you have a high posibility to take higher position'
13:54:40    
joy: like manager and supervisor
13:55:27    
thomas: supervisor can be cool job
13:55:40    
joy: yes
13:56:08    
thomas: i am a little jelous to th workers in or IT station it looks like they have cool job
IM 14:05:57. 11. Dez 2011
13:56:16    
thomas: and i admire them
13:57:34    
thomas: they also educate people as IT workers
13:58:17    
thomas: so if your study is not accepted here you could maybe make education at company
13:58:25    
joy: yes
13:58:41    
thomas: and as you studied you have then maybe a good chance to that they choose you for that
13:59:00    
thomas: as they are chosy whom they sellect for education
13:59:02    
joy: so if i can work there you will be jealous at me as i can work as IT worker?
13:59:27    
thomas: and while education you earn already 40000 pesos a month i guess
13:59:53    
thomas: hm i will be very proud of you
14:00:03    
thomas: not jelous as you are then my wife
14:00:12    
joy: wow.. thanks for that
14:00:26    
joy: u are very lucky if i will be your wife soon
14:00:36    
thomas: yes
14:01:09    
joy: as you dont need to work hard for us
14:01:23    
thomas: yes
14:01:39    
thomas: it would like to have a wife for free
14:02:26    
joy: wow
14:02:44    
joy: why for free?
14:03:09    
thomas: as you could pay your expenses from your job salery
14:03:45    
joy: yes ofcourse
14:03:47    
thomas: and i could pay my expenses from my salery and that would be the same like in the time i had no wife
14:04:09    
joy: hahaha.. will see
14:04:58    
joy: i need to go to sleep thomas
14:05:05    
joy: i feel sleepy
14:05:22    
joy: as im soo tired walking to the mall
14:05:25    
thomas: oh already now
14:05:34    
joy: why?
14:05:44    
joy: its 9 pm here
14:05:52    
thomas: yes just 9 pm
14:05:57    
joy: u ont want me to leave you?
IM 14:17:02. 11. Dez 2011
14:06:04    
joy: donr
14:06:07    
joy: dont
14:06:20    
thomas: hm can you stay 10 min
14:06:27    
joy: ok
14:06:47    
thomas: one matter makes me buissy still and want discuss
14:07:11    
thomas: this that my ex girlfriend want lent money to pasor for a school buissness
14:07:17    
thomas: i need to decide today
14:08:07    
joy: i see
14:08:12    
thomas: i searched a lot on the internet about that and asked a few people already
14:08:20    
joy: cant help you
14:08:47    
joy: as i said before its dangerous to trust money
14:08:56    
joy: from other
14:09:12    
thomas: i remember when i lent to my ex girlfriend in 2007 and we made a contract that she will pay me back in 2012 and would pay me 2 percent interest
14:10:45    
joy: then what happened? she did not give your money back right?
14:10:48    
thomas: then after 2 years i asked the notary public where we made the contract if i can force her to pay back if she not pays back he said its not shure if i would succeed if i fight at court and it would be too expensive to fight at court as i would stay while the process of fighting in filipines and already that makes it too expensive
14:10:52    
joy: she decieve you
14:12:17    
thomas: i gave her the contract as gift for that that we continue to be friends and 200000 of the credit i count anyway as salery for beeing my girlfriend for 2 and half year
14:12:21    
joy: now.. if you will lent money again it will happened the same in 2007
14:12:34    
thomas: hm thats my worry
14:13:00    
thomas: i want only lent if i can be shure i can fight at court if she not pays
14:13:29    
joy: wow.. your ex gf is very lucky as she earn a 200000 for being your gf for almost 2 years that's unfair
14:13:30    
thomas: but that is hard for me to find out
14:14:21    
joy: when you love someone you dont need to buy her love
14:14:44    
thomas: that would be the best case
14:14:56    
joy: yes i think
14:15:18    
joy: i give you my opinion and all i cn say is goodluck
14:15:34    
joy: hope you will successed this time
14:16:16    
joy: but i dont think you will successed this time because your ex used you before
14:16:50    
joy: and i thought her husband is rich? then why dont she ask money from him?
14:17:02    
joy: why from you?
IM 14:25:31. 11. Dez 2011
14:17:23    
thomas: they did buy a lot in taytay already now in October
14:17:33    
joy: so?
14:17:56    
joy: even if they buy a lot in tagaytay
14:18:05    
thomas: they spent already 400000 for that and must pay montly downpayment
14:18:18    
thomas: it is 6000 squaremeters
14:18:40    
thomas: but still i am surprised why her husband not can lent 500000 additional from bank
14:19:12    
joy: yes..
14:19:14    
thomas: as in October they discussed to buy a house for 170000 dollars
14:19:23    
joy: its kind of weird right?
14:19:36    
thomas: and sell the old house but delayed that as they bought land in taytay
14:19:50    
thomas: yes its so wired it makes me lot confused
14:20:17    
thomas: and since 2 weeks i can not enjoy my weekends anymore as i need to think about that topic and to decide soon
14:20:23    
joy: then if you are confused then dont lent her
14:21:02    
joy: thomas you deceive her once she can do that again
14:21:09    
thomas: I agreed to lent her in october but expected it would make no problems if i then refuse in final
14:21:58    
thomas: but she said as she agreed to lent with the pastor she will loose the opportunity to invest later there for nice interest when she have on herself more money
14:22:58    
joy: oh c'mon thomas'
14:23:10    
thomas: and my reason to keep frindship would be that she could help me later to have some investments with nice interest
14:23:14    
joy: its not her intension
14:23:30    
joy: she just want to get some money for you
14:23:58    
joy: why dont you ask her about your money when you lent her 500000
14:24:20    
joy: ask her to give your money back
14:24:28    
thomas: I would send directly to the church account and could check if the owner of the account is really the pastor
14:24:52    
joy: ask her to give your money back
14:24:54    
joy: ask her to give your money back
14:24:58    
joy: ask her to give your money back
14:25:00    
joy: ask her to give your money back
14:25:00    
thomas: that was my mistake, that i regret that i gave her that finally as gift as i thought i anyway can not force her to pay back
14:25:22    
joy: its your fault
14:25:31    
thomas: yes
IM 14:35:09. 11. Dez 2011
14:25:51    
joy: then now you her to lent money for you..
14:26:02    
joy: dont be soo stupid thomas
14:26:15    
joy: im just concern about you
14:26:53    
thomas: i am concerned too
14:27:14    
joy: then if you have a lot of hesitataion then dont lent her
14:27:28    
joy: if she get mad at you then who cares
14:27:41    
thomas: you think its too hard to make a contract which makes shure she will pay back even she is not a trustworthy person?
14:27:47    
joy: good for you so that you can finally move on from her
14:28:13    
joy: contract can make anywhere
14:28:24    
joy: there's a lot of fake lawyer here
14:28:40    
thomas: i can make contract at a lawyer of my choice
14:28:52    
thomas: also i did see there are money collector companies in filipines
14:29:17    
joy: she making your head round thomas
14:29:40    
thomas: i could ask a money collector company to make a contract which makes the company easy to collect the money if she is then not willing to pay
14:29:48    
thomas: or the pastor
14:30:07    
joy: its up to you dear
14:30:18    
thomas: if the contract works i would also earn 250000 peso
14:30:28    
joy: i told you
14:30:39    
joy: its really up to you
14:32:14    
thomas: ok thanks for your advice if you like you can go sleep now
14:32:26    
thomas: not as i am eager to stop chatting with you
14:32:37    
thomas: but as you already before asked to go sleep
14:33:32    
joy: yes as i really feel sleepy
14:33:55    
thomas: ok have a nice sleep
14:34:08    
joy: thanks,,
14:34:13    
joy: here's my kiss
14:34:16    
joy: look
14:34:41    
joy: bye
14:34:51    
thomas: show again
14:35:09    
joy: u see?
IM 14:36:19. 11. Dez 2011
14:35:09    
thomas: ok
14:35:12    
thomas: yes
14:35:14    
joy: ok bye
14:35:16    
thomas: now i did see
14:35:22    
thomas: you loow sweet tired
14:35:31    
joy: hehehe.. yes
14:35:38    
joy: as im very tired now
14:36:06    
thomas: bye, take care
14:36:16    
joy: thanks
14:36:19    
joy: you too
IM 18:03:37. 14. Dez 2011
17:54:01    
joy: hi thomas
17:54:16    
thomas: hallo joy
17:54:47    
thomas: you are so late awake?
17:54:51    
joy: how are u?
17:54:55    
joy: i wait for you
17:55:02    
joy: im soo sad
17:55:07    
joy: i just need someone to talk
17:55:50    
thomas: ok, i am pleased to talk with you
17:55:55    
thomas: why you are sad?
17:57:05    
joy: there is someone who accuse me but its not true
17:57:18    
thomas: accuse about what?
17:57:41    
joy: that i sleep with someone
17:57:53    
joy: you know me right?
17:58:08    
joy: and you know that i never sleep with someone
17:58:21    
thomas: i would also rather expect you did not do
17:58:45    
thomas: a filipino accuse you?
17:59:05    
thomas: i need check what the word accuse means
17:59:44    
thomas: ah now i know
18:00:21    
joy: he is not filipino
18:00:24    
thomas: a friend or someone who knows you think you did make sex with a man?
18:00:35    
thomas: a foreigner the man?
18:00:43    
joy: yes
18:01:11    
joy: the guy i tol you before?
18:01:46    
joy: told
18:02:02    
thomas: hm the australian not met you yet
18:02:25    
thomas: the german who lives in south america and he visit filipines?
18:02:33    
joy: no the one from germany
18:02:54    
thomas: did you met him?
18:03:07    
joy: no
18:03:37    
thomas: anyway it would not change anything that i find you very interesting and would like to marry you
IM 18:19:39. 14. Dez 2011
18:04:29    
thomas: i only wait to get the experience that our relationship fits to decide finally
18:04:36    
joy: im not too affected with him
18:05:05    
joy: i just feel so sad because he accuse me and i swear to god its not true
18:05:31    
thomas: hm strage that he accuse of something which not happened
18:05:55    
joy: we chatted yesterdy around 4
18:05:57    
joy: pm
18:06:19    
joy: with web cam then suddenly my sis come into my room
18:07:17    
joy: she is wearing her uniform with tie and white shirt
18:07:58    
joy: that's her unifrom
18:08:20    
joy: the face of my sis didnt see him so he thougth its a guy
18:08:57    
joy: because he told me that he saw a person who wear white shirt and black tie
18:09:55    
thomas: and what happened then?
18:10:14    
joy: then he told me that im a lier stupid
18:10:27    
thomas: why this?
18:10:57    
joy: because he think im a lier when i told him that i dont have bf
18:11:07    
joy: then he saw a guy her in my room
18:11:17    
thomas: ah i understand
18:11:37    
thomas: funny if it would be not sad
18:11:56    
joy: its hurt you know
18:12:04    
joy: as he accuseme
18:12:17    
joy: with wrong accusation
18:12:29    
joy: and i hate it
18:13:10    
thomas: ah and he think you had sex with this person who came into your room?
18:14:15    
joy: yes
18:15:24    
thomas: thats strange that he so easy get the idea you could hide having a boyfriend
18:16:57    
thomas: it has the good side that you early did see he has not so good personality
18:17:41    
thomas: as far as i judge the situation now as i know not much about him
18:17:58    
joy: yes.. but he dont have the right to judge me that way
18:18:41    
thomas: yes it means he think you lie about a important matter
18:19:39    
joy: yes.. because he been deceive with one filipina then he thought all the filipina is the same personality
IM 18:44:33. 14. Dez 2011
18:21:23    
thomas: that i can understand after got deceived someone gets more suspecting
18:22:55    
thomas: I am same aftter a woman in Ukraine and my ex girlfriend show a much unfair attitude in money in relationship that problem is much more in my mind and make me more scaring
18:24:19    
thomas: That matter had let gone much of my enthusiasm for the idea i could get a very pretty and nice wife
18:24:41    
thomas: but its only a part reason
18:25:28    
thomas: Its also as i am older and as i thought through deeper the things
18:26:11    
joy: yes i know and i understand
18:27:25    
joy: but im not like them
18:28:46    
thomas: your behaviour i experienced on you was general very fair in all matters
18:29:55    
thomas: This makes me thinking very nice about you
18:30:13    
joy: thanks for making me feel good
18:32:00    
thomas: I worry in general, a woman could just act very fair till marriage and till 2 years of marriage passed till she has right stay in the foreigners country
18:33:08    
thomas: I wounder why not all women with not good attitude act like that as that would be very straightforeward to succeed in their aim to have a nice life in some years
18:33:44    
thomas: But they are a little trapped as they need money already now in some amount
18:34:13    
joy: well maybe some girls BUT not like me, i dont need to marry a foreigner just to have green card
18:34:28    
joy: i have a degree i can have my own if i want
18:34:42    
thomas: yes for you talks that you have rich parents and good education
18:36:39    
thomas: And i think can assume you are fair in relationship in basic attitude if your basic personality is you want to be fair towards all people
18:37:29    
thomas: so i think when i get know you more i will get additional more shure that you will be fair in relationship even later
18:37:36    
joy: yes i am fair in every person
18:37:59    
joy: because i believe god create us fair no poor no rich
18:38:52    
thomas: I did read today the book about faith healers
18:39:02    
joy: its really feel bad that someone not treated you fair after all of what you done to her
18:41:08    
thomas: But i think my ex girlfriend liked me and had not in basic bad intention
18:42:05    
thomas: She was much eager and wanted a lot the last months that i choose one of her friends
18:43:03    
thomas: as she likes her a lot and then it would be also more nice for my ex girlfriend if that friend of her would be a husband which is also some friend with her
18:43:44    
joy: oh..
18:43:51    
joy: no comment
18:43:53    
thomas: My ex girlfriend got now very angry about me that i not hold my agreement to lent her money for pastor
18:44:03    
joy: its her personality not mine
18:44:33    
joy: then its up to her she feels very mad at you
IM 18:57:10. 14. Dez 2011
18:44:40    
thomas: also her husband got very discouraged about me when she tould him that i put her in trouble with that
18:44:53    
joy: its your decision she must respect it
18:45:08    
thomas: and would not like anymore that my ex girlfriend meets me
18:46:05    
joy: so?? is it a big deal for you?
18:46:09    
thomas: for me its 50 to 50 if she would had the money back and payed that very high interest
18:46:45    
thomas: I would had liked to stay closer friend with her
18:47:10    
joy: on c'mmon thomas stop being close to her
18:47:35    
thomas: its anyway now decided that she will not be closer towards me
18:47:55    
joy: lets move on
18:48:31    
joy: it is nice to be closer to her specially she already have a husband
18:48:37    
thomas: i not need anymore to make my brain exhausting with thinking if her intention is honest or not
18:48:59    
joy: yes correct'
18:49:26    
joy: forget about her
18:50:21    
thomas: The closest friend of her tould me that her husband said he wants to pay back my credit for her even now my ex girlfriend is so angry about me that she not want pay back
18:51:54    
joy: im sure its not true
18:52:07    
joy: she just want some story
18:53:01    
joy: for you to convince that you need to lent money for your ex gf
18:53:07    
joy: dont believe her
18:53:49    
thomas: If i would like i could talk with her husband i think he would say its true
18:54:03    
thomas: but its anyway decided now
18:54:33    
joy: thomas its better to stay away from them stop communicating with them
18:54:48    
joy: thats all i can say
18:55:26    
thomas: they probably not want talk with me already on themself i guess
18:55:37    
joy: yes'
18:55:42    
joy: so stop them
18:55:46    
joy: block them
18:56:14    
thomas: my interest is that they pay back the old credit
18:56:37    
thomas: if they pay i will have proof their attitude is fair
18:56:55    
thomas: as that would do even no one with just normal attitude
18:57:10    
joy: yes..
IM 19:13:11. 14. Dez 2011
18:57:17    
joy: i think
18:59:27    
thomas: and if they pay back i want have friendship with them if they like and if they not pay back i would consider that as big betray and would then
18:59:47    
thomas: final judge as bad towards me
19:00:40    
thomas: I woould then tell to as many i can the secrets about her to give her at least a little punishment but i said her i give her 1 year time to pay back
19:00:58    
joy: yes its true
19:02:04    
joy: what about her secret?
19:02:21    
joy: that she use you to get some money?
19:02:21    
thomas: I not will tell before 1 year is over
19:02:53    
thomas: there are 2 other secrets but dont know if someone would believe it
19:03:02    
joy: like?
19:03:44    
thomas: And one secret is related with her closest friend
19:04:11    
thomas: her closest friend tould she will pay her credit, i lent her 49000 pesos
19:05:01    
thomas: if she will start pay back i will not tell this one secret in which she is involved as she treated me fair
19:05:26    
joy: oh really?
19:05:46    
joy: so she deceive you many times?
19:06:49    
thomas: a few times already as proofen
19:07:41    
thomas: she made a credit contract of 500000 with agreed 2 percent interest and then she not wanted to pay it when she choose other man as she said when she marry me she not need to pay
19:07:46    
joy: oh i see
19:08:40    
thomas: and in 2008 i gave her my bank card while i was in filipines to get always money when i need it for me
19:09:04    
thomas: this as a test to learn trust
19:09:26    
thomas: but she took 30000 p too much and said then this was a mistake of bank bookings
19:09:43    
thomas: i am shure she took this 30000 for herself
19:10:08    
joy: yes i am sure too.
19:11:07    
thomas: but for her husband would not matter this much to loose 30000 p
19:11:17    
joy: your ex gf was totally disgrace for other filipina
19:11:23    
joy: gold digger..
19:11:59    
thomas: he will buy her i forgot what, something which in average would cost 150 dollars for 1500 dollars as christmas gift
19:12:11    
thomas: her best friend did say
19:12:17    
joy: well maybe she do that because she came for a poor family
19:13:11    
thomas: she want have luxory life she said already different times
IM 19:27:52. 14. Dez 2011
19:14:16    
joy: i see thats why
19:14:52    
thomas: thats so funny on her that she likes her best friend so much
19:15:22    
thomas: a woman in filipines and she would like very often visit her and would also want that she has luxory life
19:15:55    
joy: i see
19:16:08    
thomas: they chat every week too times about 3 hours
19:16:37    
joy: oh for what?
19:17:23    
thomas: one time her best friend let me coppy their chatting as i was curious about what they can talk always so much
19:17:50    
thomas: and then i did put it in this translationprogramm for tagalog but only 1 of 10 words where translated
19:18:14    
thomas: even my ex girlfriend said they chat in tagalog language
19:18:47    
joy: do you have a copy of that chat?
19:18:57    
thomas: when i did chat with 2 other women in tagalog and also with you the translation programm translated 9 of 10 words
19:19:09    
thomas: yes i still have saved
19:19:31    
joy: can u send it to me.. i will translate in for yu
19:19:48    
joy: maybe they are talking in other dialec
19:20:05    
thomas: i agreed to give to no one other
19:20:32    
joy: i dont know them
19:20:40    
joy: so i think its ok..
19:21:03    
joy: and infact i dont care about your ex..
19:21:38    
thomas: her best friend offered me to stay in her house in cebu on next vaccations
19:22:21    
thomas: if i have a girlfriend to stay with her there or if i go there to look for women again
19:22:22    
joy: then?
19:23:10    
thomas: I want be honest towards her as long its possible she pay the credit back
19:23:56    
thomas: I could ask her if i could give to you
19:24:28    
thomas: but i think its maybe 2 of this secrets a little involved which i tould before
19:24:36    
thomas: in this text
19:25:51    
joy: if you ask her to give to me maybe she wont allow you
19:26:00    
thomas: yes
19:26:30    
thomas: My ex girlfriend offered me before i finally decided not to lent to let me log in her face book and yahoo
19:27:00    
thomas: and there where many chattings saved between my ex girlfriend and her best friend
19:27:52    
thomas: and if i would had been able to translate it i would probably been able to know if my intention was honest or unhonest to lent money from me
IM 19:35:16. 14. Dez 2011
19:27:54    
joy: u did copy all their conversation?
19:28:05    
thomas: as i think she talked a lot also with her best friend about that
19:28:24    
thomas: no i not copied when i did log in anything
19:28:42    
joy: its useless
19:28:57    
joy: eeven if you access her facebook account
19:29:25    
joy: because you dont understand whay they talking about
19:29:28    
thomas: i tried to tranlsate some chattings with the translationprogramm but it was same result only 1 of 10 words the programm did know
19:29:42    
thomas: yes it helped me nearly nothing
19:29:54    
thomas: with her husband where nearly no chattings saved
19:30:29    
joy: you cant translaate it if they are using masbate language
19:30:56    
thomas: but her best friend is from cebu
19:31:11    
thomas: my ex girlfriend not knows much visayas language
19:31:16    
joy: masbate and cebu language are the same
19:31:19    
thomas: as of that they not talk visayas
19:31:28    
thomas: hm
19:31:44    
thomas: before i asked my ex girlfriend i thought they talk in visayas
19:32:02    
joy: yes maybe
19:32:41    
thomas: hm if my ex girlfriend lied also about that
19:32:49    
thomas: dont know
19:33:01    
joy: i cant help you for that
19:33:03    
thomas: she also sometimes lies about not any important things
19:33:35    
thomas: but she also sometimes lie to her best friend
19:33:35    
joy: as you dont want me to know their conversation
19:33:42    
thomas: and also her bestfriend towards her
19:33:52    
joy: yes... its happen sometimes
19:33:58    
thomas: that made me surprise in some amount when i experienced that
19:34:06    
joy: lying is a part ofeveryones life
19:34:20    
thomas: as they are so best friends that is not much more possible
19:34:36    
joy: not at all
19:35:16    
thomas: but some people nearly never lie
IM 19:41:52. 14. Dez 2011
19:35:18    
joy: anyway thomas i need to sleep its already 2:30 am here
19:35:28    
joy: yes some people
19:35:32    
thomas: yes its very late there
19:36:16    
joy: me? i lied sometimes but not too often because i believe honesty is the best policy
19:36:34    
joy: and there's no point if you lied
19:36:49    
thomas: i never lie
19:36:56    
thomas: i always try to avoid it
19:37:14    
joy: yes me too i always try to avoid it
19:37:28    
thomas: if i want someting like lie i not lie, i tell not the part just not
19:37:35    
joy: but sometimes people is very good in lying
19:38:02    
thomas: yes i am surprised how good my ex girlfriend can do
19:38:17    
thomas: its so hard to select usually what is lied and what not on her
19:38:28    
joy: yes.. she is..
19:38:42    
joy: its really hard to trust a person like your ex
19:38:52    
thomas: yes
19:39:16    
joy: she is lucky because despite of her persobality her husband accept her
19:40:06    
thomas: since we gave up boy and girlfriend its always been 50 to 50 for me if her basic intention towards me is fair
19:40:35    
thomas: yes they despite of that fit well each other
19:40:47    
joy: yes.. i think
19:41:01    
joy: you just need to forget her
19:41:09    
joy: i need to sleep
19:41:17    
joy: bye goodnight
19:41:21    
thomas: ok, chat then next time
19:41:26    
joy: yes..
19:41:31    
joy: nice chatting with you
19:41:35    
thomas: bye, good night, have nice sleep
19:41:39    
thomas: for me too
19:41:44    
joy: ys..
19:41:50    
joy: hugs and kisses
19:41:52    
joy: bye
IM 19:41:58. 14. Dez 2011
19:41:58    
thomas: hugs and kisses
IM 12:30:13. 17. Dez 2011
12:24:07    
joy: hi thomas\
12:24:11    
joy: how are u?
12:24:32    
thomas: Hallo joy, i am ok
12:24:47    
joy: ok.. good
12:25:08    
joy: i have cold now
12:25:13    
thomas: looks sweet again your face lighter near infront of a dark place
12:25:17    
joy: its really cold here
12:25:21    
thomas: oh again or still?
12:25:29    
joy: again
12:25:32    
thomas: ah its cold only
12:25:46    
thomas: why this, did you put the aircon too much?
12:25:51    
joy: no but i have cold
12:26:00    
joy: no its natural
12:26:04    
joy: as its xmas
12:26:13    
joy: and have storm here
12:26:49    
thomas: ah, we had storm yesterday too in some amount
12:27:08    
thomas: but here storms are only medium most times
12:27:36    
joy: oh ok.. good in cebu is the most affected now
12:27:41    
thomas: it was raining a lot and i got with wet hair to work as i missed the bus as the train was late and then i needed to walk 10 min
12:27:57    
joy: oh i see
12:28:11    
joy: there's a lot of death now in mindanao
12:28:20    
joy: 68 and 200 missing
12:28:25    
joy: because of storm
12:28:50    
thomas: and in cebu was also damaged some things?
12:29:05    
joy: yes
12:29:13    
joy: but not so damaged
12:29:25    
joy: not like in cagayan de oro much damaged
12:29:55    
thomas: in cebu was the weather often still a little better than in manila when i compared it
12:30:02    
thomas: while i was on my vaccation
12:30:13    
joy: yes it is.
IM 12:43:47. 17. Dez 2011
12:31:23    
joy: im not online yesterday in facebook
12:31:38    
joy: because i went in my cousin's house
12:32:06    
thomas: what did you do aside care about the child?
12:32:40    
joy: talking to my cousin.
12:32:58    
joy: about how she suffer of giving birth
12:33:33    
thomas: its usually a lot painful
12:33:52    
thomas: if i would be a woman i not know if i would be as of that too much scared to get a child
12:35:20    
joy: yes... that's right
12:35:39    
joy: and i dont know if i can have a 2 child
12:36:05    
thomas: to have one makes less work
12:36:18    
thomas: but already one the one its a lot painful to get
12:36:18    
joy: yes
12:36:32    
joy: very much painful
12:37:05    
joy: so that the husband needs to be loyal to his wife all the time
12:37:43    
thomas: a child makes it more shure that the husbands not leave each other
12:38:00    
thomas: but if they then despite of that leave its more expensive usually for the man
12:38:41    
joy: yes but much painful in the part of the wife
12:39:34    
thomas: hope it happens not to me
12:39:42    
joy: yes and to me also
12:40:01    
joy: couz i dont want to have a broken family like my family before
12:40:03    
thomas: the wife then usually also get the child and the man must pay also for the child even it not stays with him anymore
12:40:26    
joy: yes its his responsible though
12:40:34    
joy: as a father of the kid
12:41:56    
thomas: did you talk and eat and watch TV?
12:42:20    
joy: i just watch tv
12:42:39    
joy: im not really feeling well today
12:42:48    
joy: can i ask you?
12:43:15    
thomas: yes can ask anything
12:43:28    
thomas: why you not feel so well today?
12:43:47    
joy: i have cold and slight fever
IM 13:03:36. 17. Dez 2011
12:44:08    
thomas: is it new or still as the old not fully removed yet?
12:44:30    
joy: its new
12:45:20    
joy: the front of our store now
12:45:27    
joy: is flooding
12:45:34    
joy: because of the storm
12:45:44    
thomas: oh so much
12:45:47    
thomas: i am surprised
12:46:05    
joy: yes.. im surprised too it is the first time
12:46:24    
joy: and take note it is a moderate storm
12:46:32    
joy: not like the past storm
12:46:36    
thomas: the area at your place looks flat at is no river very near
12:46:59    
joy: its a small river near in our store
12:47:08    
thomas: ah i not noticed
12:47:27    
joy: w8 i will check oh be right back ok
12:47:34    
thomas: ok
12:48:48    
thomas: I go put a rice too cook, i will be back in 5 min again
12:50:38    
joy: ok
12:51:03    
joy: i will eat get some foods
12:52:59    
thomas: I am back for 2 min till it cooks
12:53:06    
thomas: are you already here again?
12:54:17    
thomas: Today is christmas quick chess turnament in our cess club as of that i must leave in one and half hours
12:55:34    
joy: yes i am here
13:00:44    
thomas: I am not so pretty today as i not washed my hair
13:00:57    
joy: i am not soo pretty today huh
13:01:25    
joy: i need to take meds later
13:01:36    
thomas: oh you take again
13:01:44    
joy: yes
13:01:57    
joy: before my fever will worse
13:03:19    
thomas: When i come to filipines again i will catch a cold again too as that is always as of fan or aircon
13:03:36    
joy: oh i see
IM 13:13:06. 17. Dez 2011
13:03:49    
joy: me its because of the weather
13:03:52    
thomas: the cold weather not affects me so hard like aircon or fan
13:04:08    
thomas: still i not catched a cold in germany even we have now first snow today
13:04:13    
joy: aircon and fan is ok to me
13:04:28    
thomas: hm i am surprised
13:04:43    
joy: yes..
13:05:30    
thomas: the storm is gone now it looks like, and sun shining and nearly no clowds in the sky but its cold
13:05:59    
thomas: but will get a little warmer next days and the snow will go away this is the weather forecast
13:06:26    
thomas: I feel lucky that the winter was light till now
13:06:38    
thomas: then its still enough time to be cold in january
13:06:46    
joy: thats good to hear huh'
13:06:56    
joy: atleast its warm.
13:07:35    
thomas: and if it just starts get cold in january then already the time is counting fast as at 1 of march it can not be much cold anymore usually
13:08:03    
joy: its nice to hear
13:08:18    
joy: and then in april you are here again
13:08:30    
thomas: yes
13:09:06    
joy: days goes so fast
13:09:23    
thomas: its now exactly 1 month i am in germany now
13:09:33    
thomas: or 1 month and 1 day
13:09:48    
joy: yes
13:09:55    
joy: i remember
13:10:27    
joy: my cold gets more worser now.
13:10:40    
joy: anyway this afternoon i cook spaghetti.
13:10:49    
joy: for the first time
13:10:56    
joy: and my family likes it
13:11:17    
joy: i hope you are here to taste my spaghetti
13:11:37    
thomas: I like spaghetti a lot too
13:11:46    
joy: yes that was my fav.
13:12:40    
thomas: if spaghetti from whole grain and with vegetables its also not bad for health
13:13:06    
thomas: in germany can buy whole grain spaghetti in supermarket and it cost not much more than usual ones
IM 13:19:59. 17. Dez 2011
13:13:06    
joy: yes i know that
13:13:18    
joy: why really?
13:13:24    
joy: i want to taste that
13:13:42    
thomas: I can bring it
13:13:44    
thomas: when i come
13:14:02    
joy: wow! really?
13:14:10    
joy: ok then i will w8 for that
13:14:16    
thomas: ok
13:14:53    
joy: ok then dont forget huh
13:15:11    
thomas: yes i will make a list
13:15:19    
joy: hehehe  ok
13:15:24    
joy: thanks muawh
13:15:33    
thomas: 2. is also xylitol i will bring
13:15:42    
joy: goodluck to your tournament later
13:15:49    
thomas: thanks
13:15:50    
joy: ok.. for my mom
13:16:07    
joy: make it 3. the chocolate hehe
13:16:35    
thomas: ok
13:16:43    
joy: wow really?
13:16:51    
joy: thanks its my favor8 huh
13:17:16    
joy: forget everything but not chocolate hahaha
13:17:37    
thomas: hm its not good for health, hope you eat not much
13:17:45    
joy: hehehe.. yes
13:18:03    
joy: the last time i eat its 10 pcs from swiss
13:18:22    
joy: and then later on i have sore throat
13:18:27    
joy: hahaha
13:18:54    
thomas: or i will by a more healthy cocolate which i would consider as neutral for health but its more expensive
13:19:12    
thomas: exists the word neutral in english?
13:19:35    
joy: hahaha,.. yes its still
13:19:59    
thomas: ah yes the dictionary knows it
IM 13:30:26. 17. Dez 2011
13:20:16    
joy: the meaning in english is fair
13:20:41    
thomas: it means in german its not good but also not bad
13:20:52    
joy: yes it means fair
13:21:03    
joy: or equal
13:21:24    
joy: i remember that word we used that word in my physics subject
13:21:33    
thomas: The english teacher tould not tell its equal to me
13:21:50    
joy: huh?
13:22:13    
thomas: hm i forgot it in some amount why
13:22:18    
thomas: or in which meaning
13:22:33    
joy: other meaning of that is proportionately
13:22:55    
joy: neutral has a different meaning
13:22:59    
thomas: if i remember right not tell its equal to me instead it not matters me
13:23:06    
joy: its depend on the situation
13:23:17    
joy: i see
13:24:24    
joy: u seems you have a lot of chat mate now
13:24:34    
thomas: why?
13:25:05    
thomas: i was a lot discouraged that i have so little medium or much close ones
13:25:27    
joy: who?
13:26:11    
thomas: i was thinking yesterday if it happens that you loose interest then hm whom will i meet
13:26:43    
joy: who will you meet where?
13:28:26    
thomas: only the one from masbate Ella who i met already often and desiree who nearly can not speak english it looks some interesting to meet in bigger amount
13:28:38    
thomas: if i not could meet you
13:29:16    
thomas: and the other one from laguna area she seems also to be a nice person and is between much and very pretty
13:29:29    
joy: oh.. ofcourse i would love to meet you again..
13:29:33    
thomas: but even she can speak good english we can not talk and chat much
13:29:36    
joy: and i have a promise right?
13:29:48    
joy: i will wait for til you choose gf
13:29:56    
joy: then i will find other man
13:30:23    
thomas: thats very nice
13:30:26    
joy: honestly there's a lot of foreign man who really wants me but i ignore them
IM 13:46:30. 17. Dez 2011
13:30:33    
joy: as i have a promise to you
13:31:44    
thomas: i worried the last 2 weeks that you found a secound man interesting too as you came sometimes not online
13:32:34    
joy: he's not the reason why i cant go online its because of my cousin
13:33:13    
thomas: also i thought maybe we not succeed get deep as expected close in chatting which you could make you the idea try with a other man
13:33:20    
thomas: that just my 2 worries
13:34:20    
thomas: its normal to worry as long as our relationship is only at the start and as not a long record of success
13:34:26    
joy: huh its not true
13:34:55    
thomas: yes i considered the chance as lower than 50 percent that one of that comes true
13:35:20    
thomas: so i believe it not comes true but its a worry
13:35:32    
joy: dont worry
13:35:56    
joy: because everything i was saying to you is true and i mean it
13:36:03    
joy: you dont have to worry
13:36:19    
thomas: yes i was thinking also its probably as your cousin that you came some less often online
13:37:09    
joy: yes she's the reason
13:37:12    
thomas: and also to outdo the topics to talk its enogh to chat every 3. day so to chat even every 3. day is very nice still
13:37:21    
thomas: I get my food now
13:37:30    
joy: ok..
13:41:36    
thomas: i am back
13:42:04    
joy: wat is your food?
13:42:17    
thomas: rice, potatoes and bananas
13:42:42    
joy: wow i love it
13:42:50    
thomas: I must go already in 15 min
13:43:11    
joy: yes.. i must go too
13:43:41    
thomas: ah then it fits
13:43:46    
thomas: what will you do?
13:43:53    
joy: my cold is worser now
13:44:05    
joy: i will eat dinner
13:44:23    
joy: w8 brb
13:44:28    
thomas: ok
13:46:30    
joy: im back
IM 13:52:21. 17. Dez 2011
13:47:24    
joy: if you want i cAn go now
13:47:30    
joy: so that u can eat
13:47:55    
thomas: 5 min we could still chat
13:48:03    
joy: ok.. sure..
13:48:23    
thomas: it not disturbs me on eating to chat
13:48:46    
joy: ok.. so hows your food? is it tasty?
13:48:51    
thomas: if we would had not chat i would had only moves for the computer game i play now
13:49:00    
thomas: its tasty yes
13:49:22    
joy: ok.. good.
13:49:26    
thomas: but it would had been better if i would had a 2. fruit
13:49:33    
thomas: like apple or kiwi
13:49:40    
joy: i love mashed potato
13:50:05    
thomas: but i focused in to prepair it just fast
13:50:22    
joy: yes..
13:50:36    
thomas: for me is rice and potatoes a good combination
13:50:43    
thomas: both makes each of that more tasty
13:50:56    
joy: well its great huh
13:51:08    
joy: i never taste kiwi
13:51:29    
thomas: oh
13:51:32    
thomas: i am surprised
13:51:40    
thomas: that relatively cheap in germany too
13:51:40    
joy: yes..
13:51:50    
joy: well thomas i need to go now
13:51:56    
joy: my mom calling me
13:52:03    
joy: bye for now take care
13:52:11    
thomas: ok i need go now too
13:52:12    
joy: we need to find my sis
13:52:17    
joy: muah
13:52:20    
joy: hugs and kiss
13:52:21    
thomas: have a nice evening
IM 13:52:28. 17. Dez 2011
13:52:24    
thomas: hugs and kisses
13:52:28    
joy: yes thanks
IM 14:11:29. 18. Dez 2011
14:11:29    
joy: thomas are you there?
IM 15:01:41. 18. Dez 2011
15:00:32    
thomas: hallo joy, my friend klaus is here, i can come online only in 2 hours, i just here to make my move on my computer game
15:01:19    
joy: i see ok.. say hello to him.. enjoy..
15:01:28    
joy: i mgs you in facebook
15:01:41    
thomas: ok
IM 16:22:06. 18. Dez 2011
16:08:26    
joy: your back i am about to offline
16:08:55    
thomas: ok, its very late in your country
16:09:32    
joy: yes i dont have any chatmate im just reading the article about iphone 4s
16:09:41    
joy: because its my dream phone.
16:10:42    
thomas: my ex girlfriend had a i phone too when i met her in this vaccation
16:11:29    
joy: oh really?
16:11:35    
joy: maybee from china
16:11:43    
thomas: I have a black barry bought from my ex girlfriend to count off the credit of the amount of that
16:11:54    
thomas: i not watched which model
16:12:37    
thomas: this i could sell you when we meet as its overdone for me to have a such more expensive phone
16:13:00    
thomas: if you like such a phone
16:14:25    
thomas: are you still there? when will you leave?
16:16:11    
joy: im here
16:16:17    
joy: i just get water
16:16:52    
thomas: ok, just tell when you want leave, as long as not i will chat with you
16:17:22    
thomas: Klaus my friend said he would also like to chat with you on facebook
16:17:28    
joy: i dont want blackberry
16:17:38    
joy: i want the latest iphone
16:18:09    
joy: i think the 16 gb iphone 4s worth 89, 000
16:18:40    
thomas: oh that cost really a lot for a phone
16:19:02    
joy: yes but it has a very nice feature
16:19:10    
joy: features
16:19:38    
joy: tell to klaus add me on his facebook ok.
16:19:46    
joy: i want to chat him too
16:19:56    
thomas: ok
16:20:20    
thomas: that i phone cost more than a laptop
16:20:39    
joy: yes but it is veynice phone
16:20:51    
thomas: I would feel pity to spent so much for a phone
16:21:45    
thomas: I bought my computer for 24000 p at 7 years ago
16:22:06    
thomas: it was 1 years old used
IM 16:41:02. 18. Dez 2011
16:22:15    
joy: yes..
16:22:37    
joy: but i dont think so i can bought that phone its only my dream
16:23:38    
thomas: buy it maybe in 3 years as a used one
16:23:55    
thomas: but it wold then maybe still cost 30000 p
16:24:12    
joy: for sure in 3 years there's another much nice one
16:27:50    
thomas: one which is now the nicest but in 3 years not the highest standard is in 3 years still nice as now it is considered as nice too, its just then not so trendy
16:28:18    
joy: yes..
16:29:51    
thomas: Also on car i like always buy a used one small one as it drives too enough and is much cheaper and has less loss of value per year
16:30:21    
joy: yes its true..
16:30:39    
thomas: but now i have no car at all which is additional cheaper
16:31:10    
thomas: I need get my food which is ready cooked now and will come in 5 min again
16:31:27    
joy: ok..
16:34:21    
thomas: i am back
16:35:02    
joy: u know what?
16:35:11    
joy: 652 dead
16:35:25    
joy: and 808 missing
16:35:36    
joy: because of the storm here
16:35:56    
thomas: the most damage was in mindanao?
16:36:11    
joy: yes in cagayan de oro
16:36:27    
thomas: I see
16:37:00    
joy: yes
16:37:12    
joy: its really sad
16:37:23    
thomas: I was not yet in mindanao
16:37:34    
thomas: yes for the people its really sad
16:39:04    
thomas: but i feel not affected nearly not only a little scared what if me happened the same
16:39:42    
thomas: i am much selfish, some people feel pity really if they read such news
16:40:07    
joy: yes its true im soo scared about that we are lucky at our place
16:40:16    
joy: we have stable place here
16:40:26    
thomas: but at least i not feel like that that "good there are now less people to feed"
16:41:02    
thomas: i feel neutral and a little focused
IM 16:54:24. 18. Dez 2011
16:41:50    
joy: well i hope most of the terrosist there are diead not the good people
16:42:21    
thomas: but now i feel a little pitty that the houses are damaged and how much work that makes to repair the things and how unconvienent this is for the affected people
16:43:20    
joy: yes and for the people who lost their love ones
16:43:26    
thomas: thats funny that this is my biggest idea that this poeple have now more work to work and had to work anyway a lot already before as most are poor
16:43:38    
joy: the xmas is near how they can celebrate their xmas now
16:44:46    
thomas: yes thats too
16:44:55    
joy: but you know what i am surprised a while a go when we are in the mall there's a lot of people who buy expensive clothes more than a thousands people in the mall
16:45:12    
joy: and all the resturant is soo full
16:45:27    
joy: and even in the most expensive resturant is full
16:46:15    
thomas: ah
16:46:25    
joy: we ate at kenny roger's for lunch and its a little expensive as we pay 1200 its for 4 person
16:46:47    
thomas: that surprise me that only as of need buy christmas gifts there are now noticable more people in mall
16:47:56    
thomas: I felt bothered that i must now buy or get christmas gifts as hard to know which one could be useful for each person
16:48:12    
thomas: i am every christmas very lazy in buying gifts
16:48:36    
joy: for your family?
16:48:52    
thomas: yes for my brother and my sister
16:49:05    
joy: know their likes before you buy xmas gift
16:49:23    
joy: sometimes its nice to recieve gift with effort
16:49:33    
thomas: sometimes i give them just a money as gift
16:49:54    
joy: money is not a gift huh?
16:50:24    
thomas: yes but at least something
16:50:29    
thomas: as they gave me gift too
16:50:56    
joy: yes.. but there's no effort huh?
16:51:04    
thomas: yes
16:51:47    
joy: so now i know who u really are..
16:51:50    
joy:
16:52:33    
thomas: yes i want let know you the things about me
16:53:11    
joy: yes i know. its you so i must accept you for who you really are
16:53:34    
thomas: My brother already bought the gift which i shall give to his son, it costed 1800 p as he knows i am lazy in buying gifts
16:54:24    
thomas: And i hope you find me still a lot interesting after you know most things about me
IM 17:10:02. 18. Dez 2011
16:54:28    
joy: ok nice..
16:55:29    
thomas: Also i consider it not as important that i get gifts
16:56:11    
thomas: with my brother we agreed before for a few years not to give each other gifts as then we both save to need look for gifts
16:56:34    
joy: wow really?
16:57:14    
thomas: yes
16:57:17    
thomas: For me is the friendship in average life the main important thing and not much gifts
16:57:20    
joy: haha.. its nice you know what? my mom always give me a surprise gift because she know that i really love surprises
16:57:58    
joy: but my dad always give me a money as a give to buy new clothes or anything i want
16:58:32    
thomas: ah then you are not exaclty like me in that matter
16:59:06    
thomas: My parents give each child 6000 p as gift just as money
16:59:07    
joy: yes we are opposite in that matter
16:59:17    
thomas: I see
16:59:54    
joy: u forgot when i tell you before about my ex bf from sing?
17:00:20    
thomas: the chinese who lived in singapoore?
17:00:21    
joy: yes
17:00:23    
thomas: if i remember right`?
17:00:28    
joy: he is
17:01:09    
thomas: and what was about him relating the matter gifts`?
17:01:32    
joy: yes as he always give me surprise.?
17:03:03    
thomas: ah yes you tould he was very attentively
17:03:37    
joy: yes.. that's the reason why i fall inlove so much from him
17:03:52    
joy: but then he just dissapper withouth knowing
17:04:03    
thomas: yes
17:05:04    
joy: i just remember him now
17:05:34    
joy: i remember the time its xmas day when he surprise me
17:08:12    
thomas: I feel it always as a big gift if a woman makes sex with me, that she allowed me to enjoy her bodey
17:09:03    
thomas: but women feel that not exactly in this way like a man
17:09:14    
joy: omg
17:09:44    
joy: maybe if we can married someday
17:10:02    
joy: i can give my body to you as a gift
IM 17:30:41. 18. Dez 2011
17:10:06    
joy:
17:10:51    
thomas: thats great as its so nice for me to enjoy
17:11:14    
thomas: hope we can make sex already when we are engaged
17:12:05    
joy: hahaha.. its depend huh?
17:12:17    
joy: i cant answer your question now.
17:12:26    
thomas: ok
17:13:01    
joy: i hope you understand
17:13:13    
joy: as i came from very respected family
17:15:04    
thomas: On the chess turnament yesterday i got 4. place from 12
17:15:22    
joy: wow! great congrats
17:16:59    
thomas: and i did won 3 small bottles of sekt and a china oil for cough and a picture block to draw and a car cards quartett
17:17:13    
thomas: this i want use as gifts to give to relatives
17:17:50    
joy: wow..
17:18:05    
joy: great
17:18:37    
thomas: that turnament is every year very nice but this year was 12 people only, last years it was 20
17:19:06    
thomas: but last years where many kids and this year was not
17:20:03    
thomas: a 15 years old woman was there who is so pretty and charming
17:20:15    
thomas: the one who get her boyfriend will be so lucky
17:21:13    
thomas: Even i am so old i find her so pretty
17:21:59    
thomas: but i consider her not as choice but admire her a lot in just myself
17:22:30    
thomas: in germany women find man only interesting who is not older than 6 years and sometimes 9
17:24:16    
thomas: are you still there?
17:25:30    
joy: yes i am here
17:25:57    
joy: well this year is your lucky year huh
17:26:40    
thomas: that i did get know you it was lucky in this year
17:28:23    
thomas: but not lucky in that year was that i got wound now on other leg too
17:28:49    
joy: oh really?
17:28:57    
joy: why what happen?
17:29:50    
thomas: the skin boasted when i made garden work as i not expected that this leg is affected by vacicoses too now
17:30:41    
thomas: and then the skin broke as of higher preassure at garden work as it was weakened by varicosis
IM 17:49:24. 18. Dez 2011
17:31:51    
joy: then u must see the doctor
17:31:56    
joy: to check for that
17:34:44    
thomas: hm i not expect much from that, he will advice wear stocking socks, this i do now again and did do when this accident happened too
17:35:26    
thomas: but i saw picture of operation making the skin look much more nice again
17:35:49    
thomas: but the basic problem will remain need wear stocking socks
17:36:02    
thomas: but at least its a emergency option to make operation
17:36:47    
joy: omg
17:36:55    
joy: you make me worry
17:37:43    
thomas: yes thats really not a nice matter
17:38:18    
joy: yes..
17:38:25    
joy: if i were you
17:38:40    
joy: go to doc before it gets more worser
17:40:03    
thomas: but they can not much do only 2 remedies is known stocking socks and only if its really needed operation
17:40:29    
thomas: i will before april go to doctor as i need new stocking socks
17:40:38    
joy: but atleast you can take some medicine for that
17:40:49    
thomas: as they get older than 9 months and then its adviced to use new ones
17:41:19    
thomas: there is no medicine known for that
17:41:42    
joy: its impossble huh
17:44:50    
thomas: do you think you could read it in english, then i could write you a side where its writting about this illness, characteristics and therapy
17:45:48    
joy: i can read that even in german langauge
17:46:10    
thomas: hm why you can read in german language?
17:46:33    
joy: i learn german language but im not so good in that
17:46:54    
thomas: oh wow
17:47:13    
joy: yes
17:47:13    
thomas: maybe you are already better than i can speak russian language
17:47:55    
joy: i can speak japanese, malay, spanish
17:49:05    
thomas: hm i can not understand how someone likes to suffer to learn different languages in some amount if he has not a bigger use of it
17:49:15    
joy: Ich vermisse dich means i miss you right?
17:49:16    
thomas: but you are not like me, i am old and lazy
17:49:24    
thomas: ja
IM 17:59:49. 18. Dez 2011
17:49:41    
joy: i want to challenge my self for learning different language
17:50:27    
joy: and its a point here when you are finding job
17:51:35    
thomas: hm i am surprised
17:51:47    
joy: is i love you so much is Ich liebe dich so sehr? i forgot if im right
17:51:52    
thomas: i thought only to know english will considered but not other languages too
17:52:08    
thomas: yes its right
17:52:11    
joy: its not so necessary
17:52:17    
joy: but its a small point
17:52:38    
joy: i have a good memory
17:53:16    
thomas: but i wounder why you are not above average talkactive if you have good memory
17:53:42    
thomas: i think i am not above average as main reason as i have less than average good memory
17:53:59    
joy: well most of the time i am alone
17:54:07    
joy: as im just reading books
17:54:13    
joy: and watching tv alone
17:54:25    
thomas: but the woman 15 yeas old in chess club is less than average talkactive too and has best marks in school
17:54:38    
joy: yes
17:55:36    
thomas: I think there are different under points of memory
17:55:40    
joy: Ich möchte sie in vielerlei Hinsicht means i like you in many ways right?
17:56:55    
thomas: hm that sentence is not possible
17:57:07    
thomas: i translate the words single
17:57:50    
thomas: möchte = would like / want
17:57:53    
joy: oh ok as im not good in construction the phrases as i am only learning the words for words
17:58:11    
thomas: yes
17:58:27    
thomas: möchte can not mean like
17:58:47    
thomas: but want in meaning like would like
17:58:54    
thomas: I would like go with you to park
17:58:57    
thomas: in this meaning
17:59:07    
joy: i see.. ok i get it thanks
17:59:29    
thomas: the others is all translated correct
17:59:49    
joy: i only know good evening, good morning
IM 18:12:06. 18. Dez 2011
18:00:07    
joy: but im not learning yet how to constract sentences
18:00:26    
thomas: I think best is to learn first many words only
18:00:50    
joy: yes that's what im doing when i have free time
18:01:06    
thomas: and later when you know many words you can focus a little too how to construct correct sentences
18:01:27    
joy: and the german guy said if i will marry him i dont need to learn german language as his family can speak english
18:01:44    
thomas: oh
18:01:51    
joy: yes he told me that
18:02:09    
thomas: the one who lives in south america?
18:02:25    
joy: yes
18:02:35    
thomas: ah then i can understand
18:02:39    
thomas: i would do the same
18:02:41    
joy: then i said its better to learn many language
18:02:56    
thomas: if i cold live already in filipines my wife would not need to learn german
18:03:32    
thomas: just english that i can get know her
18:03:41    
joy: yes.
18:04:04    
joy: he said i am very smart girl as i can speak several language
18:04:19    
joy: if i will her gf he will be proud of me
18:04:33    
joy: and then i said you wish
18:05:54    
thomas: I would be proud of you if you are my gf as you are very pretty and much young
18:06:55    
thomas: and as of the way you are, you are in some amount young the way you are and cool
18:07:17    
joy: yes i know
18:08:09    
joy: but then i talk to the german guy that he just need to wait till april after you decide who will you choose so that its fair
18:09:02    
thomas: I am eased
18:09:11    
joy: huh?
18:09:14    
joy: why?
18:10:48    
thomas: as i worry in some amount you could choose other man, but you said you will wait for me till april
18:11:19    
joy: i mean it
18:11:27    
joy: promise is a promise
18:11:34    
thomas: I did chat today a first time with a very pretty woman and then she asked how is my search
18:12:06    
thomas: and then i was honest and did said i got know a very interesting woman in last vaccation 2 months ago and want meet her again
IM 18:28:01. 18. Dez 2011
18:13:01    
thomas: and that i 3 other find some interesting too but that i would like to get know her too as she is among the 10 most pretty women who did showed me interest
18:13:35    
thomas: but it looked like again that we not did get much close in chatting
18:13:53    
joy: yes..
18:14:02    
joy: its always like that
18:14:22    
thomas: also on you?
18:14:47    
thomas: half i think its more the problem on side of the man
18:15:03    
thomas: but if i think more i act like that too
18:15:36    
thomas: if i find a woman not enough pretty i automatically chat not so much with her as my enthusiasm is too low
18:16:34    
joy: yes i understand'
18:17:17    
joy: its youe choice though
18:17:45    
joy: but whatever your decision is i will be happy for you
18:17:51    
thomas: also if is barely enough pretty my mood to chat is only half
18:18:31    
joy: i already close my account in cupids
18:18:53    
thomas: nice (for me)
18:19:24    
thomas: I not made a new paid membership and can not read and respond messages as of that
18:19:45    
joy: yes as i don like to have in between us
18:20:12    
joy: i just want to concentrate on you then if it will not work i will find another
18:20:22    
joy: i want to focus on only one
18:20:33    
thomas: one very pretty one wrote write me already in September while i had paid membership and i did oversee her message
18:20:42    
joy: its really cofusing to have too many choices
18:22:00    
thomas: then can more focus on the less choices
18:22:52    
thomas: I decided to focus on you as priority and on 3 in medium amount
18:23:34    
thomas: in times till april
18:24:18    
joy: well
18:24:21    
thomas: and when it comes to meet hm about that i am undecided, i will have only 7 weeks vaccation, or i ask for 1 month additional unpaid vaccation
18:24:35    
joy: its up to you
18:25:11    
thomas: if i then will meet only you or will meet you most of the time and each of the other women 1 week
18:27:17    
thomas: The woman from masbate i tould that i consider you as most interesting woman and want meet you most of the time said she then maybe not want meet me
18:27:55    
joy: who?
18:28:01    
thomas: Ella
IM 18:43:56. 18. Dez 2011
18:28:21    
joy: oh yes i remember her
18:28:31    
joy: who tags many picture of you?
18:28:42    
thomas: yes
18:29:01    
joy: i think she is jealous when she saw our picture
18:29:07    
joy: but i dont mind her
18:29:25    
joy: instead i dont tag your other picture
18:30:04    
joy: as she may think that i compet her
18:30:17    
joy: tagging your pics
18:34:02    
thomas: yes make things unobtrusive
18:34:24    
joy: you think?
18:35:23    
thomas: I feel a little guilty if she likes me and i not choose her as i like you more
18:35:42    
joy: well that's life
18:35:53    
joy: she must accept that
18:36:07    
thomas: and also that i want meet her 1 week can hurt her a little but for me it would be the best way to decide finally
18:36:16    
joy: and if she will choose you i will be happy for both of you
18:37:22    
joy: honestly if you will choose me i would be happy and if not its ok for me as im very young i can find like you
18:37:55    
thomas: yes and you are very attractive and interesting person
18:38:17    
joy: yes. and many guys want me to be their gf
18:38:59    
joy: that's one of the reason why i close my account in cupids i dont want temptation while im concentrating with you
18:40:36    
thomas: for me is not much temptation as even i would still search a lot to find additional chatmates the chance is very low to find one who i get so close in talking and chatting as with you
18:41:42    
joy: yes i know that
18:42:00    
joy: you remember the guy from aus. who is trying to court me?
18:42:15    
thomas: yes
18:42:30    
joy: who buy 200,000 engagement ring from her future wife?
18:42:51    
joy: honestly he already ask me to marry him
18:43:05    
joy: but then i told to him he must wait til april
18:43:27    
joy: as you are the first who i met
18:43:31    
thomas: oh he is very fast in decission
18:43:39    
joy: and then we agreed
18:43:56    
joy: now he email me once a day
IM 18:57:09. 18. Dez 2011
18:44:04    
joy: but we never chat
18:44:34    
joy: yes he is very fast as he thought im the right girl for him
18:45:03    
thomas: ok you know each other much already from before
18:45:11    
joy: no.
18:45:25    
joy: we just chat on nov. 19
18:45:42    
joy: we chat around 9 pm here
18:46:21    
joy: we just chat 1 week straight as i thought he never likes me then he started to fall for me
18:47:14    
joy: after that i stop communicating with him
18:47:26    
thomas: ah its a other one, not the one who did choose a woman from south america temporarily
18:47:33    
joy: we just talk in emails
18:47:54    
joy: no another one
18:48:03    
thomas: ah i see
18:48:04    
joy: from austrillia again
18:48:56    
thomas: Ah australia is relatively near to filipines as of that that a australian is interested in a filipina is higher than it usually is to expect
18:49:29    
joy: yes..
18:49:44    
joy: he is nice and relatively rich
18:50:05    
joy: as he is a health inspector on his community
18:50:26    
thomas: I see
18:50:37    
joy: yes..
18:51:13    
joy: but then i told you money is not important to me
18:51:55    
joy: what matters most is the personality
18:52:09    
thomas: very nice that you see it so
18:52:19    
thomas: for me half matters beauty and half the personality
18:52:32    
joy: yes ofcourse.
18:53:05    
joy: its the advantages for the person who grow in a middle class family
18:53:24    
thomas: yes
18:54:49    
thomas: on you are my doubts that you choose me as i am not poor as main reason less than on the 2 women from cebu
18:55:50    
joy: im your doubt?
18:56:51    
thomas: still i am not fully free from doubts about you, thats normal
18:57:09    
joy: what is your doubt about me?
IM 19:09:24. 18. Dez 2011
18:59:07    
thomas: if it happens that you like me very or if it happened already, so much enogh that there is no danger you could leave me
18:59:44    
thomas: or if you like the woman from antipolo who would not leave her husband just only as her outstanding loyality
19:00:05    
thomas: one of both things are needed to be shure you not leave me later
19:00:48    
joy: loving someone is not easy it takes time and effort
19:01:01    
joy: before you say i fall inlove with this person
19:02:11    
joy: i like you? YES! absolutely
19:02:33    
joy: but love? I have so many doubt yet.
19:03:49    
thomas: I like a woman already from the start already a lot if she is very pretty and at least medium interesting and then close friend
19:04:48    
thomas: and if i get know her for more years and we continue to be close friends i fall in love to her what means in my case i like her 30 percent more
19:05:19    
thomas: as it would been already on itself
19:05:53    
thomas: or 50 or 100 percent more it depends on the case
19:06:08    
joy: oh ok
19:06:28    
joy: like what ive told you
19:06:44    
joy: it takes time to fall inlove
19:07:12    
thomas: ussually yes
19:07:21    
joy: yes..
19:07:29    
joy: thomas i need to sleep
19:07:41    
joy: its already 2 am here
19:07:54    
thomas: here are too sides about my illness you can read tomorrow
19:07:56    
thomas: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-thrombotic_syndrome
19:07:58    
joy: i forgot the time as i am busy chatting with you
19:08:22    
thomas: http://www.venousdiseasecoalition.org/diseaseinfo/pts/
19:08:41    
joy: ok i got it
19:08:41    
thomas: yes i was surprised that you chatted with me so long as its late in your place
19:08:51    
joy: yes
19:08:56    
joy: i forgot the time
19:09:10    
joy: as i am very busy chatting with you
19:09:14    
joy: goodnight
19:09:23    
thomas: good night
19:09:24    
joy: and sweet dreams bye for now
IM 19:09:45. 18. Dez 2011
19:09:30    
thomas: hugs and kisses
19:09:30    
joy: chat to you om
19:09:32    
joy: tom
19:09:35    
thomas: to you too nice dreams
19:09:38    
joy: hugs and kisses too
19:09:45    
thomas: ok look foreward t o chat you again
IM 18:08:39. 20. Dez 2011
17:57:29    
joy: wow
17:57:38    
joy: you online so much late
17:58:46    
thomas: train had delay today
17:59:07    
thomas: it was 20 minutes delayed
17:59:34    
joy: its ok huh
18:00:02    
thomas: happens some times but most its then only 5 minutes too late
18:00:44    
joy: its ok.. atleast you got home
18:01:07    
thomas: yes i worried it get later and was looking if i should take the bus
18:01:37    
thomas: with which i would had got additional 15 min later home but i would had known that it gets not later
18:01:57    
joy: well that's good
18:02:04    
joy: my eyes now is in pain
18:02:07    
joy: huhuhu
18:02:25    
thomas: as of catched a cold?
18:03:07    
joy: no because of the laptop
18:03:20    
thomas: ah yes and its late
18:04:06    
joy: yes
18:04:30    
thomas: My right eye had a few red small strings some days ago but they mostly disappeared about this i worried a little first
18:04:42    
thomas: but so it was only as chatch a small cold in the eye
18:05:02    
joy: i see..
18:05:10    
joy: well its nice its gone now
18:05:15    
thomas: yes
18:05:52    
joy: so have you eat dinner?
18:06:02    
thomas: i did not eat yet
18:06:33    
thomas: I am thinking if i shall wait till we chatted or shall prepair before
18:06:49    
thomas: i can still eat in a hour or like that
18:07:23    
joy: its up to you huh
18:07:32    
joy: if you are hungry go
18:07:49    
thomas: I will eat bread and karots and green vegetables and salad
18:08:06    
joy: wow.. yummy
18:08:39    
thomas: yes it did surprised me that i found it relatively tasty yesterday
IM 18:29:32. 20. Dez 2011
18:09:09    
thomas: the not cooked karotts smells more tasty if i scap it to small peaces
18:10:03    
thomas: they had it at sanatory often to small peaces cutted karrots
18:10:06    
joy: wow its good
18:10:38    
thomas: and as of that i got the idea to cut the karrots to small peaces, we have gadget in kitchen for that so it not takes too long time
18:10:59    
joy: i see
18:11:15    
joy: well if you are hungry just tell me huh
18:11:31    
joy: i am about to offline in 45 mins
18:12:12    
thomas: ok, i prepair it it takes not long time, i am back soon
18:12:19    
joy: ok
18:19:45    
thomas: i am back
18:20:08    
joy: ok good
18:21:02    
thomas: now came a nice song in radio from kastelruther spatzen
18:21:49    
thomas: this is one of my favorite singers in
18:23:10    
joy: i dont know that song
18:23:14    
thomas: folk music
18:23:42    
thomas: they sing in german language
18:24:07    
joy: i see
18:25:03    
thomas: do you have a cd music player then i will bring a cd when i come to see if you like it
18:25:20    
joy: yes we have
18:25:39    
joy: tomorow thomas we have a xmas party with friends
18:25:48    
joy: so cant go onlin huh
18:25:53    
joy: online
18:26:02    
thomas: thats ok
18:26:17    
thomas: when will you have?
18:27:08    
joy: just on the bar
18:27:42    
thomas: what evening?
18:27:47    
joy: yes
18:28:25    
thomas: tomorrow or day after tomorrow?
18:28:30    
joy: tomorow
18:29:32    
thomas: i feel more happy for you that you have a enjoying activity than that i feel pity that we not can chat
IM 18:51:15. 20. Dez 2011
18:30:00    
joy: that's why i chat huh. dont feel sad
18:30:10    
joy: even im there i always think of you
18:30:30    
thomas: thats very kind
18:32:24    
thomas: also i am very curious that we go out with your friends when we meet in april again
18:32:40    
joy: yes sure i will tell them..
18:33:15    
joy: my one of my friend told me that for sure tomrow she will be jealous again to me
18:33:34    
joy: as i am very fashionate when i go to party
18:35:54    
thomas: i am much simple in fashon, i buy only about 4 cloths every year and wear them then 5 till 10 years
18:36:24    
thomas: and i am not much sensitive for fashon
18:37:34    
joy: me too.
18:37:40    
joy: i am very casual
18:37:40    
thomas: if if looks pretty for me then it not matters if its 5 year old fashon
18:38:19    
joy: as you can see when u are here i just wear short and shirt
18:39:01    
thomas: i am too
18:39:24    
thomas: yes and your legs looked so sexy
18:39:42    
joy: thanks
18:40:45    
joy: when i was in college we have only 10 girls in my course
18:41:17    
joy: they always jealous of me because they love my body and even i ate a lot my body doest change
18:41:51    
thomas: very nice
18:43:29    
thomas: yes your beauty is in the top 10 till 15 percent for me
18:45:42    
thomas: i go every end of January to winter closing out sale to buy cloths and thats usually the only once a year i look for buy cloths
18:45:42    
joy: thanks for that
18:46:15    
joy: yes thats nice huh.
18:47:19    
thomas: yes its then 20 percent cheaper but they have usually nice cloths for discount in same way
18:49:06    
thomas: also my ex girlfriend and her best friend said your dressing is fashionable and that they think you are sociable woman
18:49:47    
joy: huh?
18:50:15    
thomas: yes as we talked sometimes about you
18:50:16    
joy: is the bestfriend of your ex gf saw me?
18:50:52    
thomas: yes she looked your pictures at facebook
18:51:15    
joy: then when they told about that what did you say?
IM 19:06:45. 20. Dez 2011
18:51:41    
joy: who is the name of your ex gf bestfriend?
18:52:49    
thomas: they said that you look like my ex girkfriend while she was in filipines she had same like for expensive things
18:53:45    
joy: OMG im totally not your EX gf huh? we are soo much different.
18:54:07    
joy: i dont need to use anybody just to buy expensive things
18:54:12    
joy:
18:55:13    
thomas: yes
18:56:10    
joy: sorry to say huh.
18:57:00    
thomas: When we married i would like you to live economical as long as you have no job as i consider that as fair
18:57:22    
thomas: that is the point towards that thought leads
18:57:34    
thomas: yes my ex girlfriend was a bad candidate in that
18:57:55    
joy: u dont have to worry huh,
18:58:02    
joy: as i can live simple
18:58:07    
joy: anytime anywhere
18:58:17    
joy: i am very flexible person
18:58:25    
joy: i am not sossy
18:59:24    
thomas: I since i am 18 dreamed to work only half day or retire early
19:00:23    
thomas: if i would have extra money i would spent it in working less and i like to live very economical for the reason to must work less and have more free time
19:00:29    
thomas: but thats me
19:00:46    
thomas: my wife i will give some freedom
19:00:59    
thomas: in how she want live
19:01:39    
joy: yes
19:01:46    
joy: and i thinks its fair
19:02:14    
thomas: but for my half i want invest more in less working than in a nicer life style
19:02:53    
thomas: but some part i can abandon for the reason to have a pretty wife and friend to enjoy
19:03:27    
joy: oh not so
19:04:03    
thomas: I am always proud when i can live economical and if i get a cheap thing which has same use like a thing for normal price
19:05:25    
thomas: Thats one reason which makes me let feel it very cool to stay in filipines
19:05:48    
thomas: to rent a cheap room and to travel with cheap bus
19:05:59    
joy: yes its true
19:06:45    
joy: i am feel sad
IM 19:18:52. 20. Dez 2011
19:07:06    
joy: when somebody envy with me
19:08:33    
thomas: Also that find it cool the idea as i look like a poor foreigner in filipines its less dangerous that criminals touch me
19:09:19    
joy: yes it is
19:11:01    
thomas: One time when i traveled in the bus to your place or from your place back i gave the collector 500 pesos instead 50 (50 was the missing what i not paid first) and then he said its only 50, that was very kind
19:12:13    
joy: there's a nice people here
19:12:21    
thomas: yes
19:12:46    
joy: i told you before right
19:12:51    
thomas: yes
19:13:20    
joy: i forgot to tell you
19:13:35    
joy: when me and my mom go to mall this afternoon
19:13:50    
joy: when im sitting while waiting for my mom
19:14:01    
joy: a guy ask me to get my number
19:14:21    
joy: i said my number is for friends only
19:14:43    
joy: then my mom came he just go
19:15:21    
joy: and then my mom said to me that next time its better not to wear short when we are in the mall
19:15:37    
joy: because there's a lot of rude people even in the mall
19:15:44    
thomas: hi hi yes in that view yes
19:15:52    
joy: then i said well mom its not my fault huh
19:15:58    
thomas: you get more attention
19:16:39    
joy: yes but i am comportable to wear short
19:16:43    
joy: than pants
19:16:48    
thomas: but i think also that on the other hand its a pity to hide the beauty just of worry about bad people
19:17:01    
joy: yes your right
19:17:03    
thomas: also its much more convenient in the hot weather
19:17:19    
joy: and i think i have a nice legs so why should i hide it
19:17:38    
joy: its there problem if they fantacize me
19:17:52    
joy: as long as i dont do anything for them
19:18:02    
thomas: yes
19:18:36    
thomas: for myself i enjoy just to see it and think ach how much pretty women can be
19:18:52    
joy: yes its true
IM 19:26:47. 20. Dez 2011
19:19:19    
joy: and there's nothing wrong wearing that as long as you have nice legs and u must be proud of that
19:19:29    
thomas: yes
19:19:41    
joy: tomorow i will wear short and shirt
19:19:49    
joy: and high heels
19:19:59    
thomas: my working mate (woman) critisized women to wear short and have not pretty legs
19:20:19    
joy: yes me too sometimes ill to that
19:20:20    
thomas: thats funny that this her disturbed
19:20:23    
joy: hehehe
19:20:50    
joy: its not good to see if someone wear short with ugly legs'
19:20:59    
joy: well i dont have perfect legs
19:21:09    
joy: but atleast i have nice legs'
19:21:22    
thomas: but with exciting ambience
19:21:34    
thomas: for a man
19:21:43    
thomas: and pretty for a woman to see
19:21:49    
joy: yes..
19:22:22    
thomas: high heels to wear is not so good for the legs i did read
19:22:37    
thomas: it can damage the bones with a small risk
19:23:17    
joy: yes i know that but i dont wear that too often
19:23:24    
thomas: but i not did informed me much i did read that only at a glance
19:23:27    
joy: i only wear once a month
19:23:37    
joy: it is true
19:23:55    
joy: as when i was in college i wear high heels in 4 years
19:24:32    
joy: but then my legs is painful sometimes so the doc advice me to wear flat shoes
19:25:07    
thomas: yes once a month is than not too bad
19:25:14    
joy: yeah
19:26:12    
joy: thomas i will sleep now
19:26:19    
joy: its already 2
19:26:25    
joy: 2:30 am here
19:26:38    
joy: i always sleep late this few weeks
19:26:47    
joy: i hopw i dont have insomia
IM 19:28:00. 20. Dez 2011
19:27:02    
thomas: ok
19:27:06    
joy: good night
19:27:13    
thomas: yes and tomorrow you have a nice party
19:27:16    
joy: and swet dreams later
19:27:20    
thomas: there you should be not tired
19:27:25    
joy: yes
19:27:29    
joy: i wont go home tom
19:27:36    
thomas: have good sleep and nice sleep
19:27:39    
joy: i will sleep at my friends house'
19:27:48    
thomas: ah i see
19:27:57    
joy: bye for now
19:27:59    
thomas: hugs to you
19:28:00    
thomas: bye
IM 18:06:27. 23. Dez 2011
17:48:35    
joy: hello thomas
17:50:44    
thomas: hallo joy
17:51:01    
thomas: my laptop takes always 20 minutes till its fully runs
17:51:11    
thomas: How are you?
17:51:16    
joy: im fine
17:51:18    
joy: u?
17:52:56    
thomas: I am ok, nice that its now weekend and christmas too
17:53:34    
thomas: I must make my computer moves in the next 6 minutes as some one is attacking me in the game
17:53:56    
thomas: as of that i focused only half on you till i done soon
17:53:58    
joy: oh i see
17:54:14    
thomas: What did you do today?
17:54:30    
joy: i fetch my cousin
17:54:45    
joy: from their town to here
17:56:19    
thomas: which cousin?
17:56:53    
joy: u never meet her
17:57:55    
thomas: ah I see
17:58:29    
joy: yes.. can you send me your email? i will send my xmas gift to you
18:01:19    
thomas: my e mail is thomas@yahoo.de
18:01:38    
thomas: will you sent me something?
18:02:04    
joy: yes..
18:02:23    
joy: but it is simple hope you like it
18:02:39    
thomas: I am curious
18:03:15    
joy: u can see it at dec. 25
18:03:21    
thomas: ok
18:03:45    
joy: as i will send it 10 mins before dec. 25 there
18:05:00    
thomas: ok, hm i have a few funny things at work at computer and there i will come only after christmas
18:05:25    
thomas: ah and most is in german but maybe 1 in english
18:05:38    
joy: like?
18:06:20    
thomas: I not remember it now, but it was really a lot funny from working mates
18:06:27    
thomas: i remember only it was a lot funny
IM 18:21:33. 23. Dez 2011
18:07:23    
thomas: and one was about bank crisis this i remember only exactly but that was not so funny compare to the other things
18:08:36    
thomas: What was then there in the drinks you guess?
18:09:12    
thomas: To be honest i took 2 times in my life already LSD and 1 time in my life exstasy
18:09:23    
thomas: do you think it was some ting like that?
18:09:41    
joy: no i think
18:10:00    
joy: its something that can get you drunk and dizy
18:10:24    
joy: i think its a powder
18:10:32    
joy: here is the story
18:11:05    
joy: my two friend the tall one and who have sad face in the wedding
18:11:20    
joy: they are the one who invite me in a xmas party
18:11:31    
joy: with theire boss
18:12:09    
joy: my one of my friend warn me that dont wear short
18:12:24    
joy: so i follow her i change pants
18:13:02    
joy: so when we are in the bar its not a public bar itss private
18:13:50    
joy: then he get a 8 bottle of tanduay ice( you can research in internet it contain only 5% alcohol)
18:14:59    
joy: me and my friend know's our capacity in drinking we never drrunk in one bottle of beer so what more on that ladies drink who contain 5% alcohol
18:15:33    
joy: our mistake is we go to comfort room together
18:15:51    
joy: and we left that guy together with our drinks
18:16:29    
joy: so i think that man grab the chace to put something in our drink
18:17:20    
thomas: was this man a friend of your friend?
18:17:42    
joy: a boss of my friend they have part time job
18:18:13    
joy: this is the link http://www.asiabrewery.com/tanduayalcomix.php
18:18:29    
joy: that's the ladies drink we drin
18:18:31    
joy: drink
18:19:06    
thomas: that this boss then not care about his reputation
18:19:25    
thomas: if he was it
18:19:58    
joy: i meet him first time
18:20:33    
thomas: but one friend of you work in same company
18:21:10    
joy: no is just a part time job sso she just work in the house of her boss
18:21:33    
thomas: ah i see
IM 18:46:46. 23. Dez 2011
18:23:15    
thomas: but you then only felt dizy and not well but not more bad happened?
18:25:18    
joy: yes..
18:27:32    
joy: he just fantasazing me
18:27:43    
thomas: ok then not nice and scaring but not happened a robbing or rape
18:28:05    
joy: nothing happen as we are 3
18:28:13    
joy: he rich
18:28:22    
thomas: he liked special you?
18:28:38    
joy: so i dont think he will robbing us
18:28:55    
joy: yes i think as he always sit beside me
18:29:20    
joy: and when i vommit he follow me to comport room
18:29:58    
joy: instead of rubbing only my back he touch me stomach
18:30:20    
joy: i cant move that time as i am very dizy and vomit that time
18:32:10    
thomas: and he pretented wanting help you as of your vommit with the intention to can at least light touch your bodey
18:32:26    
thomas: ?
18:32:36    
joy: yes exactly
18:35:12    
thomas: then good that not happened more
18:35:45    
joy: yes but is wants my body.4
18:35:59    
joy: good thing im not wearing short that time
18:38:02    
joy: i will send to you our pics he always sit beside me
18:38:43    
thomas: and then you succeeded to go out of toilet where the others where and he only hold you with light power for the reason he still can say it was only a joke?
18:39:08    
joy: yes.. its true
18:39:49    
thomas: he is on the pic?
18:40:00    
joy: yes
18:42:23    
joy: are you there?
18:42:46    
thomas: yes
18:43:12    
thomas: i am only slow type as i use only 1 hand as of eating
18:44:20    
thomas: that he hold you only with light power i count that some exculpation to count it not as a full crime
18:45:38    
thomas: i would then just avoid to be with him alone and also i guess you then want only light friend with him
18:46:46    
thomas: i remember a little that such happened in the youth groop too once
IM 19:02:41. 23. Dez 2011
18:47:08    
thomas: but without put something in the drinks
18:47:55    
thomas: in the youth group i joined when i was 22 for 1 year
18:48:53    
thomas: but that man and woman did then still stayed not close friends
18:49:48    
joy: well i just meet him once
18:49:58    
joy: and only that nigt
18:50:01    
joy: night
18:50:18    
joy: and the worst is he have wife and kids...
18:50:26    
thomas: oh
18:50:34    
joy: see?? that's why i hate filipino guy
18:50:51    
joy: they are most cheater even thye have a wife
18:51:31    
thomas: but not all
18:51:52    
joy: as i said MOST
18:51:57    
joy: not ALL
18:52:23    
thomas: most would mean more than 50 %
18:52:55    
thomas: hm hard for me to say, maybe its true
18:53:54    
thomas: as most are poor and then its easyier to get discouraged from life and be rather a more bad person
18:54:17    
thomas: but that one is rich
18:55:38    
thomas: the sister of my ex girlfriend who i was also thinking about to choose and who was 21 in 2006 married a kind and nice filipino
18:55:59    
thomas: they did been friends already from school
18:57:17    
joy: yesn
18:57:19    
joy: yes
18:57:29    
joy: not all but MOST
18:58:08    
thomas: and i met him 2006 when they where just friends, i found him very congenial and was jelous a little that he was charming and interesting person like i would like to be
18:58:51    
thomas: he was like me but more talkactive and charming and also pretty
18:59:20    
thomas: but pretty i find me too in that i was not jelous
18:59:21    
joy: oh ok
18:59:23    
joy: then
18:59:46    
thomas: they married 2 years later
19:01:20    
thomas: but she would had taken me too that time
19:02:41    
thomas: we had once a date in restaurant but then we where not able to talk much as she spoke only a little english
IM 19:25:40. 23. Dez 2011
19:03:17    
thomas: and then it hard to judge if we would fit as friends
19:04:05    
thomas: then i could only choose and must wait 2 years to see if we really fit
19:04:46    
thomas: she had outstanding sexy legs
19:05:43    
thomas: and seemed to have on the little i was able to judge to have a medium personality
19:07:43    
joy: i see..
19:07:51    
joy: good for her
19:11:03    
thomas: I was on a meditation seminar 2004 on which we made meditation after taking LSD or extacy
19:12:56    
thomas: we layed then on a matress with closing eyes and listen relaxation music or the healer who hold that did read a meditation text
19:13:57    
thomas: and then i feelt 10 times more heappy than ever once in life and the emotions where so deep
19:14:21    
thomas: of me and had a much improved intuition as of the drug
19:14:47    
thomas: and it was like to be half awake and half dreaming
19:15:13    
thomas: and it came such deep thought
19:16:53    
thomas: I wanted to dry this if that can break my blocking of intuition in my brain
19:17:44    
thomas: but after the effect of the drug disappeared after 8 hours it was the same as before
19:18:31    
thomas: I had mania illness in 1999 and mania is the oposite of depression
19:20:22    
thomas: i feeled outstanding happy most of the time over 2 months but after 2 months my thoughts got for bigger parts crazy and i was broght to hospital
19:20:53    
thomas: and they then forced me to take medicine against that even i not wanted to be healed from the illness which makes happy
19:22:40    
thomas: and then i had no choice to take this medicine that they let me out of the hospital but when they let me out then i stopped inbetween 2 days taking the medicine but all was like before the crazieness gone but also the such great effects of the illness to be happy, to be much more talkactive and to have much more intuition
19:25:40    
thomas: are you still there?
IM 15:46:09. 24. Dez 2011
15:24:13    
joy: hi thomas merry xmas
15:24:58    
thomas: hallo joy, thanks, to you too happy christmas
15:25:34    
thomas: did you fall asleep while chatting yesterday?
15:26:01    
joy: the internet connection is disconnected
15:27:06    
thomas: what did you do today?
15:27:18    
joy: a lot
15:27:29    
joy: preparing foods for our noche buena now
15:28:00    
thomas: oh so late
15:30:13    
thomas: that means christmas?
15:30:20    
joy: yes
15:32:45    
joy: that's my simple gift hope you like it
15:33:03    
thomas: ok, thanks
15:33:32    
thomas: you will get your gifts then soon later?
15:33:55    
thomas: from your family?
15:34:09    
joy: yes i think
15:36:28    
thomas: yesterday i was in chess club again and had turnament game against this 15 year old very pretty woman and i made a big mistake in game as i thought its anyway easy against her and was not much careful and now it gets maybe only equality the game
15:36:47    
thomas: we then continue next time as it got not finished
15:37:35    
joy: well good luck huh
15:38:04    
thomas: thanks
15:38:42    
thomas: in filipines people can celebrate christmas at the beach
15:38:54    
thomas: but you are a little too far away from beach
15:39:11    
joy: yes.. very far
15:41:57    
joy: chat me if the video is ok..
15:42:13    
thomas: ok
15:42:22    
thomas: it still takes some time to load
15:43:33    
thomas: will you go now to noche buena or will you still stay to chat a little?
15:44:10    
joy: im doing something
15:44:56    
thomas: ok, i just chat you someting and see when you reply
15:46:09    
thomas: in 1 hour i will go with my parents to my brother for dinner and spent some time, also my sister will come with family
IM 16:26:45. 24. Dez 2011
15:59:36    
thomas: Hallo joy, thanks a lot it was very nice. this song i like a lot and i find it very cool the song. I was already before thinking i should record this song as i like it a lot. The idea if husbands only like as biggest gift only enjoy their company at christmas. And you made also the picture presentation nice
16:00:38    
joy: i like the presentation animated
16:00:48    
joy: but then my laptop hang always
16:01:05    
joy: so i repeat all of that 10x i thinks
16:08:32    
thomas: thats is also effect of your education to know to make a presentation
16:08:38    
thomas: this i not know
16:09:12    
thomas: my working mate made once a small pesentation about streets
16:09:20    
joy: yes dont worry i will make some presentation you will amazed its a very basic presentation
16:10:08    
thomas: I am curious
16:10:44    
thomas: hope i find this funny presentations which i got from working mates to sent you, one was so funny
16:12:18    
thomas: But spent not too much time for it as like in the song as gift i want only have to spent time with you
16:13:43    
thomas: Yesterday i was talking a little with my boss about vaccation and its maybe if i go in July, i could maybe make a long vaccation too again
16:16:13    
thomas: i could take 1 month unpaid vaccation and then i could stay 3 months but that was only my idea yet i not asked yet tangible about that
16:17:20    
joy: wow.. great..
16:17:24    
joy: its good huh
16:17:56    
thomas: this to have 3 months vaccation i liked a lot on my last vaccation
16:18:58    
thomas: there come a trainee in our section in July for longer time and he could then replace me while vaccation
16:19:30    
joy: i see
16:19:36    
joy: then its good for you huh
16:20:19    
thomas: yes, only that it would be not april instead then 3 months later
16:20:51    
thomas: ah July it would be already
16:21:06    
thomas: as june he said, i remember now
16:21:22    
joy: i see
16:21:26    
joy: its ok huh
16:22:12    
thomas: yes it could then be a long time again instead
16:22:24    
thomas: and anyway its only once a year possible to make vaccation
16:25:45    
joy: i see
16:26:01    
joy: then do you think if would be possible?
16:26:22    
thomas: 7 months i am much shure already now
16:26:45    
thomas: if i can take unpaid vaccation additional i think chance is 70 percent
IM 16:32:59. 24. Dez 2011
16:27:05    
joy: i see. then it would be good for you
16:28:03    
thomas: yes
16:28:26    
thomas: and to loose one month salery and have then 3 months faccation its ok for that
16:30:01    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
16:31:18    
joy: we will watch movie with my cousin and sis
16:31:46    
thomas: on tv or will come a nice on TV
16:31:54    
joy: in cinema
16:32:42    
thomas: to which city will you go there?
16:32:59    
joy: at calamba
IM 16:51:08. 24. Dez 2011
16:50:01    
thomas: I need go now
16:50:38    
thomas: have a nice christmas
16:51:08    
joy: i need to go too, its late na, take care merry xmas
IM 8:05:07. 25. Dez 2011
7:51:38    
joy: thomas merry xmas
7:52:10    
thomas: hallo joy, thanks, to you too
7:52:45    
thomas: which gifts did you get?
7:53:10    
joy: from my dad and mom
7:53:25    
thomas: yes
7:54:50    
joy: from my dad money from my mom its lipstick
7:55:27    
thomas: oh so simple thing
7:55:59    
thomas: my brother and sister and husbands i did give chanpain or koffee
7:56:02    
joy: yes..
7:56:07    
thomas: then i was not the only one
7:56:08    
joy: wow great
7:57:32    
thomas: i am always not much talkactive usually on a party
7:57:49    
thomas: my sister and brother are closer with each other than i with one of them
7:58:00    
joy: oh really?
7:58:02    
joy: why?
7:59:29    
thomas: as i am not so much talkactive and more inside person i guess
7:59:51    
joy: i see..
7:59:58    
joy: then try to be close to them
8:00:34    
thomas: but i get not so much ideas to talk
8:01:35    
thomas: Both has also kids and i not and it was also for a big part focused on kids
8:02:03    
thomas: also towards kids i am not so skilled to get closer
8:02:04    
joy: i see..
8:02:34    
joy: then you must to have kids soon
8:02:41    
joy: so that u can realate to them
8:03:05    
thomas: i think and hope with a own kid its better
8:03:13    
joy: yes ofcourse
8:04:33    
joy: i need to go now thomas i just online now to greet you merry xmas
8:04:40    
joy: we will watch movie now
8:04:50    
joy: with my sis and cousin
8:05:07    
thomas: which one?
IM 8:13:09. 25. Dez 2011
8:05:24    
joy: the you never meet her
8:06:19    
thomas: sounds a interesting title
8:06:30    
joy: yes..
8:06:42    
joy: i will upload our pix in fb
8:07:05    
thomas: ok, then i can watch
8:07:34    
joy: that's is the pics of her and my sis
8:07:36    
thomas: i will ask my sister to lent me her digi cam that i can make pictures of my place
8:07:55    
joy: oh ok.. that's a good idea
8:08:26    
thomas: who is the one there who is with your sister on the pic`?
8:08:33    
joy: my cousin
8:09:36    
thomas: will you travel with jeapney there
8:09:52    
joy: yes
8:10:24    
joy: i will go now thomas
8:10:34    
thomas: `ok, wish you to enjoy
8:11:24    
joy: thanks
8:11:31    
joy: bye for now.. see you later huh
8:11:43    
thomas: ok, i will often be online today and tomorrow
8:11:55    
thomas: then we will just see each other again
8:12:53    
joy: yes...
8:12:53    
thomas: I play chess now on computer
8:13:03    
joy: enjoy the rest of the day \
8:13:06    
joy: muawh...
8:13:09    
thomas: thanks
IM 15:03:57. 25. Dez 2011
14:45:51    
joy: hi thomas
14:46:14    
thomas: hallo joy
14:46:20    
thomas: was the movie nice?
14:46:29    
joy: yes soo cool
14:46:37    
joy: i love it
14:47:16    
thomas: today comes a nice move on tv on evening
14:48:06    
thomas: about a couple which is very much in love first but then loose their love with simple life problems
14:48:17    
thomas: its with famous actors, so i am curious
14:48:30    
joy: wow really?
14:48:35    
thomas: and the topic is very interesting for me
14:48:53    
thomas: as i hope and want research if not same can happen then between us later
14:49:35    
joy: you really want to marry me huh?
14:50:26    
thomas: i think much about that
14:51:17    
joy: really?
14:52:29    
thomas: yes as i like you a lot and think maybe it fits a lot between us
14:53:11    
joy: u like me a lot?
14:53:23    
thomas: yes
14:53:29    
joy: in what way?/
14:53:36    
thomas: your beauty but also enjoyed your company
14:55:17    
thomas: i think maybe we fit in talking maybe as of that as we are both not so much talkactive it just out of that fits
14:55:54    
thomas: and your character looks to be very nice
14:56:28    
thomas: and that we where able to chat much is special this shows for me that we could fit good
14:59:24    
thomas: times of commotion is the title of the movie
15:00:06    
thomas: with leonardo do caprio
15:01:13    
joy: ah yes i think i know that movie
15:01:43    
joy: i dont remember the title but i remember the title'
15:03:10    
thomas: did you been then in mall also a little?
15:03:30    
joy: yes as we watch movie there
15:03:50    
joy: and one thing the guy i meet in the bar he txted me
15:03:57    
joy: today
IM 15:27:25. 25. Dez 2011
15:04:11    
thomas: what did he text?
15:04:32    
joy: he just say hello
15:05:18    
thomas: he did have your phone number from before?
15:06:03    
joy: no i think he ask my number to my friend
15:06:15    
thomas: ah i see
15:06:31    
joy: yes
15:09:28    
joy: then he ask me to join again
15:09:37    
joy: with them next time
15:10:02    
joy: then i just say i will ask you if you will allow me to go with them next time
15:10:28    
thomas: i would allow you
15:10:37    
thomas: i not worry much about him as he is married
15:11:50    
thomas: you should spunk hm to behave
15:12:20    
thomas: but in a way that no other one notice
15:14:34    
thomas: he is like me, if i am married i will still admire other women but its then only allowed to admire the other ones
15:16:17    
joy: do you think i am attractive?
15:16:30    
joy: so that even a married man will attract to me?
15:16:36    
thomas: yes a lot
15:17:02    
thomas: how old is he and his wife?
15:17:17    
joy: i think he is 35
15:17:26    
joy: i dont know his wife
15:19:16    
thomas: his wife was not at the party of course, other wise that would not happened
15:19:39    
joy: yes..
15:21:15    
thomas: if you are then my wife i will feel proud that other men admire you too
15:22:46    
thomas: and will give you freedom to have other man friends only i want your loyality as main
15:23:53    
thomas: which i have as from you as the most important friend
15:24:35    
joy: then if i will be your wife expect that
15:24:55    
thomas: yes
15:27:03    
joy: is it ok to you
15:27:10    
thomas: yes
15:27:25    
joy: why?
IM 15:53:15. 25. Dez 2011
15:29:24    
thomas: as i would like to have women friends too but only friends
15:30:32    
thomas: and i want be kind and openmindet
15:31:24    
joy: oh ok.. as i like it too
15:31:28    
thomas: that you will meet interesting man at work while meeting with friends is anyway not fully possible to avoid
15:33:03    
joy: yes its true
15:33:45    
thomas: and it makes life more interesting if you have other man friends and i other women friends
15:34:10    
joy: ok its ok for me
15:36:03    
thomas: it will only be then the oposite in filipines i have much more admirers than you but if we live then in germany you will have much more admirers than me me
15:36:38    
joy: hahahaa  yes
15:36:51    
joy: well nim not insecure
15:36:56    
joy: im
15:37:13    
joy: if you have a lot of admirer's here
15:38:13    
thomas: yes
15:39:09    
thomas: i did liked you most from the many choices
15:39:50    
thomas: you had also many choices in theory if you would had chat a lot on dating sites
15:40:22    
thomas: this makes me also feel choosen by you
15:41:26    
joy: what do you mean by that?
15:44:09    
thomas: the most very pretty women not did chat with me much as they not find me same interesting as their top 3 chatmates but this was not on you
15:45:43    
joy: i see..
15:45:48    
joy: now i know
15:47:09    
thomas: i think i understand this matter now as i tried to chat also with women i find not fully enough pretty but then even i tried in a normal way to chat with them it works less on me as my interest i feel towards them is lower
15:47:37    
joy: yes
15:47:45    
joy: sometimes
15:48:08    
joy: but then sometimes it maybe you want to focus on someone than them
15:49:31    
thomas: I chatched a little a cold but its only yet in the nouse
15:50:07    
joy: yes
15:50:17    
joy: i understand
15:51:30    
thomas: i wear a shawel in hope it prevents that it affects the throat
15:52:37    
thomas: sent again
15:53:15    
joy: thomas watch this its nice
IM 16:11:30. 25. Dez 2011
15:53:36    
joy: but i know you wont understand as its xmas filipino song
15:53:39    
joy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naLFMp8A1go
15:53:42    
thomas: now its dark behind you again
15:53:57    
joy: hehe yes
15:54:09    
joy: sorry im not pretty now
15:54:17    
joy: as its very late now
15:55:27    
thomas: but before i was pleased to see you in light
15:55:50    
joy: huh?
15:56:23    
thomas: when we chated before you went to watch movie
15:56:43    
thomas: it was day in your place too
15:57:42    
joy: its on the room of my parents
15:58:22    
thomas: the song is nice
15:58:59    
joy: yes very nice
15:59:58    
joy: all the famous celebrety is there
16:00:27    
thomas: famous singers of filipines?
16:00:51    
joy: yes and also the celebrities
16:03:03    
thomas: i am moretimes sometimes surprised and pleased that you know a english word i not know celebrety
16:03:59    
thomas: oh now i sa the word
16:04:20    
joy: oh sorry i dont know
16:04:54    
thomas: dont mind
16:05:18    
joy: i dont you before that i learn so much word in english
16:05:57    
thomas: very nice
16:07:00    
joy: some of my english word you dont know right?
16:07:26    
thomas: 2 words it was today
16:08:18    
thomas: but the online dictionary needs to have a purpose do be made for
16:08:18    
joy: like?
16:09:38    
thomas: i forgot the other one from morning
16:10:18    
thomas: if you use it moretimes i maybe can remember and learn new words
16:11:21    
joy: i see but i forgotn
16:11:30    
joy: if you dont tell me
IM 16:24:46. 25. Dez 2011
16:11:36    
joy: i wont remember
16:11:59    
thomas: yes but maybe accidentially you use it again a other time
16:12:23    
thomas: and if not its not a word which is in use often
16:12:37    
thomas: and then not so important to know
16:12:49    
joy: oh sorry
16:13:21    
thomas: its very quick to find so dont feel shy to use many english words
16:14:16    
joy: my cousin is on the phone
16:14:27    
thomas: the one i not met yet?
16:14:54    
joy: no he is from province bicol
16:15:05    
joy: i just greet him a happy new year
16:15:24    
thomas: ah yes that the time of greetings now
16:15:41    
joy: yes..
16:16:03    
joy: i ask him if they get the money send by my mom to them
16:16:41    
thomas: why did she sent them a money? as gift?
16:16:51    
joy: yes..
16:19:21    
thomas: do you sometimes make garden work too?
16:19:51    
joy: no why?
16:21:05    
thomas: i need to get the few beetroot which i planted in garden in spring
16:22:03    
thomas: but not will have much harvest maybe 4 peaces only survived
16:22:22    
joy: i see.
16:22:23    
thomas: I am surprised that vegetables are so cheap compare to the much work it makes to grow it
16:23:09    
joy: really?
16:23:19    
joy: so have u eat dinner now?
16:23:21    
thomas: and one cabbage is there survived
16:23:34    
joy: oh i love cabbage
16:23:43    
thomas: no did not eat dinner yet
16:23:48    
thomas: oh wow
16:24:01    
joy: yes
16:24:31    
joy: why?
16:24:46    
thomas: as i succeded to grow one
IM 16:42:27. 25. Dez 2011
16:25:10    
joy: its one of my fav.
16:25:31    
thomas: and its cheap
16:26:17    
thomas: and a big peace on one peace can eat already a lot
16:26:38    
joy: yes
16:27:00    
joy: and i love it specially if its cook with ground pork
16:27:05    
joy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1nNUOMS14g
16:27:18    
joy: watch that its also nice
16:29:32    
thomas: yes thats very nice, i like it a lot
16:29:59    
joy: its really nice
16:30:05    
joy: which nicer?
16:30:19    
thomas: this one
16:30:37    
thomas: the other i liked only some
16:31:06    
joy: yes..
16:31:16    
joy: i like this too
16:31:39    
joy: if you really understand the lyrics you will be touch
16:32:06    
joy: christams station song last year on one tc station here is that one
16:32:25    
joy: and the other i send to you is this year xmas song station
16:33:29    
thomas: yes if you like the melody then its special nice if the song has a deep lyrics
16:34:03    
joy: yes very true
16:34:04    
thomas: and that can inspire a little
16:34:23    
joy: its inspire me a lot
16:35:16    
thomas: a üity that i not know the language
16:35:50    
joy: yes i will translate it to you someday heheh
16:36:35    
thomas: ok, then i save the link
16:38:00    
joy: yes u must
16:38:11    
thomas: ok
16:38:31    
joy: i watch the video again and again
16:41:19    
thomas: i will look if i can find a nice german for you
16:41:47    
thomas: till next time
16:42:27    
joy: ok sure
IM 16:56:27. 25. Dez 2011
16:42:44    
joy: my friend txted me sorry
16:43:05    
thomas: why one?
16:44:35    
joy: the one from the party
16:46:18    
thomas: will you meet again?
16:46:54    
joy: she just ask me if what her boss said when he txted me
16:47:09    
thomas: ah i see
16:47:36    
thomas: what will yo do tomorrow`?
16:48:05    
joy: i will rest all day hehehe
16:48:21    
joy: as i need to do asn exercise i eat a lot today'
16:48:59    
thomas: exercise is always good
16:49:24    
thomas: since i am back in germany i jogg every day once from work to train station
16:49:45    
thomas: and i noticed a lot that i was out of training compare before
16:49:56    
joy: yes its true
16:50:18    
thomas: and after 5 days the jogging did go as easy as before
16:50:31    
thomas: in just light jogging 10 km per hour speed
16:51:06    
joy: wow.. great
16:51:18    
thomas: which kind of exercise will you do?
16:51:46    
joy: sit ups
16:51:53    
joy: ang badmenton
16:52:15    
thomas: with whom will you play badmington?
16:52:46    
joy: with sis
16:54:40    
thomas: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/f/ff/Crunch.gif situps
16:55:05    
joy: hahaha.. nice
16:55:36    
thomas: i did do that in sanatory
16:55:42    
joy: i need to have more sit ups to stay fit
16:55:44    
thomas: there was a fitness studio
16:55:57    
thomas: yes
16:55:58    
joy: wow great
16:56:16    
joy: i am a body conscious
16:56:27    
joy: i want my body now
IM 17:07:44. 25. Dez 2011
16:57:03    
thomas: thats nice one more reason that you are a good choice
16:57:14    
joy: huh??
16:57:23    
joy: because of my body??
16:57:57    
thomas: yes if you are bodey conscious you maybe will care to be slim even you are 40 or 50
16:58:40    
thomas: i always surprised and pleased if i see a woman who is still slim with 40 or 50
16:58:42    
joy: hahaha.. yes i think
16:59:32    
joy: i want to have a very sexy body
16:59:48    
thomas: nice
16:59:50    
joy: so that all of girls will be jealous at me hahaha
17:00:11    
thomas: i am dreaming to have a wife which is always very pretty
17:00:38    
thomas: of course its not possible but till she is 40 its possible if she cares for that
17:01:00    
joy: oh well DREam come true if i will be your wife soon
17:01:04    
joy: hahaha
17:01:13    
thomas: very nice
17:01:29    
joy: hahaha.. just joking
17:02:00    
joy: huh? speechless?
17:02:33    
thomas: must find new ideas to talk
17:03:05    
joy: yes but then its very late here
17:03:23    
joy: 2morow u have work?
17:03:36    
thomas: it was the first time when i was 34 and visited Ukraine to look for a pretty woman that idea came into my mind and inspired me
17:03:51    
joy: what idea?
17:03:59    
thomas: to have for always a very pretty woman
17:04:52    
thomas: but its just not for always but at least for a longer time
17:05:01    
joy: yes
17:05:33    
thomas: when she gets older then a other inspiration must carry me
17:06:22    
joy: huh
17:06:23    
thomas: about this i was already thinking more times what can replace then the inspiration of beauty when she is 40 or 45
17:06:25    
joy: i see
17:07:27    
thomas: i hope i gone like her so much as of her beauty when she was younger than 40 and then the just like her can carry me
17:07:44    
thomas: even the beauty then for a bigger part is gone
IM 17:18:13. 25. Dez 2011
17:07:52    
joy: ofcourse u can carry
17:08:20    
joy: beAuty is in the a of be holder huh
17:08:42    
joy: beAuty is in the eye of be holder huh
17:09:11    
thomas: hm only for a part
17:09:20    
joy: we chated most of the time now
17:09:35    
thomas: but sometimes it happened i like a lot a woman who was only medium pretty
17:09:37    
joy: when i will go in manila u will miss me
17:10:15    
thomas: just as of her personality and as we liked each other as friends and that i hope will be on my wife when she is older
17:10:38    
joy: ofcourse yes
17:10:42    
joy: it will be
17:12:33    
thomas: it will be also the remembering about the passed so happy times in which she made me happy when she was young which will make me like her special
17:12:46    
thomas: this thought touched me now
17:12:55    
joy: oh really?
17:13:20    
thomas: but hope it takes still a long time till its so far
17:13:42    
thomas: that i can enjoy a long time her beauty basically
17:13:56    
joy: wow then thats great huh
17:14:08    
joy: anyway thomas we only have 1 week to go
17:14:17    
joy: that we can chat like this
17:14:41    
joy: as when i will be in manila i dont think i can go online on the week end
17:15:00    
thomas: why?
17:15:10    
joy: because of the time diff.
17:15:28    
thomas: but at weekend it would fit still
17:15:40    
joy: my mom dont allow me to use laptop
17:15:41    
thomas: or will you work saturday also?
17:15:52    
joy: i dont know yet
17:16:18    
joy: and its really expensive if i will use this laptop
17:16:40    
joy: as i need to pay 50 a day to use a internet connection there
17:17:09    
joy: i cant afford to pay as my mom dont want to give me money she against me
17:17:14    
joy: about going to manila
17:18:13    
thomas: i could sent you a money for chatting that you buy every sunday for 50 p
IM 17:29:18. 25. Dez 2011
17:18:27    
thomas: but more the problem is that your mom needs the laptop or your sister
17:19:07    
joy: yes as my mom dont allow me to bring her laptop
17:19:30    
joy: she said if i want to use her laptop i need to stay here not in manila
17:19:59    
thomas: we will find a way
17:20:14    
thomas: then lets chat 2 hours one a week or like that
17:20:28    
thomas: in a internet caffee for 20 pesos a hour
17:20:39    
joy: and for sure i cant go to internet shop in the night because its dangerious
17:21:08    
joy: oh my god
17:21:12    
thomas: ok, we can chat then at 3 pm at a saturday or sunday
17:21:27    
thomas: or even 2 pm
17:21:43    
joy: thomas we have a lot of condition
17:21:49    
joy: with my mom
17:21:59    
joy: first i can go to manila with my own money
17:22:19    
joy: second we wont allow me to bring the laptop
17:22:38    
thomas: that i can understand with the laptop
17:23:06    
joy: 3rd she wont allow me to go to the internet shop if she will know that i go to computer shop she will force me to go back here in laguna
17:23:29    
thomas: why she not likes you to go to internet caffee
17:23:45    
thomas: `in manila?
17:24:04    
joy: she said its not nice to to internet shop in manila its dagerous
17:24:12    
joy: a lot of snatcher there
17:25:08    
thomas: take just 200 p with you if you go there, that argument not can convince her`?
17:25:59    
joy: she cant convince on tht
17:26:12    
joy: as she really dont want me to go in manila
17:26:46    
thomas: I know that from my father its in some thimgs impossible to convince him even my argunents are more right than his ones
17:27:10    
joy: yes like my mom
17:27:14    
thomas: Could you then use internet at a friends house or relatives house`?
17:27:34    
joy: there's no internet there
17:28:04    
joy: i only have one realatives there
17:28:48    
thomas: you will stay in paranaque?
17:29:18    
joy: in pasay
IM 17:41:34. 25. Dez 2011
17:29:50    
thomas: how is the street name?
17:30:00    
joy: baclaran
17:30:14    
thomas: oh wow its near the train station
17:30:37    
joy: yes
17:31:19    
joy: that's my problem now..
17:31:32    
joy: its really hard specially if my mom wont allow me
17:31:45    
thomas: yes
17:32:06    
joy: but i really need to go to manila
17:32:34    
thomas: yes i am happy that you go there
17:33:27    
thomas: hm with the chatting i will think how to do
17:33:42    
thomas: can you chat with your phone?
17:33:51    
thomas: but then its slower to type
17:34:10    
joy: yes but its cost a lot
17:34:18    
thomas: oh
17:34:38    
joy: and then i need to config the network connection'
17:35:45    
joy: are u there?
17:35:47    
thomas: yes
17:36:44    
thomas: hm i get not a idea yet
17:37:43    
joy: me too
17:38:39    
joy: my mom talk to me about that last night
17:39:00    
joy: that's her condition
17:39:21    
joy: one of that break me she will be forcing me to come here
17:39:35    
thomas: yes
17:40:04    
joy: so i dont have any idea
17:40:20    
thomas: maybe you get know later a working mate who has computer at home
17:40:31    
thomas: but thats then only later maybe a solution
17:40:41    
thomas: or other friends you get know there
17:40:56    
joy: yes maybe after one month
17:41:26    
thomas: if after 1 month its good
17:41:34    
thomas: 1 month passes fast
IM 17:52:23. 25. Dez 2011
17:42:42    
thomas: i will search if i can find a internet side on which you can sent sms to filipines to one site and i can read it
17:42:51    
joy: but we are not sure about that
17:43:09    
thomas: yes can take also 3 months or if bad luck never
17:43:34    
joy: its really hard huh
17:43:53    
thomas: yes
17:44:31    
thomas: i will ask my friend klaus who has girlfriend from manila if he has a idea
17:44:51    
joy: ok then?
17:45:45    
thomas: maybe is future wife has a friend who has internet at home and likes to be your friend if you met first and see
17:45:53    
thomas: hm thats one idea i have
17:45:54    
joy: if only i can convince my mom to bring her laptop
17:46:00    
joy: it is easy for us
17:46:20    
thomas: if you could convince her that you can go to internet caffee at day time
17:46:31    
thomas: or even just to a internet caffee in a mall
17:46:59    
joy: its impossble i know my mom
17:47:01    
thomas: my ex girlfriend liked more go to internet caffee as its more safe even it is more expensive usually
17:47:19    
thomas: internetcaffee in mall
17:47:35    
joy: even if im scared to break her rule
17:47:54    
joy: as she will be force me to go back to laguna
17:48:09    
joy: you meet my mom right she really agaisnt
17:48:18    
joy: when i planning to to manila
17:48:47    
thomas: i only noticed what you said about what she said to you
17:49:10    
thomas: i not talked with her about that and
17:49:34    
thomas: a little i listened when you both was talking about that
17:50:36    
thomas: but i am surprised that she is so strict and hard to convince about that small topic go to internet caffee
17:51:10    
thomas: if you go only in day time and only in mall if she insist that
17:51:23    
thomas: that would be not a additional risk then
17:51:24    
joy: yes as she always watch on tv about the news
17:51:41    
joy: that there's a lot of crime inside the internet shop
17:51:59    
thomas: as then she also should not allow you go to mall if she finds it dangerous to go to internet caffee in mall in day time
17:52:23    
joy: i will find ways to convince her '
IM 18:04:21. 25. Dez 2011
17:52:43    
joy: and one reason i am not comfortable to use internet shop
17:52:53    
joy: as i never go to internet shope before
17:52:54    
thomas: in star mall is a internet caffe in the star mall for 20 pesos
17:53:02    
thomas: per hour
17:53:52    
thomas: even for 15 pesos a hour is one but that was not so good but maybe for chatting you can try if it fits for that if star mall is on your way
17:54:05    
thomas: star mall is across megamall
17:54:38    
joy: i will try huh
17:54:51    
joy: as its really hard for me as of now
17:55:17    
joy: and i need to save money for that
17:55:26    
joy: as my mom dont give me money
17:57:09    
thomas: i still in your debit as i stayed for free in your house, i will sent you 3000 peso
17:57:42    
joy: oh u dont need
17:57:47    
joy: to pay me back
17:58:21    
thomas: just ask me if it helps you
17:58:56    
thomas: its important that you find a job
17:59:19    
joy: yes i really need to find a job
17:59:32    
joy: or else i will be back again in manila
17:59:38    
joy: i mean in laguna
17:59:55    
thomas: yes
18:00:50    
joy: yes
18:00:59    
joy: dont worry i will find ways
18:01:06    
thomas: ok
18:01:45    
thomas: and ask me to sent you 3000 p if your success depends on that in a bigger amount to have a little extra money
18:02:54    
joy: ok
18:02:58    
joy: thanks
18:03:42    
joy: my friend txted me
18:03:53    
joy: as she will go to manila too
18:04:00    
joy: i ask her for help
18:04:06    
joy: there's no way
18:04:21    
joy: but to convince my mom to bring her laptop
IM 18:09:28. 25. Dez 2011
18:04:51    
thomas: thats nice that she goes too to manila
18:05:07    
joy: yes
18:05:19    
thomas: she will also look for a job there?
18:05:32    
joy: yes
18:05:41    
joy: she's my high school friend
18:06:03    
thomas: will she then also stay at her relatives there?
18:06:47    
joy: yes
18:07:03    
joy: thomas you have work tomorow?
18:07:10    
thomas: no have day off
18:07:23    
thomas: the day after tomorrow i must work again
18:07:34    
thomas: tomorrow is christmas holiday still
18:08:28    
joy: ok then chat to you again tomorown
18:08:39    
joy: as i need to sleep my mom is awake huh
18:08:42    
thomas: ok
18:08:44    
joy: good night
18:08:54    
thomas: yes much late already in your place
18:09:07    
thomas: good night, hugs to you
18:09:11    
joy: yes she will be mad at me as i always sleep late here
18:09:17    
joy: hugs and kisses
18:09:21    
joy: muawh
18:09:28    
thomas: muawh
IM 14:34:26. 26. Dez 2011
14:10:04    
joy: hi thomas
14:10:25    
thomas: hallo joy
14:10:35    
thomas: how are you?
14:11:13    
joy: im fine u?
14:11:45    
thomas: i am ok
14:12:19    
thomas: what did you do today?
14:13:08    
joy: i am just cleaning my room
14:13:39    
joy: and watch tv online
14:14:25    
thomas: oh then the laptop of your mother is good
14:15:26    
joy: yes
14:17:07    
thomas: i watched yesterday that movie times of rumour and it was interesting
14:18:18    
thomas: it was about a couple which want have fulfiilment in live
14:18:45    
thomas: it played in 1950 years
14:20:32    
joy: oh then its an old movie?
14:21:28    
thomas: and they planed then to go living in paris where the wife would work and the husband would studay and look first which kind of job he really could like
14:22:02    
thomas: it is from 2008 but plays in 1950 years in the movie
14:22:59    
thomas: as their life in usa both find boring and not fulfilling
14:24:19    
thomas: when they planed about the plan live in paris they got inspired and very close and relationship was much better
14:24:47    
thomas: as usually they quarrel a lot sometimes
14:26:45    
thomas: this i was thinking already from the start if a couple quarrel so heavy can then a relationship succeeed
14:27:03    
thomas: and why are they so stupid to quarrel if they want succeed in relationship
14:28:50    
thomas: i dont know if i shall continue to talk how it continues as you maybe want watch it too some day
14:29:29    
joy: yes i really want to watch that movie its sounds interesting huh
14:29:40    
joy: and i like the story
14:31:49    
thomas: this movie had the topic which is on me similar on me
14:32:20    
thomas: i dream to live in filipines but also need to have a job to earn money
14:33:36    
thomas: if i could live in filipines even its only 60 percent my life would be special and it would inspire me
14:33:51    
joy: yes its true
14:34:11    
joy: as here in the phil'
14:34:26    
joy: you can live anything you want
IM 14:51:54. 26. Dez 2011
14:36:30    
thomas: thats 2 life plans either i marry you and you stay in filipines and i visit you 60 percent of the time if there would be a way on my job
14:36:52    
thomas: the disantvantage would be that i 40 percent of the time would be alone in germany
14:37:17    
thomas: but would have for 60 percent of the time fully what i want
14:37:56    
thomas: or i would mary you and live with you in germany and you have chance to find a good job after some time
14:38:22    
joy: thomas if you will marry
14:38:24    
joy: me
14:38:31    
joy: its hard to get visa
14:38:42    
joy: it takes too long to get visa
14:38:53    
thomas: that would be not fully what i want but i would have 100 percent of the time something still very nice even it is not the maximum of life i want
14:39:01    
joy: as they need many requirements
14:39:57    
thomas: it talkes half till one year to make marriage visa
14:40:14    
joy: yes..
14:41:21    
thomas: Mhelanie had many problems in making visa as of the age difference she is 25 years younger than her husband
14:41:34    
thomas: and her making visa took 2 years
14:42:21    
thomas: our age difference is 20 years and i am from other country even its a shengen country too
14:42:56    
thomas: my friend klaus has no special problems with his marriage visa, their age difference is 17 years
14:43:20    
joy: oh good for both of them
14:43:26    
thomas: yes
14:45:26    
thomas: the more matter is that it takes 4 years living in germany till you can work as it IT i expect
14:45:48    
thomas: but if it then succeeds after 4 years its not so bad still
14:46:24    
joy: yes,.
14:46:31    
joy: i think soo.
14:48:26    
thomas: if you go work in singapoor thats still like filipines for me i could there visit you 60 percent of the time too if my company allowes with that
14:49:18    
thomas: then i could stay in our small rent appartment when i visit
14:49:19    
joy: oh well. if that would be happen
14:49:30    
joy: its good
14:49:57    
thomas: and i would consider that similar cool like a life in filipines
14:50:03    
thomas: as its warm there too
14:50:32    
thomas: hope then only the city we would live would be not too crowded
14:51:54    
thomas: but then the idea comes, why then not work in germany what is then a so big differnence and then i could stay in my country
IM 15:13:19. 26. Dez 2011
14:52:24    
thomas: and to explain what is the point hm
14:53:24    
thomas: if i visit you in filipines or singapoor as our life place the average life style is much more simple
14:53:51    
thomas: its there normal a simple life style
14:54:07    
thomas: but in germany its not
14:55:02    
thomas: that you can live like the common people if in filipines or singapoor i only must work 40 percent of the time
14:55:23    
thomas: but that you can live like common people in germany i must work full time
14:55:52    
thomas: ok that can change later when you are later advanced in your job
14:57:40    
thomas: Like that i drink tap water also only in germany to have less expenses
14:58:57    
thomas: but that nearly no one does in germany but in filipines 70 percent of the people does it too to drink a ordinary water of 10 galon box
14:59:20    
thomas: my sister does it for a part with family
15:00:25    
thomas: i feel a little proud that i adviced a friend in chess club who lives from government help and has as of that only 20000 p a month income but room is free and doctor bills
15:01:03    
thomas: to drink just tape water as its very cheap if its hard to come arround with that money
15:01:48    
thomas: and 2 weeks ago he said that was a good idea, he said his doctor too said its same good for health as a mineral water
15:03:00    
joy: i see
15:03:11    
joy: well we drink mineral water
15:03:27    
joy: as my mom she have sebsitive stomach
15:04:08    
thomas: in filipines to drink water from tape is not adviced as there the earth is more polluted and then the water too
15:04:25    
joy: yes
15:05:07    
thomas: but then can buy in filipines a big bottle 16 gallon for 100 pesos of osmosis and filtrated water
15:05:21    
thomas: thats then same standard like in germany tape water
15:05:44    
joy: yes.. its true
15:07:15    
thomas: but on the other hand if we make that plan you liive in filipines and i visit you 60 percent of the time, i then have all the day free time there but you will work and its needed that you work
15:07:40    
thomas: then i can spent with you only time in evening and at weekend
15:08:09    
thomas: this decreases this big advantage to have all the time free time there
15:08:39    
thomas: i already thought a lot about that what would i then do while you are at work
15:11:32    
thomas: i could then make the house works and care about the child
15:11:54    
thomas: and when i am in germany 40 percent of the time you could give the child to your relatives
15:11:54    
joy: then?? but we have maid to take care of our child
15:12:09    
joy: and my mom also is there to look after our child
15:13:19    
thomas: your parents have maid
IM 15:33:23. 26. Dez 2011
15:13:35    
thomas: hm it cost not so much to employ one in filipines
15:13:59    
joy: but ofcourse if you will marry me
15:14:12    
joy: i cant stay longer in my house of my parents
15:14:22    
joy: we need to build our own house
15:14:41    
thomas: yes or rent one
15:14:58    
joy: its expensive to rent
15:15:25    
thomas: it will depend how shure your job is that we can stay at same place for 20 years or like that
15:16:41    
thomas: when i stayed with my ex girlfriend in masbate we rent a appartment with 3 big rooms for 10000 p
15:17:15    
thomas: this made me impression its not so big difference in to buy or rent from the expenses
15:17:49    
thomas: and if rent we could easy remove to other city if you must find job in other city
15:20:42    
joy: yes it is but i want to stay in one place
15:21:28    
thomas: yes its better as we then found also our friends in the city we stayed
15:23:15    
joy: yes
15:28:55    
thomas: In the evening i will go play card game with friends
15:29:16    
thomas: and then is christmas passed again and must work again
15:29:47    
joy: i see then enjoy playing cards with them
15:30:06    
thomas: thanks yes thats nice again
15:30:37    
joy: yes..
15:31:00    
joy: my cold gets worser
15:31:11    
joy: now as its really cold here
15:31:25    
thomas: we have same problem
15:31:49    
thomas: only now as i have chatched a cold i remember fully how disturbing is that
15:32:03    
joy: i am preparing my clothes and stuff
15:32:20    
joy: so next week im ready to go to manila
15:32:35    
thomas: oh wow already next week
15:32:49    
thomas: it will be like a adventure
15:33:05    
joy: yes.. i told you last night
15:33:17    
thomas: i wish you much success in finding a job
15:33:19    
joy: so we have one 1 week to chat
15:33:23    
joy: thanks
IM 15:56:03. 26. Dez 2011
15:33:26    
thomas: ok
15:34:00    
thomas: then i can call you sometimes
15:34:09    
thomas: but thats not like chatting
15:34:21    
joy: yes and more expensive
15:34:29    
thomas: yes
15:39:58    
thomas: you could wear a scarf while having a cold, that helps in some amount in fiew of medium term
15:40:39    
thomas: i will go with scarf tomorrow to work even it looks a little uncool to wear that
15:47:27    
thomas: at what day will you go to manila?
15:48:22    
joy: january 4
15:48:32    
thomas: ok
15:51:14    
joy: did u eat dinner
15:51:39    
thomas: no, will eat in 2 hours at 6 pm
15:51:53    
thomas: then at 7 we will go to my friend
15:52:15    
thomas: his medium old child also likes to play cards
15:53:00    
joy: whos your friend ?
15:53:35    
thomas: my closest friend but still only medium close, his name is also Thomas
15:53:42    
thomas: we meet once a month
15:54:02    
thomas: he has 4 children with his wife
15:54:37    
thomas: his odest daughter is already 13
15:55:07    
joy: is it far from your house ?
15:55:20    
thomas: no only 5 kilometers
15:56:03    
thomas: my one friend who is brother of my friend who will marry soon a filipina will come with car to get me
IM 16:06:25. 26. Dez 2011
15:57:06    
joy: ok take care
15:58:00    
thomas: thanks
16:01:55    
thomas: you should visit me too in germany that we have more topics to talk i get now the idea, even first as visiting visa maybe
16:02:25    
thomas: as i not find now much ideas to talk
16:02:46    
joy: ok i will go noh ur friend just prepare to go with your frend
16:03:34    
joy: bye now hug and kisses
16:03:55    
thomas: hugs and kisses
16:04:08    
thomas: in your place its already late
16:04:52    
joy: yes i slep now bye
16:04:59    
thomas: bye, have nice sleep
16:05:22    
joy: thanks muah
16:06:25    
thomas: muah
IM 14:52:36. 31. Dez 2011
14:38:41    
joy: hello thomas
14:38:45    
joy: happy new year
14:39:28    
thomas: hallo joy, thank, i wish you a happyful new year too
14:39:37    
joy: thanks
14:40:18    
joy: i just came here to greet you a happy new year
14:41:15    
thomas: How will you celebrate end of the year?
14:42:00    
joy: with family
14:42:07    
joy: i will cook spaghetti now
14:42:17    
joy: i hope you are here to taste it
14:42:37    
thomas: yes would had been nice
14:43:07    
joy: u see me??
14:43:15    
thomas: yes
14:43:26    
joy: ok good
14:43:52    
joy: soo how would you celebratre your new year?
14:44:49    
thomas: eat, talk and play games
14:44:56    
joy: oh wow
14:45:02    
joy: then enjoy huh
14:45:18    
thomas: thanks to you too
14:46:27    
thomas: Will friends visit you too?
14:46:45    
joy: no
14:46:51    
joy: well im not sure
14:46:58    
joy: they always surprise me
14:47:03    
thomas: at least the cousin who got a child 2 weeks ago will meet you at 12 at the street i guess
14:47:14    
joy: yes..
14:47:23    
joy: as our house is really near
14:47:31    
thomas: yes
14:48:15    
joy: i hope you are here
14:49:17    
thomas: yes that would had been cool to celebrate end of the year at a place with warm weather and with a nice woman
14:51:46    
thomas: The relative in baclaran is maid, does she rent a appartment where you can join to stay?
14:52:36    
joy: yes she is
IM 15:10:31. 31. Dez 2011
14:53:18    
thomas: a maid earn usually very little in filipines
14:53:42    
thomas: or she has a room free to stay at her working place and there you can sleep too
14:54:49    
joy: well my auntie is not there
14:54:59    
joy: so she need to pay for the rent
14:55:43    
thomas: how much does it cost the rent and did she rent only one single room?
14:55:57    
joy: yes
14:56:03    
joy: 1500 i think
14:56:14    
joy: but she have small store there
14:56:58    
thomas: 1500 is nice cheap
14:57:34    
joy: yes but not included the water and electric bills
14:57:45    
thomas: yes
15:00:28    
thomas: yesterday i was in chess club and had the duty to hold the chess club for the kids as the leader of the chess club who makes that usually was buissy yesterday
15:01:05    
joy: wow
15:01:06    
joy: then?
15:01:27    
thomas: 1 child did came and i felt like at work to must do something which is a little boring
15:01:42    
thomas: that was a little surprising for me
15:02:51    
thomas: I played then with him a chess game and gave him more times while the game advices and ask if he can find a better move if he made a not good move
15:03:17    
thomas: and explained in some amounts why its better in a other way
15:04:00    
joy: oh i see
15:04:02    
thomas: I enjoy playing chess only if someone is similar good like me who plays with me
15:04:50    
thomas: it felt not only boring in some amount it feelt also in some amount exhausting
15:05:52    
thomas: thats more the reason why i not like to work and why i not liked to hold the training of chess for the kids
15:06:04    
joy: well u need to fing someone who is like you
15:06:58    
thomas: yes after 1 hour and 20 minutes a adult came with whom i like a lot to play but the child was still there
15:07:15    
thomas: then i played against both at same time
15:08:35    
thomas: then the father of the child did came and i needed to play with the child again as it would be unpolite not to play with him as no other child was there with whom he could play
15:09:11    
thomas: then after 1 hour we played table soccer, that was nice
15:09:41    
thomas: the kid was the best player in table soccer of us 4 and it was as of that challeing
15:10:21    
joy: ok good
15:10:31    
joy: atleast he excel on something
IM 15:16:46. 31. Dez 2011
15:10:46    
thomas: yes
15:12:41    
joy: thomas i need to go
15:12:44    
joy: my mom call me
15:12:56    
joy: its 2 hours here before new year
15:13:01    
joy: i need to help here
15:13:08    
joy: chat to you next time
15:13:09    
thomas: yes
15:13:12    
thomas: ok
15:13:28    
joy: happy new year again and to you and to your family
15:13:37    
joy: may god bless you always and
15:13:42    
thomas: happy new year to you and enjoy the celebration
15:13:46    
joy: enjoy the rest of the years
15:13:58    
thomas: good bless to you too
15:14:03    
joy: extent my greetings to your friend klaus
15:14:08    
thomas: hugs to you
15:14:17    
thomas: ok
15:14:28    
thomas: i sent him your yahoo id that he can invite you as friend
15:14:48    
joy: hugs and kisses to you
15:15:01    
joy: ok then i will wait till he add me
15:15:07    
thomas: ok
15:15:25    
joy: bye for now here is my kiss
15:16:03    
joy: here is my kiss
15:16:21    
thomas: thanks
15:16:23    
joy: happy new year again
15:16:35    
thomas: happy new year
15:16:43    
joy: bye
15:16:46    
thomas: bye
IM 18:56:51. 31. Dez 2011
18:35:55    
joy: thomas
18:36:15    
thomas: hi joy
18:36:35    
thomas: how is the new year?
18:36:44    
joy: i enjoy the food
18:36:52    
joy: i chart klaus and his gf now
18:38:07    
thomas: nice even his grilfiend, it will give more ideas to talk
18:38:36    
thomas: i met his girlfriend 2 times too
18:39:03    
joy: ok she seems kind
18:39:20    
thomas: nice
18:40:37    
thomas: i talked only some with her as she can only speak medium english i guess and also as i am a man and she has boyfriend
18:41:12    
joy: i see
18:44:27    
thomas: did people made fireworks?
18:45:27    
joy: yes a lot
18:46:28    
thomas: thats always nice to watch
18:46:35    
joy: yes
18:47:58    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow ?
18:48:09    
joy: just stay in house
18:49:16    
thomas: soon it will change that you can be most time with them
18:49:37    
joy: yes
18:55:21    
thomas: i need go now
18:55:34    
thomas: bye, till we chat hope soon again
18:56:42    
joy: ok
18:56:45    
joy: bye muawh
18:56:51    
joy: enjoy the new year
IM 13:17:41. 3. Jan 2012
13:17:41    
joy: thomas i will go to manila tom i will miss you very very much this is my number 09163727328 u can call me sometimes ok
IM 21:14:54. 9. Jan 2012
21:14:54    
thomas: Hallo Joy, I tried to call you at Sunday but then did someone go on the phone looked like been chinese who not understood any english. Either it was then your relative in manila or i made a mistake in typing the number. I will try to call you next weekend again. Miss you. Miss you much i can not say now as its passed longer that we met last time and the remember is weaker. I guess thats as we met only 6 days and will change when we met each other more. But i remember that i felt special a little happy when i met you and also while the time arround i met you. That is very special as that happened since 2 years not with any woman in that way and it happened in that way not at all with any woman yet. Only with mhelanie in a other way and with my ex girlfirend in a other way
IM 8:12:43. 10. Jan 2012
8:11:31    
joy: hello thomas i never been receive any call from you maybe you are wrong in typing my number its +639163727328 i miss you too i really want to chat you but i cnt its reAlly hard to stay in manila with no internet connection
8:11:41    
joy: i dont know wht to do here
8:12:37    
joy: i cnt find way to chat to you
8:12:43    
joy: im sorry for that
IM 11:38:55. 21. Jan 2012
11:38:55    
thomas: Hallo Joy, i called you now before again. I did chat with your mother already a few times on facebook, she said if you go out you not take your cellphone with you to not risk to loose it, as of that it needs more luck to fetch you in calling. Your mother said you have trainee working for 3 days in a company, i wish you much luck in finding a job. If we chat now not much its ok, its much more important that you find a job. And also much more important than to chat is to meet again in July
IM 12:16:31. 21. Jan 2012
12:15:47    
thomas: How often do you visit your parents, we could chat when you visit your parents as then you could use there your mothers laptop. Sent then a offline message 1 day in foreward about the exact time we can chat when you visit your parents. If we chat once a month it would be still ok. How is your life in manila? How do you spent there your free time? I am ok, nice is that its weekend again. I looked foreward to play a new round in a online strategy game but our team will loose again which is not so nice. If you like such games we can play someday play together there in a team. As to experience to work in a team is exciting for me. I disire then also to be a good team in husbands life.
On one molar tooth the tooth skin got sensitive as i did eat chicken and that was hard to chew and this
12:16:31    
thomas: I am ok, nice is that its weekend again. I looked foreward to play a new round in a online strategy game but our team will loose again which is not so nice. If you like such games we can play someday play together there in a team. As to experience to work in a team is exciting for me. I disire then also to be a good team in husbands life.
tooth the denitist made small 2 years ago as there was caries and he removed a lot of the tooth. he made a temporary filling for 1 till 2 years to make then a tooth crown. And i worry now that now the time did came to let make the tooth crown and i still hoped a little i have time to wait and can decide later about that. Hugs and kisses, miss you.
IM 14:55:41. 28. Jan 2012
14:38:16    
joy: hey thomas
14:38:19    
joy: how are u?
14:38:42    
thomas: Hallo joy, I am ok so far
14:38:46    
thomas: how are you?
14:44:22    
joy: im fine thomas
14:44:32    
joy: dont tell mom that i chat you tonight ok
14:44:36    
thomas: ok
14:45:06    
thomas: how is your looking for a job?
14:45:22    
joy: im still waiting for their call
14:45:36    
joy: but im finish the trainning
14:45:50    
thomas: 3 days your mother did say
14:45:56    
thomas: how was the training?
14:46:00    
joy: yes
14:46:01    
joy: its good
14:46:12    
joy: its just easy for me
14:46:26    
thomas: what did you do in the training?
14:46:42    
joy: its hands on trainning
14:47:02    
thomas: what means this?
14:47:14    
joy: programming
14:47:43    
thomas: what did you programm?
14:48:06    
joy: its just a simple system
14:48:23    
thomas: in a factory or a office?
14:48:36    
joy: office
14:49:41    
thomas: how is it to be in manila?
14:52:07    
joy: is it good as im fell free
14:52:25    
joy: but at the same time scared as the people here is dangerous
14:53:16    
thomas: but not yet you see a crime i guess
14:53:32    
joy: yes none so far
14:54:50    
thomas: I even felt not much scared when i traveled at 11 pm with train as long as there where some people arround
14:55:41    
thomas: but when i walked then alone in the street at 11 pm i thought maybe it is a little dangerous
IM 15:07:14. 28. Jan 2012
14:55:54    
thomas: even i was not much afraid
14:56:33    
thomas: but i was surprised that british gouvernment gave a warning about filipines to be more careful than i usually be
14:57:03    
joy: yes
14:57:06    
joy: i guess so
14:57:53    
thomas: do you have a nice room to sleep?
14:58:11    
joy: its ok..
14:58:22    
joy: but the people who sorround me
14:58:33    
joy: they are some drug addict
14:58:45    
joy: and thief people
14:59:02    
joy: so our main door has a passcode
14:59:48    
thomas: some of the neighbours are such people?
15:00:30    
joy: yes
15:01:36    
thomas: when do you usually come home from work and traveling?
15:01:51    
thomas: but now you are no work and wait only the next days i guess
15:01:56    
joy: 6 pm
15:02:08    
joy: yes..
15:02:51    
joy: im just using the mini laptop of my room mate i pay her 150 to online
15:03:04    
joy: as i know u are online now
15:03:31    
thomas: 150 for one time or a few times to be online?
15:04:09    
joy: til tomorow night
15:04:24    
joy: as long as she dont need her laptop
15:04:29    
joy: so dont tell mom ok
15:04:38    
thomas: ok
15:05:07    
thomas: but that not offend the ageements with your mother
15:05:10    
thomas: why should she not know?
15:05:36    
joy: AS she said dont truest anyone here
15:05:57    
thomas: hm ok
15:06:25    
thomas: you sleep with her in your room?
15:06:40    
joy: no im alone in my room
15:07:14    
thomas: she is your room mate in what?
IM 15:33:27. 28. Jan 2012
15:07:31    
joy: in the other room
15:07:37    
thomas: ah i see
15:08:23    
thomas: did you found some friends already there?
15:08:45    
joy: just my room mate
15:08:48    
joy: no other than that
15:09:12    
joy: as mom said dont talk to stanger they are all user
15:11:10    
thomas: yes to start talk to people just at the street that have not much expecting of success to would be worth for in my opinion too
15:11:50    
thomas: but maybe your relatives can make acquaint you with some people or the people who are with you in the house
15:12:25    
thomas: was my thinking
15:12:39    
thomas: then at least you know one more now
15:13:19    
thomas: Do you have TV in your room or in a shared living room?
15:14:51    
joy: i dont have tv here
15:15:08    
joy: we just share in the living room
15:15:35    
thomas: ok, at least this
15:16:32    
thomas: what do you do in days you have no work?
15:17:29    
joy: i just stay in my room or go to church
15:19:17    
thomas: if you stay in your room then what things do you do to spent enjoyable time?
15:19:41    
thomas: I am only much curious in this as i want get ideas how to spent enjoyable time
15:19:55    
thomas: and also interesting to know your habits about that
15:20:20    
joy: im just reading book and previous notes from school so i can recall my other lesson
15:22:02    
thomas: ah i see, your school i already 9 months passed and its good for your training to had recalled the knowledge which you maybe need to use
15:22:55    
joy: yes its tru
15:22:57    
joy: true
15:25:44    
thomas: how is about your food?
15:25:59    
thomas: does some one cook for you or do you cook on yourself?
15:27:26    
joy: i cook for my self
15:27:45    
thomas: is there a kitchen you can use?
15:30:32    
joy: yes but i pay for the gasul
15:31:11    
thomas: thats nice, gasul cost not so much
15:33:27    
thomas: i thought on myself we here could use gas for cooking too, it would be cheaper and better for environment as its in the end result needs less engergy i guess
IM 15:51:32. 28. Jan 2012
15:34:19    
thomas: than electricity
15:35:22    
joy: yes but im running out of money as im shy to ask money from mom
15:37:15    
thomas: hm yes that the problem as long you not found a job
15:37:32    
thomas: how much did you spent till now in manila?
15:37:46    
thomas: its now 3 weeks you are there
15:38:47    
thomas: just to know that i can admire you in living with little money
15:39:47    
joy: i think its 3000
15:39:55    
thomas: wow
15:40:02    
joy: as i buy everything even drinking water
15:40:50    
thomas: but still its really great so little in 3 weeks
15:41:20    
joy: yes
15:42:28    
thomas: when i came home from filipines i took 9000 pesos and that did go only today empty that money
15:42:58    
thomas: if i am at home i need not much money too
15:43:45    
thomas: but in filipines i spent 1500 a day
15:44:32    
joy: i see
15:44:53    
thomas: and my parents i need to give 9000 a month for food, electricity and wather, that i need to do now again and is not yet counted added
15:45:46    
joy: oh i see
15:46:07    
joy: then you give them now?
15:46:24    
thomas: yes in the next days
15:47:09    
thomas: my father said i shall give that starting in the new year and soon a month in the new year is over and i will then give for that
15:47:49    
thomas: 9000 is ok as they buy for 5000 food for me
15:48:00    
thomas: they buy me all fruits and vegetables i eat
15:48:25    
thomas: as they anyway go to supermarket every 2 days as they buy their things there
15:48:59    
joy: oh ok.. then not bad'
15:49:04    
thomas: only i buy my grain on myself and do mill it and bake my bread on myslef
15:49:13    
thomas: yes
15:49:43    
joy: oh then good for you huh
15:49:58    
thomas: yes
15:50:58    
thomas: only if they repair things of the house they ask me to share for that too
15:51:32    
thomas: then i shared 1/3 if it is for things i find useful
IM 16:15:17. 28. Jan 2012
15:52:17    
thomas: as for coloring the house i not shared as neighbours not colored their house since 20 years and still its not so bad looking their house
15:53:47    
thomas: and i not shared for to buy a new heating that i find useful as we can use with that wood for heating which is much cheaper than oil but it costed a lot
15:54:56    
thomas: hm if i not would live in their house they would buy thouse things too
15:56:04    
joy: ok then good decision huh
15:56:06    
joy: as u are soo practical
15:57:50    
thomas: if i have you as wife here i must share more i worry
15:58:12    
thomas: and things on house can cost a lot
15:58:32    
joy: then dont have me as your wife
16:00:04    
thomas: Most i would like you to have as wife in filipines if i can work yearly
16:01:11    
thomas: and at all to have a wife is a very nice thing
16:03:45    
joy: yes i think soo b
16:09:00    
thomas: i was surprised yesterday that i felt at chess club yesterday like at work bored and a little headache and modeless
16:09:57    
thomas: as i played against a not so good player and that was not challenging but it would had been unkind to say i want play against a other one
16:11:58    
joy: oh really?
16:12:05    
joy: that's nice for you
16:12:47    
thomas: hm not nice
16:14:20    
thomas: but it showes that the kind of my work is not fully guilty for that that i feel bored and little headache and modeless at work
16:14:47    
thomas: if that can even appear in playing chess a activity i like on itself
16:15:17    
thomas: then its also half guilty my personality
IM 16:22:29. 28. Jan 2012
16:21:37    
thomas: now i know somehow not much to talk
16:22:29    
thomas: what will you do tomorrow?
IM 23:19:24. 6. Feb 2012
23:19:24    
thomas: Hallo Joy, how are you? How is your looking for a job and your staying im Manila? It is on itself not important if we not much chat or call as that would not make get know each other anyway not better, the important would be to meet again in july. If you want i can sent you 2000 pesos as that i am in debit to you as i not paid anything while i stayed in your house. If you visit your parents in maybe 1 or 2 months you can go online. I am every day online usually at 7.30 pm filipino time.
IM 14:57:20. 9. Feb 2012
14:57:05    
joy: im a trainee now at bdo its a bank
14:57:11    
joy: hope i can pass
14:57:20    
joy: how are u?
IM 11:48:00. 11. Feb 2012
11:43:21    
thomas: Hallo, joy, how a re you?
11:44:25    
joy: hello thomas
11:45:32    
joy: i will log out soon
11:46:10    
thomas: i see
11:46:42    
thomas: hope we chat then a next time
11:46:59    
joy: yes.. i hope soo
11:48:00    
thomas: I am ok, all things are just usual
IM 23:58:26. 19. Feb 2012
23:55:57    
thomas: with you but that has done his duty i know that i like you most.
5 days ago the most beautiful woman i met Merca did got my friend on facebook but i even not in the moment of this big surprise that she invited me to be friend at facebook i not feeled the thought i could find with her a more pretty woman than you. I thought only maybe a new option if i not succeed with joy and anyway i all the time expected it will not happen that she find me interesting enough. And if its then that you lost interest in me i decided not to start chatting again with many women i tended much towards to look then for one who is 1 level below your beauty like on Ella or one who is on the level of your beauty but who has already children as i realized a lot in the last year that i am older now and for women muc
23:57:33    
thomas: h harder now to fall in love to me and i will just take then the next who is at least 60 percent of your beauty and have signs on her she likes me a lot. I expect now for 60 percent that you lost or will lose interest in me as you looked not to be much interested in me when we chat last time a medium period of time even i not knew much topics too. And as you was then online the other time but said you go offline now soon and then was after a few secounds online again and that you did chatting with klaus so a proof that you was online but you not sent me offline message that you found a job. I still stay open for the case my expect you lost interest in me is not true, then i will meet you as main woman in my vaccation. And if it appears that its true i will remember your good attitude that
23:58:26    
thomas: you not took the 2500 p i offered you, this gave the proof that you have good character like mhelanie who not met me while she had boyfriend who she not yet met.
IM 17:25:48. 1. Mai 2012
17:06:25    
joy: hello thomas how are u? hows you and ella?
17:07:41    
thomas: Hallo Joy, i am ok so far aside my steady problems wound on leg and cavities in teeths
17:08:19    
thomas: but i got eased when i was last week at dentist she sayed maybe she not must drill much and that after i was 18 months not at dentist
17:09:07    
thomas: I want meet Ella for the first 2 weeks of my vaccation as she has vaccation that time
17:10:31    
thomas: and in the other 5 weeks of my vaccation i want meet other women and then decide which one to choose
17:12:22    
joy: oh ok goodluck to u..
17:12:26    
thomas: but i will spent only some effort in get know some other women as i want use most of the time to visit faith healers and that must be compatible
17:12:31    
joy: choose wisely..
17:13:05    
thomas: yes its hard to decide
17:13:20    
thomas: How is about you, do you like to meet me again
17:13:26    
joy: its easy to decide thomas just follow your heat ok
17:13:33    
joy: heart
17:13:59    
joy: actually thomas when i saw the message of ella on your facebook with i love you
17:14:07    
joy: its hurt me soo much
17:14:34    
joy: thats the reason i didnt chat u when i have time to chat u because i know ella loves u so much..
17:14:52    
thomas: and i not made it invisible while i am much interested in you
17:14:54    
joy: thats why i dont want to ruin her relationship with you
17:15:54    
thomas: that made the impression that i am already thending some amont towards her
17:15:59    
joy: and when the time you stop sending me mgs i thought u lost interest with me..
17:16:35    
thomas: Ella has a other facebook account where she is not friend with me and friend with 2 men
17:18:46    
thomas: that was a little hm bold that she sent such a message while knowing that i am interested in you
17:20:28    
thomas: but that she looks for other men too is more the reason that i am undecided and tould her always that i am undecided about her
17:21:27    
thomas: If i would follow my heart hm that is hard to say what that would be on me
17:21:29    
joy: u know what thomas dont rush your time
17:21:39    
joy: rtake it easy to decide ok..
17:22:06    
joy: and i have something to tell you..
17:22:33    
joy: since the day i saw the mgs of ella to you in your facebook account
17:22:55    
joy: i decide to stop waaiting for you
17:23:22    
joy: as i know ella will choose u..
17:25:48    
thomas: For me is the question what is following the heart go in total risk and have the chance to find the full love but with a so big risk in completely fail and probably have then shot my last shot and will have no chance then to find even a medium woman
IM 17:43:12. 1. Mai 2012
17:26:32    
joy: dont search for a perfect girl..
17:26:40    
joy: your not even a model huh
17:26:48    
thomas: or to choose something safe to find not the full love but a average love
17:26:55    
joy: your just an average guy
17:27:19    
thomas: but safe chance to succeed is higher than to fail
17:27:52    
thomas: and if i follow my heart the chance to fail is much higher than to succeed
17:28:56    
thomas: you are excepted in that 2 alternatives
17:31:10    
thomas: about you i have not defined how risky it would be to try in you in case you would be a choice
17:32:33    
thomas: some aspects make look you are less risky like that you have good job
17:34:53    
thomas: one aspect is a little higher risk that you are much young
17:35:37    
thomas: and one aspect is a little higher risk too your beauty is in the top 10 percent of all women
17:37:00    
thomas: but then its back to a basic matter a beautiful woman is always more risky but if it succeed its possible to fall much more in love
17:37:02    
joy: if i were you thomas
17:37:34    
joy: dont look for the beauty
17:37:47    
joy: look for what the personality is in
17:38:03    
joy: because beauty fade but persoanlity not.. ok
17:38:11    
joy: dont choose me
17:38:23    
joy: because when i read the mgs of ella to u
17:38:58    
joy: i choose not chat or talk to you because i know if u will not keep in touch of me your attention would be on ella
17:39:09    
joy: so that no confused between me and ella
17:39:18    
joy: thats the reason thomas
17:39:43    
joy: and now i think u should know what will happen to me..
17:39:50    
thomas: My enthusiamsm was always more on you
17:39:55    
thomas: than on ella
17:40:56    
thomas: my thought about ella was that she kept interest in me for 6 years i should not fast quit the option on her
17:41:49    
joy: thomas
17:41:53    
thomas: And we would need to have met again more time now again to see if it could succeed
17:41:54    
joy: u listen to me
17:42:05    
joy: ok
17:43:12    
joy: the reason why i did not accept the money you offer to me because first. i want to erase the image of filipina that all the filipina wants a money from u
IM 18:03:25. 1. Mai 2012
17:44:06    
joy: second i dont need your money because we warm welcome you when u visit here in our house u dont need to pay me for your foods its a sign of being hospitable on us with you
17:45:20    
joy: 3rd i dont want u to think that all the people here in the philippines needs money if u help them.. my family and i are not like that
17:45:45    
joy: you are a special visitor here so we accomodate u as best as we can..
17:46:49    
thomas: yes that topic i forgot a additional sign that you are less risky
17:47:13    
thomas: and a 30 percent proof that you are a good person
17:47:46    
thomas: if 2 similar other proofs would appear about you i would be shure you are a good person
17:48:37    
joy: thomas i want to be honest with you
17:48:44    
thomas: and to get a proof that someone is a good person is very hard as it needs 3 midium proofs or a big proof but a big proof is hard to get and comes only with time
17:48:52    
joy: remove me on your choices
17:49:17    
joy: where u will go here in phils again?
17:50:12    
thomas: I will go to manila and then either to bagio or to pangasinan to visit faith healers
17:50:25    
joy: when??
17:51:18    
thomas: I first will try a faith healer in antipolo and it depends how successful he looks to be how soon i will go to one of that places
17:51:29    
thomas: i think i will stay at least the first 2 weeks in manila
17:51:53    
joy: what month u will go here again?
17:52:44    
thomas: to answer about something from before, I would had met only you the other 5 weeks if there would been a chance about you and then my focus would had been more on you than on Ella
17:53:52    
thomas: For me you look to be a perfect match but i am ill and older so the decisive matter would had been to find out if you can like me enough
17:54:17    
thomas: and as of that i was undecided about you not as of a other reason
17:54:40    
thomas: I will arrive in manila at 13 of May
17:55:33    
joy: thomas if its ok to u can we just frind? and remove me from your choices?
17:56:32    
thomas: yes ok, i did already after easter as i thought there you was shure at home and did not chat with me
17:57:08    
joy: i told you the reason why
17:57:21    
joy: because i saw the mgs of ella to your facebook
17:59:08    
thomas: but that is also not a real reason. I tould Ella in November that i probably want choose you and then she still sent such a message
17:59:36    
thomas: i have proof on yahoo messenger that i sent to her
18:00:05    
joy: yes i remember that u told me that
18:00:41    
joy: but she still sending you mgs on facebook. so that time i think ella dont want to give up you
18:01:14    
joy: thats why i am the one who stop chatting you and give way to her.
18:02:57    
joy: thomas can u try to type fast as its already 12 midnight here
18:03:25    
thomas: she could find other man still if i choose a other one
IM 18:19:00. 1. Mai 2012
18:03:38    
thomas: she said she has 2 other choices also
18:04:27    
joy: if she still have other choices also why she need to send such mgs to your facebook knowing that i can read that mgs right?
18:05:08    
thomas: one man is a poorer filipino and the other one is 60 year old foreigner
18:05:19    
thomas: then i am a better choice
18:05:57    
thomas: And my ex girlfriend would also try help her to find a foreigner
18:06:16    
joy: anyway i just wanna know
18:06:36    
joy: what your ex girlfriend told you when she saw me in facebook?
18:07:19    
thomas: she tould why you want choose this joy, she is not so pretty than the women i usually like
18:07:45    
thomas: abut that i was a lot surprised as i found you so pretty as the women i usually like
18:08:37    
joy: well i told you she is not pretty as u thought
18:08:40    
thomas: and she tould she is too young even her husband said he not would choose such a young woman and he is 35 and thinks its very risky that she could leave me later
18:09:06    
thomas: still i find her more sexy than ella
18:09:19    
thomas: but in a few years it probably change
18:10:30    
joy: u know what thomas? her husband lied when he said that he couldnt choose a youger like me?? u know why?? i know american guy if they are older
18:11:10    
joy: they want younger lady like my age because they are very proud of that. because even in their age they still find a younger lady..
18:11:24    
thomas: hm but its a truth in it
18:11:40    
thomas: in filipino culture is no risk in choose such a young woman
18:12:02    
thomas: but in american and european culture is a high risk
18:12:37    
thomas: and i worry if my wife lived some years here she could adjust to how its standard here
18:13:27    
thomas: if i choose now a woman 22 years old, in 10 years, i am 52 and she 32
18:14:00    
thomas: and then it could be critical but depends on the woman
18:14:14    
joy: its epend on the woman thomas
18:14:22    
joy: depend
18:14:58    
thomas: if she then thinks hm i am still young and i miss my full live if i have not a not too old man
18:15:17    
joy: oh ok..
18:15:25    
joy: thomas u listen to me ok
18:16:53    
thomas: My heart was fast beating when you started to chat with me and its still 30 percent faster than normal
18:17:37    
joy: why?
18:18:14    
thomas: but i will accept what happens and i always thought God (just what happens) will show whom i should choose if i just wait and see how things will run
18:19:00    
thomas: as hm you are the last chance to find a woman fully what i want
IM 18:34:26. 1. Mai 2012
18:19:12    
thomas: after that i will give it up
18:19:43    
thomas: probably i will give it up to find a woman fully i want
18:20:22    
thomas: The woman i tould you "the most pretty i met in filipines invited me on facebook"
18:21:11    
thomas: she asked me to buy her a fly to filipines and then she would meet me but i tend towards not to do that
18:22:07    
joy: thomas listen dont ever try to pay for what they need learn from your lesson before from your ex girlfriend
18:22:16    
joy: they will always use u ok..
18:22:25    
joy: and take advantage
18:23:14    
thomas: a neighbour said she is a good person
18:24:18    
thomas: but it would take long to see if she can like me enough and this is the critical matter always and the one which is not there
18:24:18    
joy: how would u know that they have a confrontation before?
18:24:43    
joy: thomas u listen to me
18:24:43    
joy: ok
18:24:56    
joy: as i want to be honest with you ok..
18:25:12    
joy: after i saw the mgs of ella on your facebook
18:25:35    
joy: a decided to give up you to ellla
18:27:13    
joy: then i told you before that some other guy who tried to court me i said to them to stop because of you right?
18:27:22    
joy: i dont know if u remember that
18:27:29    
thomas: yes you tould
18:28:45    
joy: the guy from australia i have his number and said if u didnt choose me he just there waitning for as he really likes me from the start before u visit me in our house
18:29:02    
thomas: that i remember too
18:30:01    
joy: he has a roaming number to me
18:30:09    
joy: so i decided to txt him
18:30:13    
thomas: But in march i did read in your secret facebook a message from march that you are still big affected from a passed bad luck in love
18:30:25    
joy: and when im in manila he keeps on calling and texting me
18:31:23    
thomas: and how it continued?
18:32:41    
joy: its not my secret facebook
18:33:05    
thomas: you have 2 facebooks and one you hided since march
18:33:45    
thomas: on the one you hided you had much more posts than in the one for all visible
18:33:56    
joy: thats my old account hacked by someone
18:34:26    
joy: and i need to contact the facebook team to deactivate that one
IM 18:47:37. 1. Mai 2012
18:34:49    
thomas: hm but in t he one visible you are not anymore much active
18:35:15    
joy: how can i much active if im working in manila?
18:36:04    
thomas: but when i saw your other facebook in march you where on that 3 times more active than on the one which is still for me visible
18:36:42    
joy: u didnt read my post on my visible accoubnt?
18:36:50    
thomas: i thought that visible facebook is for the unshure candidates and for you mother
18:37:55    
joy: its not that
18:38:00    
thomas: hm the last 3 months not as i expected you lost interest in me and i decided its not straightforeward to spent much time about something lost
18:38:18    
thomas: but till march it much looked like that
18:38:52    
joy: as since late january i read the mgs of ella to u
18:39:05    
joy: and so i decide to give up u
18:39:11    
joy: and give way to ella
18:39:37    
thomas: i not made any public statement about Ella on facebook
18:39:50    
joy: check your facebook
18:39:56    
thomas: all the pictures just appeared on her activity too
18:39:58    
joy: on the pictures
18:40:15    
thomas: i also not made any comment about pictures
18:41:10    
thomas: but i got slowly step by step aware that i not hided the statements of her it make look in some amount that i agree with it
18:42:51    
thomas: but one other proof that i was not decided for ella still is that i tried my luck on your cousin when she started to chat with me
18:43:08    
thomas: that was still in the last week
18:43:42    
joy: ok good for you
18:43:57    
joy: anyway thomas lets continue about
18:44:09    
joy: the australian guy i met
18:44:36    
thomas: ok
18:44:49    
joy: he was 46 years old now
18:45:14    
joy: so dont loose hope or worried that u coudnt find a girl ok
18:45:47    
joy: i just met him last march 14
18:45:55    
joy: he went here
18:46:37    
joy: and he is a very good man
18:47:02    
joy: he proposed a marriage before he went back in australia
18:47:37    
joy: so were getting married on june 2
IM 18:59:32. 1. Mai 2012
18:48:22    
thomas: ah then its already on that decided you are not a choice for me
18:49:03    
thomas: hm if it would be on women easier to see faster if she is a good woman
18:49:13    
joy: i just want to be honest to u
18:49:15    
thomas: and expecial if she would be good towards me
18:49:44    
thomas: i consider it as taking 2 years to find out if she is good if i get know her new
18:51:13    
thomas: and that a main reason why i tend towards choose Ella that i know that is on her that she is good but she is not fully what i want
18:51:56    
joy: yes i hope she good..
18:52:12    
thomas: but maybe i would need 3 tries to find a new good one so could take 6 years to succeed
18:52:17    
joy: she has nothing to loose as she is already has a kids
18:53:02    
joy: i hope and i pray for u thomas for the success of your relationship
18:53:14    
thomas: and my time goes already to the edge
18:53:40    
thomas: I count my life only till 60
18:53:56    
joy: dont loose hope thomas
18:53:58    
thomas: and 6 years is then 1/3 of my remaining life
18:54:14    
joy: just always pray
18:54:26    
joy: dont find love let the love find u
18:54:41    
thomas: thats not the proper strategy
18:54:53    
joy: well its up to u
18:55:01    
joy: im just giving advice
18:55:14    
thomas: till i was 33 i had that strategy and was 18 years without a relationship
18:55:45    
joy: ok thomas its up to u..
18:56:32    
joy: im sorry im just telling u the truth
18:57:07    
joy: its already 1 am here
18:57:13    
joy: i need to go to sleep
18:57:40    
thomas: ok good night and you will be my 2. mhelanie
18:58:13    
joy: why??
18:58:29    
thomas: it then not much interesting to chat as we have not much common in life anymore
18:58:44    
thomas: It was somehow strange to deal with that matter
18:59:18    
joy: dont ever tried to compare to me to your other girl because im diffirent i didnt ask u for anything
18:59:32    
thomas: she was before so exciting woman and the past was so nice but now its rather useless to chat much as we are far away and are not much affect from each other in life
IM 19:05:46. 1. Mai 2012
18:59:38    
joy: i NEVER used u
18:59:46    
thomas: Mhelanie also not
19:01:22    
joy: ok
19:01:53    
thomas: and i also find it not much interesting to chat with her even i admire her still a lot
19:02:08    
joy: ok thomas
19:02:15    
joy: i need to sleep
19:02:41    
joy: im always here for u if u need some advice
19:02:42    
thomas: ok, have nice sleep and good luck in your life, i will not be angry about you
19:03:00    
joy: thank u..
19:04:00    
joy: just be careful in choosing a woman ok..
19:04:10    
joy: as i always told u beware
19:04:14    
thomas: its just normal and the what is more to not succeed in relationship but its needed this failures till the one comes which not fails
19:04:16    
joy: of choosing
19:05:05    
thomas: I remembered Ella had relatively good memory about me its a additional sign that she is interested in me
19:05:18    
joy: ok goodluck
19:05:22    
thomas: on that matter i can look too i got aware
19:05:29    
joy: if u need me just send me offline mgs
19:05:30    
joy: ok
19:05:39    
thomas: ok
19:05:42    
joy: ok bye
19:05:46    
thomas: bye
IM 13:53:35. 19. Jun 2012
13:53:35    
thomas: Hallo how are you, how was your marriage? Did you marry in filipines?
IM 14:46:29. 19. Jun 2012
14:31:50    
joy: Hello I'm good the wedding is very nice. Yes we married here in the phils
14:46:29    
thomas: do you think its possible that aloha could like me? As we not had a date with her but she says that she likes me much. Hm when i was 20 it happened on me too that i fell in love to a woman just on seeing her but now in my age that is not much anymore
IM 16:35:42. 20. Jun 2012
16:15:00    
joy: Hey Thomas can I say something to u and I hope u promise me that u will never ever tell to any one
16:15:56    
thomas: ok, and i promise i will not tell to anyone
16:17:09    
thomas: what is it?
16:18:55    
joy: I'm not against with my cousin but I just want u to know the truth because I know u are a good person and u deserve to know the truth ok.. U know my cousin and I has very different we grow up in different place And I am more educated and MORE matured than here aloha has a Filipino boyfriend he's from Bicol.. So please don't focus your attention to her. Even if she is my cousin I won't tolerate her stupidity..
16:20:10    
joy: Not only one boyfriend Thomas but many. She has a lot of callmate.
16:20:54    
joy: Now it's up to you if you believe me or not. And one more thing don't tell to mom that I chat with u ok and even aloha.
16:21:12    
joy: One more Thomas aloha is not her real name it's jaycel..
16:21:45    
thomas: her real name she tould me 4 days ago
16:22:14    
joy: Yes but she already told u that she has a lot of boyfriends??
16:22:21    
thomas: ok, i will not tell about that and that you did chat with me
16:22:25    
joy: She is just playing games thomas
16:22:40    
joy: Because she is not matured enough..
16:22:54    
thomas: no she not tould that she has boyfriends
16:23:31    
joy: If I can record her conversation with her boyfriend and send it to u I will. So that u will believe me
16:23:35    
thomas: she only tould that she has other male chatmates but that they look not to be serious about her
16:24:10    
joy: I'm your friend Thomas I'm just concern and even if she's my cousin I don't like her attitude
16:25:23    
thomas: I tend to believe you, something uncalculatable can be on her i worried already on myself
16:25:56    
joy: I advice her many times to stop playing games with boys but she didn't listen to me she always ask load and money to boys and sometimes I was so upset because she use my name and I.d to get the money..
16:27:33    
joy: We are very different when it comes to personality thomas even if we are cousin's
16:27:49    
joy: U will find out soon. That I'm correct..
16:28:16    
thomas: thanks for the information it helps me to shorten the decission
16:28:42    
joy: And one advice beware of the girls who ask money from you they are all SPAM
16:29:38    
joy: You're welcome Thomas.. I told you I won't tolerate that kind of attitude you deserve to be happy not to be cheated..
16:32:59    
thomas: i kept ella still as choice but found aloha more pretty and she is younger but it takes long time to find out if a woman has serious and well intention towards me and now after what you tould about her i must be addtional careful about that on her
16:34:14    
joy: Ok.. Then Thomas it's still your decision at the end.
16:34:23    
thomas: or i will choose just ella as she has proofen that she has serious intention about me and on all others it would still needed to find out
16:35:05    
joy: I need to sleep now. I can't stay any longer I'm low blood now..
16:35:32    
thomas: yes with that ask money in foreward i experienced with a woman from minanao that we discussed that she woud visit me and i pay her plain ticket but she not agreeed then that i buy it
16:35:42    
thomas: so she had intention to get just the money
IM 16:38:42. 20. Jun 2012
16:35:56    
thomas: ok have nice sleep, thanks much for the information
16:38:28    
joy: Ok chat to some other times if I have time and no one knows here..
16:38:42    
thomas: ok
IM 8:49:14. 5. Aug 2012
8:47:58    
joy: hi how are u?
8:48:59    
joy: im 2 months pregnant now..
8:49:14    
joy: regards to klaus and his gf..
IM 9:37:20. 5. Aug 2012
9:36:31    
thomas: Hi joy, i am ok, the wound at leg got better
9:36:55    
thomas: ok, i will tell
9:37:20    
thomas: are you in australia already or how is the progress about making visa?
IM 12:43:29. 5. Aug 2012
12:23:20    
joy: no im still here in phil. maybe next year i cn come there after giving birth..
12:24:04    
thomas: having a child makes it easier getting visa i think
12:24:09    
joy: i think the process of visa will be easier as our marriage will be honor in australia..
12:24:38    
joy: yes correct and it will less the cost
12:26:35    
joy: when im watching documentary about the filipina who married to a foreign men. europeab country are more strict compare to other country
12:26:55    
thomas: yes
12:28:09    
thomas: mhelanie s visa to dutch was denied first as of big age difference and they knew each other not long
12:28:31    
joy: i was supposed to process my visa but then im pregnant now so its better after giving birth..
12:28:40    
thomas: and then after 1 and half or 2 years they succeed
12:29:23    
joy: yes. becUase european country needs more proof..
12:30:53    
thomas: i thought too, if i choose ella we should make a child already in vaccation as her i would trust already and a child i anyway want only on the other women if i choose it would be not that way as i not yet have proof that they like me special
12:31:37    
thomas: yes and always a little risk of get denied
12:32:45    
thomas: visiting visas are in 50 percent denied in europe, was my resrarch in 2004 and i think its still the same
12:33:01    
thomas: but on fiance visas they more must approve i think
12:34:11    
joy: yes.. its still the same. fiancee visa is more easier to get in any country..
12:35:52    
thomas: if you have a single pretty friend who could find me interesting, you can itnroduce me to her, i have not yet many candidates to meet on next vaccation
12:36:50    
joy: yes sure why not..
12:37:29    
joy: when is your next vacation?
12:37:42    
thomas: in march probably
12:38:58    
joy: i see. probably i will give birth on the 1st week of msrch
12:39:37    
thomas: oh i see, time passes fast
12:40:01    
thomas: the daughter of my sister is already 10 years and very pretty
12:41:02    
joy: wow thats good..
12:41:32    
joy: i wish our baby is a girl..
12:41:41    
thomas: hi hi
12:42:01    
thomas: i wish too my child will get a girl
12:42:37    
thomas: there is a secret to improve the chance to get a girl as child
12:42:44    
thomas: but i forgot what it was
12:42:59    
joy: my husband already bougt a crib. and other things
12:43:29    
joy: really if u remember u tell me ok.
IM 13:04:06. 5. Aug 2012
12:43:31    
thomas: its about to eat a little special diat, that improve the chance of getting a girl for 15 percent according studies
12:44:12    
thomas: ok, i will search if i find it as when it comes for me to make a child i would like to know it again too
12:44:29    
joy: ah to skip bfast i think
12:44:54    
joy: i read it too but not sure
12:45:17    
thomas: what i did read was a other way
12:45:34    
joy: oh i see
12:48:21    
thomas: oh i found something to improve the chance of getting a daughter to 80 percent but its in german language
12:48:58    
joy: translate it to english
12:49:17    
thomas: ok, that takes a little time
12:49:25    
joy: its ok
12:56:57    
thomas: eat diat with much calcium and magnesium rich foods, make every day sex and make the child at best 3 days before ovulation
12:58:47    
thomas: http://www.lemondrop.com/2010/09/08/the-baby-girl-diet-how-to-have-a-baby-girl/
12:58:59    
joy: oh i see. ok i will do that if my baby is a this time
12:59:46    
thomas: hm but you are pregnant already
12:59:58    
thomas: on next getting child you can try it
13:00:16    
thomas: on this child it will help very little only anymore i think which you will get now
13:01:30    
thomas: as you must start the diat already before procreation
13:01:48    
joy: yes.. on my 2nd baby..
13:02:47    
joy: i hope it will make easier for me to deliver our first baby..
13:03:59    
thomas: try to search about that with google what helps for deliver easier, about that i not researched in any amount but i think there are good avices to find too
13:04:06    
thomas: this google is really great
IM 13:13:03. 5. Aug 2012
13:04:55    
joy: yes i research some but ofcourse its still up to me..
13:05:21    
thomas: yes
13:06:22    
thomas: also there is written pretty women more probably get a daughter and you are a pretty one
13:07:22    
joy: wow thanks..
13:07:31    
joy: i hope soo.
13:12:21    
joy: i need to eat dinner now nice chatting to u again..
13:12:37    
joy: take care .
13:12:44    
thomas: ok, was nice for me too to chat with you agian
13:12:53    
thomas: have a nice week
13:12:59    
thomas: take care
13:13:03    
joy: yes u too.
IM 15:39:51. 5. Aug 2012
15:18:51    
joy: hey thomas im back
15:19:12    
thomas: ok
15:19:18    
joy: gf of klaus txted me now
15:19:55    
thomas: i chat now with a woman beautiful like you and 22 years old and can speak good english but i expect she not get enough interested in me
15:20:05    
joy: she still procesing her papers
15:22:08    
thomas: they will marry in denmark, there the law is easier about the documents and requirements and the marriage is then also accepted in germany
15:25:21    
joy: thats the good idea then
15:25:38    
joy: hopefully they will marry soon..
15:25:44    
thomas: yes maybe i will do same then
15:25:50    
thomas: yes
15:26:09    
thomas: he is lucky to get such a pretty, charming and young wife
15:28:16    
joy: yes.. ofcourse well u cn find it too
15:34:04    
thomas: hm a woman in such a level of beauty i expect i will not find, probably it will be 1 or 2 levels lower
15:34:41    
thomas: only the one i chat with her now is similar beautiful, even a little more but i guess she will lose interesest in me
15:39:51    
thomas: but even i find a one 1 or 2 levels less pretty it will be nice
IM 19:20:58. 5. Aug 2012
19:20:58    
thomas: hm that pretty woman did say that she would meet me, she has also a other candidate. thats a big surprise now. I have a sign that she has good character as she not wanted to meet me while she had boyfriend but they broke 3 weeks ago. But i would need visit her this year soon as she fast find a new boyfriend, thats now hard to decide it i want visit filipines this year just for 5 days for try my luck on her as more vaccation i have not left in this year. she is so beautiful as i ever dreamed of but i worry if it that could get too difficult to keep such a pretty woman enough happy to stay with me who has as of her beauty always many choices in man if she wants
IM 15:24:34. 23. Sep 2012
15:13:48    
joy: Hi thomas how are u?
15:14:36    
thomas: Hi Joy, i am ok so far aside that i always have little problem with my wound at leg
15:15:09    
joy: Sorry to hear that hope it will be better soon
15:15:29    
thomas: I got accepted half handicapped pension that i nust work only 4 hours a day and get 70 percent salery
15:15:58    
joy: ok good for u
15:16:36    
thomas: this is very nice and will start at october. This i got as i had head operation as of a good cancer when i was 18 and as of that get often light headace while making office work
15:16:57    
thomas: How are you?
15:17:13    
joy: yes thats good for u..
15:17:37    
joy: Im fine but my pregnancy is a little bit risky
15:17:47    
thomas: why risky?
15:17:49    
joy: Im 4 months pregnant now
15:18:02    
joy: And i fainted and get dizzy often
15:18:22    
thomas: in what month you are?
15:18:28    
joy: Aside from that im ok
15:18:38    
joy: 4 months
15:19:05    
joy: My husband is worried about my situation now
15:19:20    
joy: But hopefully i will be better soon
15:19:23    
thomas: oh i am surprised that it has already in this ealy stage has bigger effects
15:20:05    
joy: Yes.. Ive been like this since my 2nd month of pregnancy
15:20:21    
joy: Im not comfortable here at home as its really really hot
15:20:56    
thomas: oh i see
15:21:07    
thomas: then in this is not much change towards filipines
15:21:22    
joy: Yes..
15:22:14    
joy: Hows the weather there?
15:22:38    
thomas: 20 degrees a little clowdy, its ok
15:22:53    
joy: Yes thats ok
15:23:11    
thomas: summer is already over and then this is a relatively good weather for this season
15:24:00    
joy: I see
15:24:03    
thomas: now it takes 9 months again till it gets summer again
15:24:34    
joy: Yes. Here its always summer.
IM 15:34:21. 23. Sep 2012
15:24:51    
thomas: wow that i not did know
15:25:13    
joy: Sometimes its rainning
15:25:24    
thomas: Summer is very nice but it should not be too hot
15:25:24    
joy: But its still really hot
15:26:15    
thomas: I got know a very beautiful chatmate on last vaccation who not wanted to meet me that time as she had a boyfriend whom she not yet did met
15:26:57    
thomas: but that boyfriend did then take a other one and now is a chance on her
15:27:29    
thomas: but i worry she gets fast a boyfriend as she is very beautiful and can speak good english
15:27:39    
thomas: and my vaccation can be only in february again
15:28:28    
joy: I see.
15:28:51    
thomas: Now i think to visit her only 1 week to get know her a little soon early to can decide to ask her get girlfriend in case
15:28:58    
joy: Dont worry because if shes meant to u it will happen
15:29:41    
joy: Before u visit that girl make sure she will meet u
15:29:51    
thomas: but i would need unpaid vaccation and that is only given on important reason
15:29:56    
joy: Or else u will just waste your money
15:30:25    
thomas: yes hm hard to get exactly shure about that
15:30:28    
joy: Love comes in unexpected ways thomas
15:30:29    
thomas: in foreward
15:30:39    
joy: Like me and my husband
15:31:09    
joy: U must think first before u take action ok
15:31:39    
joy: Theres a lot of people who is very unpredictable
15:31:51    
thomas: yes i think a lot and i am undecided if i should visit her this year short or wait till february
15:32:15    
joy: U dont need to be hurry
15:32:28    
joy: And waste money if you are unsure
15:32:31    
thomas: Ella would then take a other man if i visit filipines for a other woman for a short time
15:32:40    
joy: Remember true loves wait
15:33:13    
thomas: But she is so beautiful its my last chance to get a very beautiful woman
15:33:46    
joy: Yes its your chance thomas if she will like u too
15:34:00    
thomas: as i am decided not to find new chatmates anymore as of my illness on my leg, i will have a not so nice life
15:34:01    
joy: What if after u meet her she dont like u?
15:34:21    
joy: Then u will be dissapointed again
IM 15:51:10. 23. Sep 2012
15:34:32    
thomas: and then i am not so atttractive for women i worry
15:34:42    
joy: No dont think that
15:35:24    
joy: U are handsome u have a good heart what more cn girl ask for
15:35:35    
thomas: if she not likes me not a problem, then my choices are 2 left and not 3 anymore and it gets additional easier to choose
15:35:53    
joy: Just always believe in your self
15:36:24    
joy: Talk klaus about that maybe he cn help u
15:37:23    
thomas: and if she likes me its also gets easier to choose as she is the outstanding attractive then i probably would just choose her
15:38:55    
thomas: I tould Klaus in some amount about this already, he tends towards just choose Ella
15:39:47    
joy: Then why dont u choose her?
15:41:03    
thomas: She is 1/3 less pretty than this very pretty one and has one child
15:41:27    
thomas: but on Ella i got proofs that she really likes me
15:42:10    
thomas: I she was crying when i on last vaccation suspected her that she stole money from me and did saw a tear in her eye
15:43:10    
joy: Why u lost your money?
15:43:51    
thomas: I did put 80000 p in my hotel room in the first days of my vaccation
15:44:59    
thomas: then and from that was missing 20000 at the 2. day of my vaccation and i had left that money always in my hotel room in my bag
15:45:19    
thomas: and always locked the door when i left the room
15:46:00    
thomas: on the first day i was in hotel in manila, on the 2. day then in hotel in bagio and there i noticed then that 20000 p was missing
15:46:28    
joy: Who took your money?
15:46:34    
thomas: and Ella was since the 2. day with me always
15:47:14    
thomas: ah it was the 3. day i noticed it and Ella was since 2 day with me
15:47:39    
thomas: It must had been Ella or a hotel worker of the first or 2. hotel
15:47:49    
joy: Then mAybe shes the one or the hotel staff who clean the room even its lock
15:48:02    
thomas: but before never was stolen a money in my locked hotel room
15:48:08    
thomas: yes
15:48:58    
thomas: But even if Ella stole the money then even i am shure she has good attitude towards me as she was crying then when i suspected her
15:49:34    
joy: U know filipina are soo mellow dramatic
15:49:48    
joy: Just to cover up what they does
15:50:22    
thomas: but to can let roll a real tear in eye
15:50:42    
thomas: thats only possible if have a according feeling usually
15:51:10    
thomas: i exatly looked on her eyes to examine if that is a real tear and it was
IM 16:11:07. 23. Sep 2012
15:52:07    
joy: Well ive been lies few times
15:52:18    
joy: And yes i did crying
15:52:51    
joy: U will noticed or determine if its a real or fake crying
15:53:36    
thomas: i am not much sensitive and can hard know if its real or fake
15:54:03    
thomas: but i saw one real tear in her eyes
15:54:19    
thomas: thats for me the proof that it was real
15:54:36    
joy: Ok if u believe on that
15:55:19    
thomas: My ex girlfriend is so skilled in lying i often did not know if it was true or not what she said
15:56:05    
thomas: What do you think is it possible to can get a real tear in the eye in a fake crying
15:56:14    
thomas: the tear was before not in the eye
15:58:39    
joy: Well its hard to determine thomas
15:58:49    
joy: Like me when i have mistake
15:59:08    
joy: I just cried to make my mom believed that im not lying hehehe
15:59:34    
thomas: where you able to can let rol a tear while that?
16:00:05    
joy: Yes ofcourse i can
16:00:17    
thomas: wow, that surprise me
16:00:45    
joy: Yes.. For example
16:00:46    
thomas: I would not be able
16:01:14    
joy: When my mom suspect me that im the one who broke her favorate glass
16:01:43    
joy: I just cried to prove that its not me but in reality i am the one who broke the glass
16:02:21    
thomas: hm but you in basic then sad anyway just as your broke the glas
16:03:16    
thomas: My topic is, its enough if Ella feeled sad when i accused her that she stole money even in case she was the one stolen it
16:03:58    
thomas: Only if Ella not feeled much sad about this then she would be not a good choice
16:05:10    
joy: Ok id
16:05:19    
joy: Ok if u say soo
16:06:36    
thomas: What did you do over the weekend?
16:07:31    
joy: We just visited my auntie and cousin last saturday
16:07:55    
joy: Then today i just rest as i fainted this morning
16:10:35    
thomas: Today comes a nice detective movie on TV again a German serial which is usually made very nice called crime scene
16:11:07    
thomas: But i have bad conscious, i must make tax declaration soon but i have never the mood for that
IM 16:39:53. 23. Sep 2012
16:16:26    
joy: Why?
16:21:38    
joy: I need to sleep now bye for now
16:21:48    
joy: Til next time
16:39:48    
thomas: ok, have nice sleep
16:39:53    
thomas: bye
IM 16:03:07. 1. Nov 2012
15:40:04    
joy: hi thomas
15:40:08    
joy: happy halloween
15:41:48    
thomas: hi joy, thanks, to you too
15:42:56    
thomas: How are you?
15:43:11    
joy: im fine my baby is a girl
15:43:40    
thomas: wow you had luck also in this
15:43:58    
joy: yes thank god
16:00:07    
thomas: How is your life there in Australia?
16:00:23    
joy: im still in the philippines
16:00:48    
joy: we still processing my papers
16:01:17    
thomas: ah i see, its the same like here
16:01:42    
thomas: its a very difficult process and takes time
16:02:33    
joy: yes.. and its very strict to get just the passport here in the phil
16:02:39    
thomas: Klaus visa for his girlfriend was denied, he can complain but probably must apply new
16:02:40    
joy: unlike before
16:03:07    
joy: if your spouse is a foreigner u need to undergo some seminars
IM 16:15:42. 1. Nov 2012
16:04:42    
thomas: a language couse is here needed too
16:05:41    
joy: for me its easy to get a visa as im pregnant now
16:05:58    
joy: but its a long process before they grant me a visa
16:07:00    
thomas: at least this then
16:07:34    
joy: yes in europe the gov. was very strict
16:08:03    
joy: but in australia its not as they honor the marriage here in the philippines
16:09:04    
thomas: yes is much strict here
16:10:02    
thomas: but in final it usually succeeds to get the visa
16:10:12    
joy: yes..
16:10:13    
thomas: for marriage
16:12:15    
thomas: Do you still work in your job?
16:12:57    
joy: no my husband said i must stay at home and focus on my pregnancy as its first baby
16:14:31    
thomas: In how many months is the baby expected to come?
16:14:54    
joy: my due date is on feb 28th
16:15:19    
thomas: thats not so far away
16:15:35    
joy: yes 4 months to go
16:15:42    
thomas: yes
IM 14:00:12. 16. Dez 2012
13:45:19    
joy: hello thomas how are u?
13:47:12    
thomas: Hi Joy, i am ok so far aside that what continues, that i have the wounds at the legs. Also my leg ground got a little sensitive if i walk more, hope that goes better again maybe in spring or summer when its warmer again
13:47:34    
thomas: How are you?
13:47:48    
joy: oh sorry to hear that.
13:47:55    
joy: hope it will be better soon
13:48:10    
joy: im ok.
13:48:20    
joy: my pregnancy goe well
13:48:28    
joy: and its a girl
13:48:31    
joy:
13:48:44    
thomas: oh a luck
13:49:10    
joy: yes. well i expect its a girl as its in our genes
13:49:19    
joy: as me and sis are both girl
13:50:43    
thomas: hi hi
13:50:55    
thomas: Hm i tought in the last days that i would like ask you somethng and a luck i meet you online
13:51:27    
joy: what it is?
13:52:10    
thomas: I want ask this now not as i hope still a little that you could get single and available again, i ask it that i can compare the situation of you with hm the choice i maybe now have with a new woman
13:52:34    
thomas: as she is same much young compare to me as you to your husband
13:53:03    
thomas: so hm it is, are you still happy and feel in love with your husband?
13:53:29    
thomas: hm that is not fully exactly what it hits
13:53:46    
thomas: is there a risk that you could leave your husband later
13:53:59    
joy: yes i understand what are u trying to say
13:54:23    
joy: and my answer is YES! im really inlove wwith my husband
13:54:27    
thomas: one other woman who is also 24 years younger than her husband is still with her husband after 5 years of relationship
13:54:46    
thomas: so i know with you now 2 on whom it worked
13:54:47    
joy: and maybe even if he gets older i will stay inlove with him
13:54:58    
joy: same as when e both vows at the church
13:55:28    
joy: u know thomas
13:56:53    
joy: when i was young. lets say when im just 18 years old. i promise to my self that when i get married to the man i love. this is it. no turning back, as in marriage u need to accept not only your both like but also your both dislike
13:58:04    
joy: i can truely say no matter what happen to my marriage there is one thing im sure i will never leave my husband specially now we will have baby
14:00:12    
thomas: Yes i thought this too, i should have a baby then with her and a baby is often the most important thing for a woman and then in case of bad luck and my wife get thoughts she could like a other man more, maybe that i have child with her gives then still the reason she stays with me as we have together a child
IM 14:30:31. 16. Dez 2012
14:01:49    
joy: well yes. im telling u. mother can sacrifice everything forr her kids.
14:02:51    
joy: maybe thats the reason why my husband gets me pregnant as he is afraid to loss me although he trust and me and know i will be faithful for him. but since he already old he wants baby right away
14:04:38    
thomas: yes and also hm he would have same problem like me that he will be about 65 when the child gets 20 so better wait not long if want have a child
14:07:05    
joy: yes he told me that too. and he dont want me to suffer to pay for everything when our kids grown and already studying
14:12:59    
thomas: Hm about this last thing i not think, my wife will then inherit all my properties
14:13:08    
thomas: when i did died
14:15:04    
joy: yes. but the question is. your properties is enough to make your kids study and for everything they need?
14:18:44    
thomas: hm the value of our house is enough but its not so nice to sell the house
14:19:47    
thomas: but if its needed hm i would not mind, anyway then i would be dead
14:22:21    
joy: well yes. but it would be nice if before u dead all your kids are finished studying and they can start working for their self
14:22:29    
joy: \thats my husband plan
14:22:38    
joy: thats why we make a baby right away
14:22:58    
joy: and we just planning to have a maximum of 2 kids
14:23:54    
thomas: yes more make too much effort, such i think too, maybe i would like to have just one
14:24:38    
joy: ok i see.
14:30:31    
thomas: My chatmate (the young woman) asked who are you and i tould her i promised you that i not tell to anyone that we still chat sometimes as friends
IM 15:01:32. 16. Dez 2012
14:33:26    
thomas: But if you would get chatmate with her maybe you could get a impression about her but just if its not in anyway unconvenient for you but probably its unconvenient for you as it could people could make confuse if they get know you chat with me as friend and i admired you before.
14:34:39    
joy: well yes. its ok for me. as we just chat sometimes and nothing wrong with that
14:41:14    
thomas: What did you do at weekend?
14:42:10    
joy: this saturday me and my sis went to the mall just to buy something and we went to starbucks coffee.
14:43:16    
joy: and today i just stay at home as my back is in pain as maybe a part of my pregnancy so i just preffered to rest
14:49:45    
thomas: her id is joanne_samuele
14:50:10    
joy: yes ok but tell her to add me too
14:50:31    
thomas: ok i will tell now
14:51:23    
joy: ok sure
14:54:35    
thomas: she sayed she more likes that you start the communication as she not knows so much what to tell first to start communication
14:55:05    
joy: oh i see. ok then
14:58:10    
joy: i chat her
14:58:21    
thomas: ask her some things, she not so much know what to chat as a first start
14:58:58    
joy: she's from where
14:58:59    
joy: ?
14:59:06    
thomas: Quezon
15:00:25    
joy: quezon city? or province?
15:00:50    
thomas: city i guess but maybe ask her, i am not fully shure
15:01:32    
joy: ok
IM 15:34:41. 16. Dez 2012
15:16:41    
thomas: How good is that to understand?
15:17:07    
thomas: hindi nasagot ang mga katanungan mula sa aking mensahe mula sa bago, na i ay nalilito. Ngunit marahil nito tulad ng hindi ka maaaring makipag-usap magandang ingles at nakakagawa ito para sa iyo magkano ang pagsisikap na i-translate kung ano i sinulat ni.
15:17:53    
thomas: This is the translation of my english words into tagalog with a online translation programm
15:18:56    
joy: its wrong grammar
15:19:24    
thomas: As aside of Joanne, which i introduced you now before, i have a other chatmate from 2011 but she can nearly not speak english
15:20:10    
thomas: the wrong grammer not mattes me, as long as it is in some amount understandable what i want say
15:21:30    
joy: well some is correct but mostly its wrong
15:23:20    
thomas: This was my english text: you not answered the questions from my message from before, as of that i was confused. But maybe its just as you can not speak good english and it makes for you much effort to translate what I wrote.
15:23:58    
thomas: can the woman conclude that this was what i wanted to tell?
15:24:16    
joy: yes. well if shes smart she will understand your translation
15:24:26    
joy: yes..
15:26:47    
thomas: Its just this 2 and Ella i consider to choose and maybe one very pretty 35 years old friend of Joanne.
15:28:07    
joy: so u choose joaane? as 2nd or 1st?
15:28:51    
thomas: I will not try to find new chatmates, it must be out of the women i know from before as of my illness with the leg i want not bother much women with me anymore and anyway i have not much time in vaccation and now it must come the conclusion as i get older and the remaining time decrease
15:30:19    
thomas: Joanne i find most pretty of all. 2. most attractive i find the woman 25 years old who worked as hotel worker in Townhouse hotel in my vaccations before but she can speak nearly no english
15:31:44    
joy: ok i see
15:31:52    
joy: well goodluck to you
15:31:54    
thomas: 3. attractive i find Joannes 35 years old friend, 4. attractive i find Ella but Ella i know since 6 years
15:32:52    
thomas: Would you also like to get chatmate with the before worker in townhouse hotel if she likes?
15:33:25    
thomas: Anyway i expect only you start chatting and only continue to be friends if you both like each other as chatmates
15:34:25    
joy: yes if she likes
15:34:41    
thomas: ok, i will ask her
IM 15:46:38. 16. Dez 2012
15:45:46    
joy: thomas i need to sleep
15:46:12    
thomas: ok, it was very interesting to chat with you, have nice sleep
15:46:20    
joy: yes thanks
15:46:31    
joy: if you need me just send me offline mgs
15:46:38    
thomas: ok
IM 14:11:49. 26. Dez 2012
13:39:37    
joy: hi thomas belated merry christmas
13:40:06    
thomas: Hi Joy, thanks, to you happy christmas too
13:40:29    
thomas: What did you do over the christmas days?
13:41:42    
joy: we just went to church and it
13:41:47    
joy: eat
13:48:19    
thomas: Did you already stop working?
13:49:11    
joy: yes since my husband knew that i was pregnant he stop me from working
13:50:53    
thomas: Then you have much free time
13:51:44    
joy: yes
13:57:54    
thomas: When i met you and according the chatting it looked like, you not so often met with friends
13:58:27    
thomas: but maybe partly out of the reason as your life was not yet so much developed
14:02:04    
thomas: Such questions make me curious as it can give me ideas how life can be with my wife and on which of the remaining women can it be the best chance that the woman is interesting and also that she likes to stay with me
14:02:22    
joy: well i met my friends more often whem im still studying we hang out
14:02:24    
thomas: But also its just for to talk about something
14:03:56    
thomas: then the occasion was easier to take additional
14:04:12    
joy: but when we graduated we dont have much time too meet each other as we dont have work and also money to spend if we meet'
14:11:49    
thomas: Yes it would always cost some money to travel to manila.
IM 14:14:33. 26. Dez 2012
14:14:33    
thomas: How was your talking with Joanne, the one i introduced you recently? But probably you not taked yet so much as not much time passed yet
IM 14:10:39. 7. Feb 2013
14:07:29    
joy: hi thomas i will be giving birth in the next 3 weeks
14:09:05    
thomas: ih Joy. Oh the time comes nearer now. Wish you good luck
14:09:41    
thomas: I chat you next time more, have now a very interesting chatmate to chat who i hope can meet in vaccation
14:10:39    
joy : oh really? thats ok goodluck thanks for the wish
IM 16:41:41. 28. Aug 2013
16:41:41    
thomas: Hallo Joy, how are you?